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Is it wrong because I don't like my b/f texting and planning on meeting his ex?

Q.   My boyfriend and I had our first big fight last night. He mentioned that he was asked to hang out with his ex. This is an ex who, a couple of months ago, has confessed she wants to give their relationship another chance, they apparently still talk ...

A.   21 July 2012: Yes, Anonymous, both can be FRIENDLY, but not friends. There are those rare instances where two people can put aside (bury or numb themselves to) ALL of their caring, romantic, and sexual feelings for one another and be on FRIENDLY TERMS. ... (read in full...)

He dumped me after I got pregnant, what do I do?

Q.   I been dating this guy for 3 months and things were great between us now that I'm pregnant with his baby he asked me to abort he no longer text me like he used to no calls no nothing and I still love him what should I do please HELP ...

A.   20 July 2012: Good for you! I know sometimes it is scary when you think you are facing a major life change by yourself. My sister is a single mom and while she has some tough times, she is doing really good. Have faith in yourself and give your mom a big ... (read in full...)

Why is he texting me?

Q.   Hi all. Your opinions would be welcome. I recently split with my bf of over a year due to many problems,and trust issues. He told me i deserve more,and that he isn.t good enough for me. We had an argument,and he said he was going through the ...

A.   20 July 2012: Don't buy him anything and don't communicate with him. He is using you. Don't fall for it again.... (read in full...)

He dumped me after I got pregnant, what do I do?

Q.   I been dating this guy for 3 months and things were great between us now that I'm pregnant with his baby he asked me to abort he no longer text me like he used to no calls no nothing and I still love him what should I do please HELP ...

A.   20 July 2012: And yes, I agree with OldBag that this guy is not coming back. I am sorry.... (read in full...)

He dumped me after I got pregnant, what do I do?

Q.   I been dating this guy for 3 months and things were great between us now that I'm pregnant with his baby he asked me to abort he no longer text me like he used to no calls no nothing and I still love him what should I do please HELP ...

A.   20 July 2012: I am sorry too, but please, in the future do not have sex with guys after only 3 months and expect them to stick around. That is way too early to have sex with someone unless you are prepared for it. You were not prepared and now you are pregnant. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants to have sex before I go to University so he will remember me, is this a good idea or is he still a womanizer?

Q.   hi i have been dating this guy for eleven months now we agreed on not having sex but we do kiss, and recently he says he wants to have sex before i go to the university in order to keep me in mind. i dont understand this at all, rumours have it that ...

A.   20 July 2012: Don't do it. Any guy who is serious about you would not give you this kind of ultimatum...especially before going to college. You have enough to concern yourself with and now he is heaping on more pressure. The fact you have come for advice shows ... (read in full...)

Does this married man love me?

Q.   Is this love or not,This man i'm seeing never has said he loves me,but do these actions say otherwise, he texts me every morning and nite calls me everyday some times more than once 7 day a week,tells me he misses me heaps,calls me sweet names,like ...

A.   20 July 2012: You've been together for years even though he is married, so that should account for something. I am not sure we can come up with a definite answer to that question. He doesn't love you enough to leave his wife though because he has the best of ... (read in full...)

My wife cheated on me and is now worried that I'm cheating on her. Its causing a great deal of stress in our home

Q.   I had recently discovered that my wife of 12 years was having an affair for past one year. I confronted her with the evidence I had and she admitted it. She has promised to end the affair, which I presume she did, and work on marriage. I do not ...

A.   20 July 2012: I will be thinking of you since I know you are in a terrible position. I know people say staying for the kids isn't healthy, but you have already been doing it for so long, it probably would not make much difference. Sometimes staying for the kids ... (read in full...)

Could you girls explain to me the feelings behind a crush on a celebrity and the feelings you have for your bf?

Q.   Im curious to know what the difference is between your celebrity crushes and the feeling you have for your boyfriend. I know everyone is attracted to other people, but to what extent? I mean, you'll gush over whomever the actor may be, be it orlan...

