Does same sex Female Colleague Feel the Same Way as I do or Does she just Not Like Me?
Q. I started a new job two months ago and although I sit wit a table of guys (the women sit at another table) recently I have noticed one of the girls acting differently towards me lately. I am not sure if she is jealous of the attention I get from my ...
A. 23 October 2011: I agree she definately has some sort of strong feeling towards you and i dont think they are anything to do with her not liking you so that really does only leave on option. She may just be slightly confused, or she may be secretly bisexua... (read in full...)
I love her but she's confused on which path to take!
Q. I am a 35 year old girl who has been in a relationship with another girl for 8 months.She has asked me for a break between us, to see what she really wants.She says she loves me but she is confused on what path to take.To be with a man in order to ...
A. 16 October 2011: You need to tell her exactly how you feel about her and how you feel about you two as a couple, also it may be a good idea to mention to her she can still have a baby in a same sex relationship, through IVF or other methods.
After you have tol... (read in full...)
What is the likelihood that I could have gotten HIV from him?
Q. I recently fooled around with a 20 year old guy that I met at the bar and I'm worried if I may have gotten HIV from him. We didn't have sex but he did finger me, so if he had precum on his hand (he did not ejaculate) that he used to finger me, could ...
A. 16 October 2011: To have HIV this guy would have to be infected and he would also have had to get pre-cum inside you, this is unlikely, but still possible.
HIV is not the only sexually transmitted disease that you should be worried about when being sexual with som... (read in full...)
Am I secretly attracted to my Teacher?
Q. Okay so the other night i had a really weird dream about my teacher. I had a dream i had a crush on him and that i started making out with him. The weird part was after i woke up i felt kind of turned on? I know that's gross. And i Never ever dream ...
A. 16 October 2011: If you dont feel attracted to him when your are actually awake then no you arent and there is nothing to worry about.
Think about all the strange and weird dreams that you have had before, they didnt mean anything at all and neither does this one... (read in full...)
Not sure of my sexuality, can you help me??
Q. Im 17 years old and i don't know if im lesbian or not. I really really like guys but i think i might also be attracted to girls. i don't know if this would be the best thing or not for me Please Help!!!...
A. 16 October 2011: What you feel right now is very normal and loads of people especially your age, feel the same. What I would say is important for you right now is not to worry about labels such as lesbian or bisexual and just spend some learn who you actually are... (read in full...)
B/f wants a foursome--3 guys and me! I kind of want it too!
Q. I've had the biggest crush on this guy for like a year now. He's super adorable. We flirt all the time. He and I have been "talking" for like two months now. I love when people give me attention and he gives me the most. Last month, we were at his ...
A. 15 October 2011: No you shouldnt do it!
He clearly doesnt like you, raise the bar!... (read in full...)
How do I tell this married girl to back off easily without hurting her?
Q. I really quite like this married bi girl. She's on my course so avoiding her for the next three years is going to be slightly impossible. She reminds me of the girl I fell for in college and looks identical to her. The bi girl in college constant...
A. 10 October 2011: You definately dont want to get involved in this situation! Their realtionship sounds far from perfect but that is their issue and the last thing you want is to get into the middle of it.
If i was you i would simply tell her that as much as you l... (read in full...)
I want my girl to stay with me for a night
Q. hello there i am a lesbian and me and my girlfriend have been dating for awhile now and she wont come and stay the night with me juat for at least a nigh. soo i had asked her why wont u come stay with me. she tells me that she is scared. so i had ...
A. 6 October 2011: When you say "stay for night" do you mean sleep in your bed with you or do you mean sex?
If you want her to just stay the night you need to make sure she knows that this is all you mean.
If it is sex you want you need to respect her reas... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and he's been with 25 people! I'm freaked out!
Q. I,m still a virgin and yet a guy i,ve been seeing has literally done it all and he's only 22! I asked him how many women had he slept with thinking it would only be 3 or 4 he told me its about 25 people including 3 ways and 4 ways and a ...
A. 3 October 2011: He is probably been sensitive and giving you the time to be ready for things sexually, which shows he is caring.... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and he's been with 25 people! I'm freaked out!
Q. I,m still a virgin and yet a guy i,ve been seeing has literally done it all and he's only 22! I asked him how many women had he slept with thinking it would only be 3 or 4 he told me its about 25 people including 3 ways and 4 ways and a ...
A. 2 October 2011: You need to calm down and think about if his past or present is the most important thing to you? He cant change his past, so you either need to put it out of your mind and if you cant then maybe its best to move on. Its so important to remem... (read in full...)
In a troubled argumentative relationship... Should I stay?
Q. Please help me... I've been with my partner for a year now. We used to get on like a house on fire and we could go out and always have a great time. She has never been a brilliant drunk and for the last 4 or 5 months we fallen out a lot more when ...
