Any products or ideas to tighten vaginal walls?
Q. Hello, I am 20 years old and I am very experienced when it comes to sex, lately I've been noticing that my vagiana is looser than ususal, usually it doesn't matter how much I have sex and my walls will still be very tight, I don't know what's ...
A. 18 July 2009: Here's one. http://www.ayurvediccure.com/vagina-tightening-cream.htm Beware of hoaxes though.... (read in full...)
How do I get him to leave his wife for me?
Q. How can i get him to leave his wife for me? im 17 and hes 40 and really need ideas? he sees me whenever he can get away from his wife, and promises to take me shopping, and he calls me princess and beautiful, we have sex alot in his car, he has 2 ch...
A. 18 July 2009: I don't understand why the hell someone would ever think something like this? Clearly he's using you (this is a little perverse, no?) He's more than old enough to be your dad. He's settled down and has his wife and kids and he's scum, because he's ... (read in full...)
Why do women place such importance on the emotional side of sex?
Q. Okay, I have a question for both men and women. My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year. When it comes to sex, she claims to love it with me and tells me that I make her feel better than anyone has before - physically but then she ...
A. 16 July 2009: Why do you keep calling her all those horrible names? You're rediculous. Have some respect for this girl, she's putting up with a disgusting scum bag like yourself.... (read in full...)
I am afraid for him. Is there anything I can do?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have recently reconnected with an ex-boyfriend who has been in an on and off again relationship. He says he loves me but he continues to try to make the other relationship work because she has a child that he feels he needs to be t...
A. 16 July 2009: prozac and alcohol are a lethal combination. you need to call a suicide hotline, they can give you more advice on how to help your semi-boyfriend.... (read in full...)
Help me plz, my husband is possessive!
Q. Hi,am a lady aged 22,and i got married last year to a guy who is so possesive. It was a hurried wedding because he had to travel to south africa for further studies so he didnt want to leave me and his two year old son bak hom in kenya without ...
A. 16 July 2009: Well is there anything that says you can't stand up to him? or do the same to him? I understand that it's your culture not to but can you break free of that? or better yet, can you move? You could move to a country where that is not the culture and ... (read in full...)
Morning after first time sex and I'm sick! what could it be?
Q. okay so you dont need details so i wont make this too long!.. but yesterday my parents went away and because im an only child, i didnt want to be alone for the first night, so my boyfriend (of almost a year) stayed over. we got a film, pizza etc.. ...
A. 16 July 2009: After first time sex you're probably a little stretched and ripped down there, so its like peeing into a cut. Worst case scenario, you have a urinary tract infection. Don't worry! You probably made yourself sick stressing over this.... (read in full...)
Should I have a relationship with the boy I have been raising even though he is another man's son?
Q. I have been married for ten years. We have two sons. My wife recently told me she was having an affair with a coworker for five of those years. According to her, that man is the father of our youngest. Supposedly she broke it off six months ago ...
A. 16 July 2009: Is she SURE that this boy is his? You should have paternity testing just to be sure. I honestly, couldn't do it. So it's understandable if you can't, either. Why would you? I mean, you've raised the boy for 3 years but he's got the rest of his life ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend watches a lot of porn and it makes me feel insecure about my own body!
Q. i just turned 17 and im a cup A :( i have a boyfriend. he is my first ever boyfriend and i am also his first. last month i told him my bra size. he told me it's fine and he doesnt mind small breasts as long as there's something to touch. lat...
A. 16 July 2009: So, wait. You're okay with your bf watching porn if it's "normal" because other girls are fine with it? I think when you talk to him you should just state that you're okay with him watching porn but you don't want to hear about the girls' bodies ... (read in full...)
The first date was great but he hasn't called to me ask me out for a second, what's going on?
Q. I work at a rehersal studio and this guy comes un once a week... For a few months he would come and buy a soda and flirt with me... One night he started asking me questions about myself and I ended up giving him my business card... He had it for ...
A. 16 July 2009: If he doesn't make the effort, in all honesty, he's probably just not that into you. If you want to draw him back in, stop making that effort. Once he thinks that he can't have you, he'll probably work harder.... (read in full...)
Pregnancy scares!
Q. I'm 16 and i have had sex twice, i have used protection both times but im scared i could be pregnant. My period is only 2 days late, i have had cramp and sore breasts but i dont know if thats just my periods. My mum said to me you look like you have ...
A. 16 July 2009: You're probably NOT pregnant, as you used protection. You're stressing over this and it's making your period late. It's pretty normal. Just relax and not think about it for a bit and it will come, I promise.... (read in full...)
