Why is he texting me?
Q. Hi all. Your opinions would be welcome. I recently split with my bf of over a year due to many problems,and trust issues. He told me i deserve more,and that he isn.t good enough for me. We had an argument,and he said he was going through the ...
A. 20 July 2012: Don't buy him anything and don't communicate with him. He is using you. Don't fall for it again.... (read in full...)
Why is he texting me?
Q. Hi all. Your opinions would be welcome. I recently split with my bf of over a year due to many problems,and trust issues. He told me i deserve more,and that he isn.t good enough for me. We had an argument,and he said he was going through the ...
A. 16 July 2012: I think possibly what OldBag was saying is that you caved in by going out with him and letting him wine, dine, and try to romance you. She is telling you that you need to know what your real intention is. Is your intention to get back together? ... (read in full...)
Why is he texting me?
Q. Hi all. Your opinions would be welcome. I recently split with my bf of over a year due to many problems,and trust issues. He told me i deserve more,and that he isn.t good enough for me. We had an argument,and he said he was going through the ...
A. 16 July 2012: Plus, did you sit down and talk with him about all of the issues in your past relationship, or did you just let him shower you with food, wine, and compliments? Even if a relationship is still a possibility for you, you need to sit and discuss the ... (read in full...)
Why is he texting me?
Q. Hi all. Your opinions would be welcome. I recently split with my bf of over a year due to many problems,and trust issues. He told me i deserve more,and that he isn.t good enough for me. We had an argument,and he said he was going through the ...
A. 16 July 2012: You need to decide if he is just a diversion in your life or if you really want to be with him. Sometimes we are bored and don't want to be alone, and we allow anyone in our lives so we don't have to be alone and bored. Any guy can come back, ... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity before I turn 22 in a month's time, but I do not want my first time to be horrible.
Q. Growing up I was taught to respect women, and to never use them. As I finally turned twenty one last year I realized something very sad, that I'm the last of a kind. The 21st century dating world is very different from what I was taught to live in. ...
A. 14 July 2012: Then go get your sex and forget about all of us normal women out here. Sounds to me like you wanted someone to argue with and/or stroke your ego to just go do what you want anyway.
I don't know why someone would spend this much time online g... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about where this thing is headed?
Q. I just recently started talking to a ex girlfriend of 6 years and everything was going fine for the first weeks, now we go days without talking. We decided when we first started talking again to take things slow, and i have asked her if anything is ...
A. 14 July 2012: I think some couples can go days without communicating, but I am not sure what kind of relationship this is. I am a big believer in daily communication even if it is just "Hi, how are you today, what are you doing, and I was thinking about you." I ... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity before I turn 22 in a month's time, but I do not want my first time to be horrible.
Q. Growing up I was taught to respect women, and to never use them. As I finally turned twenty one last year I realized something very sad, that I'm the last of a kind. The 21st century dating world is very different from what I was taught to live in. ...
A. 14 July 2012: While I don't want to be offensive, this is getting more pathetic by the minute. I'm 5'9" and have gone out with men my height or shorter. It's made absolutely no difference. I've changed my mind on this whole issue. I now think you should go ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about where this thing is headed?
Q. I just recently started talking to a ex girlfriend of 6 years and everything was going fine for the first weeks, now we go days without talking. We decided when we first started talking again to take things slow, and i have asked her if anything is ...
A. 13 July 2012: It has never been normal for me to go days without talking to a man I care about. However, she may be afraid of taking much intiative at this point in time or she may not completely trust you yet. I think girls can be very protective of themselves ... (read in full...)
After five years of being together, I don't love him anymore, and he can't let go. What should I do?
Q. I've been with this man 16 years older than me after I ended my marriage of 20 years. Five years on, I found him too old for me and he is not a caring person I've always wanted in my life. We live in separate home and he has been helpful around my ...
A. 13 July 2012: Neither of you will move on from this if you are still involved emotionally. The next time he calls, do not answer or call back. I know these things are difficult, but you must do them in order for both of you to let go.... (read in full...)
I've been married two years, and have nothing in common with my husband, not even sex.
Q. Hi there, im all new to this! I met my now husband 2yrs ago, we married year after we meet. We did get on well, but very quickly i found we hav nothin to talk about, we can go a whole evening without so much of an exchange of a single word, we ...
A. 12 July 2012: I am not sure of your question or what type of advice you want. I question why you married a man with whom you share no common interests. ... (read in full...)
