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writes:I'm a teenage girl, who is completely straight. Anyone who knows me in real life knows I always have some crazy infatuation with one of our cute guy teachers. However, I joined drama club, and have developed this weird crush for our female choreographer. She's young, and so beautiful...I don't want to kiss or date her or anything, but I freak out when I'm near her. (Stammering, nervous, blushing, etc.) I'm savvy enough to know this is probably just a girl crush, because she teaches a subject I'm really passionate about. But this is still weird for me to have this infatuation for a woman. Anyone know what I'm talking about, and want to give me some advice? Haha thanksss. 3
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reader, tinke  +, writes (5 March 2010):
 gal u not alone!z i write to u now m feeling very confused abt these feelings i am havng fo a gal i went to collge with. m completely straight z well n i dnt know how to describe this part of my life. i suggest you do what m doing n that z taking time to listen to what yur heart z telling u, to see if its not just an infatuation. if my heart tells me to go for that gal, gal m giving up my 10yr relationship just fo her. yep u heard me right!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): Do you think it could be that you sort of admire her, and feel a bit awe struck by her? I have known women who have made me feel like that, and I would turn into a nervous wreck around them. Not because I fancied them or wanted to date them, but because I just felt a bit... I don't know, sort of intimidated by them. Not in a bad way exactly. But there was some sense of "wow..." towards them.
I think it is normal to have these feelings though. After you get to know her more and spend more time in her classes, you might start to feel more comfortable. She might not notice anything, even if it feels really noticeable to you! And if she does, she might just think you are a bit shy. It might get better with a bit of time though. x
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reader, BagLady +, writes (5 March 2010):
Infatuation can be for both sexes, all ages, animals, and things. You find her to be the embodiment of something you admire. It is normal to be awkward around someone like that, to look up to them, to feel memorized at how easily they are beautiful.
This is normal and you are starting to unlock a higher level of emotional potential that you were when you were a child. Almost like leveling up in a videogame-haha. You are just fine-it's not a crush, you just adore who she is.
You know how little boys and girls think their mom or dad is the strongest, smartest, most beautiful or handsome of whatever? It's kind of like that-but you are getting it more at an adult level.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (5 March 2010):
 I know exactly what you are talking about, and it sounds like you have less of a girl crush and more of a bit of admiration for this woman, she is talented and great at something you are passionate about. this type of feeling is totally normal and many other people would say they have had similar feelings. hope this helps you =]
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