Which make up would suit my skin type?
Q. From the age of about 13 i've had trouble keeping my skin clear and it's been really bad for my confidence.But lately my skin is doing quite well for once it's mainly just marks where they've been.but i'm finding it quite hard to find makeup or ...
A. 28 April 2009: agreed... (read in full...)
Which make up would suit my skin type?
Q. From the age of about 13 i've had trouble keeping my skin clear and it's been really bad for my confidence.But lately my skin is doing quite well for once it's mainly just marks where they've been.but i'm finding it quite hard to find makeup or ...
A. 28 April 2009: Most mineral makeups contain Bismuth Oxychloride, and this clings to the skin which can cause irriation and trigger acne. Which is something they don't tell you in the commercials for the mineral makeups, they're also quite expensive, if they're not ... (read in full...)
Abusive, violent, jailbird boyfriend and I think it's my fault!
Q. Hi, I really need some advice. I am so confused I dont really seem to know wrong from right anymore. So have been with my bf for like 10 years now, and we are planning to get married next year. The problem is he has hit me in the past - alot. H...
A. 28 April 2009: I'm sorry that he hit you, because he shouldn't have. He is in the wrong, not you. You are a strong woman! You need to leave him.. move your stuff out.. break up with him in a public place, or let your mom know that if you don't phone her within 20 ... (read in full...)
I'm 14, should I spilt up with my 19 year old boyfriend?
Q. i have a 19 year old boyfriend who loves me a lot but i am only 14. my parents will be so angry with me if they find out. this is putting a lot of stress on me and it is affecting our relationship. should i end the relationship?...
A. 28 April 2009: Nope, dont end it because you're scared of what other people think. A relationship is about the love you and your partner share and that should not include anyone else. I'm sure that if you're mature enough to be in the relationship then you're ... (read in full...)
Should I brake up with my boyfriend if he tells me not to call him unless I send him naked pictures of me?
Q. Should I brake up with my boyfriend if he tells me not to call him unless I send him naked pictures of me? Well I feel if some one loves me as much as he say he does, he should respect that I don't feel right taking those kind of pictures. So he te...
A. 28 April 2009: You should just leave him. He's not respecting you and respect is something that makes a relationship successful, find someone worth your time! :)... (read in full...)
I don't want my boyfriend to go to jail...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for five months now - since about a week before he and his ex broke up. They were together for two years and I'll admit, he was not the nicest guy towards his ex. For two years, he emotionally and physically ...
A. 28 April 2009: Are you kidding me? Dump him, testify AGAINST him. He deserves to be in jail. He's no good. He really isn't. If you don't have more common sense than that then good luck to you! ... (read in full...)
Which make up would suit my skin type?
Q. From the age of about 13 i've had trouble keeping my skin clear and it's been really bad for my confidence.But lately my skin is doing quite well for once it's mainly just marks where they've been.but i'm finding it quite hard to find makeup or ...
A. 28 April 2009: Try Pro Activ! It worked so well on myself, and all off my friends who have used it. Its an acne medication that you can order, and it clears your skin and evens your skin tone and gives you a healthy look! It has worked wonders on my confidence.... (read in full...)
Another Porn, LDR question
Q. Hello all, I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. I see him every three months or so. I just got back from visiting him. I spent 8 days with him. We hardly made love. Maybe 4 times. Four days before I was about to leave, I was asl...
A. 28 April 2009: That's really weird.. I'm not sure why he would do that. And you should try talking to him again.. let him know at the first of the conversation that you'd appreciate it if he just spoke rationally, and didn't get upset.
when you do speak to him,... (read in full...)
Boyfriend posts pictures from your joint vacation and leaves you OUT of the pictures?
Q. Ok, I'm embarrassed to even have to write this -- because it sounds so juvenille, and I am 31 years old, but I want a sounding board, so please respond honestly. I just got back from a week in Italy with my boyfriend of 2 and 1/2 years. He was se...
A. 28 April 2009: He probably is not as independant as you and is feeling super insecure. After hearing the additional info you've added her, It doesn't seem as much like he's hiding you, more that he's just overwhelmed with jealousy.
Jealous people tend to driv... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with my 10 year old step-sister
Q. Lately, I have been having really troubling thoughts. I have come to terms with the fact that I have fallen in love with my 10 year old step sister (I'm 18). I just don't know what to do anymore. Before anyone asks or starts accusing, I am n...
A. 27 April 2009: To be honest, I'm a bit scared of answering this. You know that you can't date your siblings, be them a step sibling or not. It's not accepted socially and could get you into some trouble.
Your family would be devastated. Are you sure you're not ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend posts pictures from your joint vacation and leaves you OUT of the pictures?