A. 2 October 2011: I agree with the other people it may be time to call it a day if nothing changes, but have you sat down with her, when she hasnt been drinking, told her exactly how you feel, what you want to change and if it does not what will happen? If not mayb... (read in full...)
What to do when you're a lesbian dating a guy, confused and 22 weeks pregnant?
Q. I've been dating a guy for 3mos before I got pregnant. I'm 22 weeks now and I have mixed feelings about him. He was the first guy I've dated and spent a lot of time with in 7 yrs since I've been dating women exclusively. I have feelings for my ex gf ...
A. 2 October 2011: Nothing similar but hopefully a bit of advice. If you are pregnant and happy at thought of being a mum that is good as it one less decision to make in this difficult situation. In my opinion i do think you rushed into this relationship wi... (read in full...)
My ex is rubbing her new relationship in my face
Q. I'm new here and i reallllllllllyy neeeed some help I had a very rocky relationship with my girlfriend for 11 months. Everything was cool at first, but things just changed. She was controlling and never let me do what I needed to do. It was a...
A. 24 September 2011: As long as you hold on to the anger that you feel towards her it will make it very hard to move on. As hard as it is you need to let it go, your right what she did was wrong and unfair but you cant change the past so dont let it shape your futur... (read in full...)
My first time lesbian sex came and I wasnt ready, now gf is feeling horrible.
Q. Lesbian girlfriend is feeling guilty about our first time sex. I didn't want it but she did so she ate me out. I'm okay with it, at the time almost a year ago I wasn't ready to be intimate with her bc I thought she was just another person trying to ...
A. 23 September 2011: You need to sit down and tell her that it is all in the past and that you do not hold any bed feelings towards her about that situation.
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My ex is rubbing her new relationship in my face
Q. I'm new here and i reallllllllllyy neeeed some help I had a very rocky relationship with my girlfriend for 11 months. Everything was cool at first, but things just changed. She was controlling and never let me do what I needed to do. It was a...
A. 15 September 2011: She isnt over you and she is using him to try and bother you which is her problem so i really wouldnt let it bother you. She is your ex so you dont need to talk to her or know anything about her life, as soon as she sees you arent bothered by the ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend prefers her phone over me
Q. Hi.i'm a very lovable person.very affectionate and sexual but my gf often would rather be on her phone checking her facebook and stuff.she is not very sexual and she is always tired. i'm tired of asking for attention.i don't know what i can do.even ...
A. 13 September 2011: You need to sit her down, without her phone, and tell her exactly how you feel, that yoy would like to spend more time with her and have her full attention. If she doesnt like this or does not change her behaviour after your talk you may need to ... (read in full...)
He left money for me on the bedside table and left without saying goodbye
Q. Hi I met a guy at a festival and we had really good sex so we arranged to meet up again back home. We live different sides of the country so we met in the middle and got a hotel for the night. I was aware that this was just sex however what hap...
A. 13 September 2011: First thing is, no you should not ever expect to be treated like this by anyone in any situation. Casual sex does have a habit of leaving people feeling the way you do, as there is no commitment and the other person can just leave or stop talking ... (read in full...)
Is there any chance she still likes me? I really really like her, I just don't know what to do
Q. Long story short - a girl I've been seeing for around 5 months (we'll call her X) told me she didn't want anything to do with me anymore about a month ago. I have confidence issues after my ex girlfriend (of nearly 4 years) hurt me pretty badly, but ...
A. 15 August 2011: This girl clearly does like you otherwise she wouldnt have put up with you being on and off and still come back and talk to you agian.
That doesnt mean that she isnt mad at you or annoyed with the way you have been, but she definatly likes yo... (read in full...)
Online Lesbian Stalker
Q. I met this chic in February while in a relationship with now ex. I met the chic from a site n wanted to get to know her, in a none sexual way. So we exchanged numbers and maybe within a week or so met. She seemed real cool. It was only 3mos later ...
A. 3 July 2011: You neeed to block her and report her to the site.
Text her and tell her she needs to leave you alone or you will be informing the police of her harrassing you.
Ring your cell phone provider and have them block her number, if you tell them she is s... (read in full...)
Her friend texts me to stay out of my GF's life. Now what?
Q. Me and my gf just broke up and it's killing me badly. We dated for 15 months and it's killing me so badly. I suffer from manic depression and I'm dealing with counseling and medication. I do things out of my control sometimes and I ...
A. 21 June 2011: No worries darling glad to help! i hope everything works out!! x
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Her friend texts me to stay out of my GF's life. Now what?
Q. Me and my gf just broke up and it's killing me badly. We dated for 15 months and it's killing me so badly. I suffer from manic depression and I'm dealing with counseling and medication. I do things out of my control sometimes and I ...