A.   20 July 2012: With a celebrity, it is a crush. A crush is an intense and usually short-lived infatuation with someone. The feeling for your boyfriend hopefully is more than infatuation. It should be a deeper attraction and caring based on more than just looks ... (read in full...)

I'm getting scared of my online BF. How do I tell him that fact?

Q.   I broke up with my bf C and now dating him...lets call him King. We both met on an online free publishing site. Anyways, I was on another chat site, a chat with strangers (i was bored), and I keep getting men and women on there wanting to bed me, ...

A.   20 July 2012: I agree with the other aunts...they have given really good advice. It is likely King IS one of those online perverts you've seen on the other sites. There are a lot of people online who do this type of thing. That is why many of the aunts and ... (read in full...)

I have no reason not to trust my husband but I don't!

Q.   My husband always say I'm the only beautiful and attractive woman for him.He says he doesn't find any other women beautiful or attractive.In fact I can't believe him because he's a man.But when I asked my cousin,my sister,my nephew and some of my ...

A.   19 July 2012: Unfortunately this IS a time when I can say that you are letting your own insecurities get the best of you. If you had a reason not to trust him, I could understand your feelings, but you don't. You need to put some faith and trust in your husband ... (read in full...)

I'm having to chose between the gym to keep my body or my girlfriend!

Q.   Here' s the thing. My girlfriend has been complaining of lately that I don't spend enough time with her. I can totally understand her argument because I simply have too much going on to devote a large majority of my time to her. I work full time, ...

A.   19 July 2012: I understand your want/need to workout, but you are being really unfair to your girlfriend. If your own activities take precedence over her, it is time for you to live a completely single life and do what you want. If you want relationships in ... (read in full...)

BF says causal comments that HURT, please share your thoughts on these things he's said to me!

Q.   i am dating a very young guy..25..im much older but we have had a really cool connection, trust, closeness, amazing physical relationship. not for a long time, but for this summer. as i have began to fall for him, i have found myself repeatedly ...

A.   19 July 2012: Have to say I respectfully disagree with SageOldGuy. I see his point, but I know I have said some really dumb things in my youth that thankfully, others have ignored. Actually, I have said some really dumb things in adulthood that only later have ... (read in full...)

BF has never taken me out for a romantic dinner.

Q.   My boyfriend and i have been together for 3.5 years. I am 26 and he is 31. in this time, we have not been out on a romatic dinner out (getting dressed up etc). He has never taken me out to a fancy dinner. We occasionally go out for a meal, but ...

A.   19 July 2012: It depends. Do you do other things that you would consider "romantic" that you do together and enjoy? Is he thoughtful in other ways besides taking you to dinner? If he is a thoughtful person and is romantic in other ways, I would not put all of ... (read in full...)

My LDR ex and I are reconnecting. He wants me to visit, should I ask him to buy the ticket?

Q.   Long story short. My long distance ex who is four years older than me has decided to pursue his masters degree at my university. He emailed me with the news and we began chatting via smartphone texting app. He made many hints that he still has ...

A.   19 July 2012: I agree with the other posters. You are just talking, you are not couple. Based on the information you gave during the time you were in a relationship, he did not treat you very well. I would not go even if he bought the plane ticket. I would ... (read in full...)

I can't get over my jealous feelings about his texting with his female best friend!

Q.   So today, I read my bf's text messages (he let me) between him and his girl best friend. They haven't talked for a few days, but I'm bothered. Keep in mind that he's not the person to really text, and when he does, it's short and to the point. ...

A.   19 July 2012: Let's face it, wouldn't we all have an insecurity problem if our man was talking texting, talking to, and emailing other girls all the time? I think it is really poor advice to be saying that just because this upsets you you have an insecurity ... (read in full...)

How should I try to ask my dance partner out?

