What's your opinion about porn?
Q. Ok every time I write that i have a problem with my boyfriend watching porn i always get this answer that all guys do it and to expect it. I just want to see more peoples thoughts on it cause if its so harmless, why am I getting so hurt by it? Ill ...
A. 13 February 2008: Hi its me again!
I have a couple things to say…
First, to the original questioner. I am very sorry if I came of as angry towards you. The venom you read was towards Ms Anon, who I will address after you. In light of the new information you ... (read in full...)
What's your opinion about porn?
Q. Ok every time I write that i have a problem with my boyfriend watching porn i always get this answer that all guys do it and to expect it. I just want to see more peoples thoughts on it cause if its so harmless, why am I getting so hurt by it? Ill ...
A. 9 February 2008: To Ms anon who hates porn…wow...you have a serious problem...not us. I’ll just hit a few points here in response to your anti porn rant.
First of all hunny, if your research is serious why don’t you interview some of the biggest stars in the i... (read in full...)
What's your opinion about porn?
Q. Ok every time I write that i have a problem with my boyfriend watching porn i always get this answer that all guys do it and to expect it. I just want to see more peoples thoughts on it cause if its so harmless, why am I getting so hurt by it? Ill ...
A. 6 February 2008: I watch porn and i dont think its cheating. I watch porn while having sex with my boyfriend. its entertainment. thats all it is. I masturbate and use toys too...i dont see that as cheating either even if Im in a realtionship. I think the ... (read in full...)
He wants a lap dance! How should I do this?
Q. Sometimes, I joke about giving my boyfriend a lap dance. Saying I will makes him go erect, and he seems to love the thought. And if only I had the confidence and the looks, I would! He says I'm beautiful, and that everything I do turns him on, but I ...
A. 6 February 2008: Hi hunny
I think giving your boyfriend a lap dance is a wonderful idea. The only thing holding you back is your self confidence. Your boyfriend says he thinks you are beautiful....if hes telling you that, thats all you need for inspirat... (read in full...)
Is giving sexual advice to minors considered "contributing to the delinquincy of a minor"?
Q. This question is for the adults only! I like this site....I've only recently in the last 2 months or so found out about this site. Here is my dilemma.....I currently feel very very uncomfortable giving advice to juveniles (I currently don't)...
A. 6 February 2008: I feel the same way you do and I'm not always comfortable giving advice to minors on certain issues.
However its about the jeanie in a bottle. Once the jeannie is out and they are asking question you never thought of of at thier age what do ... (read in full...)
Is my penis big enough for sex?
Q. hi would my penis just under 6 inches erect be large enough for sex? also which position is best for a penis which has a smaller girth?...
A. 6 February 2008: Hi hunny!
Yes for the record your penis is average and its ok. But its still true that some of us prefer guys that are bigger….sorry I’m one of them! Please don’t hate me...I’m just being honest. Not everybody is perfect for everybod... (read in full...)
The phone rang after we had just finished sex. Was it ridiculous for me to want to answer the phone? Or for my husband to be hurt?
Q. My husband and I had just finished sex. The phone rang, and I answered it. My husband said it ruined the moment, and I should have let the answering machine pick it up and was really hurt. More info: *I didn't have to get up to answer the pho...
A. 6 February 2008: I have to weigh in on this, girl. What you did is called a mood breaker....and with some guys its a big thing. thing is its easy for us to switch it on and off, but with a guy you have to get him in a sexy mood without distractions to get get his ... (read in full...)
What "nick" names do ladies like to be called?
Q. What do you ladz like to be called in a relashionship? e.g girls mostly get called babe...
A. 5 February 2008: I call my guys hunny or baby. Sweetie. my boyfriend likes to be called "big boy"..which he is. whatever fits and he doesnt mind is ok. ... (read in full...)
My partner suggested choosing a thicker condom, as I produce a lot of semen. Good idea?
Q. I'm a fit young builder and produce a lot of semen when i orgasm inside my girlfriend.It's a great feeling and seems to last for ages.When i withdraw the end of the condom is bulging like a balloon and some semen is trickling just a bit ...
