How do I get my online LDR girlfriend back? She broke up with me because she said being gay was against her faith.
Q. i'm lesbian and two weeks ago my girlfrind broke up with me after nearly three months. Its a long distance relationship. At first our relationship was great but there were issues. She'd tell me i upset her or made her angry because i didn't a...
A. 30 June 2012: I'm sorry to say this and you wont like it, but you dont need her back.
After only 3 months of have all these issues, 3 months is nothing.
Dont you feel like you deserve more, like a girl that lives closer you can actually spend time with?... (read in full...)
I'm really jealous when my girlfriend goes out with her girl mate!
Q. Hey I don't like to think I'm the jealous type but since i've been with my new girlfriend i've been getting really jealous when she goes out with her girl mate, I wouldn't be bothered if I lived near her and seen her often but I don't get to see h...
A. 21 June 2012: Well you have a choice.
You either need to learn to have trust in her and be secure that she wont cheat and get past this and understand that she has to have friends and some times people do talk about there friends a lot.
Or you can tell her... (read in full...)
I never doubted being in love until my mom said that I just cared deeply for my friend.
Q. My girlfriend and I were doing great, and going on over 8 months. However, my parents found out about us and now we have to be even more careful about hiding it. When my mom and I were talking about it, she said she doubted that I was 'in love' and ...
A. 20 June 2012: Your mom is wrong, you no what you feel and you should trust that.... (read in full...)
My first female sex partner turns out to be one of my tutors! Now what?
Q. I'll try and make this as short as possible. I'm 20 and I am coming to the end of my first year in college (I left a few years in between school as I had a job at the time). Well I was out one night in town after splitting up with my boyfriend (The ...
A. 20 June 2012: She can' get into trouble for sleeping with you before you went to college, but she would get into a lot of trouble if anything happened while you were there.
The best way to clear the awkward feeling would be to go upp and talk to her, just say... (read in full...)
What can I do to cope with news that my daughter's in a Lesbian relationship?
Q. I have fear! Very fear! My daughter is a very smart and tough person. At the age of 19 she is already a bachelor degree. Please dont get shock you can do it really in my country if you dont take any break in the school and always take advance during ...
A. 18 June 2012: I understand that you are scared for your daughter and that is normal because you are a mood mother and want what is best for her.
But what is best for her is to be who she wants to be and if she is a lesbian than you can do nothing to stop tha... (read in full...)
Will fingering harm me?
Q. I'm in a relationship from past 3 months.i wanted to if fingering my vagina by my boyfriend will cause any harm to me in the future! I'm a virgin...
A. 17 June 2012: It will not harm you if he is clean but be aware that this can break the hymen if you are a virgin and may cause a small bleed.... (read in full...)
Do I continue to put up with my difficult mother or just leave?
Q. This is not a question about a boyfriend. Or an ex, or a potential. This is a question regarding my mother. She met my dad at 17 years old and has been married to him even now. They don't get along very well, they never have. And the only reason ...
A. 17 June 2012: you leave
If yoy want to be treated like an adult you must act like one andf leave, take care of yourself and show people you are not a child.... (read in full...)
I'm unhappy with our sex life. What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I haven't got a good sex life, we've been together a year and a half and we've always had problems with sex, he's rarely managing to hold an erection, and lately it's getting worse, now it's like I have to choose between an ...
A. 17 June 2012: Does he masturbate a lot or watch lots of porn cause this can be an issue?
If not then maybe he is stressed, if that is unlikely maybe more foreplay and fun before actually sex could help, lingerie, games and so on.
if this all fails i would su... (read in full...)
Why are straights more curious about whose gay than the gays?
Q. All "straight" and "gay" answers are appreciated. Why is it that my coworkers (females) are constantly asking me about my personal life? They're always curious to know whether the person I'm dating is male or female. In my head I'm like who the fuk ...
A. 16 June 2012: Some people are nosey, others just like to get to know people and some people use asking about gay dating to show that theu aprove.
They are trying to be nice and it proabaly interests them as it is different from what they do.... (read in full...)
My BF says he doesn't need to wear a condom because he smokes.... is this true?
Q. My boyfriend smokes so should he wear a condom when we start to have sex because I've heard it's more difficult for a girl to get pregnant from a boy who smokes cigarettes?...
A. 15 June 2012: Not true at all! Men how have been smoking for 40 years can have children with ease, he needs aa condom, although do you really want to have sex with a guy that has lied to you.... (read in full...)
My b/f has been posting naked pics of himself and interacting with other gay men but I cant even tell him I know this because I snooped into his phone and discovered this!
Q. Hello everyone, I am stuck in a desperate situation with my current boyfriend. We have been together for 3 years on and off but we have been stable for the last 8months and there months ago he moved in with me. we have always have issues with me ...
