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writes:Dear all cupids out there,This is less of a love and relationship question and more of a question about life so i would be really grateful is anyone could answer it; thank you!So at the moment im finding it hard to become motivated. Especially in the work side of things. Im 14 and ive got lots of important exams coming up. I can't get myself motivated to get up and go. I don't have that killer instinct in me. I let people get to the post before me thinking they deserve it but i know deep down that i could do just as well.does anyone have any tips which could help me to get more motivated about my lifethanksellie Reply to this Question
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (1 April 2009):
elliebellie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWow! I didn't think i would get this much feedback! Thank you so much to everybody for taking time out to answer and giving really good advice :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009): Try exercising on a regular bases, work on a healthy diet, you would be amazed at the amount of motivation and energy this will give you.
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reader, jessica04  +, writes (1 April 2009):
 Think of where you want to be in life, when all is said and done with in school. Can you achieve that without good marks?
At your age, school is a long, tedious process that seems to have no like at the end of the tunnel.
Try making short term goals. Save a pound a day for shopping or the like, but make a caveat that you cannot spend the money unless you receive your good grades. Tell yourself that the first Saturday of the month will be a shopping day, only if your teachers attest that you did well the whole month.
I know it sounds silly, but you need to look at the short term to make school bearable. And remember, life by the inch is a cinch, life by the yard is hard. If you can do it a little each night, and study a little every weekend, then you won't have to cram the night before a test.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009): Well Ellie ur still young so why uv got the chance it best to grab all opertunaties u can. 14 is a difficult age and school really does go by so quickly, have urself some plans for your future and belive in urself. Just think in 2 years time u will be leaving school and making desicions about ur career so get the best from school while u can and just keep telling yourself its for ur own benifit. Good luck and i hope this has helped u x
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