I'm worried I'm insecure. Why does it bother me so much that other guys check her out?
Q. Well, where do I start? I have been dating my fiancé for 2 ½ years. Our relationships have grown and are getting married next year. Here’s the issue (s)..when we are out and are drinking, she becomes “flirty” and “wanders”. What I mean by wa...
A. 12 July 2012: I think you need to have a serious conversation with her if you haven't already. It's not just the alcohol...it's her behavior too. Alcohol just makes it easier to do what you want to do. I have never agreed with the philosophy that "I was drunk ... (read in full...)
I am so heartbroken that he uses porn when we are apart, how do I cope with it?
Q. i have a hard time making real friends. i dislike people who are fake. i prefer to not have friends at all if they aren't going to be honest with who they are because if they aren't, they won't be honest with me. i only have a few people in my life ...
A. 12 July 2012: I do not think you have to put your moral views aside and accept it, but you may have to get a new boyfriend. If it is hurting you, and he finds it more important then you are, I am sad to say that he may not be the right one for you. To me, this ... (read in full...)
My depression is really destroying my sex life. What can I do?
Q. Sex and depression, My depression is really destroying my sex life. I love him and want to get our spark back. I am attracted to him,It just doesn't feel the same as it used to. What can I do? [MODERATOR NOTE: Please specify why you are depresse...
A. 12 July 2012: Is your husband doing something to contribute to your depression? Are you feeling sad or disappointed in some aspect of your life? Upset with society or how people treat you? Nothing to look forward to in your life? Worried about bills, etc? No ... (read in full...)
My husband of 20 years left me for a sugar girl who is 24 years his junior. Any advice?
Q. my husband of 20 years left me for a girl that is 24 years younger than him. im new to the site but could use all the help i can get. im getting better each day. i still love him very much, and unfortunatly and am still in hopes that this ...
A. 12 July 2012: I am sorry you are going through this. I would also get a good attorney and be confident that he will get what he deserves in the end. She will likely get tired of him (if the money doesn't run out first) and will move on to someone else. Then he ... (read in full...)
Was my boyfriend right to be annoyed about this, or was he wrong?
Q. Was my boyfriend right to be annoyed about this, or was he wrong ?. He was supposed to meet me at my house on Tuesday afternoon and then we were going to go to his house, but he didn't turn up. I was tempted to go round to his house anyway, but i ...
A. 12 July 2012: If he wasn't well, the proper and considerate thing to do would have been to call and tell you/text you and say he wasn't feeling well. We can't always guess at what people are thinking and/or how they are feeling. He should not be mad at you ... (read in full...)
How do you know if you are just a hookup or a guy wants something more?
Q. How do you know if you are just a hookup or a guy wants something more? So I'm in college and from what I know about guys is if they just want a hookup, it usually after a drunk night and then the only time they want to talk to you is when you are ...
A. 12 July 2012: You know he actually likes you when you have spent a good deal of time with him, have gotten to know him and his values, and are a couple. I think girls/women often have sex with a guy too soon and thereby ruin their chances of actually developing ... (read in full...)
Is this marriage over or is this a phase?
Q. Hi, I am a bit confused as to where this is going and need some advise please. Your advise in the past has been really very helpful. I have been married abt 13 years and in the time my husband was always antisocial and controlling though in a very ...
A. 12 July 2012: I agree that it is good he is moving out. I think you have probably already tried to talk with him about this and it didn't work. With some men, especially the manipulative and controlling type, the only thing that really works is when they see ... (read in full...)
My boss stopped flirting and started masturbating!
Q. I have a problem with my boss. He is nearly 60 good looking, and very friendly. I got divorced 2 years ago and he was incredibly supportive allowing me time off when I needed it etc... In fact I always found him a brilliant and very caring man. He ...
A. 12 July 2012: That is why a lot of people have said you shouldn't have flirted back. When things go wrong between two people who are working together, especially in your case with a boss and underling, you have a very uncomfortable and awkward situation. There ... (read in full...)
Is this really the end? I need advice!
Q. I miss my ex boyfriend so much :( we split up about 7 weeks ago because we had an argument over how we weren't seeing each other enough just due to other commitments in life etc (mostly crap working hours). We attempted to stay friends but had a ...
A. 12 July 2012: I tried being friends with my ex too. That lasted all of about 1 week. I am sorry you are going through such pain. I know I did as well. I had to quit trying to analyze everything and life finally started moving forward. I know it is hard.... (read in full...)
