Mom at 12! Pregnant again at 13!
Q. ok so i was 12 when i got pregnant with my first set of twins and now im 13 and my boyfriend the father of my last set of twins got me pregnant again and its twins again they will only be 11 months apart and im only 13. What am i supposed to do? I ...
A. 16 June 2009: Sorry to hear about the miscarriage. The stress of the situation probably didn't help, but honestly as sad as it is, it was probably for the best. You should really stop having children this young, live while you can because you're going to miss all ... (read in full...)
Mom at 12! Pregnant again at 13!
Q. ok so i was 12 when i got pregnant with my first set of twins and now im 13 and my boyfriend the father of my last set of twins got me pregnant again and its twins again they will only be 11 months apart and im only 13. What am i supposed to do? I ...
A. 16 June 2009: Are you insane? That's way too much for you to handle. You need to stop now. I'm sure your mom won't be impressed. It's not likely you'll be with your current boyfriend for the rest of your life; we change so much throughout our teenage years, ... (read in full...)
Should I call her? Or just write a note?
Q. Well, I gave this girl I like two notes, she didn't respond to any of them, and then I started shouting "DEVIN I LOVE YOU!" in hallways, and she told a teacher 'cause kids were teasing her about it and she was really upset. I feel really bad about ...
A. 13 June 2009: You should back off.. big time. No girl wants to be shouted at, even if you're telling her you love her. And no girl wants a stranger telling them theyre in love with them, especially in a crowded hallway, with a raised voice. You need to tone it ... (read in full...)
I like to smell my boxer the morning after I've jerked off
Q. when i pleasure myself in my bed at night i always let it come out into my boxxers, then fall asleep, it dry's over night. But in the morning i cant help but take them off and smell where the cum has dried and where my penis has been alnight, it ...
A. 13 June 2009: i'm....not sure if this is a real question or not. That doesn't mean you're gay.. it just means you're really into yourself..... (read in full...)
Hubby cheating..I'm cheating..now what?
Q. can somone give me some advice. im 31 and i have been married for the last 5 years. lately my husband doesnt want to have sex with me. i think he has another woman back in his country. last month my husband went back to vietnam. one morning i was ...
A. 12 June 2009: divorce your husband if you can't be faithful to him. being cheated on doesn't justify cheating. or you could tell him and try couples counselling.... (read in full...)
He snapped at me so now I'm not calling him..he's not calling me
Q. Hi everyone My boyfriend was away the whole of last weekend and I called him on a Saturday night and he told me he was with friends, they were in a noisy place, I understood that. He said he will call back when his in a quieter place, I waited ...
A. 12 June 2009: Oh, sorry. It's just that the two questions before this were from A female from South Africa whose age was 18-21 and anonymous. I just got confused, sorry... (read in full...)
How do I leave my husband, a serial adulterer?
Q. How do people get brave enough to break up the family unit? It has been years of serial adultery (which I didn't realize until 5 years ago). All the children are now grown up. I have Multiple Sclerosis but I am keeping physically fit and go to the ...
A. 12 June 2009: Congratulations, you're such a strong woman, I admire you.
You just need to get up and face the fact that your husband is being unfaithful and it's not you thats breaking up the family unit, it's him. You sound independant and educated so I thin... (read in full...)
Break up because of no sex?
Q. If your girlfriend doesn't have sex with you is it a valid reason to break up with her after you have tried communication?...
A. 11 June 2009: Have you had sex with her before? is she withholding it for some reason? is shse waiting for marriage? is she going through something? She's got to have a reason and that matters more than the fact that she won't have sex with you.
... (read in full...)
Dating on the phone for a year and she won't meet me!
Q. Hi,well me and my girlfriend have been dating over the phone for a year now.and i belive we fell in love and from the bottom of my heart i truly love this girl she is everything i have ever wanted.but the biggest problem is the fact she wont meet ...
A. 11 June 2009: I'm curious as to how you two "met" each other!... (read in full...)
Break up because of no sex?
Q. If your girlfriend doesn't have sex with you is it a valid reason to break up with her after you have tried communication?...
A. 11 June 2009: Nope... (read in full...)
He's not my teacher anymore but I cannot stop thinking about him
Q. Hey ... I wrote on here about a year ago that I was leaving my school and couldn't imagine being without my class teacher who was my rock during my last 2 years of high school. I went through a huge depression and he was absolutly fantastic - supp...
A. 11 June 2009: It sounds like he's your security blanket and when you're not around it for a long time you get upset, sounds pretty normal. You just need to slowly break out of that by making the visits less frequent and over time just get over it.... (read in full...)
I need advice and help with the contraceptive implant.
