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male
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anonymous
writes:My gf recently shoved a finger up her anus as she approached her climax. Now she'd like me to do it and I'm embarrassed to say I'm not too sure what to do. I blushed when she asked me and we didn't talk about it. I wouldn't want a finger up my anus. Doesn't it hurt? How can I best go about this? I want her to feel good. What is it about it that does feel good and how do I make sure I do that? I can't tell if she's doing anything with her finger when it's in there. Any female insights would be appreciated. Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): Ok I had a boyfriend that used to love to do this to me....and it is the only thing that tips me over the edge into an orgasm. Make sure its lubricated and the first time just put the tip in. Tell her that she has to tell you how she wants it such as ....oh deeper, faster etc. Gentle in out mothions in time to sex works for me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2009): The anus is very sensitive and very pleasurable to many people. I think you are lucky to have a g/f who likes a finger up her bottom. I can understand your reluctance although to me it would be sheer joy to be asked!Perhaps you could insert a small anal dildo instead of your finger or better still, put on one of those thin plastic gloves found in hair tinting kits. They fit tightly and should be well lubricated. Be very gentle and smear lubrication round her anus then push the tip of your finger inside her and then withdraw it and push it back in again. This will give her pleasure as you slowly push it all the way up inside her.Good luck, I wish a girl would ask me to put my finger up her bottom. I guarantee it would feel nice for her.
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reader, Hoop_dhobi  +, writes (7 November 2008):
If you don't like the idea of it, just do it the once- with a torn fingernail. She won't ask again.
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reader, DoubleM  + ♥, writes (5 November 2008):
 With little reservation, I must agree with "qcumbr1" that a bit of anal massage during a bj results in an incredible orgasm for the man. Physiologically, this is stimulation of the prostate gland and results in a greater release of sperm. Personally, the experience was strange the first time (about 35 years ago) with a girlfriend who was very oral and craved cum, but I quickly adapted (LOL). Perhaps some women also also enjoy anal stimulation for a different reason.
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reader, Cherriepie +, writes (5 November 2008):
 Aren't you a little too old to ask advice of this sort? Don't you ever watch Cinemax after midnight?
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reader, icelordess + ♥, writes (4 November 2008):
 Uncle Phil..you crack me up! You truly are a gem!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (4 November 2008):
 It might rather difficult for you, you know, kind of like patting the top of your head while rubbing your tummy sort of thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2008): Almost forgot - get some medical examination gloves and K-Y jelly just in case. Contrary to popular belief, a woman's shit does NOT smell like roses and you don't want any of that under your fingernails.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2008): How in hell do you reach it? Do you have to have your arm broken in three places and dislocate your wrist?
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reader, icelordess + ♥, writes (4 November 2008):
To each his own..some people find it very pleasurable, I guess. Why don't you ask her what to do? I'm sure she'll tell you/show you. She may want to do move it in and out, or gently massage? But the best way to know what to do is just to ask. I don't think it will hurt if you are gentle, and obviously she likes this, so hey, learn something new!
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