Thinking about plastic surgery
Q. Hello, Sorry to bring a common and depressing post, but I feel very negative right now, and I don't have close friends and I can't talk about this with my boyfriend because he gets annoyed. Well I feel ugly. Everyone around me is prettier. ...
A. 5 April 2009: You are being silly! You are absolutely perfect in your own little way! You know, you are your worst critic. You can find treatments and shampoos that can add volume to your hair so it looks fuller! or extensions could help!
My shoulders are broa... (read in full...)
Will she get pregnant?
Q. My fiance isn't on any birth control, but I have been pulling out before ejaculating.. How likely is it that she could get pregnant?...
A. 5 April 2009: she has about a 30% chance of getting pregnant.
Using the "withdrawl" method of birth control 30 in 100 women will become pregnant.... (read in full...)
How do I bring this up to my mom?
Q. Ok, well I bet half of the people answering this are going to be prep. I don't mean to be mean seems how I am half one. I am not a tom boy but Im not a real girly girl either. I have been talking to my best friend about going goth/emo. She wants to ...
A. 5 April 2009: Why do you want to be emo or Goth? To be different? :s because it's not different when there's such a large group of people doing it. If it's just you admiring the fashion of "goth" then that's cool.. i'd start of slow though. Like, start wearing ... (read in full...)
He likes me, I like him, but I feel he's too childish. Do I wait a couple of years?
Q. This guy I like just revealed that he loves me. I have had a crush on him for seven years but he is so immature and I want a solid relationship. I don't want a relationship with someone who is so childish. Would I be stupid to wait until he matures ...
A. 4 April 2009: You would not be stupid to wait! Usually girls mature faster than guys so if you wait a bit then he might catch up.. but beware that he could potentially find another girlfriend..... (read in full...)
Surely this is what relationships are meant to be like?
Q. My boyfriend makes me feel so unhappy with myself. With his comments. I feel so low and have low self esteem and wonder who will want me if we spilt as I'm the kind of person who needs to feel loved and secure. But I'm not with him and it's an ...
A. 3 April 2009: That's sick. He has parties that his GF aren't allowed to attend. If these are just like guy parties.. like a boy's night out then that's one thing.. but if he's having parties with everyone invited and you're not then it looks like he's trying to ... (read in full...)
My new boyfriend wants me to get an abortion, should I marry my ex and tell him the baby is his?
Q. I am pregnant by my new boyfriend of three months. I we always used condoms except on one occassion. I have another child out of wedlock. When I told him, he told me to terminate it, but am not sure if I want to do that. I sugested we get married ...
A. 3 April 2009: lol @ anonymous!... (read in full...)
Broken, torn up and in a dilemma
Q. i had a breakup because of some problem...she was one of a kind smart decent responsible polite extremely caring inshort a unique personality and a GREAT GURL! but our relationship had to end one day because i didnt feel for her that way! she was ...
A. 3 April 2009: Well, make up your mind. You can either be with the girl or you can't. It seems like you two either A) Love Drama or B) Have no idea what's going on. It's quite simple really, If you want to be with her then be with her. If she's taking things too ... (read in full...)
My new boyfriend wants me to get an abortion, should I marry my ex and tell him the baby is his?
Q. I am pregnant by my new boyfriend of three months. I we always used condoms except on one occassion. I have another child out of wedlock. When I told him, he told me to terminate it, but am not sure if I want to do that. I sugested we get married ...
A. 3 April 2009: while you're not married **... (read in full...)
My new boyfriend wants me to get an abortion, should I marry my ex and tell him the baby is his?
Q. I am pregnant by my new boyfriend of three months. I we always used condoms except on one occassion. I have another child out of wedlock. When I told him, he told me to terminate it, but am not sure if I want to do that. I sugested we get married ...
A. 3 April 2009: If you can live a lie everyday of your life then yeah, sure. Marry your ex, look into his eyes and swear he's the father.
You can't seriously be thinking about this. First, I hope you have a little more respect for your ex than that. I know you'... (read in full...)
Why are my stretch marks itching?
Q. ok im 17 and im a mother to a 18 month old and i have stretch marks on my lower stomach and for some reason they have been itching for the past week or so and their turning red and its only like three of them thats doing it, i tried looking it up ...
A. 3 April 2009: I think you're perfectly normal. The skin is stretched and dry so it needs more oils. Try putting on a lotion regularly or try a natural oil and rub it into the areas that are bothering you. If it persists for a while then it never hurts to be ... (read in full...)
Homage to a woman's body
Q. How can you pay homage to a woman’s body? How can you pay homage to her body when it is clothed? How can you pay homage to her unclothed body? Ladies how can a man pay homage to you and your body? Is sex a good way of paying homage to a w...
