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Our sex life has begun to get really boring. How can I talk to him about this?

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Question - (2 September 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 September 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *tacey5 writes:

when i first got with my boyfriend our sex life was very exciting and never boring and now its got really boring and he dont last long anymore its over so quick how can i talk to him about it with out hurting his feeling and what could i do to try get our sex life back to exciting again ????

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (3 September 2010):

Miamine agony aunthttp://www.sexinfo101.com/sexualpositions.shtml

Here, look at this website with him.. you each get to choose a position to try every week... should bring back some of the fun that is currently missing.

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A female reader, stacey5 United Kingdom +, writes (3 September 2010):

stacey5 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank you both for your advice i will defo try it out thank you :)

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (2 September 2010):

BrownWolf agony auntSex will get boring if things have become routine. Sometimes a direct talk maybe needed. Other times, it may not be exactly what you say, but what you do.

Example...If you are trying to teach a child how say the name of a toy, you would point at the toy, say the name, and try to get the child to repeat what you just said.

Now.. What if you moan more, or say "I love when you do that", when your guy is doing something to you that you like. He would get the hint and keep doing it. Like when you say "good boy!"

Flirt with him like you have never done before. Maybe it will open up a side of you that will make your relationship go to a whole new level.

Don't wait for him to make things exciting...Seduction is a powerful tool, and you woman come loaded with it. Knowing how to use it can make you very dangerous to any man.

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A female reader, 0occoo United Kingdom +, writes (2 September 2010):

0occoo agony auntI think it's about time you spice up your sex life. Buy outfits, toy, even handcuffs. They may seem like a daft idea now, but they might help sauce things up for you two. Also, whispering things like "Youve been very, very naughty" might help to add more drama into the bedroom. Good luck.

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