I slept with my fiance's dad!
Q. I slept with my fiance's dad. Yes, I know what I did was wrong but I was very drunk at the time. Very, very drunk. My boyfriend was away on a training course at the time. I found out I was pregnant by his dad a few weeks ago. I feel a bit g...
A. 7 July 2009: High 5 Anonymous male and Q! :)... (read in full...)
Sex has no spice!
Q. i am in a gay committed relationship with my boyfriend and he says he loves me but the sex has gotten no taste and just wanted to know how i could spice it up and prevent him from leaving me cuz i am really in love with him for three years and wqant ...
A. 6 July 2009: take him out on a romantic date and then surprise him at home with whatever he likes (candles,music or whatever he's into.)... (read in full...)
Is it okay for a 26 year old to fall for someone who is 16?
Q. I'm a 26 year old female and I am falling for a 16 year old male. I don't know if this is ok or not. I feel so lost and torn. I want to tell him that I love him and I think about him all the time, but I'm afraid to. I don't want him to feel like I'm ...
A. 6 July 2009: As I understood from my law classes in Canada, you can give consent to someone who is also a minor, but 16 + but it is illegal for someone who is 16 to have a sexual relationship with someone who is the age of majority or older or someone who is in ... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriend have an STD?
Q. My boyfriend has white bumps that lead to his penis. They stop at his penis and don't go any further then that. It is very red around that area. Although he has this, I don't have it? I have inspected myself and so has he. So I'm very confused...
A. 6 July 2009: "If the bumps on penis are small, painless, raised, white or pale pink spots or bumps that appear on the shaft of the penis, they are not known to be associated with any disease or illness and are of cosmetic concern only. They are non-infectious ... (read in full...)
Is it okay for a 26 year old to fall for someone who is 16?
Q. I'm a 26 year old female and I am falling for a 16 year old male. I don't know if this is ok or not. I feel so lost and torn. I want to tell him that I love him and I think about him all the time, but I'm afraid to. I don't want him to feel like I'm ...
A. 6 July 2009: Generally, males tend to be attracted to younger females.. but it's not wrong because it's not the "normal".
If, however, you two are uncomfortable in public and in social situations together, you won't have much of a relationship together. ... (read in full...)
I slept with my fiance's dad!
Q. I slept with my fiance's dad. Yes, I know what I did was wrong but I was very drunk at the time. Very, very drunk. My boyfriend was away on a training course at the time. I found out I was pregnant by his dad a few weeks ago. I feel a bit g...
A. 6 July 2009: If your boyfriend is smart (and good at math) he'll figure out that the baby isn't his anyway, because he was away on course.. especially if you two use contraception. Don't let the "pro-life" people tell you that you can't do something. Don't let ... (read in full...)
I thought my husband was working in a call centre or factory...but he is a lap dancer in a gay club!
Q. I found out off a long-time family friend (male) of ours, who's a taxi-driver, about my husband's nightshift job. We've been married for 3 months now. I am aware that my husband worked nights, he changed job to a nightshift one a year-and-a-ha...
A. 4 July 2009: This is so surreal it almost seems fake..... (read in full...)
Any ideas on how to afford the wedding of my dreams?
Q. I'm a young women (22) who has in fact found the love of my life. I'm sitting here watching some wedding show. I have a single mother who lives off a fixed income. My love's parents aren't well off but have every thing they need. I have no idea how ...
A. 4 July 2009: My entrepreneurship class in high school let me in on a secret. If you can, take 10 % of your paycheque and put it in a seperate account that has minimal access. ... (read in full...)
Can tampons break my hymen?
Q. can i break my hymen by inserting a tampon? i want to beak it. im a virgin and have never used tampons. but i dont know if its already broken......
A. 4 July 2009: http://mynaturalsciences.blogspot.com/2008/03/hymen-ology.html... (read in full...)
I need your advice bad!!! My boyfriend got another girl pregnant, what should I do?
Q. Alright, well this is going to be long, but here it goes. A couple of days ago my boyfriend confessed that he indeed cheated on me with a girl and that she is claiming now that she is pregnant with his baby. The girl he cheated on me with was with ...
A. 29 June 2009: Well, if the loser thinks that sex is the most important thing in the relationship then just let him go. Let it be a lesson learned that you should never pay for EVERYTHING in a relationship. It should go both ways, regardless of the amounts of ... (read in full...)
Lesbian sex does not feel that good to me... is something wrong?
Q. okay... I am bisexual and i have a girlfriend, I stayed the night with her last night and we had sex. i am a virgin when it comes to guys and it was my first time having sex with a girl. i gave her oral and she liked it... then she gave me oral but ...