Q.   A little background, I am 29 and I am quite shy (Already gotten better over the years, but still ways to go. Pushing myself to go to a dance class is considered one of my recent "achievement"). I have never been in a real relationship in the past. ...

A.   19 July 2012: I would ask her if she might want to get a coffee or tea after class sometime, or go to a casual place for lunch or dinner. You could also ask for her email. On your first time out I would not ask her to go get drinks as that is sometimes a ... (read in full...)

BF says causal comments that HURT, please share your thoughts on these things he's said to me!

Q.   i am dating a very young guy..25..im much older but we have had a really cool connection, trust, closeness, amazing physical relationship. not for a long time, but for this summer. as i have began to fall for him, i have found myself repeatedly ...

A.   19 July 2012: Most of this is the difference in age and maturity levels. He is 25. He's grown up in a different time than you, saying different things, and following different social norms. He doesn't understand because he's a typical kid who doesn't have a ... (read in full...)

He tells me he likes me but is constantly talking about another girl!

Q.   So me and this boy have been "best friends" for awhile now. He admitted that he used to like me but was to scared to do anything because he was unsure about how i felt. We hang out every now and then and I started to like him. When we hang out he's ...

A.   19 July 2012: He didn't say anything else? Is he still talking about the other girl? It sounds like he does like you and may be willing to work on his behavior. I would wait and see how things go, but I think it is weird he just said the letter was "sweet" and ... (read in full...)

His friendship with a work mate is beginning to upset me!

Q.   Hi, My boyfriend is friends with a work mate and talks about her loads and its beginning to upset me. She always go to him for relationship advice about how she can't meet a nice man and she only likes muscley men and he replies maybe you sho...

A.   19 July 2012: Or boyfriend, I am sorry, I said your husband.... (read in full...)

His friendship with a work mate is beginning to upset me!

Q.   Hi, My boyfriend is friends with a work mate and talks about her loads and its beginning to upset me. She always go to him for relationship advice about how she can't meet a nice man and she only likes muscley men and he replies maybe you sho...

A.   19 July 2012: She is using him as a pseudo boyfriend or an at-work-boyfriend. I am not sure how you are going to get your husband to change. I had a similar situation with my ex where he was just a "nice guy" and always talked with and helped a younger female ... (read in full...)

He tells me he likes me but is constantly talking about another girl!

Q.   So me and this boy have been "best friends" for awhile now. He admitted that he used to like me but was to scared to do anything because he was unsure about how i felt. We hang out every now and then and I started to like him. When we hang out he's ...

A.   19 July 2012: The picture is a good sign, but has he responded to the letter in any way? ... (read in full...)

Would you be upset if your bestfriend started "fooling around" with someone that you absolutely hated?

Q.   Would you be upset if your bestfriend started "fooling around" with someone that you absolutely hated? Back gorund story sorry if its long. im 18 an both my bf and bestfriend are 20 My bestfriend is also my boyfriends bestfriend (my boyfrien...

A.   19 July 2012: If this was me (speaking for me only), I would do things by myself for awhile or hang out with someone different who actually values the alliances between friends. If all of this friends of yours are taking sexual relationships so lightly, it won't ... (read in full...)

He chose a girl over his two best friends!

Q.   My best friend (J) is beginning to like the girl that my other best friend (R) recently broke up with. It's only been a month, she was single now, and my bud J made the move. He doesn't notice how much R is hurt by all of this, and continues to make ...

A.   18 July 2012: Girls choose guys over their best girlfriends too...it happens all the time. I would not be too concerned. He will likely have some kind of issue or conflict with his girl and be running back to his old friends to hang out and complain. This ... (read in full...)

I gave him my virginity and then he said he wasn't into me!

Q.   okay so I had sex with this huy for the first time. And it was at my house and it was a very special cause he took my virginity. So anyways after that we were talking and we did it again but at his house. So the next day I told him we should stop ...