What do men do when they realise their game doesn't work with you?
Q. What do men do when they realize their game doesn't work with you? In other words, you can pretty much see right through their bull. Do they try harder, freak out, or become tame? ...
A. 16 July 2009: Any one but "become tame". It depends on the person, but people rarely actually change.... (read in full...)
Help me plz, my husband is possessive!
Q. Hi,am a lady aged 22,and i got married last year to a guy who is so possesive. It was a hurried wedding because he had to travel to south africa for further studies so he didnt want to leave me and his two year old son bak hom in kenya without ...
A. 16 July 2009: Stand up to him, tell him you're doing what you're doing. A wedding ring doesn't mean that he can control you, it's not like he has two lives now. Not sure of the culture in Kenya, is it normal for the guy to control his partner? Either way, you ... (read in full...)
The first time....
Q. hi, i'm a virgin and i was just wondering how much blood there is when you have sex for the first time and does it come out during or after the event. ...
A. 16 July 2009: Everyone is different. Some people don't even bleed. It depends on whether your hymen is broken (you dont have to have sex to break your hymen) but don't worry, even if your hymen is broken you're still a virgin. It takes a penis to lose your ... (read in full...)
I think I rushed into a relationship to quickly, what to do?
Q. Perhaps I've rushed into a relationship too soon since my last one. My new boyfriend has become very clingy, and long-term oriented, but in essence, we've been together a week, and it's scaring me. We got to talking today and I realized that I ...
A. 16 July 2009: Let him know that you thought you could do this but it's really just too early. If you still have feelings for him, mention that maybe it could work out at a later time but for right now you just need to keep your head straight after your last break ... (read in full...)
He cheating on his pregnant girlfriend with me, I want to continue this, but want people's opinion anyway
Q. ok guys your all going to prob hate me for this but, m sleeping with my ex boy friend and he has a new girl who is 13 weeks pregnent, the thing is when we have done things i dont even have the ounce of guilt over doing it and to be honest i dont ...
A. 15 July 2009: So, What? You want a round of applause for fucking up a family to be? People who thrive on drama are usually VERY insecure. Check yourself.... (read in full...)
Feeling awkward with my virgin b/f
Q. I love my boyfriend, but I'm a lot more sexually experienced around him, he's a virgin and I'm his first girlfriend, I lost my virginity at 14 and have had several partners. I feel quite awkward around him, any tips??...
A. 15 July 2009: You shouldn't feel awkward around your boyfriend because he's a virgin. The fact that he's a virgin doesn't define who he is as a person, I bet you loved him before you knew he was a virgin, so what's different now?... (read in full...)
Hairy? Or non hairy?
Q. I happen to think women with at least a little bit of pubes down there is good..i mean no offense to anyone who shaves it completely off but who would want it completely bald..i mean i would feel like a little girl..and i kno it might make oral sex ...
A. 15 July 2009: Haha, no harm in giving it a try, Christina! It'll always grow back!... (read in full...)
Hairy? Or non hairy?
Q. I happen to think women with at least a little bit of pubes down there is good..i mean no offense to anyone who shaves it completely off but who would want it completely bald..i mean i would feel like a little girl..and i kno it might make oral sex ...
A. 15 July 2009: Every guy I've been preferred no hair as well..... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and so excited but worried too
Q. I'm seven weeks pregnant after ttc for two months! I'm so excited and i feel so lucky! I've been suffering from nausea and my breasts are killing! Just one thing on my mind thats worrying me and thats miscarriage. I dont drink, and ive quit smoking ...
A. 15 July 2009: Stress is a major factor in miscarrying! so don't worry about it! just try to relax and enjoy it. You'll be fine!... (read in full...)
Should I be bothered that he hasn't said those 3 words yet?
Q. I've been seeing my boyfriend for going on four months now, and I couldn't be happier. We both have made the decision that this is it. We are for sure headed toward our "happily ever after" together. Now, I'm used to jumping right into ...
A. 15 July 2009: I agree that it's a long time to wait for him to tell you that he loves you but it's better to wait it out than to jump the gun.... (read in full...)
She really WAS turned on and I misread her! Help me fix this please..
Q. i was out with a girl who im in love with; she really liked me to but i tend to f**k things up after a few days so shes was messin on and i was messin on with her. I didnt no i was turning her on then she told me but i thought it was a joke and she ...