Q. Ok, I'm embarrassed to even have to write this -- because it sounds so juvenille, and I am 31 years old, but I want a sounding board, so please respond honestly. I just got back from a week in Italy with my boyfriend of 2 and 1/2 years. He was se...
A. 27 April 2009: Be straight with him. Let him know that when he put the pictures on his profile or whatever, without you in them then it made you feel like he was trying to hide you. Tell him that if he is then you'll do the honours and you'll leave.
If he's trul... (read in full...)
Boyfriend posts pictures from your joint vacation and leaves you OUT of the pictures?
Q. Ok, I'm embarrassed to even have to write this -- because it sounds so juvenille, and I am 31 years old, but I want a sounding board, so please respond honestly. I just got back from a week in Italy with my boyfriend of 2 and 1/2 years. He was se...
A. 27 April 2009: I bet you know exactly what that means. You're not overreacting, or acting crazy or anything. What you're feeling makes perfect sense and he even had the nerve to lie to you. I'd drop his sorry ass! He doesn't deserve you. It sounds like you are ... (read in full...)
What are the odds of pregnancy?
Q. what are the odds of getting a girl pregnant ? her period was at easter it is now april 26. i'm only 16 an rreally dont know what to do advice please?...
A. 27 April 2009: Yeah, he has access to the internet and he's looking for info, but when he asked for it he didn't get an answer, just a lecture. He's clearly going to be sexually active.. so why not provide him with information instead of chastising him for ... (read in full...)
What are the odds of pregnancy?
Q. what are the odds of getting a girl pregnant ? her period was at easter it is now april 26. i'm only 16 an rreally dont know what to do advice please?...
A. 27 April 2009: lol, every time someone under the age of 18 posts something even relatively close to sex then everyone freaks out and says "You're too young" "You're irresponsible" This young man has not claimed that he did or did not use protection, he just asked ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to be clingy?
Q. Hi, Im 16 and my gf is 14. This past weekend, over a kinda lame misunderstanding, she almost broke up with me and after that was cleared up, the next day, out of impulse, she was messin with me about leavin me. After i cried and over reacted both ...
A. 27 April 2009: I wouldn't say its wrong, but it can eventually drive someone crazy. Why do you think you're like that? Do you trust her? Do you have a reason not to? Do you have trust issues?
Sounds like things need to be sorted. Also, I don't know why your gf w... (read in full...)
How do I stay true?
Q. ther is this guy he is.. wel he was my boyfriend. we dated for 5mounts an3 weeks.. we can call him boo wel see we are the type of people we have lost of friends of the oppisite sex and we both get flirted with alot but the thing is that boo dont ...
A. 26 April 2009: Don't flirt. It's not that hard..... (read in full...)
This guy sent me a text message saying he wants me. Should I confront him next time or leave it as it is?
Q. This guy is a player...I met as a customer who helped me close a deal. He has a GF and he's GI also. I know he doesn't like me and although he's cute, he's not my type. He went out w/ some buddies and I got a message last night from his cell sa...
A. 26 April 2009: If it were me, I'd leave it be. He has a girlfriend so he sounds shady if he's texting other girls messages like that. Sounds like someone to stay away from.... (read in full...)
Torn apart by my emotions and the love for my best friend.
Q. I'm in need of some serious advice!! First of all, I'm gay and I'm in love with my best friend... I've wanted to tell him how I feel for months now and it's seriously affected my emotions. Just the other night our school held our 8th Grade Dance and ...
A. 26 April 2009: I think your friend is straight if he has a girl. If you tell him then you could potentially ruin your friendship with him. Has he given you any clues that he might like you more than a friend? or that he might be bisexual or gay? ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my family that I want to have sex?
Q. i am 14 years old. and my boyfriend is 15 and i love him and loves me too.and i want to have sex with him but im scared that my family will think that i am a hoe. what should i do? i really want to have sex with him because i love him how should i...
A. 26 April 2009: do you need to tell your family you want to have sex? in my family we usually keep that stuff to ourselves.. you could ask your mom to make an appointment for you so you can discuss the birth control pill with your doctor.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's penis is too small so I never orgasm help!?
Q. Okay here's the deal, me and my boyfriend have recently decided to take our relationship further and sleep together. At first I thought it was normal that it would be uncomfortable and unenjoyable, but after many tries it just gets tiring to have to ...
A. 26 April 2009: have you tried stimulating your clitoris whilst he penetrates?... (read in full...)
Should I forgive him for what he did or just get over him?
Q. I've liked this guy Mark* for 7 months. He's soooo sweet, really nice and caring. I'd being putting these notes in his locker and signing them off 'your secret admirer' and my friend gave him my no. so he could text me but he only knew me as his ...