A.   18 July 2012: Unfortunately, this sometimes happens when you don't get to know each other BEFORE having sex. The best advice for this problem is to realize this and that you should wait until you know a guy respects and cares about you. Sometimes that is not a ... (read in full...)

He wants oral from me, but wont return the favor. Is it because of my body?

Q.   hi, i am having alot of confussions about my relationship. sence i met my boyfriend he was always the quite one and shy in the group but smart about anything , and he loves things that i love , such as racing, mechanicing, etc.. i have been with my ...

A.   18 July 2012: First off, having sex with someone, giving him hand jobs, and blow jobs, and then asking "does he like me?" seems a bit backwards. You should know whether he likes you/wants you BEFORE you start doing this kind of thing. If he won't go down on ... (read in full...)

He wants oral from me, but wont return the favor. Is it because of my body?

Q.   hi, i am having alot of confussions about my relationship. sence i met my boyfriend he was always the quite one and shy in the group but smart about anything , and he loves things that i love , such as racing, mechanicing, etc.. i have been with my ...

A.   18 July 2012: First off, having sex with someone, giving him hand jobs, and blow jobs, and then asking "does he like me?" seems a bit backwards. You should know whether he likes you/wants you BEFORE you start doing this kind of thing. If he won't go down on ... (read in full...)

I'm into a guy who isn't into me and it's getting me really down. Please help!

Q.   I feel so sad. I am into a guy who isn't into me and it is making me feel so so down. I know it is a waste to even care and at my old age of 38, you think I would know better. I met him a month and a half a go at a music festival he is 3...

A.   18 July 2012: First of all, I resent you referring to yourself as being the "old age of 38". I am 40 and I'm anything but old...I'm just now entering my prime. Well anyway, call him up and tell him you would like to see him again. Tell him you are willing to ... (read in full...)

How have I changed so much since I went to college?

Q.   How is it even possible that I went to university, hating children, relationships and animals (especially dogs). Now after being there one year I am completely opposite to that! I'm looking to buy myself a little puppy, volunteer with children and ...

A.   18 July 2012: People change a lot when they get out of high school and sometimes even after that. That is why sometimes kids are encouraged not to do certain things when they could later regret it. As you age, every year brings different ways of seeing things ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong because I don't like my b/f texting and planning on meeting his ex?

Q.   My boyfriend and I had our first big fight last night. He mentioned that he was asked to hang out with his ex. This is an ex who, a couple of months ago, has confessed she wants to give their relationship another chance, they apparently still talk ...

A.   18 July 2012: You are not wrong and it DOES undermine your relationship. There is no reason he should be seeing her. Contrary to popular belief, men and women cannot be friends unless they are just colleagues, neighbors, or acquanitances. Men and women who ... (read in full...)

What are your views on strippers?

Q.   Whats your view on strippers?? My boyfriend is going to be at a stag on saturday night and there is going to be 2 strippers. By that I mean one at around 8pm and then another at like 10pm. I hate this. Im insecure for starters as Im over...

A.   18 July 2012: I think you are pretty normal in terms of how women feel about their men seeing strippers. Some women see it as harmless fun, which it generally is, but others have a hard time with it. If this is something he normally doesn't do, I wouldn't make ... (read in full...)

My partner cheated and says he doesn't know why but it was 4 different times!

Q.   Ok so here goes...After 9 years together and nearly two years Married, My partner has had a so called affair. I found out in June that he met another guy from an IPHONE app called Grindr, and this fella he met came into our home on 3 occasion...

A.   18 July 2012: Congratulations on getting your first home, and I am sorry it has come along with some terrible news about your partner. This is just my personal opinion, but I feel he should be able to give you some kind of reason as to why he cheated. He ... (read in full...)

What am I to her? Is she playing me and her BF? How can I make this situation better?

Q.   Hi, I'm confused and I need some good advice from you people I will explain everything thing in a bit of detail so that I could get some good and satisfying help! I met this girl in an exam center through a mutual friend of mine.. She was my frien...