A. 28 June 2009: doesn't sound like there's anything wrong.. just sounds like any other girls first time, gay or not. It takes a while to understand what you like and how you want it. Just relax, you'll figure it out in time.... (read in full...)
I need your advice bad!!! My boyfriend got another girl pregnant, what should I do?
Q. Alright, well this is going to be long, but here it goes. A couple of days ago my boyfriend confessed that he indeed cheated on me with a girl and that she is claiming now that she is pregnant with his baby. The girl he cheated on me with was with ...
A. 28 June 2009: dump him... (read in full...)
Penis size: Small, big, or average?
Q. im 13 and im worried if my penis is average for my age or under average it 3-4 inches flop and on eceration its 5-6 inches is this average or below average or over average...
A. 28 June 2009: it's average. Don't sweat it, you're only young.... (read in full...)
Did I have a miscarriage or is this a side affect from the pill?
Q. About 2 months ago i had sex, it was protected and we are sure the condom didnt break. Afterwards my period came slightly late by 5 days. (which is normal after i had sex) and i then went onto the pill during this period. Im on the placebo break, ...
A. 28 June 2009: I think that if you had a miscarriage then the fetus wouldnt come out in one peice.. and I'm pretty sure that the embryo or whatever stage it's at wouldn't resemble a child in the least at two months. You might want to check with your doctor though.... (read in full...)
Should I get my nipples pierced?
Q. My boyfriend wants me to get my nipples pierced. I think it might be kind of sexy and am interested in getting it done. I'm a 34 DD (natural--no surgery). Does anyone know if it hurts a lot? Will my bra cover the nipple rings or will it be ...
A. 27 June 2009: haha do it! body mutilation is always best when it's being pressured by a loved one! ... (read in full...)
My husband is addicted to DearCupid and is an aunt on this site. How do I bring this up to him?
Q. Hi everyone. Late at night my husband gets out of bed. His sleep has been getting worse. I'm a pretty deep sleeper, so I don't ever get up to check on him when he goes downstairs at night. All I know is that he gets up around one in the morning and ...
A. 27 June 2009: oh my, the irony is unsettling. super creative! A1!... (read in full...)
What does FWB entail?
Q. Hey Im 16 and the girl i like asked if i wanted to be her friend with benefits what does this entail? I have never had sex before and i know she has had a fair bit....
A. 27 June 2009: it means you have all the sexual contact like you would in a relationship but there isn't any commitment, so you can have multiple partners.... (read in full...)
He tells me "Why do you always start talking crazy?"
Q. I've written about this guy a coupe of times. We've still been hanging out. I text him last night saying, would u wanna hang out tomorrow night? He didn't reply back,so i get mad.I text him back again saying,what's wrong,if u don't wanna hang out ...
A. 26 June 2009: it means that he's wondering why you're getting all weird with him and accusing him of things because he doesn't respond right away. he probably couldnt get to his phone right away to respond or he was doing something else at that point in time or ... (read in full...)
Was my b/f just venting to a friend, or should I be worried?
Q. Hi hoping for some good advice. I am a divorced mum of three and have been dating what i thought was a fab guy for nearly 12 months. I have been planning a surprise for him and wanted to ask his friend what he thought would be the best thing to ge...
A. 26 June 2009: I know how devastated you must be. I personally would end it right away. I like my guy to be the same person no matter who he is around.. and I would not want him to be mentioning my friends as doable to anyone. I would tell him why you went into ... (read in full...)
I wrote these lyrics... opinions, please!
Q. Heya i come on this site a lot and i know this isn't the regular question asked but i thought some of you guys would give me your honest opinion. I just would like some people to read this song i wrote- i've won a couple of lyrics competitions and ...
A. 26 June 2009: Sorry! I'm a big fan of structure and having things put in their right place! durrrrrrrrrrrrr. (:... (read in full...)
She's really pissed off at me! Was my joke a bit harsh?
Q. Kay my friend is going to sound like a skank but please dont trash her cause I will report you!! Well my friend decided to cheat on her boyfriend for some reason with some random guy she met at a party. They had sex without using anything. She th...
A. 26 June 2009: Uh, yeah.. You were completely inappropriate. If I had a friend I confided in and was looking to for guidance and suggestions who suggested this I would have reacted the same way.. not to mention she's pregnant and her hormones are raging. You're ... (read in full...)
How can we make sex more pleasurable?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having sex for over 7 months quite a number of times and I have never reached an orgasm and feel limited pleasure. When I do feel pleasure my boyfriend says he wants me to try and let out noises because he says it would ...