A. 21 June 2011: Im really sorry to hear about your break up, you suffer from the same illness as my girlfriends does so im no expert but i know a bit about it.
Does you ex and friends know about your illness, if not you should tell them as it will make things m... (read in full...)
How do I handle it when my gf ignores and then hurts my feelings?
Q. My gf and I are long distance a the moment and we are meeting in august. I'm stressed because I feel like when we aren't on the phone and just texting she acts completely different, almost like an asshole. If I text her long messages trying to get ...
A. 21 June 2011: Some people dont like to talk about impotrant things or how they feel by text. If she works they may be busy and not have time to text.
If i was you i would text her a bit less and see if she makes the effort to talk to you. Then if that goes ok,... (read in full...)
Is a lie at the beginning of a friendship just as bad as a lie at the beginning of a relationship?
Q. Do you think a lie at the beginning of a friendship is just as bad and damaging as a lie at the beginning? of a romantic relationship? We've been talking and hanging out for only a few months. I started lying to a friend before I knew her, liked...
A. 20 June 2011: A lie is a lie no matter when or who you tell it to.
The best thing you can do is tell her what you lied about and also why you lied and make sure she knows how sorry you are and that you would not repeat the mistake again.... (read in full...)
Everyone else I know is in a relationship. Why not me?
Q. I really need some advice. I have never in my life had a girlfriend and want to have a relationship. I want companionship in my life. I want to experience the closeness, kissing, cuddling, sex... I really feel behind the curve. It hasn'...
A. 19 June 2011: Hey
Well if this is bothering you instead of worrying about it why not do something about it! You sound like a nice guy, so why not go out there and make it happen instead of waiting for love you come your way.
You need to make an effort to mee... (read in full...)
How can I get him to be less distant?
Q. I have recently starting going out with this guy called Bob* I do like him but he is so distances he doesn’t hug me or anything, I think due to that I’ve started thinking about my last ex called Ash* I think about Ash at night the most considering ...
A. 19 June 2011: How long have you been with Bob, maybe he is the type of person that takes longer to open up to people and be affectionate, maybe you could talk to him about it, or when you see him just hug him or ask for a hug and see how he is.
You are more tha... (read in full...)
Do I come out and risk being bullied again? Or stay silent?
Q. ok so a year ago i came out to a friend who i thought i could trust, turns out i couldn't when i came into class the next morning and questions where being thrown at me saying "are you gay" i was so shocked i mean i thought i could trust her i told ...
A. 19 June 2011: Hi darling
Well i was about your age when i was 100% sure that i was gay and my friends at school where the same, they either thought it was gross or something to make a joke of, but this is not what people really think, it is because they are... (read in full...)
Any ideas on how to plan a perfect dinner and gift for my boyfriend?
Q. i want to make the percfect dinner with a gift for my boyfriend but i dont know what? any ideas? ...
A. 18 June 2011: Well we dont know what type of things your bf likes, but i would suggest instead of an expensive get, something personal to him, maybe a joke between the two of you or even something relating to a good memory.] For dinner depends how well you can... (read in full...)
He gets horny over my baby bump. Is this normal?
Q. hey. i am 4 months pregnant. i have been with my boyfriend for 12 months, however it is not his baby. he knows, he's accepted it (i think) and he forgave me for cheating on him. anyway, now i am starting to get a bump. this seems to send my boyfr...
A. 16 June 2011: Hey, its true many men do enjoy the thought of sex with a pregnant woman, the fact this man actually mentions the baby and not the bump or belly as part of the sexual fantasy is very abnormal and you really should be concerned, take a minute and ... (read in full...)
I asked a girl out and now she has told everyone at school I'm a lesbian!
Q. yesterday , i asked this girl out, im a girl too and im lesbian shes bi or something, i asked her in private and she was like maybe, no then now its maybe. im not openly gay yet and only my frends know. but today everyone found out,because the girl...
A. 10 June 2011: I agree the best way to face it is head on, be strong and proud, if people ask you say yes and just move on, remember your not there to answer every question people ask and dont be ashamed of being you.
About your mum, well you only need to tell ... (read in full...)
I can't get over his sexual past and I'm still worired that he wasnt telling me truth
Q. Hello, the problem has been making me quite uncomfortable with my bf. We met online back in dec 2010 and met IRL by end of April 2011. The thing is that we had unprotected sex ( he didn't really penetrated in me) but I read that it's high risk ...
A. 10 June 2011: You are going to pester him straight out the door! It was stupid to not use protection but that was your choice as much as his, and although he shouldnt lie to you who he slept with before you met really is little of your buissness. You need to calm ... (read in full...)
Any advice for getting rid of stretch marks?
Q. Hi there! Well last August I had an accident, in which I fell off my horse at full gallop and landed on my back. I didn't break anything, but my lower back and hips, and upper thighs were all scraped and bruised, and all swelled up. Almost a year ...