A.   18 July 2012: You are not ruining it...she is. Technically she is using you and like some others have said...it isn't fair. You can either go along with what she has been doing and continue to be unhappy or take a stand for yourself. I am sorry there is no ... (read in full...)

What am I to her? Is she playing me and her BF? How can I make this situation better?

Q.   Hi, I'm confused and I need some good advice from you people I will explain everything thing in a bit of detail so that I could get some good and satisfying help! I met this girl in an exam center through a mutual friend of mine.. She was my frien...

A.   18 July 2012: I recognize that she told you she could never leave her boyfriend, but if you are like me, you will try one more time. I know, sometimes it isn't the smart thing to do, but sometimes you need to prove to yourself that what you have heard is right. ... (read in full...)

What am I to her? Is she playing me and her BF? How can I make this situation better?

Q.   Hi, I'm confused and I need some good advice from you people I will explain everything thing in a bit of detail so that I could get some good and satisfying help! I met this girl in an exam center through a mutual friend of mine.. She was my frien...

A.   18 July 2012: I agree with all of the other great advice here. If she wanted to be with you, she would break up with her bf and be with you. Instead, she is playing on the emotions of both of you. You are probably the one who will have to give the ultimatum. ... (read in full...)

His friendship with a work mate is beginning to upset me!

Q.   Hi, My boyfriend is friends with a work mate and talks about her loads and its beginning to upset me. She always go to him for relationship advice about how she can't meet a nice man and she only likes muscley men and he replies maybe you sho...

A.   18 July 2012: I have heard this excuse before that my guy is the only man in the universe who will listen to the needy girl at work. Don't buy into it. If they are talking about work or a great concert they saw once, that is great, but once you get into talking ... (read in full...)

How and where to set up boundaries?

Q.   We've been together for a year and half and been living together for almost a year. I met him 2 years ago while he was separating from his ex. We first became great friends before we got together and I also helped him to get through the hard tim...

A.   18 July 2012: If he is going with his ex, he should respectfully and maturely tell her that you are a couple and if he goes, you will also be going. It is unfair that he is not including you in these things. If the ex does not want to meet you, fine. Then he ... (read in full...)

Guys, what the hell? Why do you do this to us girls?

Q.   I've been dating this amazingly gorgeous and super smart guy for over three months now. In the first weeks he was really into me, taking me out to dinner all the time and really affectionate with me. After two months I made the mistake of telling ...

A.   18 July 2012: I am not a man either, but it is a little quick to say you love someone after only 3 months of dating. Sit down with him and tell him you do not like how things are between the two of you and you are sorry for moving too quickly by saying what you ... (read in full...)

Does this woman want to make love with me?

Q.   hello friends,Does this woman wants to make love with me?I am 42 years old,my brother's wife, 52-year-old.touched the woman's breast from behind twice in elbow.In the second gave me to touch my elbow stroked her breasts.she did not give me any ...

A.   18 July 2012: No, she does not want you. First of all, she is your brother's wife and she is probably smart enough to know that even if she did want you, this is a bad idea that could destroy your family. If you continue to pursue her you are asking for ... (read in full...)

I left my husband and now my boyfriend is not interested in me anymore.

Q.   I left my husband because I fell in love with another man. I no longer loved my husband. The other man led me to believe he loved me, too and would be there for me when I left my husband. It turns out that he is not. Now I am all alone without ei...

A.   18 July 2012: There are a lot of programs in the U.S. you can be on temporarily to help you get back on your feet. Especially if you meet their requirement for living in poverty. I know this is not the ideal situation and most people do not want to have to ask ... (read in full...)

The Ideal relationship at first. Now she ignores my texts.What should I do?

Q.   I've been talking and getting to know this girl for a few weeks now and we've just recently told each other that we like each other....everything was great for the first week and now she is ignoring my texts(we used to talk everyday 24/7) or if she ...