A. 26 June 2009: Vibrating condoms, A match made in heaven! :)... (read in full...)
I wrote these lyrics... opinions, please!
Q. Heya i come on this site a lot and i know this isn't the regular question asked but i thought some of you guys would give me your honest opinion. I just would like some people to read this song i wrote- i've won a couple of lyrics competitions and ...
A. 26 June 2009: As good as your lyrics are, you can't tell me that you didn't have to click on this "Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help! " to put this question in here..
I'm not sure this is the site you're looking for.... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant.....what should I do?
Q. I dating this guy for more then one year and now I decided to end it because its a dead end, I found out Im pregnant. He says he wants me to do an abortion, knowing the risks of abortions I wanted to keep it, but since we found out he's been ...
A. 26 June 2009: I don't know what you should do either, because for every situation like this there is always more to it. Not knowing every circumstance of yours, I can't tell you which decision you should make but I do want to let you know that you should never ... (read in full...)
He says he's too big
Q. me and my boyfriend tried having sex for the first time except it didnt work. hes trying to tell me his dick is to big for my hole. i dont believe him. should i? im also afraid after haveing sex for the first time our relationship wil...
A. 25 June 2009: Is his dick bigger than a baby? I didn't think so. Guys can get all pompous about shit like that, it's actually really lame of them to do so. If he can't fit it in then it's more than likely that you have vagismus, a condition in which the pelvic ... (read in full...)
Could seeing me make him more depressed and lonely?
Q. My ex boyfriend has been really depressed and lonely after us breaking up. He asked me to see him and be in his life in some way, but I refused because I couldn't handle seeing him not as my boyfriend. After two months later from the breakup, I took ...
A. 24 June 2009: Sounds like rebound.. I know it hurts but try not to focus on it too much. Instead, concentrate on how he was a stand-up guy and let you know what happened. He sounds like he is honest, and that is something to really value in a relationship. Lots ... (read in full...)
He masturbates to my cousin's naked pics! I'm so angry about this..am I over reacting?
Q. I have a 20 year old cousin who works as a model. Recently I found my husband keeps naked pictures of her in his sock drawer. We see her at family gatherings and I'm scared he will want to have an affair with her. She flirts a lot with him but ...
A. 24 June 2009: Question- How did he get naked pictures of your cousin? Is she a nude model?... (read in full...)
He broke up with me because he loves me too much and is afraid I'm going to hurt him?
Q. I need some advice. My boyfriend of 2 months broke up with me the other day because he was scared that I would hurt him and that he was too in love with me. He races motocross so we hardly ever get to see one another. Anyways, he told me that he ...
A. 24 June 2009: I'd let go.. it seems like he's really not that into the relationship. He gave you like 3 completely different and not to mention rediculous. They basically said "It's not you, it's me". Dear, you can do a lot better.. ... (read in full...)
Has he been using me for sex all this time?
Q. I've known this guy since middle school. I'm sixteen and so is he. We've had sex eight times without protection, which I now realize was very stupid. I've been stupid and so has he. A couple of days ago I had a pregnancy scare. Luckily, I ended up ...
A. 24 June 2009: You could explain to him how you're feeling..like you're only around because you two have sex together. You love him, right? Well if he loves you he'd go from being your friends with benefits to a couple. ( I'm assuming that's what you want? ) You ... (read in full...)
He says if I don't sleep with him, he won't help with our children
Q. heres the story: about 5 months ago my live-in boyfriend of 5 years left me. He instantly had a gf (which leads me to believe he was seeing her before the break up, altho he denies it) anyway, we keep in touch bc we have to, as we have children ...
A. 22 June 2009: bring him to court, you'll get a paycheque every month. You don't NEED him around. There are so many daycares out there that are geared toward low income families. You should look into something like that, or find a cheap babysitter. It's not that ... (read in full...)
Why can't I go through with a potentially rewarding one night stand?
Q. I am a university student recently out of a two year relationship and have since found that after meeting girls on nights out and kissing I am not in the mood for sex when we get to the bedroom and I have to turn them down. I am happy being single ...
A. 22 June 2009: Perhaps you need that emotional attachment to someone before you can have sex with them. It makes sense, you just don't usually find that in a guy. I know lots of ladies who would die for a guy like you. Enjoy your gift! :)... (read in full...)
He's afraid to get married!
Q. I really need someone to help me on this. My boyfriend is affraid to get married due to his aunt uncle grandmother dad and cousin all first not lasting. Plz help and tell me what i can do to help him get over that fear....
