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writes:at school normally im seen as the good girl. im the quiet one. the clever one. the one that never does anything bad. never been drunk. dont have sex. saying that.....never had a boyfriend.... my problem is, i've fallen hard for a bad boy. i have told him but he's taken so for now we're just friends. i have started talking to his friends and they said they want to get me drunk etc. so does anyone one any tips on how to deal with bad boys?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (6 March 2010):
 A man is judged by the company he keeps. Either he leaves his bad company for you or you stop seeing him or just be friends only.
If you follow him and and goes with his crowd,it is
just like a herd of buffaloes in a mud hole, if you are a clean buffalo , you will also get muddied if you join them.
The best way is to get out while you can because you cannot change their lifes and you will be overwhelmed.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (5 March 2010):
 stay away from them is the best trick, you can try and be friends with them and not drink or do the things that they do, but it is hard not to fet pulled into it. i know this may not be what you want to hear but drinking at your age is stupid and will not lead to good things and by the sounds of it you are doing so well. =] x
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reader, robot +, writes (5 March 2010):
You are clever, yes? Well that is good. You don't have sex, well that is good too - you are too young. You do not however talk about your will power and strength of character, and that worries me.
I have no idea just how 'bad' these boys are, and what 'bad' things they like to do, but one way or another 'bad' means breaking some kind of rule, a school rule or the law, or just a simple rule of courtesy like refusing to say 'please' and 'thankyou', its all bad.
What 'bad' boys have is the will power to go against the flow and break a rule. How would you match up to all this will power? Can you stay in control of what you want to happen when all these experienced baddies may have their own ideas about what they want you to do?
If you all start drinking, and they are all experienced drinkers, and you have never touched a drop, well, you are clever aren't you? Look up the effects of alcohol use and ask yourself the question - 'Who is going to be the first person to loose control?' After that person has lost control, I ask, what could happen then? And I suppose the answer to that depends on how 'bad' they are doesn't it. Maybe you'll spend a pleasant evening getting kicks from going to the newsagents and asking for sweets without saying 'please'.
I am worried enough to advise you directly to look straight away for a new group of friends - clever ones like your self. When you look for another boy friend, he doesn't have to be good, but he does have to be interesting enough to think of stuff to do that doesn't involve drinking.
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