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Deep throat... why do they make a fuss over it?

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Question - (9 February 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 29 April 2010)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Is deep throat really so difficult? Am I getting it wrong here, when I think it's just taking a man's penis a little further into your mouth? I don't understand why people make such a huge deal of it, is there something I'm missing?

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A female reader, SwedeSex Sweden +, writes (29 April 2010):

If you think you just take it further in to your mouth you kind of missed the whole thing, didn't ya? You are supposed to take it so far into your mouth that it keeps on going down your throat. Try swallow 4 hotdogs without cheewing you get the hang of it. ;)

Good luck!

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (9 February 2008):

DoubleM agony auntI'm sure that some guys place a high priority on that and over the past 40 years or so, I have been deep-throated quite a few times, but usually just for a stroke or two. A whole lot of women were either first-timers with oral sex, or relatively new at it, and just said they wanted to try.

I'd say, "Sure, go ahead," and most would give it a hearty try but I'm fairly large and they would gag. I really never cared much, but with a few who could do it rather easily, it did feel very good for a few thrusts.

Over 20 years, my ex-wife would often take deep once or twice a week, but usually just one or two slow plunges just before my orgasm.

It is a bit easier to go very deep if the woman assumes a doggie-position on a bed facing the man standing next to the bed. The position kind of straightens out her mouth and throat so that the tip easily goes a little further and is still comfortable for her. If she wants him to ejaculate, the position also affords a straight shot for that.

So, there you go - for one Texan-American, try if you want to, but no big deal if you can't. Just don't stop what you're doing down there.

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A female reader, O Connor Ireland +, writes (9 February 2008):

O Connor agony auntit depends on your ability to relax your throat. alot of ppl find that deep trhoat can cause them to gag and find it uncomfortable. if you want to do it, then work up to it, going deeper every time and getting used to the feeling of something that deep in your throat. you will get used to it and eventually you will get used to it

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008):

Hi Hunny,

You only have to do what makes you feel comfortable, Ive found a link for you to read hope it helps

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Deep_throat_(sexual_act)

TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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A female reader, elliebellie United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2008):

hi

this sounds very brutal but some women find it uncomfortable to have a man's penis rammed down their throat and for some it can make them gag. so i think your answers there

xxx

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A male reader, Namatjira United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2008):

It all depends on your ability to relax your throat muscles as it involves taking the mans penis in past the back of your throat (if it is long enough).

Some guys get all excited about it and some girls like to brag about their ability. Personally I think that it is just one part of love making and if it happens and feels right then its okay and if not it is still okay. Any person (guy or girl) who gets fixated on it may have other issues.

You should know that in some people the gag reflex (the body's reflex to protect from drowning) is so strong that deep throat is actually impossible for such a person and that there is a risk of causing an injury to the man through involuntary biting.

If you like to give BJ's then work up to it, otherwise do not worry.

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