A. 5 February 2008: My boyfriend uses a Magmum condom which is for bigger guys. We never had a problem with them. leave a little more space on the end. ... (read in full...)
I am attracted to my BF's best friend
Q. So here is my problem, I have been dating my bf for almost 3 (bad) years. I am not happy with him and haven't been for a while, well my bf started telling me about his best friend who lived in ohio(bfs hometown) I ended up talking my bf into ...
A. 5 February 2008: Sounds like its time to trade up baby! So do you have your bags packed so you can live in Ohio with your new guy.
If you're so unhappy with your boyfriend, maybe you should break up with him. This attraction with his friend is just an indicati... (read in full...)
Having sex with my first cousin.
Q. Hey Last night me and my cousin got a bit drunk and we started making out, even tho we stopped a few times saying this isn't right.. but still we kept doing it. Today she told me that she wants to have sex with me and that she can't believe s...
A. 4 February 2008: SOrry..but I didnt finish...
Number three. What if you fall in love? What if its so good, you can’t resist going back to it and really messing up your life with not only a potential child, but the shame and everything I just described as the f... (read in full...)
Having sex with my first cousin.
Q. Hey Last night me and my cousin got a bit drunk and we started making out, even tho we stopped a few times saying this isn't right.. but still we kept doing it. Today she told me that she wants to have sex with me and that she can't believe s...
A. 4 February 2008: Hi hunny!
I have pretty liberal views on sex, but even I would have to say doing it with a first cousin is a big mistake. And let me tell you that this has nothing to do with religion or old traditions. It simply is an unhealthy relation... (read in full...)
Is masturbation a homosexual act?
Q. is masturbation in fact a homosexual act ? no matter who or what you think about you are still having sex with your hand and you come on yourself you are giving and recieving so its male on male or female on female. any thoughts?...
A. 3 February 2008: SO that means if you even wash yourself, that makes it a homosexual act? omg thats crazy! touching yourself isnt gay...its just touching yourself. gay is when you sexually touch another one who is the same sex as you. its no more complicated ... (read in full...)
I had unprotected sex with two different men. Now I am pregnant and confused!
Q. I had unprotected sex with two different men a week apart, dec 29 and jan 3rd. I was supposed to start my period on Jan 19th but I didnt, I took a pregnancy test on the 23rd and found out that i am pregnant but I dont know who would be the dad. Can ...
A. 3 February 2008: Im sorry girl, but where is your head at?..unprotected sex with two guys a week apart...what did you expect? Dont you worry about catching a disease? At this point i dont think its fair to have any of these two guys take responsibility for your ... (read in full...)
Anything we need to do before going to our first swingers party?
Q. Hi my wife and I are intrested in going to a swingers party to try other partners. She would like to try a younger guy again. We have discussed it at great length and feel it would be a great turn on for us both to watch each other with someo...
A. 3 February 2008: hi hunny...ive done threesomes and traded partners before, and the best advice i an give you is to put all your jealousies asside...do you think you can do that. when you watch you wife getting it from this other guy, are you going to enjoy ... (read in full...)
Was this an erection and does it mean he likes me??
Q. Does an erection mean he likes me? Okay well me and my best friend are amazingly close, he is a boy, and i really like him alot more than a friend, its a long story, but we are pretty much in love with each other, although we have never kissed o...
A. 2 February 2008: hell ya ..i was an erection. does it mean he likes you. You already know he likes you. attraction...thats another thing..its true guys can get erections for no reason. if hes is atracted to you sexualy and you feel it for him why not give hima ... (read in full...)
Cut or uncut, what do girls prefer?
Q. Do women prefer foreskin or no foreskin?...
A. 31 January 2008: i prefer uncut guys but i probably would have said cut a few years ago... my boyfriend is uncut and he feels awsome. having sex with him is good because the extra skin on it feels so nice when he goes in...and it just feels like theres more ... (read in full...)
Is it safe to use anything else apart from a vibrator? If so what?
Q. is it safe to anything else other than a vibrator or dildo as a self pleasuring measure - if so what? i haven't got a bf at the mo and am a really horny!! any advice would be great. anonymous...