A.   18 July 2012: I am not sure why some girls/people do this. I love it when my boyfriend sends me texts/emails...it just makes me happy. I am not sure what is going on with her, but I agree with your friends. Stop texting for awhile and see how she reacts. She ... (read in full...)

I don't want kids and I am worried about being perpetually single because my view limits my options

Q.   Been single now for over three years and have been getting more convinced that I am going to be single for a very long time and finding it hard to shake that feeling. I have a fairly good life compared to many people - own flat, own car, interes...

A.   18 July 2012: I do not think all women want kids. Have you tried an online dating site? These sites ask those kinds of questions and you can see right away who does/doesn't want children. Even if it is not for you, you could just go on one and look around. ... (read in full...)

I'm loving 2 men and not able to decide between them!

Q.   I really, really need advice because I'm desperately unhappy and hopelessly confused. I used to be in a relationship with a guy (say X) two years ago. It was an intense, passionate relationship but there was trouble from the beginning. I did...

A.   18 July 2012: As many of the aunts have advised on here before, I would be very careful with falling "in love" over the internet and meeting a man in person who you have never met before. Internet friends are often a fun diversion that can turn into something ... (read in full...)

Would you be upset if your bestfriend started "fooling around" with someone that you absolutely hated?

Q.   Would you be upset if your bestfriend started "fooling around" with someone that you absolutely hated? Back gorund story sorry if its long. im 18 an both my bf and bestfriend are 20 My bestfriend is also my boyfriends bestfriend (my boyfrien...

A.   18 July 2012: I am confused with all of the bf and best friends, but I'll give it shot. First of all, your best friend has a right to do what he wants with whom he wants. I question his judgement of sleeping with someone so quickly, but it's his business. It ... (read in full...)

I can't get over my jealous feelings about his texting with his female best friend!

Q.   So today, I read my bf's text messages (he let me) between him and his girl best friend. They haven't talked for a few days, but I'm bothered. Keep in mind that he's not the person to really text, and when he does, it's short and to the point. ...

A.   17 July 2012: I pretty much agree with everything YouWish is saying, but with one fundamental difference. I really don't believe men and women can be best friends without the issue of sex or sexual attraction entering into it at some point. I am not saying your ... (read in full...)

Why is he texting me?

Q.   Hi all. Your opinions would be welcome. I recently split with my bf of over a year due to many problems,and trust issues. He told me i deserve more,and that he isn.t good enough for me. We had an argument,and he said he was going through the ...

A.   16 July 2012: I think possibly what OldBag was saying is that you caved in by going out with him and letting him wine, dine, and try to romance you. She is telling you that you need to know what your real intention is. Is your intention to get back together? ... (read in full...)

Why is he texting me?

Q.   Hi all. Your opinions would be welcome. I recently split with my bf of over a year due to many problems,and trust issues. He told me i deserve more,and that he isn.t good enough for me. We had an argument,and he said he was going through the ...

A.   16 July 2012: Plus, did you sit down and talk with him about all of the issues in your past relationship, or did you just let him shower you with food, wine, and compliments? Even if a relationship is still a possibility for you, you need to sit and discuss the ... (read in full...)

Why is he texting me?

Q.   Hi all. Your opinions would be welcome. I recently split with my bf of over a year due to many problems,and trust issues. He told me i deserve more,and that he isn.t good enough for me. We had an argument,and he said he was going through the ...

A.   16 July 2012: You need to decide if he is just a diversion in your life or if you really want to be with him. Sometimes we are bored and don't want to be alone, and we allow anyone in our lives so we don't have to be alone and bored. Any guy can come back, ... (read in full...)

He tells me he likes me but is constantly talking about another girl!

Q.   So me and this boy have been "best friends" for awhile now. He admitted that he used to like me but was to scared to do anything because he was unsure about how i felt. We hang out every now and then and I started to like him. When we hang out he's ...