I'm worried I'm insecure. Why does it bother me so much that other guys check her out?
Q. Well, where do I start? I have been dating my fiancé for 2 ½ years. Our relationships have grown and are getting married next year. Here’s the issue (s)..when we are out and are drinking, she becomes “flirty” and “wanders”. What I mean by wa...
A. 11 July 2012: Not to be disrespectful, but you are in your 40's and still go out drinking? I must be a stick-in-the-mud because I haven't been drinking in about 5 years at least. I do have drinks on occasion, but that is it. I don't like how I am when I drink ... (read in full...)
Should I move in with my b/f to ease family's fiancial burden?
Q. Hello all, I'm having a bit of a dispute here within myself and my family. My parents are very loving and caring people and I know they would do anything for me, but my mom is sick and the company my dad works for is slowly on the decline. My older ...
A. 11 July 2012: It may not be the best environment, but for now, I would continue to "live" at home and "stay" with your boyfriend on occasion. If things get bad at home, you can always go to your boyfriend's. The thing we are wanting you to do is think about ... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity before I turn 22 in a month's time, but I do not want my first time to be horrible.
Q. Growing up I was taught to respect women, and to never use them. As I finally turned twenty one last year I realized something very sad, that I'm the last of a kind. The 21st century dating world is very different from what I was taught to live in. ...
A. 11 July 2012: I am not a man, but I don't think with this question it really makes a difference. What is sad is that you are considering losing your virginity in a thoughtless and irresponsible way. I could better understand your feelings if you were 60 or ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong to honey trap my now ex, especially as he went for it hook line and sinker?
Q. Was I wrong to honey trap my now ex, especially as he went for it hook line and sinker?? We had been dating for a few months when he went suddenly distant, and reactivated his dating profile (he's on my favourites list so I get notifications of...
A. 11 July 2012: I think it was wrong, but what's done is done and you can't go back. You could have told him you noticed the distance and wondered what was wrong, but that is no guarantee he would have been honest. You did what you thought had to do to find out ... (read in full...)
Is this really the end? I need advice!
Q. I miss my ex boyfriend so much :( we split up about 7 weeks ago because we had an argument over how we weren't seeing each other enough just due to other commitments in life etc (mostly crap working hours). We attempted to stay friends but had a ...
A. 11 July 2012: One more note. If you do try again, you are going to have to apologize and see things from his view. He is working to pay off debt, he is working so his future is brighter, etc. You must tell him you understand that. I am not sure he will come ... (read in full...)
Is this really the end? I need advice!
Q. I miss my ex boyfriend so much :( we split up about 7 weeks ago because we had an argument over how we weren't seeing each other enough just due to other commitments in life etc (mostly crap working hours). We attempted to stay friends but had a ...
A. 11 July 2012: Actually, I think if your boyfriend is working to pay down his debts, you just let go of a good thing. I know it is not what you wanted, but the man has debts, he is hardworking, and he wants to pay them down. You are lucky you got to sleep with ... (read in full...)
Should I move in with my b/f to ease family's fiancial burden?
Q. Hello all, I'm having a bit of a dispute here within myself and my family. My parents are very loving and caring people and I know they would do anything for me, but my mom is sick and the company my dad works for is slowly on the decline. My older ...
A. 11 July 2012: So let me get this straight. If your family is starving because they can't afford food, you are just going to run off with your boyfriend to be in a more positive environment? Let's hope that if/when you have your own life/family you do not fall ... (read in full...)
B/f seems to have more time for neighbors than me! How do I stop being so available?
Q. I have been with the same man for almost 4 years, we're together every other weekend, one night during the week and every Sunday evening. We talk almost every evening, but that's usually because I'm the caller. Over the last year my texts go ...
A. 11 July 2012: I know the words are painful as I had to endure that myself. I never really thought of coming online to get advice when I was in my situation, and even if I would have, I think it was a process with my ex that I needed to work through myself. I ... (read in full...)
Should I let the relationship go to protect my heart? I'm really confused.
Q. I have been best friends with my (ex) fiance for almost 10 years, dating in a long distant relationship for a year and a half and engaged for almost 6 months. We recently took a vacation together and he was on his phone and tablet the whole time, ...
A. 11 July 2012: He is playing a game with you. If he is serious about you, HIS stuff is also YOUR stuff...particulary when it comes to him possibly texting/seeing other women. What he is doing is wrong. If he is working on the husband you need him to be...why ... (read in full...)