A. 31 January 2008: if you want to do the solo why would you want to do anything besides a dildo or vibrator? there's just too many sex toys out there to play with that are safe to use. i have dildos in a few different sizes and feels. some of them can be ... (read in full...)
I have thoughts of her having sex with another man and it gets me depressed ... can we ever have normal sex again?
Q. Hi there aunts! I have a problem. Me and my girlfriend (2 years an a half) had a relationship breakdown quite some time ago. She went to another guy and she told me that she used the moment when she was weak and kissed her. She hinted that they...
A. 26 January 2008: I dont think a "kiss" would torment me like its doing to your girlfriend. it sounds like she did sleep with him. she wont admit it, but if she did, would it hurt any less? i think not. and as so much about sex depends on the brain, its really ... (read in full...)
My newly sober husband and a clueless boyfriend! Help!
Q. I'm at a crossroad here..My situation is tearing my heart apart and I need some advice from anyone who is willing to read this. Well I've been married for 3 years and my husband suffered a major car accident 7 years ago (before we met)ever since ...
A. 26 January 2008: hunny i feel for you. I thnk you should stay with your husband and support him as best you can. i understand you have needs though, so maybe you have a good excuse for cheating on him to get that sexual fulfillment you husband cant give you. im ... (read in full...)
What is the ideal penis size?
Q. What do women consider to be an ideal penis size? My friend told me all women want a penis that's at least 8 inches long and 6 inches around. Is this true? I'm way below these numbers in both categories and I'm really afraid to have sex, now. Any ...
A. 26 January 2008: Hi Hunny...i want to put in my two or three cents here. I do like guys with bigger dicks. my boyfrind is 9 inches and very thick, and hes perfect for me. not only is he big...he does know how to use it! It hurts when we fuck and he first goes in ... (read in full...)
I love him, but he doesn't turn me on anymore at all, and I can ONLY get turned on by thinking about sleeping with women! Why is this? Am I gay?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months now and love him completely - I just don't feel turned on by him at all. I've always wondered what it would be like to be with a woman, and lately, can ONLY get turned on by imagining I'm sleeping with ...
A. 26 January 2008: Hi hunny.. in my esperience i learned to love girls just a few years ago.... all i can say is having sex with girls doesnt replace guys for me, but its a bonus thing for me. I still like guys better, and if i had to choose i perfer guys. but it ... (read in full...)
Do guys compare their girlfriends to the girls in porn?
Q. do guys compare their girlfriends to the girls in porn? I was just wondering because my boyfriend watches porn all the time and lately I have had a hard time in bed because I am worried that I am not attractive enough because he'll be thinking...
A. 25 January 2008: Picture this ….its 1885, a young southern bride marries a cowboy that’s been around a few towns and visited a couple whorehouses…he remembers that one girl….lets call her Trixxie…and every time he has sex with his new bride he remembers that one ... (read in full...)
Can you break a penis?
Q. I know this sounds totally ridiculous, but can you break a penis? Is this possible? Just seen as you can break an arm or a leg, why shouldn't you be able to break a penis?...
A. 25 January 2008: wow i didnt know they could break or get ruptured like that! oh my god that sounds painful! i had to close my eyes reading that. i guess ill be a little more careful next time Im on top...just a little more careful...lol. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to give him oral sex but I don't want to...what should I do??
Q. My boyfriend wants me to preform oral sex but I don't want to. What should I do?...
A. 25 January 2008: No hunny you dont have to do oral sex on him if you dont want to. but at the very least you have to touch it. give him a good pleasurable handjob, and im sure he will be happy. but is he doing oral on you?...because if he is then he would have ... (read in full...)
My husband is a good man but I am struggling to deal with his porn watching.
Q. I have been reading the QandA's on porn because i am trying to understand how to deal with this issue. My problem with my husband watching it has nothing to do with the sex part. It's my body. I am not over weight but do have the typical c-sectio...
A. 25 January 2008: hunny, I know its hard to believe this but porn IS fantasy. these are actors being paid to do this for our entertainment. some of them go home to their own husbands and boyfiends. when you see two people kissing in a regular movie its just the ... (read in full...)
Can anyone give me tips on making my guy scream with pleasure in bed!?