A. 2 April 2009: touch her lightly everywhere. Follow her curves.
If it's slow and you're staring at her the whole time, sex could be something of an homage... (read in full...)
B/F treating me like crap
Q. First off thank u to whoever reads this, I'm so sorry that it's so long. Ok straight to the point: Im 20, BF is 25, been together about 2.5yrs aside from a breakup inbetween for a few months. Things were perfect until Sept'08. He started acting r...
A. 2 April 2009: Never apologize for the length of your question! it's much easier to help you if we know all the details! and a little bit of reading never killed anyone (i hope) :)
He really is treating you like crap...and I think the only thing you can do is to t... (read in full...)
How long does sperm stay alive?
Q. Ok, I need to know the real answer to my question.. I keep hearing different things and I'm unsure. If a couple uses the pull-out method (cum in your belly and around the vajina). You go to the restroom and wipe but it goes in and around your vaji...
A. 1 April 2009: There isn't a HUGE risk of pregnancy but you definitely are putting yourself at risk. Also, the pull out method rarely works, precum comes out of the penis up to 10 minutes before he ejaculates and it contains the most active sperm. Sperm can live ... (read in full...)
How long should you wait to go on a vacation with your boyfriend?
Q. How long do you wait to go on a (4) day vacation with your current boyfriend? Is there a time limit or just as long as you're comfortable with that person? ...
A. 1 April 2009: just whenever you're BOTH comfortable with each other. make sure you're ready to share a bathroom with that person! Even if it's for 4 days, it can get stinky! Enjoy! ... (read in full...)
How many women actually orgasm during vaginal sex?
Q. I've heard it's possible, but that it doesn't happen very often because it's hard to stimulate the clitoral complex this way. I've still never had sex, though I've orgasmed before through fingering, but I'm just wondering, are fingering and oral sex ...
A. 31 March 2009: I orgasm just about every time I have vaginal intercourse with my boyfriend. But he's the first one who could ever make me orgasm like this.
Sometimes I play with my own clit during the action to send me over the edge. Good luck!... (read in full...)
He keeps a picture of his dead wife and we are in a relationship.
Q. My boyfriend is 52 and I am 20. We have a newborn together but our relationship is unstable. Partly because I want us to live together, he lives on his own with his 2 sons one 26 and other 21. He said he told them that they had to leave when I was ...
A. 31 March 2009: Whoa Whoa Whoa, If you throw away a picture of his deceased wife then you might as well as consider that picture your relationship. You can't just go throwing someone's memories out .If it bothers you that much then ask him to move it. It's a peice ... (read in full...)
I love horses but have never learned to ride one!
Q. I'm not sure what category this fits into, but I people connect emotionally with their animals (like family members), so I imagine it's relevant. Not a romantic relationship question, I know, but it really means a lot to me. What do you do...
A. 30 March 2009: You're never too old to learn! Keep at it, It really does take constant practice? Can you take some professional lessons? Do you have any friends that ride? they could help. Try looking up some standard tips online and keep at it :) you can do it... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with him
Q. I really want to have a boyfriend. I just wish I could make out with him every day! There is this one guy, we both like each other. I just dont know how to talk to him. I also want to have sex with him, every time I see him, I have an orgasm! Pl...
A. 30 March 2009: haha, a couple cold showers should do it! I also recommend holding a water bottle while you're talking to someone (especially someone cute) You can fidget with it and not look crazy ... in most cases and if it's cold and you keep sipping it then it ... (read in full...)
How to get rid of a girl???
Q. hey everyone i wanna ask a cruel question here...please bear with me ....i am being cruel to be kind to someone i care a lot.... how should a guy get rid of a girl who is very affectionate, sentimental and emotionally attached to him ? what if t...
A. 30 March 2009: Be brutally honest, if you're too nice about it she'll still hold hope..but why are you breaking up with her? If you really want her in your life? Maybe you could take a little break..get some alone time?... (read in full...)
Tell me how to give him space?
Q. im so in love with him, he doesnt have time and keeps on telling me he loves me.sometimes i think i am putting more effort and giving him a lot of pressure. i want to give him space, which is a bit harder, tell me how to give him space? n how do i...
A. 30 March 2009: hang out with friends or do something with the family, just keep yourself busy it shouldn't be too hard! try picking up a new hobby! like answering questions on dearcupid :)... (read in full...)
I was pretty sure my promotion had something to do with sleeping with my manager
Q. Hello people. I've been at my current place of employment for three years now. I consider myself a trust-worthy, hard and efficient worker and have been working hard towards a promotion. I've always been slightly distracted by my manager. She's only...
