I love him dearly but he hurts me in anyway he can!
Q. i'm about to be 16, he's 17. we have been talking for about six months? and well we have choose to date when he comes to my school next year, well anyways i think he's abusive and controlling. you tell me... 1.) i'm not allowed to hang with other ...
A. 28 May 2010: It is simple. LEAVE HIM. there is no options or questions about it, you have to leave him before he manages to convince you that his behaviour is normal, ok or your fault, which it is NOT! He is young and already acting like this which means he will ... (read in full...)
I really want a boyfriend!
Q. If you can see, im quite young, but I would really like a boyfriend. Everyone says i'm desperate, I probably am, but i really want one. Most guys that I was aware that liked me, had a problem or were real bad boys (which i love), so i need to find a ...
A. 28 May 2010: If you go looking for love then it is harder to find! You just need to give yourself the option to meet people, for example talk to differnt boys from school who maybe you aint spoke to before and always be yourself dont try to hard. Go places with ... (read in full...)
how do I go about not being so awkward with her?
Q. so i met this girl at prom a while ago. i thought she was very cute, but thought nothing of it because i am gay, and most girls are straight. well, her friend, her, and i danced that night and had fun. on the ride back, the girl i thought was cute, ...
A. 28 May 2010: Worrying about "how" to flirt or if you are doing it right will make you feel more nervous and akward. Flirting isnt something you have to try to do it is someone that comes naturally when you like someone, the best advice i can give you is just to ... (read in full...)
Job interview help needed!
Q. I have a job interview tomorrow for the position of a receptionist. I really need a job cos I'm just out of school and this one is perfect for me. I will be devastated if I don't get it. Only thing is, I have no experience in this field of work. Or ...
A. 25 May 2010: you need to point out any qualification you have that can help and people skills, talk about customers services and who you are good with people... (read in full...)
Is it normal to bleed after fingering?
Q. well this is a little awkward but i let a guy finger me a couple days ago i started bleeding! it was gross...is this normal? what happened? and will it happen again????...
A. 25 May 2010: yes although not all people do, it came happen the first few times penatration occurs, if it happens after say 4 or 5 times then this is time to be concerned, also make sure as you are still young and new to sexual activity make sure the boy you are ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to bleed after fingering?
Q. well this is a little awkward but i let a guy finger me a couple days ago i started bleeding! it was gross...is this normal? what happened? and will it happen again????...
A. 24 May 2010: popping your cherry is the first time something is incerted inside you the hymen which is something inside your vargina a small layer of skin is popped or broken and this can cause a small bleed. This is totally normal and nothing to be concerned ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to bleed after fingering?
Q. well this is a little awkward but i let a guy finger me a couple days ago i started bleeding! it was gross...is this normal? what happened? and will it happen again????...
A. 23 May 2010: can i ask you if this was the first time you have had this kind of sexual contact?... (read in full...)
Why would she spend time and effort flirting with me if she has difficulty accepting "the whole gay thing"
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm a girl, and I've fallen for a girl who happens to be my best friend. Now,she's told me twice before that she's straight,she reads gay and lesbian romance stories, and has been flirting with me for the last few months, and telling ...
A. 22 May 2010: hey this sounds like a difficult situation for you i can see why you would be so confused. There are a few reason that she could be acting like this, one if she may be in denial about her own sexual feelings towards women so she is pushing them ... (read in full...)
Am I right to be paranoid about my boyfriend staying over at his ex's house?
Q. my boyfriend made out with a girl last summer and he is going to stay round her house this summer with a few friends. i am also going on a camp with him where i am going to meet her. thing is im kind of worried about both? how do i stop being ...
A. 20 May 2010: I understand why you may be worried but relationships are built on trust so you will have to trust him and if you are meant to be togther then he will not be unfaithful, if he does cheat with this girl he is not worth your time, and stopping him ... (read in full...)
Why did he say hi to me on Facebook if he never intended continuing the conversation?
Q. Me and my ex broke up about 5 weeks ago, on good terms. Following this, we did not contact each other. Then suddenly, out of the blue, he popped up on facebook but the conversation was very short; it was just the boring 'hi' 'hows you' etc. Then i ...
A. 14 May 2010: He may have decided that talking to you was not a good idea for him or you or maybe even both and that is why he did not carry on speaking with you. =]... (read in full...)
Does my lecturer have feelings for me?
Q. I have a crush on my lecturer at university, i find myself thinking about her all the time, I know its wrong but i look for reasons to speak with her and see her i cant help it, but shes in a relationship and i would never dream of ruining this, or ...
A. 14 May 2010: Not to be mean but i do doubt this woman has feelings for someone as young as yourself who also happens to be student, if you did have feelings for you acting on them would without cost her job and any academic jobs in the future my advice is if ... (read in full...)