Q. Well, another question... since I'm new in this thing called "SEX", I'm so curious, I've give my boyfriend blow jobs, normal thing I know, but the thing is that I don't feel like I'm giving him enough pleasure, when he is doing it to me I'm desperat...
A. 25 January 2008: I wanted to add one more thing. its true that guys don't scream out like we girls do. you can call it whatever you want, i guess i will call it a louder and more high pitched grunt then usual. I always know it when I hear it. the finger in butt ... (read in full...)
We have had threesome's but he doesn't want to be part of a MFM threesome.
Q. My husband and i have had threesomes with women and he performed with no problems and was not shy or anything. He has no problems with me having sex with other men. I want to have a threesome where i am the object of attention from two men and ...
A. 25 January 2008: If you are having sex with others outside your marriage and working it out without the emtional junk, good for you. My boyfriend lets me have sex with other women, and I sometimes have involved him in threesomes. We never done mfm, but i want to ... (read in full...)
Is cyber sex cheating??
Q. Is cyber sex cheating? I have a bf but i ended up having cyber sex just once with one of my friends i met online. Should i tell my bf? My bf and i have been together for 2 months now, we havent told eachother we loved eachother, so it hasent g...
A. 25 January 2008: No I dont consider it cheating..I've done it ..my boyfriend too..i know some of my friends do it. its no big deal unless you make it a big issue. its uaually pretty anonymous with people you meet online anyway.
Sex is when you have boddy pa... (read in full...)
Should I worry my wife might be gay because she watchs lesbian porn before sex??
Q. My wife watches lesbian porn before we have sex. Do i have to worry if she is a lesbian????...
A. 25 January 2008: No hunny, watching lesbian porn doesnt make you gay. But it might be she is curious. I am Bi and share watching lesbian porn with my boyfriend. It doesnt interfere with our relationship. I know some girlfriends watch it with their guys too, and ... (read in full...)
Can anyone give me tips on making my guy scream with pleasure in bed!?
Q. Well, another question... since I'm new in this thing called "SEX", I'm so curious, I've give my boyfriend blow jobs, normal thing I know, but the thing is that I don't feel like I'm giving him enough pleasure, when he is doing it to me I'm desperat...
A. 24 January 2008: If you want to make your guy scream with pleasure, you have to be the aggressor and the one doing the fucking. So my best way of doing this is to get on top of him and take control If you got handcuffs use them and keep him from taking over and ... (read in full...)
How do I talk dirty to my hubby, any tips?
Q. My husband wants me to talk dirty. I try sometimes but not often. I dont know how. anyone have any tips?...
A. 23 January 2008: what you got to remember is that talking dirty is just between you and your guy. sure you might not use that language in public, but you are behind closed doors and you should let your hair down and feel free to say anything to turn up the ... (read in full...)
I'm a married woman and had sex with a female colleague from work!
Q. I'm a married woman in my 30's and I had a healthy marriage till last month. I was out of town for work and I stayed at a hotel, my room mate was a pretty young girl I know from work. We were at a party after work talking and we really connected ...
A. 22 January 2008: I had a similar experience a few years ago and I am bi today because of it. My boyfriend at the time accepted it and so does my guy now. I am Bi and its something any guy has to accept about me.
I think you should be honest with your husband ... (read in full...)
Does my crush like me? How do I know?
Q. how do i tell if my crush likes me? I'm naturely blonde so i act dumb sometimes. when i first moved here i didn't notice him at first until this boy that picks on every day.he stars at me and finds thing to anoy me.every day he would say oh thi...
A. 22 January 2008: Casey sounds like typical shy boy, and you have to be more aggressive as a girl to get a shy boy in your arms...that is what you want isnt it?
All this talk about who like who whether its among friends or afar is also typical high school d... (read in full...)
Communicating about sex...woman to man...advice?
Q. How does a guy like a woman to communicate what will bring her to orgasm? What's an example of the words and tonality that will work in a positive way for him? ...
A. 22 January 2008: SOmetimes there are no words. Its mostly action that can turn me on. I like dirty talk in bed as long as it isnt insulting. Some girls go for dirty talk, some dont. You should alreay know how your partner should react depending on how well you ... (read in full...)