A. 14 July 2009: What?... (read in full...)
How do I break up with my fiance?
Q. Me and my fiance have been together for almost 3 yrs and engaged for 2 1/2 of the 3 years. we met on a sat. and started dating that sun. we only knew each other for 2 days and well at first everything was perfect. but the past year and a half has ...
A. 12 July 2009: Well, the problem isn't that he breaks down and cries, it's that you can't be strong enough to walk away. It's really hard, but if you ever want to leave the situation you're in then you need to just get up and tell him sorry, but that's the way it ... (read in full...)
I gave them a test at the church and was escourted out and will not be allowed to come back!
Q. Before last sunday I had never been to church. My friend finally convinced me into going, but I am not big into religion and I don't like it when my friend pushes it on me. So anyway, we get to the church (it is methodist) and I overhea...
A. 12 July 2009: People who go to church usually take their religion quite seriously. I understand your test.. and I understand their disapproval. Most religions are close-minded on stuff like that (Have you ever seen Penn and Teller? their show "Bullshit"? They did ... (read in full...)
How do I confront a guy thats trying to get my attention?
Q. Okay, so every girl loves when guys check them out right? Yeah, so today, I went to this place with some family, and I was sitting alone for a while, and this really amazingly hot guy was sitting across from me. I was playing with my phone thinking ...
A. 9 July 2009: 'I've been looking for that phone everywhere! Where did you get it?'... (read in full...)
In love with 1st cousin
Q. MOD NOTE: Poster is asking for HELPFUL advice...Not to be BASHED. Aunts please answer according! i need some real help and not judgment plz! ok so i don't really know where to start...its a long story so a few years ago i fell in love with my 1st c...
A. 9 July 2009: If you don't feel like he is having sex with your for the right reasons (like he loves you) then I think you should stop having sex with him until you get that issue resolved.
You say he lies.. did you catch him in a lie? Did he lie to you? What... (read in full...)
How do I define when is it too young or too old to have sex?
Q. is 15 young to have sex ? i was just wondering what are peaple views on 15 years olds having sex is it too young or an alright age? i would just really like to know what peaple think about it ! thakns ! x...
A. 7 July 2009: Sorry, Just thought you were an ignorant 15 year old with no concern for grammar. But I still think you should atleast wait until you're 16, so it can be legal.... (read in full...)
He's kind but not attractive, and I'm supposed to marry him
Q. hi dears, please give me more solutions, i'm going to marry someone who is a very faithfull, loyal, generous and as a whole a good boy. but as a matter of fact he is not such handsom and attractive in my sight. i logicaly accepet him as my husban...
A. 7 July 2009: dont marry him... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has put me through so much, yet still I remain at his side. Why?
Q. I need to tell somebody - anybody who is willing to listen. I have things bottled up that I need to get out in the open, so I can really spend some time and think about it. Thanks to all those who take the time to read this. My boyfriend is r...
A. 7 July 2009: oh god, sweetie. Please just leave him. The initial hurt sucks, but it doesn't suck as much as being raped. He's not good, and he has some issues to work on. You can find someone better! STDs don't just happen.. They have to be sexually ... (read in full...)
I slept with my fiance's dad!
Q. I slept with my fiance's dad. Yes, I know what I did was wrong but I was very drunk at the time. Very, very drunk. My boyfriend was away on a training course at the time. I found out I was pregnant by his dad a few weeks ago. I feel a bit g...
A. 7 July 2009: High 5 Anonymous male and Q! :)... (read in full...)
I'm forcing myself to throw up because I want to be a model
Q. My boyfriend is freaking out cause he caught me making myself throw up (been doing this for a week). I mean I'm 18 so I'm legally adult and its not like I'm killing myself. But he nags at me because "hurting" myself and he doesn't want to be like ...
A. 7 July 2009: I hope you've enjoyed the attention you got here, because I can't see this question being asked for any other reason.
So what's 0? Zero is nothing right? So a size zero means you're literally nothing.
I went into a store and saw jeans that wer... (read in full...)
How do I define when is it too young or too old to have sex?
Q. is 15 young to have sex ? i was just wondering what are peaple views on 15 years olds having sex is it too young or an alright age? i would just really like to know what peaple think about it ! thakns ! x...
A. 6 July 2009: I think you should wait till you're old enough to know how to spell "people" before you start having sex.... (read in full...)
I'm forcing myself to throw up because I want to be a model
Q. My boyfriend is freaking out cause he caught me making myself throw up (been doing this for a week). I mean I'm 18 so I'm legally adult and its not like I'm killing myself. But he nags at me because "hurting" myself and he doesn't want to be like ...
