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writes:Is the middle child ever wanted? Is the middle child just a hassle? I am a middle child and I live at home, I am 28 years old, my younger sister is 14 years and my brother is 34 years old. My dad listens to my 14 year old sister before he'd listen to me.I work on farm, he praises my sister and criticizes me and make me feel like I am isolated and I don't have nay friends. I try to make some, people are busy for the likes of me. I can't drive, too shortage of money, there are no jobs because of the recession and places are closing down, I feel people don't want to be around me because I have always felt isolated and very alone. I am very shy.The one who likes me now told me I was a bitch to him. All I want is one friend from the same background as me, I can't relate to people. Living in the outback of Australia where there is nobody. As you know in the outback the social life is nil. I never had a boyfriend because of my isolation and lack of social skills and moving is out, no money. Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): im a middle child the same age as you. i sometimes feel just like you do. my younger brother is never wrong. and my older brother has all the smarts. when actually i feel like i have the most because i have self esteem that neither of them have. if you ever need to talk to someone you are more than welcome to contact me. I feel like you should talk with your dad and let him know that you feel less that your younger sister. She is alot younger and sometimes younger requires alittle more attention. maybe he feels that he don't have to stay on you all the time because he feels like your old enough to handle it alone. if you don't feel like that then talk to him and let him know how you feel. at least that is one issue you can have off of your mind. I have no friends either. i hardly ever talk to anyone other than my grandmother and brother. it is lonely but i always look at it like this, i am alive not in jail. i am always here if you ever need to talk. i hope everything works out well in your talk with your dad.
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reader, elliebellie  +, writes (18 April 2009):
Hi hun- i think i answered a question very similar to this?! If this is the same person then you should read my answer on the other similar post
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