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If I look at another guy's penis out of curiosity, does it mean I am gay?

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Question - (21 June 2008) 12 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2010)
A male United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

iam 16 years old, sometimes i have some curiousity to look at other's guy's penis !but i am not gay

i wondered if is it mean that i am gay or someting ?and if is it a normal thing ?plz helpe me guys and thanks

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A male reader, Problem.helper United States +, writes (17 April 2010):

Problem.helper agony auntif you don't get boner when you see it it's ok don't worry :D but do you find it gross or something else because when gross your not gay

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2008):

i don't believe that you're gay just because you have a little curiosity about seeing another guy's penis. but, just make sure you don't purposely go outright and ask a guy to take his penis out and show you. that's when you cross the line of becoming gay. there's limits with everything you know. if you're in a public shower, like a school perhaps and you happen to look around and see a guy's penis, that's fine i guess because everyone is naked in a shower. at least i hope so lol. it'd be kind of weird to shower with your clothes on lol.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks for everyone, you help me really !!..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008):

Don't worry about it.

Most guys are curious compare theirs to others to see if they are average. I know plenty of straight guys who do that. Anyway you said it yourself that you're not gay.

It's perfectly natural...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008):

If u say that u r NOT gay then u r obviously NOT gay.. U were probably CURIOUS... that's all!! Bye

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States + , writes (21 June 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntI just have to chime in on this one. There was a study back in March 2007, which measure where men's and women's eyes went in studying a pictur of George Brett, a baseball player. The women for the most part focused on the face, not very many looked at the crotch area. The men, on the other hand, spent a lot of time looking at Mr. Brett's crotch. What does that tell you? That men check out other men. Funny how few women checked out Mr. Brett's 'package.'

You're normal.

Here's the link. The bit on the George Brett picture is toward the end of the article.

http://www.ojr.org/ojr/stories/070312ruel/

Don't worry!

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A female reader, Sophia_Sweetheart United Kingdom +, writes (21 June 2008):

Sophia_Sweetheart agony auntNo sweetie you're not gay, it's natural to be interested.

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A female reader, Cherriepie United States +, writes (21 June 2008):

Cherriepie agony auntI don't think you gay hunny, but ask yourself if you had the choice of seeing a girls privates or a guys privates, which would you choose? That's how you know if you are gay.

If your bisexual like me the question is moot. But its different for girls. If you like lookng at guys dicks, you might be gay. Bisexual guys are more gay than than bi. Mostly straight guys dont even think about dicks.

Do you get a hard-on looking at other guys? If you do, than you are probably gay.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008):

That doesn't mean you're gay at all.

It could be because you want to compare your to his...See if yours is bigger see if it's smaller. Check out and see if it looks the same or different.

It perfectly normal. Curiosity is curiosity... Nothing more.

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A male reader, Uncle Sneaker United Kingdom +, writes (21 June 2008):

Uncle Sneaker agony auntBeing curious about another guy's penis means you're curious about another guy's penis.

What would you rather look at, a naked man or a naked woman?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008):

your not gay enless you really like looking at mens pubic areas, but curiosity is totally 100% normal!!

no worries!!

xx candy

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A female reader, supermum United Kingdom +, writes (21 June 2008):

supermum agony auntyou said yourself you are not gay... so your not lol.

being curious is a normal part of growing up, comparing yourself to others, seeing where you fit in, making some kind of unwritten hierachy. you are fine babe, honest!

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