A. 30 March 2009: Right, It's none of their business, but you're obviously feeling guilty about this. Most companies have policies over relationships in the office, have you checked out the rules? I don't think it's fair that your manager is bribing you. You're ... (read in full...)
Should I get his name tatooed on me or is it bad luck?
Q. I'm a 22 year old female who is in a very serious and committed relationship with a 32 year old male. I really love him and he loves me we are unable to be with one another physically because he is behind bars. I cant see myself with anyone e...
A. 30 March 2009: Wait until you've got a ring on your finger. Also, the man you're in love with is incarcerated because he broke the law.. can you see yourself with a criminal for the rest of your life? How are you going to explain to your children that daddy isn't ... (read in full...)
Can a man tell about these things?
Q. hi i would like to know whether a man can tell that a woman has baggy skin on her vagina when having sex? (without seeing it) Let Me know xx...
A. 30 March 2009: I don't think so? Men are visual creatures.. and if they're gettin' some then I don't think they're really focussing on anything that's going on outside of the vagina.... (read in full...)
My friend & I both like the same boy..but I liked him first!
Q. hey, i know this might sound like a problem basically every teenager goes through but i wanted to right in cos i really don't know what to do. i really really like this boy, and i finally plucked up the courage to tell him i did, about 2-3 weeks ...
A. 30 March 2009: Well if he knows that you like him and hasn't told you that he likes you back or hinted about it then he probably doesn't feel the same. If your friend keeps chasing him after you told her you liked him then she isn't a real friend and i'm sure you ... (read in full...)
I told my husband I don't want his child (from his previous marriage) to be near mine
Q. Well do you think i'm wrong to have told my spouse that i don't want this child that he has gotten outside our home near my child. I told him that i know the child is innocent to what he and the child's mother has done but due to there disr...
A. 30 March 2009: I think they should meet.. I mean what kind of harm is it doing to have a child meet their half-sibbling? ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with my friend’s mum
Q. I want to have sex with my friend’s mum. we are both single. I have a thing for my friend’s mum since I was in high school. She is in her 40s and I am 22. I know friend’s mum thinks I am cute as she has said so and has kissed/made out with me at ...
A. 30 March 2009: I agree. You'll probably lose your friend.... (read in full...)
As much as she is very excited, she cannot get to the finish point
Q. OK, I hate to ask, but we are at a loss here. I love my wife very much, she loves me very much, and we only seem to have one problem, My wife and I get Very Excited with each other, and we play and get really into things, but she is having a prob...
A. 30 March 2009: Have you tried focussing on her clit? Massaging her beforehand so she can relax? Incorporating toys into the bedroom? These things could help! If that's still not working, try blindfolding her, tell her to focus on what she's feeling! I know I find ... (read in full...)
Is my sister a true friend?
Q. I had a full abdominal hysterectomy 3 weeks ago. My sister Marg is the only one of my quite large family who knew i was going for the OP. I haven't really been in contact with the rest of my family since my mum died and there was a family fall ou...
A. 30 March 2009: She doesn't seem like she's really changed much, perhaps there are still some hard feelings? You should mention it... (read in full...)
I'm a liar..do I deserve her?
Q. hi, well its a long story. Last year, met this girl, fell in love. eventually found out she was two timing me, and she left me, went back to her country, holland. But then her best mate (on msn) showed up, was there for me everyday to talk to, and ...
A. 30 March 2009: Even if she does decide to forgive you.. her parents probably won't ever.. and you're going to need their blessing if you decide you want to marry her. And she'll probably never completely trust you again. Can you live with that? A relationship that ... (read in full...)
Handjobs instead of oral sex?
Q. okay 1st off idk if this is weird but i love giving my boyfriend blowjobs. not just bc i know he wants it but because i just love doing it and it massively turns me on. but anyway what i want to know is, how often is it "normal" to give them? cause ...
A. 30 March 2009: Whatever works for you two is normal. There is no set number for anything.. Normal is what you want it to be. Just try not to give them too often so he doesn't take you for granted! and switch it up once and a while, guys like that!... (read in full...)
Why does he walk ahead of me as if I don't exist?
Q. Hi - wonder if anyone can help with this one! My husband who is nearly 40 (married for 10 years) often (not always but more often than not) walks ahead of me. It doesn't matter if we are simply going from the car to the supermarket, walking along ...
A. 30 March 2009: It looks like your husband has some control issues. Walking ahead of you could be a sign that he needs to feel in control, or the most powerful. You say he gets stressed if things aren't in the right places? Have you researched OCD? Seeing as how ... (read in full...)
He's never done oral on me..he doesn't want to?
