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He dated me just to get at my younger mate and cheated, what can I do to move on??

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Question - (28 March 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 March 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ife of love writes:

Hi,

I'm 17 and i know this 19 year old boy for over a year and i really liked him. We went out for 3 weeks but my 14 year old mate went out with him before me.

It lasted 3 days so me and this boy spent a lot of time together and then he asked me out i was so happy but the girl he went out with before me still like him and i didnt know but he still like her and i found out that he cheated on me and only went out with me to get to her, it hurt me and i didnt know what to do.

I wanted to die because she is till a kid and i still really like him and i know i shouldnt because he really hurt me but i just cant get over him....

please help i just want to move on

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A female reader, Cat_87 United Kingdom +, writes (28 March 2008):

Cat_87 agony auntHi,

Gonna sound harsh but this boy seems like a complete loser, if i was you i'd move on, spend time with your friends! For a start do u really want to be associated with a boy who is 19 (which techinically makes him an adult) who is involved with a child? I'm concerned for the 14 year old if i'm honest. If you no her well, mayb you should talk to her parents about this!?

You can do so much better! Good Luck

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A female reader, elliebellie United Kingdom +, writes (28 March 2008):

hii hun

this has just happened to me, so i know how youre feeling. this guy just thought i would be okay if he just dropped it on me. in front of him i acted okay but i was so scared becasue i felt so upset and depressed. time is a healer. im still hurting. i have to see him everyday and it hurts.

goood luck.

if you want a chat feel free to mail me

ellie

xxx

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