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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hey all -so my girlfriend likes to be dominated. i've been tying her up and blind folding her for some time now. every once in a while we talk about our sex life and see if things are good for both of us, and during our last talk i got the impression she could use a little more aggression in bed. this has been an interesting challenge for me, as she is my first and only while i am not hers (though i am the first to tie her up), so i've gone from not having sex to being in total control pretty quickly. i'm wondering, from girls who like to be dominated and guys who do the dominating, if they have any advice on this fetish? any suggestions to spice it up, suggestions on possible toys or bedroom items i could use, and suggestions on how to be MORE aggressive while "not getting scary" (her words). also, how to deal with this: my girlfriend wants to be taken charge of and for me to get what i want out of her, which is fine, but any time i initiate sex and she isn't in the mood, she thinks i am mad at her for not wanting it, and then she gets upset. so how am i going to pounce on her and give her what she wants if at the same time it could totally backfire and upset her if she's not in the modd???thanks ahead -
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii  +, writes (24 November 2008):
 ( i know that im young but hey!)
tease her first, get her in the mood if shes not already, handcuffs maybe?
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