If I'm not sure she's gay, should I still ask her out?
Q. Okay, a girl I was certain I really loved had to move far away. This was back in August and I had been having trouble moving on, but now I feel I can try dating again. There's now this girl at school that I'd like to ask out, but I don't know how to ...
A. 12 May 2010: I dont know if asking a friend would be a good idea because if she is not they will ask her that you asked, i would suggest that you try talking to her on a friendly level to get to know her, maybe ask her what celebrities she thinks are pretty or ... (read in full...)
If I'm not sure she's gay, should I still ask her out?
Q. Okay, a girl I was certain I really loved had to move far away. This was back in August and I had been having trouble moving on, but now I feel I can try dating again. There's now this girl at school that I'd like to ask out, but I don't know how to ...
A. 12 May 2010: I dont know if asking a friend would be a good idea because if she is not they will ask her that you asked, i would suggest that you try talking to her on a friendly level to get to know her, maybe ask her what celebrities she thinks are pretty or ... (read in full...)
B/f wants to get more intimate but I'm unsure about it
Q. Im a 16 year old guy. And I'm gay. Me and my boyfriend have been togethr for a while..but now he wants to get more intimate with me. I want to.. but i'm afraid at the same time. What do i do?...
A. 10 May 2010: you are still young and you should only do things when you feel ready for them not when your bf wants you to be ready, you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel and if he really cares about you in the way that he should, then he will ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to come out to my parents but they are forcing me into marriage! Where can I turn for help?
Q. i am a sixteen year old homosexual girl.i live in jaipur and study in class 10.i have not yet come out to my parents thinking they will disown me or even kill me.we used to live in U.A.E only till last year.we have settled down in jaipur because of ...
A. 2 May 2010: I do not know alot about india and would never claim in do. But is there any organisation that you know of the help homosexual people in india? if not i would suggest using google or another search engine to find one that does annd then contact ... (read in full...)
Should I sacrifice my own dream wedding for my family?
Q. I have a Big Problem and its very Complicated I was born a man and I dress like a woman I act like a woman I do everything like a woman but I don't like men I have a girlfriend but she dressess like a man and acts like a man so basically she's the ...
A. 30 April 2010: Weddings are a personal event and they should be just how you and your girlfriend want it to be and not anybody elses way, if your family can not except how you want your day i dont believe you should change it this is the 21st century and people ... (read in full...)
I wish she would come back
Q. I am still so in love with my ex girlfriend I can't stop thinking about her a year later. We met at the place I used to work went out for 8 months and both fell in love. She ended things cos I was always so picky and messed everything up..completely ...
A. 23 April 2010: This might not be what you want to hear, truth never is though, but you need to focus on yourself at the moment. Break ups can affect people in different ways and this one has clearly affected you badly and done some damage in your life, you need to ... (read in full...)
How can I prove I have changed when I am not even with her?
Q. Well im AuntyAlexxmo and i am not used to asking questions on here answering them is more my thing, but i have seen the good advice given to other and well i dont know what else to do to be honest with you. I can feel myself falling apart, my gf of ...
A. 26 March 2010: its not about making her mad, im just grumpy with and i have taken her for granted and just expected her to be there no matter what and well i guess she has decided she isnt going to be there now.Last time we broke up i promised her i would stop ... (read in full...)
How do I stop my brother becoming violent like our dad?
Q. My dad hit me and my brother when we were very young. When he was angry because we had been talking too loudly or because we disagreed with him. My brother (13) has punched me twice in the last week just because he was annoyed, this is exactly what ...
A. 18 March 2010: It sounds like you two have had a hard time and things such as violence in a family can affect everyone in different ways. Your brother may need profesional help to deal with what has happened, is there an adult you can talk to such as a teacher or ... (read in full...)
I've fallen for my best friend, but I'm not sure where to go from here
Q. ive grown really close to my bestfriend. We started off as friends but over the past year have just become closer and closer. Now we spend practically all our free time together (we are both at uni doing the same course and share a flat together). I ...
A. 18 March 2010: Hey well i have to agree with our anonymous friend and say it does sound very much like she has feelings for you and in my opinion she is trying to show you this without being to forward with her actions. Its true you dont have to start off by ... (read in full...)
Suddenly secretive...
Q. My girlfriend is suddenly claiming that I don't give her enough space and seems secretive about her email should I be worried? I on the other hand have always been an open book, i don't care who is behind me as I write email or anything else. She ...
A. 18 March 2010: She doesnt trust you because no matter why you did it looking at het emails that one time has broken the privacy trust ( i am not having a go trust me i have done it myself thats why i know) so now she feels you are checking up on her even if you ... (read in full...)