She's all I think about but...she has a bf! what should I do here?
Q. i'm 15 and I really like my 16yr old friend. the problem is she has a bf. so the other day she gav me a kiss on the cheek. i'm also good friends wit her sister. my friend went and asked the sister of girl that i like if she (the sister Of the ...
A. 22 January 2008: Olive Oil had a boyfriend too. Popeye fought Bluto for her and Olive ended up with Popeye. That's what I heard. Point im trying to make is no relationship is etched in stone until theres a real commitment with a ring and exchanged vows. Just ... (read in full...)
Your general thoughts of the uncircumcised penis?
Q. Hi im 17 years old and i am affraid that my penis is too small. it only measures 5.5 inches when errect. please help???? Also i was wondering what people thought about circumsized penises? by the way im circumsized....
A. 22 January 2008: FIve inches is average, hun. There are guys bigger and smaller. But like the others said its not all about the size, but what you do with it. Ive had bigger guys that did nothing good with it and were clueless, fumbling like children. If a guy ... (read in full...)
He is my first date with an uncircumcised penis and that... turns me off. I want to break up, should I tell him why?
Q. I've been dating this guy for a little over 3 months now. I think he's great and want to have a long-term relationship with him. The problem is, I don't sleep with my boyfriends until we've dated a little while aad I'm sure I really like them for ...
A. 22 January 2008: Baby, you are so wrong. My boyfriend is uncircumsized and when when he's fully erect it looks no different than any other guy. He keeps it clean, it's well proportioned and there's nothing smelly or repulsive about it! And also sex with him is ... (read in full...)
Was I fooled by this man I met off a dating site?
Q. Hi, I am worried I may have been fooled by a man i met through a dating site. We went out five times, after every other date he mailed me and said thank you. He stated he wasnt looking for one night stands etc However after this last one I have ...
A. 22 January 2008: It sounds like you alrady got somethign good with him. maybe he just needs a little space and thinks things are moving too fast. Who knows. Just email him text him to let him know you still exist...call him. DOnt wait for him to call. If after a ... (read in full...)
I am so angry--he 's married and I am tempted to tell his wife!
Q. I broke up with my "boyfriend" three weeks ago after spending three months fighting with him about how he lied to me about being married. He told me after I told him that I loved him. I'm not stupid. He lied very well and I'm way too trusting and ...
A. 22 January 2008: Dont talk to her wife. The guy did you wrong, of that there is no doubt, but you shouldnt put her in the middle of it. She's his problem...not yours. He cheated and he lied to you as well. He's not worth your time. He's a loser, so get over him ... (read in full...)
I was born with a condition called micropenis which means my dick is smaller than 0.5 inch erect - a very small size.
Q. Hey, I was born with a condition called micropenis which means my dick is smaller than 0.5 inch erect - a very small size. I'm 37 years old now, so I can't expect my penis to grow for me even a few mm. My penis is also bent severely to the left...
A. 22 January 2008: Hi Hunny. You didnt mention your weight, but that could be a factor too. I had a boyfriend who lost sixty pounds and gained quite a bit in his penis length. Weight loss is the single healthiest way to gain length there. After that I would look ... (read in full...)
He likes to receive, but won't give. Why not?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been going out for more than a year. he's my first boyfriend and i really relaly love him. we've been having sex for half a year and he's the one who always initiates it. i do go down on him when i feel he wants it, but i ...
A. 19 January 2008: baby, if your man isnt doing it for you, you shouldn't be doing it back! what an ass! if a guy had a problem going down on me I would have a problem even dating him. you cant let this keep going girl.
you have to force the issue! make him... (read in full...)
What does it mean if lesbians went "all the way"... what is that??
Q. when two women have sex or "go all the way" what exactly is the difference between foreplay and just fooling around as lesbians and having sex/going the whole way? if that makes sense like if two lesbians say "we went all the way last night"...
A. 19 January 2008: im Bi and in my experience going all the way means no limits sex. penetration is part it in some way, using hands, dildos, tongue and whatevr. with every partner it varies but thats part of what makes it fun, you bring whatever you want to it, and ... (read in full...)
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