Should I move in with my b/f to ease family's fiancial burden?
Q. Hello all, I'm having a bit of a dispute here within myself and my family. My parents are very loving and caring people and I know they would do anything for me, but my mom is sick and the company my dad works for is slowly on the decline. My older ...
A. 11 July 2012: I would be very careful about moving in with a boyfriend at this stage in your life. I know you love him, but a lot of things can change when two people move in together. Are you ready for those things? Are you ready to pay all of your own ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so weird about him?
Q. Its like when were not together i really want to be with him and then when we are together I really don't and I'd rather be everywhere else and partying and with my friends. Sometimes I get this weird feeling and wonder why I'm even with him an...
A. 11 July 2012: This is normal and I wouldn't worry about it. In real relationships people do not have that happy/lovey/ exhilirating feeling 24 hours a day 7 days a week. Some days are just normal/low-key days. Besides the fact that you are still young, so you ... (read in full...)
How do you get over someone that you have never been with and never will be with?
Q. How do you get over someone who you have never been with? I need help desperately, as i feel happy whenever this person is around, yet i have never been with them, and i know i never will. Please help. x...
A. 11 July 2012: I will tell you a little story. When I was in high school, I was desperately in love with my 10th grade English teacher. He was smart, he travelled a lot, he was handsome, and I looked forward to being in his class every single day. I thought ... (read in full...)
Why do I keep thinking of my ex when I'm with someone else?
Q. I love my current boyfriend very much and we have so much in common. We both want the same out of life and well we just have the same wants as in marriage, kids, house in a nice area, even same colour decor for the house and all that kinda ...
A. 11 July 2012: I think sometimes we tend to obsess over things we have never resolved. We wonder what life would have been like with the other guy if things would have worked out. Or, it could be that you felt a stronger connection to the other guy and wish you ... (read in full...)
B/f seems to have more time for neighbors than me! How do I stop being so available?
Q. I have been with the same man for almost 4 years, we're together every other weekend, one night during the week and every Sunday evening. We talk almost every evening, but that's usually because I'm the caller. Over the last year my texts go ...
A. 11 July 2012: When you are in a relationship with someone, it is normal that you expect them to call to see how you are, ask you to do things, and be thoughtful. If a parter isn't doing that, he isn't that interested. Like Tisha, I too had a boyfriend like ... (read in full...)
Is it acceptable to ask certain family and friends to give us a wedding service as a gift instead of cash?
Q. Both my fiance and I have larger than comfortable families and quite a few mutual, and otherwise, friends. However, we have a VERY tight budget (strictly $3000 here; plus or minus a couple hundred). We don't want to compromise our guest list even ...
A. 10 July 2012: By asking family and friends to pay for a wedding service, you are indirectly asking them to pay for the open bar. An open bar isn't absolutely necessary when you do not have the extra money to provide it. If family members would enjoy it, then ... (read in full...)
Is this really the end? I need advice!
Q. I miss my ex boyfriend so much :( we split up about 7 weeks ago because we had an argument over how we weren't seeing each other enough just due to other commitments in life etc (mostly crap working hours). We attempted to stay friends but had a ...
A. 10 July 2012: First: You broke up because not enough time was being devoted to the relationship and apparently no one wanted to fix this. Is this true? Because near the end of your post you say that you were spending 3-4 nights together. That is quite a bit ... (read in full...)
He is still with his girlfriend so why is he calling me, and why is it important for us to communicate?
Q. In need of help Please. Me and my ex of six year broke it off five months ago. (lived together for five years) Shortly after the break up he entered a new relationship. I was hurt to the core knowing that he moved on so quickly. I didn't have ...
A. 10 July 2012: First, you cannot have contact with him because all of the old feelings will still be there and you will expect things to be the same. Men and women cannot be friends if they have had a relationship. They just can't. Guys will often use this line ... (read in full...)
Why is he texting me?
Q. Hi all. Your opinions would be welcome. I recently split with my bf of over a year due to many problems,and trust issues. He told me i deserve more,and that he isn.t good enough for me. We had an argument,and he said he was going through the ...
A. 10 July 2012: I have to admit that I think both of you are now playing games. Is all you want is him to act all sad and dejected like he has done something wrong, then go back to his normal behavior? Or, do you want a real relationship? If you want a ... (read in full...)
It's hard to be half a planet away from somebody, especially when you're aching to be in their arms.
