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writes:Aunties,My girlfriend of 7 months (Yes, i'll keep saying this)has been contemplating breaking up with me over for the summer and has openly admitted it to my face. This breaks my heart so much, but I understand why. She's used to freedom and having fun while I work and have no fun all summer.Also, a man she cheated on me with has recently come into contact with her, and is stalking her. Her and I and some friends are going camping next week and if he shows up, I'll be getting fairly angry...This is a sign that she no longer is in love with me? and is the relationship been a total waste of time?and what should I do about the creep?
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reader, athenas  +, writes (19 June 2009):
Hey there!!! Well first of all your still young wich means that youll meet other girls that will actually love you and care for you not like this crazy girl thats acting like a little kid trying to make you jelous. About the guy thats around her its her bussiness if she wants him around her but if she asks you for help just call the cops. Enjoy your summer have fun dont stay home all the time go out to the mivies get in a sport go visit your cousins or friends always do something that distracts you. Good Luck!!!
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reader, bobbles32 +, writes (19 June 2009):
 Violence doesn't solve much. I think you should call 9-1-1 on the creep and get a restraining order, unless she has instructed him to come around..or she tells him where she constantly is. (Facebook is the devil, I swear) Honestly? Break up with the chick, you seem disconnected from the relationship already and someone who cheats on you that early in the relationship clearly has issues that need to be sorted out before they can commit to anything long term. You deserve a lot better. Have fun on your camping trip (LEAVEHER) haha. and greeeetings from a fellow Canadian.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): So she's cheated on you already. In my opinion she is a waste of time now...I wont even go as far to say that she loved you..sounds like she was not looking for love. But I guess this is all a part of growing up as teens. If you do decide to stay with her and go on this trip, and he comes and tries funny business with her, beat the crap out of him...this is what teens do right? At least when I was your age I would have...if she was treating me like crap and then rubbing it in my face...well then time to share that crappy feeling.
Summer may or may not suck, who knows. But for your sake, don't take her back when summer is done. There's plenty of nice girls out there looking for love at your age. Canada is polluted with them.
Good Luck ^^
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