A. 25 April 2009: Sounds like he's playing you. I'm sure someone else would LOVE to have that kind of attention. If you step back and take a good hard look at him, he's probably not all that you think he is... (read in full...)
Can Ibuprofen stop your period for a few hours?
Q. I have a question.. Im on my period.. and my parents are traveling for the weekend.. so I guess you all by now have guessed where this is going for.. I have heard that Ibuprofen can stop your period for a few hours. is this true? if so how doe...
A. 25 April 2009: I asked my doctor about the skipping your period every month thing, with the pill.. and he said it's fine for up to 12 months, but then you should really have a period. He said that if I want to have fewer periods I should get "the shot" which is a ... (read in full...)
Self conscious and wondering about the boy
Q. I,m a 17 year old girl in secondary school. I have never had a boyfriend in my life and i kinda get upset about it so i,m very self concious. But now I really like a guy who is two years below me. He,s 15 he,s really sweet and friendly.Recently we ...
A. 25 April 2009: hm! You should try saying something other than "hi" try asking him about something he's interested in, or something thats coming up...like a social, perhaps?
... (read in full...)
Should I stay quiet as he does his own thing?
Q. i dont understand, should i shut my mouthand stop talking about him going out and ido think he is talking to other girls. last month i been talking about it and hes tired of hearing it. are there guys that do there own thing and say anything to ...
A. 25 April 2009: What's the question?... (read in full...)
Is it normal for clitoral stimulation to hurt?
Q. Is it normal for clitoral stimulation to hurt? It might sound weird, but I'll be totally turned on, and when my boyfriend starts messing with my clit it hurts to the point where I have to tell him to stop. ...
A. 25 April 2009: It can really hurt if your clit is dry, or he's being too rough or too quick, tell him you like it really gently and when it's all lubed up, should help! if not you might wanna ask a doctor!... (read in full...)
She's cold towards me in school
Q. my girlfriend says she loves me, but when we're in school she acts like if she doesnt...she says shes shy with other people but i know shes not shy... whats wrong with her??? why does she act like this???...
A. 25 April 2009: Perhaps she's not a fan of PDA, I know I'm not.
If she's cuddly and stuff in private then I'm sure she means what she says.. you could tell her how it makes you feel and she might open up for you a bit.... (read in full...)
Do you think my wife is having an affair?
Q. I have caught my wife having text sex in the past, she is now secretly in contact with her ex, texting a lot whilst masturbating. I also discovered she has bought condoms, do you think she is having an affair? And what should I do?...
A. 23 April 2009: Sounds like it, yup. I'm very sorry! Have a talk with her about it, and remember that you've done nothing wrong. Don't let her pin it on you. You deserve much better... (read in full...)
Do woman like oral sex better than sex itself?
Q. Do women like to receive oral sex.I like giving oral sex better then sex itself.I can't get enough of it is there some real good ways to do it, so I can drive my wife crazy wanting more of it...
A. 17 April 2009: i prefer sex... (read in full...)
I need advice, I'm pregnant after being raped!
Q. hi i am 14 and pregant i got pregant cause i was raped i dont know what to do i am scared please give me adivice i beg u ...
A. 16 April 2009: this is one of those cases where i think abortion is a plausible option. what do you want to do? ... (read in full...)
Do young people between 25 and 30 have huge egos?
Q. do young guys fancy themselves?and have big egos when they win something on tv.and he hear loads of girls like him. DO THEY GET HUGE EGOS ...
A. 16 April 2009: SOMETIMES. depends on the guy.... (read in full...)
Saw my husband's profile on a porn dating site!!
Q. I am in dire need of an answer so I thought I would ask here. My husband loves to be fisted and he's wanted me to buy a strap on forever... just yesterday I sat at his desk and he had left up his history... I found he has an account with ...
A. 12 April 2009: he'll probably delete his history from now on. liars don't usually make the same mistake twice. i think what you found was probably his, because it seems a little far fetched that his buddy made an account and is looking for women, gay guys, ... (read in full...)
I am thinking too much of this?
Q. First off, last summer I visited my sister and her husband on a marine bass they lived at. I visited them for 2 months. I met a friend of theirs.. he liked me, I liked him. We even hooked up one night. It was the best haha. Anyway, he went to iraq...
A. 11 April 2009: So he said that if you were a year older than it would be fine? Hm! Looks like he's definetly interested then! But as you can see the age gap is freaking him out..
Hm! maybe if you wait till you turn 18 (the magic number) haha, then he'll make a se... (read in full...)
Now I don't feel the same for him any more. What can I do?
Q. I have been dating this terrific guy for over two years and have been holding back the urge to tell him that I loved him for a couple months now. (I was holding it back because he doesn't acknowledge me as a girlfriend because he doesn't believe in ...