Q. i give my boyfriend oral and he always comes but he hasn't done it for me - we haven't had many chances to do it since i started giving him oral so maybe that's why. but assuming he never does it back, would this be unfair? because i've never ...
A. 30 March 2009: Well if he doesn't want to do it to you then I don't think you should give him the pleasure of oral either. Fair is Fair, right? I'm sure you're not always super happy or comfy giving him head, so if that's his excuse then whatever!
Let him know... (read in full...)
What do we say when the bill arrives???
Q. Hello all! I have a dilemma that I need help with. I am godmother to both of my friend's children and whilst she is a lovely, geunine person, her partner is the biggest waste of space ever... He has always taken advantage of me money wise by giving ...
A. 30 March 2009: Usually the waiter will ask "is this on the same or seperate bills?" jump in, not too quick and say "seperate" be careful not to look at them right away because then it might look like you're looking for a reaction out of them.. If either one of ... (read in full...)
How should I convince him to forgive and forget our pasts?
Q. My ex has made it clear that he is seeing some else because he cannot trust a girl who cheated on him with a cousin (I mean I cheated on him with a cousin)! the thing is I want him back and am really sure.. he asked me to suggest something that the ...
A. 30 March 2009: He's never going to forget that you broke his trust.. It's not even easy to forgive. You're lucky if he says he can forgive you. Perhaps set up a romantic date and surprise him.... (read in full...)
Why does he want me to meet an ex friend that he'd been screwing?
Q. When my boyfriend had been married, he had what he said was a brief affair. That is not the reason for divorce as his wife never found out. Anyway, I've been with my BF for about 10 months and we are going on vacation in April. He decided to ...
A. 30 March 2009: you're not being unreasonable. Let him know it.... (read in full...)
I need your advice! I feel as if my husband doesn't love me... and now I'm pregnant!
Q. I am recently married. Ours is a love marriage. I love my husband very much, he is least bothered about me. He is more attached to his family side. When we go to his place, he does not care about me. I am the only daughter and no brothers and my ...
A. 30 March 2009: Hm! Maybe you should ask your mother to keep the money at her residence, as you have suspicions that your husband may be taking it. Isn't it his duty to take care of his child? I hope he will.. Can you talk to him about this? If not then you need to ... (read in full...)
I think he's leading me on. What should I do ?
Q. Okay I don’t go out with him but I really like him and he's made it seem pretty clear he likes me (walked me home, asked to buy me a drink, said he missed me etc) but i found out the other day he went to the show/fair thingy with another girl and ...
A. 30 March 2009: Hey there, usually, when a guy isn't in an "official" relationship he'll still see other females, and sometimes afterward too. If he's just friends with the girl(s) then just talk to him about it, say it made you feel a bit jealous... (read in full...)
How to reach out to fling/friend?
Q. To make a long story short I met a girl through a guy friend of ours a few months ago. We all have only been friends since about Sept 08. We started hooking up on a regular basis back in Jan 09 for about a month and then I believe that she thought I ...
A. 30 March 2009: Well, you weren't really dating her, were you? It was just hooking up. When you're in a relationship and you have constant sex it just feels normal.. but when you're not and you're having sex eventually you feel used.. and you said that she said ... (read in full...)
Advice needed. How do you get over an ex???
Q. Hi everyone!!! I've got a question! When the guy you are absolutly IN LOVE with goes back to his shitty ex who always ends up breaking his heart after he tells you that he's falling for you too... what do you do to get over it?...
A. 29 March 2009: Hm, Is the last reply from the guy you were seeing? That's weird! lol..
To get over him, you need to break all contact i.e. don't msg him, call him or email him.. of course this is only going to work if you really want to get over him. He clea... (read in full...)
Could anyone possibly tell me why sex didn't hurt the first time but hurt when I did it again today?
Q. Last weekend, I lost my virginity to a guy that I'm deeply in love with. Well, it didn't hurt the first time we had sex (We did "Doggy style" then had regular sex) but just today, we had sex again (Yes we used protection) and it seriously hurt. He ...
A. 29 March 2009: That could be why, sometimes you need a bit of foreplay to be ready for a penis to enter you. Was there enough lubrication? That could be another factor.
Also, You could still be a bit sore from the first time you had sex and it just hurts to be i... (read in full...)
How to reach out to fling/friend?
Q. To make a long story short I met a girl through a guy friend of ours a few months ago. We all have only been friends since about Sept 08. We started hooking up on a regular basis back in Jan 09 for about a month and then I believe that she thought I ...
A. 29 March 2009: Right, Well she probably feels used, and that's one of the worst feelings in the world. Perhaps she was beginning to become emotionally attached and saw that she needed to get out? or maybe it's because she thought you were getting emotionally ... (read in full...)
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