Q. Hi Aunt's and Uncles :) I have currently had my implant in since September, so nearly 9 months now. And ever since I came on I didn't come off again until February. I came back on again in April and still haven't come off again. So 7 months on a...
A. 11 June 2009: you could try the patch, you replace it weekly... (read in full...)
When did you start dating / when were you allowed to start dating?
Q. Heyy! I was just wondering, what age did you start dating/were allowed to date?? Because I have had a crush on the same boy (we are both 15) for a few years now, but my mum said that even sixth formers (16-18yrs)only have a boy/girlfriend for a 'f...
A. 11 June 2009: I started seriously seeing a guy when i was 16. it ended horribly, lol.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend kissed another guy, please help me get over it!
Q. Okay, so I'm with my girlfriend of 7 months at her house, and this other guy that has been bothering my her for the best part of 2 years starts to text her. My girlfriend tells me that the texts have gotten alot worse during the past 2 weeks. These ...
A. 11 June 2009: Get her to block his number. Sometimes you actually have to contact your mobile carrier in order for it to work but you can definetly block a number.
If she doesn't do that then i'd be concerned that something was up. (not that she's setting out ... (read in full...)
I'm too scared to take a pregnancy test, I don't know what to do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend broke up about 3 weeks ago i am 16 very soon and he's 17 in a few months. The last time we had sex was when we were going out and now im 22 days late. I haven't told him as he has just gone on holiday and i didn't want to ruin it ...
A. 11 June 2009: Dear, it would be a lot easier for us to help you if you knew for sure what was going on with your body. Where I live we have a sexual health centre that's geared toward teens. Your community might have one too. Your best friend doesn't really ... (read in full...)
He made a bet to take my virginity, I found out and hit him
Q. My `boyfriend` is 23 and im 17 I recently gave my ``boyfriend`` my virginity (we both wanted it). Well I fonud out he made a bet with his friends that he could have get me drunk and have sex with me on his birthday. I was so mad that I punched h...
A. 11 June 2009: Cerberus, rather. lol... (read in full...)
He made a bet to take my virginity, I found out and hit him
Q. My `boyfriend` is 23 and im 17 I recently gave my ``boyfriend`` my virginity (we both wanted it). Well I fonud out he made a bet with his friends that he could have get me drunk and have sex with me on his birthday. I was so mad that I punched h...
A. 11 June 2009: i agree with both rythm & blues and cerberum, but i just wantet to add :
HIGHFIVE! for giving him what he dserved.
and I'm really sorry that you lost your virginity this way, but trust me you'll find way better and soon you can forget about th... (read in full...)
She was an escort and posed for nude photos
Q. I've been dating a sweet, wonderful woman for two and a half years now. She's smart, beautiful, incredibly gentle and kind. I love her a lot and believe she loves me too. I even considered asking her to marry me. Recently however, she con...
A. 11 June 2009: I think that she told you is a big indicator that you CAN trust her. She clearly values you and cares enough about you to tell you this. She knows what she did was wrong and I don't think she'd do it again. People in desperate situations do ... (read in full...)
Why did she show me a photo of her and her boyfriend kissing?
Q. I recently talked to my ex on facebook and she showed me a picture of her kissing her new boyfriend. Why did she do that ? It's not necessary and she knew it all along that would hurt me. I'm over her I think but I'm jealous that she has a new ...
A. 11 June 2009: You're understandably upset. Don't let her get to you, really.. she's just doing it to get you going. She probably isn't super happy in her new relationship and craves that attention that you used to give her.
Take your time when looking for a new ... (read in full...)
If I'm so great then why don't I have a boyfriend?
Q. hey i am 14 i have never had a boyfriend never been kissed i know i must sound like a proppa geek But i dont get it i get loads of attention from boys when i walk down the streets or when i am out with a group of freinds they shout somthing l...
A. 11 June 2009: Guys in their younger teens are VERY immature (generally speaking) they tend to grow up in their later teens. If you're more of a sophisticated kind of person and you're confident and smart, guys your age cuold see you as intimidating.
Trust me, ... (read in full...)
Broken my hymen or not?
Q. Hey x I started my periods last year i was lyk one of the late starters but i used pads all the time and last nite i thought i would use tampax compak and well i put it is and by a mistake i dont know how i did it but i left one of the plastic ...
A. 11 June 2009: tampons can sometimes break a hymen or alter it, but it's more likely that the pain you were experiencing was because you were pulling a dry tampon out of you. That's always really painful, virgin or not.
Are you sure you left a plastic part in y... (read in full...)
I don't know if I just want some attention or a relationship
Q. Okay so my boyfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago. We both cheated on each other, so it was pretty obvious the relationship was pointless as we were both into other people. The guy i cheated with is a good friend of mine and i have really strong ...
