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30-35,
*libber
writes:Well guys, i really need you help on this one.So there is this girl that i really like and i somehow get a feeling that she likes me back, however this IS just a feeling.but anyways we get along fine when were alone together (this isn't a lot of the time) but we always seem to have trouble talking to each other when there are others around, we just kind of end up partially ignoring each other almost. maybe its because we're both shy i dont know but it just doesnt seem to happen.ive have been in a relationship before. but they werent that long or great. my last girlfriend cheated on me and i guess you could say that im being subconsciously more cautious, but i really do like this girl a lot and she is an extremely nice person so i really dont see the relevance but i just cant seem to help it.Maybe im just really desperate to make this work but it seems to me that if we were to actually go out with each other, that we wouldnt have this awkward aura keeping us appart.Anyways tips and thought are all welcome, and if you can leave a tip on asking her out :) thanks.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii  +, writes (23 December 2008):
 you don't need a conversation :P just a compliment or a comment could start something and trust me if its all planned out then life can get very boring! (: and it might be best to try it just a little...if you like her it might work (:
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reader, flibber +, writes (23 December 2008):
flibber is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI do have her msn, but I hesitate to make a move on it because people consider it not very whole-hearted? ive always been afraid of using msn because of this.And we do smile at each other a lot when talking, its just that we...well me especially, run out of things to say :(
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (23 December 2008):
do you have msn with her? if you do then maybe just suggest going for a walk, or even a picnic (i've heard winter picnics are rather romantic), just something to lighten the tension between you too. And maybe she is just shy about talking to you in public. There is this one guy that I can only talk to online because I'm scared what his friends would say, so I can definetely see where she is coming from there (: try and make her more relaxed around you, maybe a few smiles here and there throughout the conversation might help (:
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