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writes:how many times realisticly can i have sex in one night.my girlfriends need for penatrive sex is insatiable.is 3 times nearly everynight sufficient?please let me know honestly. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2011): Hey Mr.
You have one great lady there; she is willing to use only you to get what she needs. If you get so exhausted or can't handle it. Change it up a little bit; get some toys in the mix; or learn some great oral techniques.
If you dont want to do anything; if she's open to it watch her do what she does. The experience will be intimate yet exciting if she agrees. And you just may learn a thing or two for the next time.
I am in your same boat, but my gal loves me to take control though so I am blessed. If I'm not ready, which is not often. We are kind of made for eachother in that regard. But maybe this will work for you. Take control, I will make her wait on purpose to build anticipation throughout the day, if she wants it on break for lunch. I wont give in; I tease her. I'll tease her all day until its time for us to get to sleep. Then I'll attack her. You build up enough anticipation between two people the outcome is fierce; you go a few or more times til you are both exhausted then fall asleep in eachothers arms with smiles on your face. Story is if you need some time to rest your body; just keep the teasing for the moment you are ready, works to stall, is fun and keeps the excitement alive. Its a very fun part of the relationship. Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008): lucky bastard !!!
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reader, Cherriepie +, writes (16 July 2008):
 Three times is not emough for me either sometimes. But I can see how an older guy like you can get tired of it. I like older guys who are patient and expereinced in bed, but when it somes to quanity I want a lot of it, and I can really understand your girlfriend wanting it more,just like I do.
I also happen to be bi so Im not alwasy being demanding with my guy, when I have other girlfriends to help me.
But if your fucking three times a night....wow! color me impressed, big boy!
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reader, bammy  +, writes (16 July 2008):
 hey,your girlfriend is normal, I look for it as much as I can get it too & a lot of the time my fiance isn't up to sex but I respect his wishes & wait until he is ready for it. but I find if you do it 3 times a night it isn't as exighting as getting it 3 times a week. do get her a vibrator there brilliant for the relief & she wont go lookin for the relief from sombody else. If your not up to it tell her that if she loves & respects you she'll wait.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (16 July 2008):
Everyone is different, so you should just have sex as many times as You want to.
Why not give lots of foreplay and make her orgasm a few times before sex, it might wear her out a bit faster.
You could also buy her a vibrator and use that during foreplay so you have a bit of recovery time.
Good Luck!! xx
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