Is there any special meaning when a guy posts love song lyrics as a status online?
Q. Hello, I was wondering, is there any special meaning when a guy posts love song lyrics as a status on Facebook/MSN?...
A. 17 March 2010: It can mean many things, it could just be because he likes the song, or it could be that he wants a certain person to know that they are aimed iat them or that is the way that he is feeling. =]... (read in full...)
Suddenly secretive...
Q. My girlfriend is suddenly claiming that I don't give her enough space and seems secretive about her email should I be worried? I on the other hand have always been an open book, i don't care who is behind me as I write email or anything else. She ...
A. 17 March 2010: If the only reason you have to suspect that she is cheating is the email thing, then i do not think that you have alot to worry about on the cheating front atleast. Chemo brain is condition and mood swings are a huge part of its effects. I think the ... (read in full...)
Mixed feelings...?
Q. So far, this season of soccer hasn't been going well for me... I don't have the same coach as last year and was disappointed when I found out he wasn't going to be coaching again. So, I'm thinking about talking with him and sharing my ...
A. 14 March 2010: I do not see any reason why you cant talk to him about your concerns, he knows you well as he coached you for a year and i am sure he would be happy to talk through things with you. good luck =]... (read in full...)
How can I show my girlfriend that we are not doing anything wrong and that everything will be ok?
Q. ok so i got together with this girl and i like her a lot but her family has a problem with. the thing is her aunt and my uncle got married about 3 years ago. but the thing is me and her have know each other for about 7 of 8 years now. we have b...
A. 13 March 2010: To start with trying to show her that you care about her and that IF she cares about you in the same way, that you are not doing anything wrong is far from emotional blackmail or anything similar. Having a baby is a big event in anyones life and... (read in full...)
How do I show this girl, that I want a second chance?
Q. ok so i decided to set up an account and see if i could get some advice because i really dont know what to do. i was with my girlfriend for nearly 3 years and we had some really really great times.we broke up 7 weeks ago. the ting was i was v...
A. 13 March 2010: You need to try and spend some time together as friends, only if this is what she wants to do, and then she will be able to see for herself if she thinks your behaviour is any different than it was before, this would be the easiest way without her ... (read in full...)
I have feelings for my same sex friend!!!
Q. So i was in school the other day and my friend told me that she is bi (apparently she has not told anyone else). i myself am straight, and have known her since we were 3 (we are both 14 now). ever since she told me, i have had feelings for her, but ...
A. 9 March 2010: To be straight with you, you havethese feelings because you are 14 and your hormones will drive you mad! You are at a very experimental stage and her telling you something like that has just set your mind off racing, whether you have real feelings ... (read in full...)
Is this lack of a father figure or something else???
Q. I'm 17 - 18 in a couple of months. It's taken me a lot of courage to start writing this, because I am very, very embarrassed about what I'm going to say and I feel like such an awful, twisted person. I have always had confidence issues, paranoia ...
A. 8 March 2010: Hey there honey, i have got to say that is the longest question i have ever read which is cool lol you needed to get out all the detial and also can i just say please please stop calling yourself twisted and other things because i do not care what ... (read in full...)
My friend's boyfriend came onto me... do I tell her?
Q. Help, my friend's boyfriend told me he fancies me and has tried to kiss me... Do I tell her? I know she is going to leave him soon as she is sick of him being immature and she likes another guy... Any help apreciated!!...
A. 8 March 2010: This is hard as people usual shoot the messenger but if you dont tell her and she finds out she may think you are hiding something. The first thing i would try and do is make him tell her, tell him that you will tell her if he does not a give him a ... (read in full...)
Would he be classed as a sort of pervert because he's too old for me?
Q. this 16 year old guy seems to like me and i like him i want to go further than friends though which is ok. but im 14 hes 16 and i dont know how my mum will react to it and would he be classed as a sort of pervert because he's too old for me?...
A. 8 March 2010: You are under the age of consent so if anything sexual happened between you and this boy he would be breaking the law and put on the sex offenders register as having sex with a minor. A conviction like with would affect the rest of his life. If you ... (read in full...)
We hit it off, but she is my friends little sister. Help!
Q. I have liked this girl for about 3 years now, we hung out and we really seemed to hit it off, the problem is recently i found out that she is one of my friends little sister (i should have realized by the last name). He says he is cool with me if i ...
A. 7 March 2010: Just sit down with your friend and make sure that he really is ok with the idea of the two of you dating and everything that comes with it. If he agrees then i don't see any reason for you to be uncomfortable =]... (read in full...)
He asked me to be his baby mamma
Q. so i have boyfriend, we've been going out since last week monday but known each other for years, he's a senior 17 im a sophmore and 16 on thursday, we were talking about our futures, i want to make weapons like in the movie ironman and GI j...