A. 22 June 2009: Ask oldersister is absolutely correct. Just wait until he is ready, if you rush him or pressure him it will either drive him away, or you'll get married and he will resent you for it and the marriage will fail. Just give him time. No need to rush :)... (read in full...)
Why don't men get it?
Q. Why dont men understand? If men were the ones who had the babies and their bodies stretched and scarred how would they feel if their women were masturbating over buffed men 20 years younger than them...? I still don't get how men seem to think ...
A. 21 June 2009: Because you enjoy watching something doesn't make you an addict. It's like a television show, people get "addicted" to them, but it's not a real addiction, it's them wanting to watch something because they like it, and not stopping because other ... (read in full...)
Romantic ideas for my boyfriend? please
Q. Im a bit stuck, i've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now and he does cute nice romantic things for me all the time... He sends me lovely texts, rings me till i fall asleep every night, buys me little presents randomly, you know that sort of ...
A. 21 June 2009: I think guys enjoy the little things more, like if he has a favourite drink or something then when you go over to his place you can bring him one, or his favourite chocolate bar. Everytime I came home from work and went to my man's place i'd stop at ... (read in full...)
Is it time to leave if you watch porn, even if your wife is willing to make love?
Q. is it normal for married men to watch love making videos on the internet? espeically when they don't make love to their wifes that offten. even if the wife is willing to make love. would you say it is time to leave them? troubled,...
A. 19 June 2009: I don't know.. do you love your wife?... (read in full...)
Living together is a nightmare! I feel too young to be bogged down with all this
Q. Basically this is a rant and a rave about my boyfriend cos hes pissing me off lately. I'm 19 years old and never lived away from home until three months ago when i moved in with my boyfriend. It was a totally irrational decision and wasnt though...
A. 19 June 2009: You should print off your post and give it to him. You need a job, it's not fair for him to be paying for you, but then again it's not your fault he's wasting all his money on pointless crap. You should help a little bit, but as long as he promises ... (read in full...)
Is this a light period? Or could it be pregnancy?
Q. Hi all, i'm new on here and would be grateful if you could give me advice or anyone who have experienced similar problems. I'm 21 in a relationship and have been ttc for nearly 1 year now! My last period was 15.05.09 with a cycle of 28 days...
A. 19 June 2009: Have you been having unprotected sex?... (read in full...)
Why don't men get it?
Q. Why dont men understand? If men were the ones who had the babies and their bodies stretched and scarred how would they feel if their women were masturbating over buffed men 20 years younger than them...? I still don't get how men seem to think ...
A. 19 June 2009: I don't think that it's fair to call the females who don't mind porn insecure and problematic. I don't mind porn, it doesn't bother me. My boyfriend doesn't really care about watching it too much but I certainly don't mind when he does. I like to ... (read in full...)
Summer vacations going to suck for me
Q. Aunties, My girlfriend of 7 months (Yes, i'll keep saying this) has been contemplating breaking up with me over for the summer and has openly admitted it to my face. This breaks my heart so much, but I understand why. She's used to freedom an...
A. 19 June 2009: Violence doesn't solve much. I think you should call 9-1-1 on the creep and get a restraining order, unless she has instructed him to come around..or she tells him where she constantly is. (Facebook is the devil, I swear) Honestly? Break up with the ... (read in full...)
Why are my periods suddenly different?
Q. Hey guys. Just wanting any advice really. I am on Microgynon pill and have been for about 4 years from the age of 17. My periods usually come like clockwork, usually quite heavy and suffer badly from period pains. My last two periods have been ...
A. 16 June 2009: If you've missed a pill or didn't take one at the right time then you could be pregnant, it sounds typical of that.... (read in full...)
Mom at 12! Pregnant again at 13!
Q. ok so i was 12 when i got pregnant with my first set of twins and now im 13 and my boyfriend the father of my last set of twins got me pregnant again and its twins again they will only be 11 months apart and im only 13. What am i supposed to do? I ...
A. 16 June 2009: Sorry to hear about the miscarriage. The stress of the situation probably didn't help, but honestly as sad as it is, it was probably for the best. You should really stop having children this young, live while you can because you're going to miss all ... (read in full...)
Mom at 12! Pregnant again at 13!
Q. ok so i was 12 when i got pregnant with my first set of twins and now im 13 and my boyfriend the father of my last set of twins got me pregnant again and its twins again they will only be 11 months apart and im only 13. What am i supposed to do? I ...
A. 16 June 2009: Are you insane? That's way too much for you to handle. You need to stop now. I'm sure your mom won't be impressed. It's not likely you'll be with your current boyfriend for the rest of your life; we change so much throughout our teenage years, ... (read in full...)
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