A.   15 July 2012: It is hard to tell. The ball is in his court right now, or in other words, it is his move on how he wants to behave. The next thing I would want to know is if he likes you as a girlfriend or just a friend. It sounds like you may want more with ... (read in full...)

My wife cheated on me and is now worried that I'm cheating on her. Its causing a great deal of stress in our home

Q.   I had recently discovered that my wife of 12 years was having an affair for past one year. I confronted her with the evidence I had and she admitted it. She has promised to end the affair, which I presume she did, and work on marriage. I do not ...

A.   15 July 2012: If you want to work on the marriage then work on the marriage, but do not play games with your wife just to spite her. I know you have been hurt and deceived, but If you can't be mature and honest about this (because you are the one now being ... (read in full...)

He tells me he likes me but is constantly talking about another girl!

Q.   So me and this boy have been "best friends" for awhile now. He admitted that he used to like me but was to scared to do anything because he was unsure about how i felt. We hang out every now and then and I started to like him. When we hang out he's ...

A.   13 July 2012: Guys sometimes do this and have no clue that they are doing anything wrong. I would tell him that he seems to talk about this other girl a lot and it upsets you. See what he says. If he really likes you, he will try to eliminate talking about her ... (read in full...)

Why is he texting me?

Q.   Hi all. Your opinions would be welcome. I recently split with my bf of over a year due to many problems,and trust issues. He told me i deserve more,and that he isn.t good enough for me. We had an argument,and he said he was going through the ...

A.   10 July 2012: I have to admit that I think both of you are now playing games. Is all you want is him to act all sad and dejected like he has done something wrong, then go back to his normal behavior? Or, do you want a real relationship? If you want a ... (read in full...)

Why is he texting me?

Q.   Hi all. Your opinions would be welcome. I recently split with my bf of over a year due to many problems,and trust issues. He told me i deserve more,and that he isn.t good enough for me. We had an argument,and he said he was going through the ...

A.   30 June 2012: Good for you. I remember getting to the point where I thought my ex was lying to me all the time. He would say one thing and do the opposite, or I would observe him doing something totally different. Then would further make things up when he knew ... (read in full...)

Why is he texting me?

Q.   Hi all. Your opinions would be welcome. I recently split with my bf of over a year due to many problems,and trust issues. He told me i deserve more,and that he isn.t good enough for me. We had an argument,and he said he was going through the ...

A.   29 June 2012: You are welcome to come here anytime if you need someone to talk to. I remembere how terrible this was for me. Anytime he would contact me, it was such a temptation to want to make things work (in the back of my mind knowing that he would just do ... (read in full...)

Why is he texting me?

Q.   Hi all. Your opinions would be welcome. I recently split with my bf of over a year due to many problems,and trust issues. He told me i deserve more,and that he isn.t good enough for me. We had an argument,and he said he was going through the ...

A.   28 June 2012: You know him pretty well by now so you can probably answer that question for yourself. I know my ex would always pour on the charm when he thought I had had enough. Once he thought he was in the clear, he would go back to his old tricks again. ... (read in full...)

Why is he texting me?

Q.   Hi all. Your opinions would be welcome. I recently split with my bf of over a year due to many problems,and trust issues. He told me i deserve more,and that he isn.t good enough for me. We had an argument,and he said he was going through the ...

A.   24 June 2012: I think you should ask him directly what his motives are. You may not get a satisfactory answer, but you can at least ask and see what he says. If you want a long-term relationship, make that known. I honestly think some people do not know their ... (read in full...)

Why is he texting me?

Q.   Hi all. Your opinions would be welcome. I recently split with my bf of over a year due to many problems,and trust issues. He told me i deserve more,and that he isn.t good enough for me. We had an argument,and he said he was going through the ...

A.   23 June 2012: I don't not know why guys do this. I am not a believer of the men and women can be friends theory. Unless you're co-workers or some such thing where you don't have a lot of contact and really are just friends. But, with someone you have deeply ... (read in full...)

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