A. 11 June 2009: Because you slept with your friend without requiring some kind of a relationship from him and he has that "player" kind of attitude, then he might see you as nothing more than a friend he can get benefits from.
Your previous relationship clea... (read in full...)
He snapped at me so now I'm not calling him..he's not calling me
Q. Hi everyone My boyfriend was away the whole of last weekend and I called him on a Saturday night and he told me he was with friends, they were in a noisy place, I understood that. He said he will call back when his in a quieter place, I waited ...
A. 11 June 2009: Did you post two questions immediately before this?... (read in full...)
He's Going through depression and taking it out on me in horrific ways
Q. Not sure what to do, with the man I thought I wanted to marry but he's been going through a stint of depression and has been taking it out on me in horrific ways. He acknowledges this, and is profusely apologetic - and on his good days, when it's ...
A. 11 June 2009: Please listen to beingblack. He really is right.... (read in full...)
Why is he still lying to me about the contact he has with his ex?
Q. Why my man is still lying to me about having any contact with his ex? When I was living in the project a sexy man was living in front off me with his woman, but he always use to be watching me like he like to see me. He started calling me and w...
A. 11 June 2009: I feel like you're in a situation that you're creating for yourself. He will probably always have contact with his ex because she is the mother of his children and if he's a decent person then he's going to want to have contact with his children.
T... (read in full...)
Why won't he look at me?
Q. okay so there is this guy that i really think likes me but i'm confused about 2 things. he flirts with me nonstop. he gives me subtle compliments or playfully rough-houses with me or asks for help in class on the easiest questions (that he totally ...
A. 11 June 2009: you'd have to go in under the "my account" page. I'm not sure where it is around there. I'm sure there should be something like this in the FAQ, if not you could always msg DearCupid.
by the way, it sounds like that guy could like you.. but he coul... (read in full...)
Affairs by email
Q. My husband has struck up an email relationship with a widow with a son of 16years because 'he felt sorry for her'. This has been going on for several months. They write pages to each other every few days. He has told me the gist of their emails - ...
A. 10 June 2009: You're seriously okay with your husband having an affair with another woman right in front of your face? I think that it's a bit rediculous that you would allow this in the first place! Tell him to stop, you don't appreciate their relationship and ... (read in full...)
Why won't he look at me?
Q. okay so there is this guy that i really think likes me but i'm confused about 2 things. he flirts with me nonstop. he gives me subtle compliments or playfully rough-houses with me or asks for help in class on the easiest questions (that he totally ...
A. 10 June 2009: Only he can answer those questions for you, dear. Your member age is wrong, I think.... (read in full...)
We just clicked. He says he loves me but hes already with someone!
Q. I met him 4 months ago the day i met him we've been talking everyday all day thru text and phone call's no exaggeration we just instantly clicked the day after we met i asked him if he has a girlfriend he told me yes i kindaof draw back but it was ...
A. 8 June 2009: that is one huuuuge sentence.
Look, you know you shouldn't be doing this with him because he has a gf, imagine how she feels. Imagine how you'd feel he did this to you.
Give him the choice. It's you or her. If he doesn't pick you then you leave hi... (read in full...)
How can I change my abusive hubbie without involving the police?
Q. I'm 21 y/o and I have been with john for 5 years we got married 3 mos ago and we have 2 daughters (1yr and almost 2 1/2 y/o) but we had an abusive incident about a year ago he hit me, when i was pregnant he was arrested in jail for 4 days and ...
A. 7 June 2009: Do you want to die? Do you want your kids to watch you be beaten? Do you want your kids to know that you are weak? Do you want your kids to grow up without a mom? Do you want your husband to hit your kids?
Do you really think this is okay? My aunt... (read in full...)
I keep cheating on him when I'm drunk, what should I do?
Q. I'm in a relationship with the best boyfriend ever. He would do anything for me and we love each other dearly. He's three years older than me, and works full time, whereas i am a student at university. Truthfully he's my first love, i have nev...
A. 7 June 2009: Stop drinking & stop going to clubs.
If it's the alcohol that's doing it that should fix your problem, if it doesn't fix it well then maybe you just need all of that attention. And if that's the case then you shouldn't put him through that.... (read in full...)
"I'm sorry I fell for you..."
Q. If a guy left a message on the phone and ended it with: "I'm sorry I fell for you..." how would that make you feel?...
A. 5 June 2009: Like I've done something that hurt him and he regrets his decision to have gotten so close to me. How does it make you feel?... (read in full...)
He lies about everything!
Q. We've been going out for almost 8 months now and it has been a really nice time for both of us, except for his constant lying. He lies about everything from what he had for breakfast to what he did yesterday, or when we are talking online, ...
A. 2 June 2009: He is what you call a pathological liar.
Sometimes when people constantly lie they feel like they need to keep lying so their other lies don't get caught. Some people lie because they like to put up that wall.. wheere no one can really see who they... (read in full...)