A. 10 April 2009: sounds like he only wants a physical relationship.
he basically told you he doesn't love you back, and that changed your feelings for him.. so basically there's nothing left.
have a talk with him... (read in full...)
I am thinking too much of this?
Q. First off, last summer I visited my sister and her husband on a marine bass they lived at. I visited them for 2 months. I met a friend of theirs.. he liked me, I liked him. We even hooked up one night. It was the best haha. Anyway, he went to iraq...
A. 10 April 2009: You shouldn't really EXPECT anything, if he likes you then he will try to keep in contact and if he doesn't then he won't.
He may be a little freaked by the age gap because you're not legal yet, have you talked to him about it?
... (read in full...)
My husband destroyed my life
Q. I apologize for the long post. I need some advice on how to move on and how to cope with what I have been through, all I can think about just now is revenge, it is eating away at me. I separated from my husband last September (married 5 year, ...
A. 10 April 2009: Sue him, for half of the joint loan. I'm very sorry that you're in this situation. clearly you deserve better! Find a man that holds you and his career as equals. :) ... (read in full...)
So many differences between him and I. I am confused. What should I do?
Q. hi friends, i need your help.i'm very much confused about my relationship with my friend. i'm 18years old. before 9 months i met a boy.we became close friends.i've never talked to any boys before tat. he's the first boy to whom i've talked oth...
A. 10 April 2009: You can't change the way you feel about someone..... (read in full...)
Is it ok to sleep with him?
Q. I like this guy (described in http://www.dearcupid.org/question/does-it-seem-like-he-is-going-to.html), and he has been respecting my opinions. By respect, I mean he wanted to do things but as soon as I asked him to stop he would. I now won’t let ...
A. 10 April 2009: I think you're overthinking this, try to relax and go with the flow.
So you say you're dating him? :s I'm a tad confused.
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Is it ok to sleep with him?
Q. I like this guy (described in http://www.dearcupid.org/question/does-it-seem-like-he-is-going-to.html), and he has been respecting my opinions. By respect, I mean he wanted to do things but as soon as I asked him to stop he would. I now won’t let ...
A. 10 April 2009: Ah! ArmyMedic is probably right, he usually is!:p
you should ask him out!... (read in full...)
Is it ok to sleep with him?
Q. I like this guy (described in http://www.dearcupid.org/question/does-it-seem-like-he-is-going-to.html), and he has been respecting my opinions. By respect, I mean he wanted to do things but as soon as I asked him to stop he would. I now won’t let ...
A. 10 April 2009: If you let him know straight up that sex is not what you want while you spend the night together. He seems like a pretty good guy. Why haven't you two become official yet?... (read in full...)
Follow up: My husband's "mysterious" trips to Canada
Q. A follow-up on my original question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-is-my-husband-having-business-trips-.html I thought I'd post a follow-up. Apparently my husband had been living a double life - in Canada and over here. I know this becaus...
A. 10 April 2009: Wow, that's some big news. Thanks for the update!
What do you think you should do? You need to confront him, find some proof that he's not coming to Canada for a "business trip" or whatever he tells you when he leaves. It's going to eat at you ever... (read in full...)
Are we too early in the relationship to go for counseling?
Q. Ok dont know where to start.... Have been in an on off relationship for the past 2years,my boyfriend is ten years older then me and basically a complete opposite person to me however by some miracle we clicked!! We have had many bumpy rides in o...
A. 10 April 2009: If you want this to work then the best thing for your relationship is counseling, there is no set stage in the relationship where one should go for conselling, some people don't even need it..
So if you feel like you wanna make this rela... (read in full...)
Just curious ... how does "cling wrap" work when giving a girl oral?
Q. i was at work the other day and was wrapping things with cling wrap, and was just thinking how is it that you use that for having safe sex when giving a girl oral? heard that was how you do it but never looked it up or did it (not worried about stds ...
A. 8 April 2009: It's called a dental dam! It's a peice of latex specifically designed for the job! It's kid of like a condom except it's just a square piece of latex that you keep between the mouth and the vagina.
I saw this on a show about safe sex once..lol... (read in full...)
Thinking about plastic surgery
Q. Hello, Sorry to bring a common and depressing post, but I feel very negative right now, and I don't have close friends and I can't talk about this with my boyfriend because he gets annoyed. Well I feel ugly. Everyone around me is prettier. ...
A. 5 April 2009: You are being silly! You are absolutely perfect in your own little way! You know, you are your worst critic. You can find treatments and shampoos that can add volume to your hair so it looks fuller! or extensions could help!
My shoulders are broa... (read in full...)
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