A. 6 July 2009: OH grow up. You know if you're throwing up you have a problem and your boyfriend has every reason to be angry with you. FYI most agencies are looking for HEALTHY models, not eating disorder cases. Unless you're really short 105 is small enough. ... (read in full...)
I feel she needs to be let go, but I am unsure
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for over two years and lately it's been pretty tough. Lately, she has been, to be honest, a big pain the ass. She will start fights and get mad at me over dumb little things like forgetting to say “I love you” ...
A. 6 July 2009: She probably feels smothered in your relationship and like she can't have her own life. She finds small reasons to get mad at you so she can have an excuse to get away from you. She wants to start smoking pot and everything because she's acting out, ... (read in full...)
I feel I have to make myself sick after eating!
Q. lately i've been making myself sick after anything i eat. i don't binge but feel i hav to make myself sick. i feel like i'm doing nothing wrong as i'm doing it to lose weight bu started doing it more lately due to stress. do i have a problem?...
A. 6 July 2009: You're bulemic.... (read in full...)
Do I chuck 16 months with ex and move on?
Q. Hey aunts and uncles. I have recently written on here before maybe 2-3 weeks ago, about how i had started to like another boy that i had only known for 2 weeks, when i had a boyfriend that id been with for 16 months. Well il update everyone b...
A. 6 July 2009: Seriously? You're willing to be with someone who treats you worse than dog shit? Have some more pride in yourself. Let him go, get a restraining order. It's rediculous that you'd even consider being with him again. 16 months is not a huge amount of ... (read in full...)
Ex boyfriend is threatening me and I'm worried he'll try to take the baby!
Q. hi. i know i will probably be pre judged but im 17 and im due my baby in the begining of october. i dont quite think its a question im going to ask, but i feel so down and low at the minute, and i just feel like i need to let everything out! and...
A. 6 July 2009: Use the texts as evidence, was my point. or call the cops now.... (read in full...)
Ex boyfriend is threatening me and I'm worried he'll try to take the baby!
Q. hi. i know i will probably be pre judged but im 17 and im due my baby in the begining of october. i dont quite think its a question im going to ask, but i feel so down and low at the minute, and i just feel like i need to let everything out! and...
A. 6 July 2009: First of all dear, get something to eat.. the baby needs food. you're eating for two now.
Save the text messages he sends you. Especially the ones that show that he can be violent toward you. If you want to, send him a text saying "Why do you hit ... (read in full...)
3 years and now he wants a break!
Q. if your a 3 year relationship and he asks for break should i give him space and how will i know were going to get back together and is it good to be friends?...
A. 6 July 2009: In my experience, i've noticed that most times when one of the partners say they want a break, they just either want to be with someone else or want to be single while keeping you on the sidelines. ... (read in full...)
Should this size of a toy cause me pain?
Q. I just recently bought my first d*ldo, and its diameter is 2". Based on all of the ones I looked at, the diameter was on the low-average end, with the smallest one's being 1.75" and others going 3" or larger. I figured that the 2" would be just ...
A. 6 July 2009: Some of the ribbed dildos and the ones with "natural bumps" can cause a lot of pain because they don't have the give that a real penis would. ... (read in full...)
Love sick for my step-cousin: how do I show her I love her?
Q. Alright, i've got this step cousin that i'm starting to love over the years. We've slept together couple times, tease each other and we're closer than our own cousins. Now it's to the point where i'm love sick over her. If you could i need help on ...
A. 6 July 2009: Tell her.... (read in full...)
Sex has no spice!
Q. i am in a gay committed relationship with my boyfriend and he says he loves me but the sex has gotten no taste and just wanted to know how i could spice it up and prevent him from leaving me cuz i am really in love with him for three years and wqant ...
A. 6 July 2009: take him out on a romantic date and then surprise him at home with whatever he likes (candles,music or whatever he's into.)... (read in full...)
I slept with my fiance's dad!
Q. I slept with my fiance's dad. Yes, I know what I did was wrong but I was very drunk at the time. Very, very drunk. My boyfriend was away on a training course at the time. I found out I was pregnant by his dad a few weeks ago. I feel a bit g...
A. 6 July 2009: If your boyfriend is smart (and good at math) he'll figure out that the baby isn't his anyway, because he was away on course.. especially if you two use contraception. Don't let the "pro-life" people tell you that you can't do something. Don't let ... (read in full...)
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