I think my g/f is cheaing, I'm losing her, and don't know what to do about it
Q. I think my girlfriend is cheating on me. I have never had an online question like this but I think it is a good idea. All my friends won't listen to me they just tell me to get over her. It is not that easy. I'm a senior in high school and have ...
A. 2 June 2009: This girl sounds like she is loving the attention and drama that she is all wrapped up in. A women's health clinic can be for pregnancy and STD's or it could be something else. It's hard to tell. (It could be an abortion clinic, who knows?) Try ... (read in full...)
I think my g/f is cheaing, I'm losing her, and don't know what to do about it
Q. I think my girlfriend is cheating on me. I have never had an online question like this but I think it is a good idea. All my friends won't listen to me they just tell me to get over her. It is not that easy. I'm a senior in high school and have ...
A. 25 May 2009: It really doesn't sound like she's into you as much as you're into her. She's having her fun and pulling you along for the ride.
I know you don't wanna hear it.. but dump her. She really doesn't deserve you. If I ever found out that my boyf... (read in full...)
On anti-depressants, could this effect my period?
Q. I'm newly on Venlafaxine anti-depressants to stop panic attacks in my sleep caused by an anxiety disorder. My period is late. I have been having protected sex with my boyfriend but could the tablets have caused a mess up in my hormones which ha...
A. 25 May 2009: They shouldn't affect your period. Could you be pregnant? Have you always been regular? This could just be an off time for you, or stress could be a factor.... (read in full...)
Heart hurts for my teacher
Q. I have the biggest "thing" for my teacher. I'm a male as is he, and it is probable that he may be gay as well. Not only is he my teacher (and will be for 3 years, including next), he is also a very respected and loved coach at our school. He is a ...
A. 24 May 2009: He is in a position of trust. He is the adult and you are the student. If he violates that trust then he loses his job.... (read in full...)
Why does he rub it in that he is going out with another?
Q. hello im thirteen,,,i know im young but in love with this boy. we have been hanging out 4 a while now n we are/were ready to start the relationship. ok the reason why were werent in the relationship already is because of my last relationship which i ...
A. 24 May 2009: You think you had gotten played before? Well open up your eyes sweetie. Leave him be or it's going to happen again. Why do you think you're in love with this boy? Does he hold the door for you when you're leaving? Does he pull out your chair for you ... (read in full...)
When can I start kissing other women?
Q. Hi. My partner/wife is an alcoholic who eats too much chocolate, watches really bad TV and mows the lawn the moment my back is turned. She had a stomach upset earlier this week but is better now. She wants me to go to the tip at some point this ...
A. 24 May 2009: I don't fully understand your question. If you're with someone you shouldn't be kissing other people .. ?... (read in full...)
Is this platonic or is he just trying to score and being a liar?
Q. Got a question everyone. Ok first things first, I want to clarify that I am talking about my ex-boyfriend that I had been with for 2 and 1/2 years. We broke up about 2 weeks ago because I just can't trust him. He has a tendency of lying in his past, ...
A. 22 May 2009: You called it. Sounds like bullshit. Sorry you have to put up with that scum. He clearly has been interested in other girls, so I don't know why you didn't end it when you saw the msg from girl number 2. or even 1 for that matter.
Anyway, at leas... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and my boyfriend wants to make out
Q. I'm 13 and my boyfriend wants to make out but i have never done it yet but he has and im scared im going to mess up and he wont like me as much anymore...i told him over texting that i have never made out but he said that was alright but im still ...
A. 22 May 2009: Anonymous, you're still a kid yourself.
Don't worry dear, you'll do fine. Just remember to breath out your nose! Just go with the flow. You'll figure it out in no time, don't worry!... (read in full...)
I thought we were so well matched sexually but this is not the case now we have moved in together!
Q. My boyfriend of four years gave a very false impression of his sex drive when we were dating. I had no idea at the time. Now that we are living together and our lives are melded I cop his true sex drive/interest which isn't very much. I was hon...
A. 20 May 2009: well let him know that it's really bothering you and if he doesn't go see a doctor then he will continue to hurt you. anyone who really loves you would never want to keep hurting you... (read in full...)
I thought we were so well matched sexually but this is not the case now we have moved in together!
Q. My boyfriend of four years gave a very false impression of his sex drive when we were dating. I had no idea at the time. Now that we are living together and our lives are melded I cop his true sex drive/interest which isn't very much. I was hon...
A. 19 May 2009: It might not be that he has lied or was trying to deceive you with his sex drive.. there could be something going on right now or for a while that's curbing his natural sex drive..
sometimes men lose their sex drives as they get older, or when they... (read in full...)
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