Q. After talking for 6 months to the same man online, admittedly "love" eachother and talking almost daily when given the chance I'm still confused. Maybe it's because I've never been in a LDR. This is easier than it should be but also more difficult. ...
A. 10 July 2012: Have you met this man? Have you talked about plans for the future? It is very hard to develop an intimate relationship that is real if you have never met the man in person. You have not been with him in real life and so do not know what his ... (read in full...)
If things are going great in a relationship, what is a reasonable amount of time to expect a marriage proposal?
Q. If things are going great in a relationship, what is a reasonable amount of time to expect a marriage proposal? We are both in mid thirties, been together going on 2 years. When is it time to walk away in search of finding someone who will wanna get ...
A. 10 July 2012: I think if you are interested in marriage then talk with your partner about this to see what his thoughts are. If you are interested and he is not, or if you try to address this several times with him and he puts you off, then it is probably time ... (read in full...)
How do you stand the pain of separation in an LDR?
Q. So my boyfriend is going to the east coast to finish up his schooling and I'm staying on the west coast because he's a school year older than I am. We are going to do the long distance thing for sure. But I'm just wondering, how do you stand the ...
A. 10 July 2012: It is very hard, but it can work if both of you want it to. Make sure you try to schedule at least one or two times to visit in the fall. Sometimes this cannot be done, but you can try. Make sure you plan to see one another around ... (read in full...)
Will I always be crushing on someone no matter how much I love my boyfriend?
Q. Hey peoples. So I'm in a serious relationship with my boyfriend, I love him to bits. However, I find myself attracted to my other guy friends and I think I'm developing crushes. Just out of curiosity does this happen to anyone else besides me? Will ...
A. 10 July 2012: If you genuinely loved your boyfriend, you would not be taking an interest in other guys. Love is pretty much an all-consuming thing, especially initially. I think you need to take a step back from the relationship with your boyfriend and think ... (read in full...)
I'm confused about a guy abroad...
Q. i have known this guy who is a year younger than me through an online chat site. He's not in the same country as me but we've talked and all for more than a couple of years now. Ive been in a relationship with someone from my own country during this ...
A. 10 July 2012: Sometimes there is not a nice way to say something, it just comes out as the facts. I am glad you did not take it that we were trying to hurt you. We are just trying to help you see your situation more clearly. I know it is not always pleasant ... (read in full...)
I need advice, I feel stuck in this relationship!
Q. i am a 58 yr old black female living with a 53yr old black male.we have had our ups and downs,i first moved in with him, and we lived together for 7mos.we just recently moved back in together been here for 3months now,i feel that our relationship is ...
A. 10 July 2012: I know what you mean about trying to be positive and do positive things, then he treats you in an inconsiderate way and takes two steps back. You are not alone in experiencing this kind of treatment. Actually, this is pretty much all I am used to, ... (read in full...)
Pregnant by an abusive drug addict! Help!!!
Q. OK1 Here is goes! I am pregnant with a guy who is verbally abusive. He accuses me of sleeping with my neighbor who is gay. He looks at pictures I have sent him and see'sguys arms and condoms on my counter. He calls me every namein thebook you can ...
A. 10 July 2012: I have so many questions I am not sure where to start.
First, are you married to this man? If no, why are you continuing to answer his calls and texts? The first rule of thumb for getting out of an abusive relationship is to maintain no contact.... (read in full...)
I need advice, I feel stuck in this relationship!
Q. i am a 58 yr old black female living with a 53yr old black male.we have had our ups and downs,i first moved in with him, and we lived together for 7mos.we just recently moved back in together been here for 3months now,i feel that our relationship is ...
A. 10 July 2012: A good man is not going to expect you to pay all of his bills, and he is not going to argue with you if you are sometimes short. Also, a good man is not going to insult you by telling you he has a ring and intends to marry you but then never does ... (read in full...)
Why are my co-workers encouraging this co-worker to pursue me? I find it so disrespectful.
Q. Coworkers are making us an item and it makes me angry! I've been working at a cafe for two months. My guy coworker (coworker #1) has been there longer. At first he seemed nice so we chatted at work as friends but he became more and more anno...
A. 10 July 2012: Co-workers sometimes have a way of meddling where they should not meddle. I would simply look your guy co-worker straight in the eye and say, "I do not want any trouble between us as I like my job and want to keep it, but if you continue to be rude ... (read in full...)
How do I make this awful feeling go away?
Q. I have been dating a man for about 6 months, we were friends for 6 months before that. He lived with a woman for 15-17 years before we meet, (they broke up 1 year before we started dating) At some point they became engaged. I do not know much ...