A. 10 June 2011: Rubbing olive oil into the skin encourages the tissue to grow and the scar to reduce.... (read in full...)
Why in the world would anyone break off a relationship, then start calling over and over and want to meet to talk?
Q. pretty sure my girlfriend (or ex now as of today) of two years, met someone else. she called me and broke things off this afternoon saying that she loves me a ton but just doesn't know if we could ever work because we constantly fight. and that she ...
A. 10 June 2011: Im sorry to our anonymous friend but i dont believe its as simple as a loss or changing hands of power.
I agree that you maybe wrong it think their is someone else and she would like to explain why that is not true to you in person.
I also ... (read in full...)
Help, am I gay?
Q. im 14 and i have a boyfriend but im sure that im a lesbian. what should i do im sure a lesbian and i think i like a girl at my school do u think im gay and what should i do??...
A. 10 June 2011: At your age many people doubt who they are in many wasy including their sexuality, so i would label yourself as anything just yet, instead just dont be scared of your feeling and just see how it goes over time, if you learn you like girls but still ... (read in full...)
Isn't this a little too serious a little too fast?
Q. My girlfriend freaks out every time someone comments on my photos on fb or writes on my wall. We've only been dating for about a week but whenever someone writes something on my wall or on a photo she panics and starts questioning me about it. She ...
A. 10 June 2011: Have you talked to her about how you feel, or are you just going to end it because if so atleast tell her why so maybe she can not do it again with another relationship.... (read in full...)
She doesn't give me oral - Is she really a lesbian?
Q. I'm dating a girl who doesn't like to give oral. The basic thing to like and love in a lesbian relationship. Is it possible to still be a lesbian and not like to give oral to your partner?...
A. 9 June 2011: I agree that it is nothing to do with sexuality and also you cant make someone do something they are not happy with, but if it bothers you why not sit and talk to her about it. Is this her firsy relationship, it may be that she is unsure of what to ... (read in full...)
Isn't this a little too serious a little too fast?
Q. My girlfriend freaks out every time someone comments on my photos on fb or writes on my wall. We've only been dating for about a week but whenever someone writes something on my wall or on a photo she panics and starts questioning me about it. She ...
A. 8 June 2011: Thats a hell of a lot very fast darling.!
She clearly has some problems with trust and insecurity about being cheated on that were created along time before you came along.
You need to tell her that you are not going to cheat on her and she n... (read in full...)
Why is she trying to break us up? We don't even know her. Help!
Q. I've just started dating a girl and a complete stranger to both of us has just started emailing my girlfriend telling her I'm a fake and that I'm not genuine, I'm really confused because I've never spoken to this person before and neither has my ...
A. 7 June 2011: The others are right, the person IS someone you know and again you will be shocked about who it turns out to be, likely to be a jealous ex or admirer.
The simplest action really is for you to both delete and block this person and most of all do not ... (read in full...)
Do I have a sign that says "Lesbian" or something?
Q. Hi, first of all, my profile is incorect, my age is 24 :). Ok, so I've noticed that way more girls seem to get interested in me than guys, and since I feel safer around women or men, I'm more likely to be friendly, which makes them more likely...
A. 6 June 2011: I like the idea of ask the next woman that hits on you why she thought you might be interested, you can learn a lot thaat way.
Also, why not try making more of an effort to talk to men, at work, when your out, that way you are more likely to meet ... (read in full...)
I'm scared they're going to think I'm a slut or easy!
Q. I feel like a slut because in drama class these guys I was sitting next to were feeling on my boobs I kinda like it but I kept on her my friend voice in my head telling me to stop so I said do go in there like my shirt but if one did it the other ...
A. 4 June 2011: You should put this behind you and most importantly NOT do it again!
These boys should not treat you in this way, and you need to learn to respect yourself and not let boys just use you or you will get a reputation, which you dont want as i am sur... (read in full...)
My friend doesn't use facebook or her phone. How does she do it?
Q. I find it very strange that my best friend doesn't have facebook and hardly uses her mobile!? She's 18 so it's werid enough she doesn't have facebook, but the other day i realized she isn't a fan of using her phone either!?? It just is VERY rare of ...
A. 4 June 2011: Its a simple answer:
Facebook is not the end of the world, and a phone is for contacting people if you need them when it comes down to it those things really are pointless and you dont need them to function, im 21 and i deleted facebook and msn beca... (read in full...)
Why would gay sex turn me on?
Q. I'm a bi-sexual, 21 year old female with a straight boyfriend of the same age and we've been together for a year. We're both open minded about watching porn and sometimes, we even watch it together. We find it's more educational for us and it spices ...
A. 4 June 2011: Many women, of all sexualities, enjoy gay porn, it really doesnt mean much, if anything.... (read in full...)
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