A. 7 March 2010: You are both too young for a baby! You have your whole life to have children, what about finishing school and going to college, things like that are very hard to do with a baby near impossible at times and also the cost of a baby can be huge. Just ... (read in full...)
Sexually frustrated virgin!
Q. Sorry this is so long but I really need help! (and to vent!) I am a healthy, slim, attractive girl in her mid twenties. I have been with my fiance for two years now and everything is great but the only problem is that he will not have sex with me...
A. 7 March 2010: You need to sit him down and ask him straight why he wont have sex with you, not take excuses from him and make him tell you the truth. If he says that he does not believe that you are ready explain to him that the only person who really knows if ... (read in full...)
Is my daughter gay? How do I handle walking in on such an embarrassing scene?
Q. Hi, I am a single dad of a 15 year old girl and came home one day to hear laughing coming from my daughters room when I didnt even expect her to be home. so I just went over and walked in to ask her how her day was and I find my daughter naked w...
A. 6 March 2010: She may be worried to talk about this incase you get mad at her, for taking a day off school or for what you saw, it is important that you make sure that she knows you are not mad at her you are just concerned about her feelings. Like other people ... (read in full...)
Can you damage yourself internally if you use a vibrator too forcefully?
Q. Can you damage yourself internally using a vibrator, may have been used to forcefully? I have had a slight achey feeling around where my left ovary is and wondered if this could be attributed to it?...
A. 6 March 2010: You can make your self soar but it is very difficulty to leave any lasting damage in that area and pain in the ovary area can mean a variety of things, if it continues i would see a doctor. =]... (read in full...)
Why won't my boyfriend work?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been dating two months but have known each other four years. He got laid off from work an now doesnt have a job and says he has been looking for one but i dont see it. I try to encourage him to get out there and find one.but ...
A. 6 March 2010: You could try sitting down with him and telling him that you know how hard it is from him to lose a job and that it is stressful looking for a job mixed the rejection that comes with job searching. but tell him that the sooner he finds one the ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with these bad boys?
Q. at school normally im seen as the good girl. im the quiet one. the clever one. the one that never does anything bad. never been drunk. dont have sex. saying that.....never had a boyfriend.... my problem is, i've fallen hard for a bad boy. i have ...
A. 5 March 2010: stay away from them is the best trick, you can try and be friends with them and not drink or do the things that they do, but it is hard not to fet pulled into it. i know this may not be what you want to hear but drinking at your age is stupid and ... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble accepting the way he treats women because of his culture, is it true all men from the middle east are like this?
Q. Ok, my boyfriend is Kurdish. I love him so much but ive got the biggest problem with some of his attitudes, mainly about women but about other things as well. It's not just him, all his friends also have these attitudes, I'm told frequent...
A. 5 March 2010: Well you need to stop and think, if he never changes is this what you want from your life? that will tell you what you need to do =]... (read in full...)
Crush.....on a woman?
Q. I'm a teenage girl, who is completely straight. Anyone who knows me in real life knows I always have some crazy infatuation with one of our cute guy teachers. However, I joined drama club, and have developed this weird crush for our female ...
A. 5 March 2010: I know exactly what you are talking about, and it sounds like you have less of a girl crush and more of a bit of admiration for this woman, she is talented and great at something you are passionate about. this type of feeling is totally normal and ... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble accepting the way he treats women because of his culture, is it true all men from the middle east are like this?
Q. Ok, my boyfriend is Kurdish. I love him so much but ive got the biggest problem with some of his attitudes, mainly about women but about other things as well. It's not just him, all his friends also have these attitudes, I'm told frequent...
A. 5 March 2010: One of my closest friends is happily married to a kurdish man and has been for two years, and he is nothing like that at all. They have an equal relationship and i can not imagine him saying anything as vile as been violent to a woman is ok. You ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my friend that I have feelings for her old crush?
Q. Hi! I’m really sorry if you get confused by this but I would really appreciate any help! I started a new school for my A-levels in September and I have a friend who is a couple of years below me who also goes to the school called Amy and we are quit...
A. 3 March 2010: Thanks for the update honey im glad nothing has gone wrong and i hope it stays like that =] x... (read in full...)
Should I tell my friend that I have feelings for her old crush?
Q. Hi! I’m really sorry if you get confused by this but I would really appreciate any help! I started a new school for my A-levels in September and I have a friend who is a couple of years below me who also goes to the school called Amy and we are quit...
A. 25 February 2010: hey there, well you aint doing anything wrong by liking this girl we cant controll how we have feelings for, i think the best way to go about this would be to sit down with amy and tell her exactly what you are feeling but tell her you have the ... (read in full...)
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