A. 10 July 2012: Aside of that, I disagree that you should bring it up in light conversation and say that you are there for him. Being in a mature relationship means that you are going to address issues in an open and honest way. Not bring it up in light ... (read in full...)
How do I make this awful feeling go away?
Q. I have been dating a man for about 6 months, we were friends for 6 months before that. He lived with a woman for 15-17 years before we meet, (they broke up 1 year before we started dating) At some point they became engaged. I do not know much ...
A. 10 July 2012: You have every right to ask those questions, and if he is serious about the proposal, he will answer them. It is not prying or being insecure. It is wanting simple answers to simple questions that he should be willing to discuss with you. If he ... (read in full...)
I'm confused about a guy abroad...
Q. i have known this guy who is a year younger than me through an online chat site. He's not in the same country as me but we've talked and all for more than a couple of years now. Ive been in a relationship with someone from my own country during this ...
A. 9 July 2012: You do not know this man, you have not observed him in real life, you do not know his habits, his behaviors, or whether he is honest and trustworthy. All you know is what he has told you online. Why would you possibly believe someone loves you ... (read in full...)
My boss stopped flirting and started masturbating!
Q. I have a problem with my boss. He is nearly 60 good looking, and very friendly. I got divorced 2 years ago and he was incredibly supportive allowing me time off when I needed it etc... In fact I always found him a brilliant and very caring man. He ...
A. 8 July 2012: Also, I would not talk to him and tell him you are sorry if he got the wrong impression. The point is, both of you have already engaged in unprofessional behavior. No further talking about anything of a personal nature...only professional. If he ... (read in full...)
My boss stopped flirting and started masturbating!
Q. I have a problem with my boss. He is nearly 60 good looking, and very friendly. I got divorced 2 years ago and he was incredibly supportive allowing me time off when I needed it etc... In fact I always found him a brilliant and very caring man. He ...
A. 8 July 2012: Abella says it all very well. Do not flirt with this man anymore, keep your distance, and be completely professional. I would also document any meetings or encounters (in office, in the hall, or otherwise), what he says, what you say, etc. If he ... (read in full...)
Why is he texting me?
Q. Hi all. Your opinions would be welcome. I recently split with my bf of over a year due to many problems,and trust issues. He told me i deserve more,and that he isn.t good enough for me. We had an argument,and he said he was going through the ...
A. 30 June 2012: Good for you. I remember getting to the point where I thought my ex was lying to me all the time. He would say one thing and do the opposite, or I would observe him doing something totally different. Then would further make things up when he knew ... (read in full...)
Why is he texting me?
Q. Hi all. Your opinions would be welcome. I recently split with my bf of over a year due to many problems,and trust issues. He told me i deserve more,and that he isn.t good enough for me. We had an argument,and he said he was going through the ...
A. 29 June 2012: You are welcome to come here anytime if you need someone to talk to. I remembere how terrible this was for me. Anytime he would contact me, it was such a temptation to want to make things work (in the back of my mind knowing that he would just do ... (read in full...)
Why is he texting me?
Q. Hi all. Your opinions would be welcome. I recently split with my bf of over a year due to many problems,and trust issues. He told me i deserve more,and that he isn.t good enough for me. We had an argument,and he said he was going through the ...
A. 28 June 2012: You know him pretty well by now so you can probably answer that question for yourself. I know my ex would always pour on the charm when he thought I had had enough. Once he thought he was in the clear, he would go back to his old tricks again. ... (read in full...)
Why is he texting me?
Q. Hi all. Your opinions would be welcome. I recently split with my bf of over a year due to many problems,and trust issues. He told me i deserve more,and that he isn.t good enough for me. We had an argument,and he said he was going through the ...
A. 24 June 2012: I think you should ask him directly what his motives are. You may not get a satisfactory answer, but you can at least ask and see what he says. If you want a long-term relationship, make that known. I honestly think some people do not know their ... (read in full...)
Why is he texting me?
Q. Hi all. Your opinions would be welcome. I recently split with my bf of over a year due to many problems,and trust issues. He told me i deserve more,and that he isn.t good enough for me. We had an argument,and he said he was going through the ...
A. 23 June 2012: I don't not know why guys do this. I am not a believer of the men and women can be friends theory. Unless you're co-workers or some such thing where you don't have a lot of contact and really are just friends. But, with someone you have deeply ... (read in full...)
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