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How can I make this not hurt?

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Question - (31 July 2009) 10 Answers - (Newest, 10 March 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *helsieSue writes:

heyy. my name is C******, and i am 15. okay here's my question. -i like to masterbate the same as everone else does. i only like rubbing my clit though. well everone else can go inside the hole, i cant. well i can but it hurts, why? help me ...

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A female reader, torch United Kingdom +, writes (10 March 2010):

torch agony aunti thought i couldnt wear tampons wither for a while but i realised i was putting it in wrong maybe that is what you are doing too .

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A female reader, torch United Kingdom +, writes (10 March 2010):

torch agony auntthank you ! i am excacly the same, i thought it was just me and i thought the girls didnt masturbate this has made be feel so much better thank you !

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A female reader, ChelsieSue United States +, writes (3 August 2009):

ChelsieSue is verified as being by the original poster of the question

ChelsieSue agony aunti cant wear tampons either, they hurt and are uncomfy.

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A female reader, Love is all you need United Kingdom +, writes (1 August 2009):

Love is all you need agony auntwell maybe try doing other stuff instead of trying to finger yourself, like: get a carrot, cucumber, candle, trial shampoo bottles, vibrating toothbrush and put it inside your hole, then just push in and out experimenting with different paces. Maybe your hole isn't big enough, if you wan it to get bigger to fit stuff in get horny. Other stuffto try: hump a pillow naked, hump the side of your mattress, put a stuffed toy in your pants and hump, hump a teddies nose, hump the side of te bath, get a power shower and point it to you Clit experiment again, don't know where your clit is just point it to you pussy and see where feels good. You can also hump your hand.

hope this helped....xxx have fun

p.s its not cause your a virgin, i did it and i hadn't hd sex? maybe you just haven't broke your hymen, to do this get a friend to finger you.

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A female reader, Love is all you need United Kingdom +, writes (1 August 2009):

Love is all you need agony auntwell maybe try doing other stuff instead of trying to finger yourself, like: get a carrot, cucumber, candle, trial shampoo bottles, vibrating toothbrush and put it inside your hole, then just push in and out experimenting with different paces. Maybe your hole isn't big enough, if you wan it to get bigger to fit stuff in get horny. Other stuffto try: hump a pillow naked, hump the side of your mattress, put a stuffed toy in your pants and hump, hump a teddies nose, hump the side of te bath, get a power shower and point it to you Clit experiment again, don't know where your clit is just point it to you pussy and see where feels good. You can also hump your hand.

hope this helped....xxx have fun

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A female reader, hotredhead United Kingdom +, writes (1 August 2009):

hotredhead agony auntthis is maybe because you're a virgin maybe think about other ways you can masturbate. try a shower hope this helps xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009):

Well fingers aren't the most comfortable thing for everyone to have in there.. the fingernails and inconsistency of shape and size amoung the fingers that you're using may be making it uncomfortable, at least until you've lost your virginity. I'm not saying you should lost it, just so you can masturbate comfortable, but that may be the reason. And if to nonvirgins, fingers don't always feel very good. you also may not be wet enough when you're doing it. I wouldn't worry about it.. just keep doing it the way you have been and maybe later in life, you'll like it more. But maybe not. it's really not something to spend too much concern on anyway. Take care.

~Sy.

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A female reader, elliebellie United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2009):

Hey there. So like one of the replies said it may hurt because you are a virgin. one question i do want to ask is do you use tampons or pads? because if you use tampons then it shouldnt hurt that much. but i think the main reason is because you may be a virgin

ellie

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A male reader, IamSoConfused United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2009):

Maybe you are not wet enough. Lube?

Why is your name censored out when it is in your user name. Haha.

Good luck? :)

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A male reader, mr.dork88 United States +, writes (31 July 2009):

mr.dork88 agony auntbecause your a virgen, and thats your body telling you that your not ready for sexual activity in there, take it slow injoy your youth while you have it there be plenty of time for that and sex in later years but for now you should injoy yor innocents, and when you r ready it will hurt until your cherry gets poped which normaly happens when you have sex for the first time

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