A. 15 June 2012: Tell him and leave him!
Big tough guys that dont like gay peoeple but are on dating sites naked and are sending messages ARE GAY!
Dont you see this as cheating?!? I would! He is going behind your back and talking to men, for all you know he ... (read in full...)
I've never had an orgasm with my boyfriend and I cant keep faking it forever!
Q. Hey there ladies and gents. I am completely in love with my boyfriend. I'm 18, he's now 20. We've been dating for almost 2 years now. Physically he is very handsome, tall, and somewhat fit. Emotionally he is super sweet, a little sarcastic, loving, ...
A. 11 June 2012: Do you explore your sexuality alone?
This is a good way of finding out what you like and what will make you climax and then you can use what you know to improve things with your boyfriend.
Its up to you , but faking it never leads to good pl... (read in full...)
21 and want pay a prostitute to take my virginity. Is this illegal?
Q. I'm 21 and I want to lose my virginity soon, I don't want to drift into my mid-late 20's early 30's and still be a virgin. I am aware of the protection needed and please don't try and sell me any of the disneyland wait for the right girl and l...
A. 8 June 2012: It is illegal to go out with the intention of finding a woman to pay for sex, i am a criminology graduate, trust me!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is ready for sex, but I'm not. What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend wants sex with me and I told him that I don't know how, I obviously do know how but I think he will be disappointed and might break up with me. But he said 'it's ok I will teach you how' I don't think I am ready for it though, and I do...
A. 4 June 2012: If you ar enot ready DO NOT do it, you will feel awful and only end up regretting it.
You need to tell him your are not ready, if he is a nice guy and cares about you he will understand, if he doesnt or puts pressure on you then you dont want to ... (read in full...)
Would you pursue her?
Q. Would you pursuit? We met when I was almost 20 and she almost 35. Now I am almost 35 and she is almost 50. I told her I love you. She was happy but ignored it. There are social conditions for which pursuing would be really bad. But s...
A. 3 June 2012: If she makes you happy and the age difference does not bother you then i would go for it if it was me.... (read in full...)
Tips for changing the timing of my period?
Q. Right... So basically, im going on holiday on the 1st of August, but im due to be on my period then. I dont want this to ruin my holiday, so i want to dely my period? Im not ready to use a tampon and i dont want to go on birth control.. Does a...
A. 3 June 2012: There is nothing you can do to dely your period, any methods you read online dont work and are just old stories, if you want you can go to the doctor and get pills to stop it just this once, not birth control, a friend of mine used those when we ... (read in full...)
What can I do to keep myself from falling for her?
Q. My situation is complicated. I went on a date with a guy who wanted sex..it was more a hook up then a date. But he couldn't get it up b/c he wasn't attracted to me and liked a girl he had dated that is our mutual friend. We made a plan to me...
A. 2 June 2012: If you already thunk you have feelings and descrive being with her as a dream, i am sorry to say this but you will end up being hurt one way or another.
If you stop things now before it goes to far it will hurt that you never got more time wit... (read in full...)
I cheated on my LDR g/f, am ready to end things but how do I tell her?
Q. I have been dating the same girl for three years, but we recently broke up to give each other distance. We still talk everyday and act like a couple, yet I made out with a new girl I met the other day.it was a one time thing and I feel absolutely ...
A. 31 May 2012: I can't tell you if you want to end something or not, but if you are cheating then i does not sound like you are 100% comitted to making this work.
If you want to end it you have two options:
1) You can tell her about the other girl and that yo... (read in full...)
Does this online man like me or is it about sex?
Q. I am chatting to this man on a dating website we seem to get on quite well he says he is attracted to me because of my looks and my personality, he says he wants to get to know me more and more. He says he would like to kiss and cuddle me and he ...
A. 31 May 2012: It is very hard for us to guess what this guy is wanting or thinking, to be honest him talking about his penis isnt exactly the best sign in my eyes but that is just me.
All you can do is ask him what it is he wants and if you do meet him do not h... (read in full...)
When do I tell my new boyfriend I am a bankrupt?
Q. Hello, i was married in 2007 divorced in 2009 my husband fleeced me, tricked me into putting everything in my name - including his business which i hadnt realised was failing, a business load for 25 grand etc and the mortgage - as soon as i split up ...
A. 31 May 2012: You just need to be as honest as you can, make sure you explain the whole story and exactly how it happened as well as reassuring him that is your debt and you dont expect him to take it on at all. From the story you told he should be able to see ... (read in full...)
Was it such a big deal that I lied to my b/f's mom about a job interview?
Q. Hello. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. Just recently I was supposed to go to an interview for a retail department store, but I cancelled it because I was too lazy.. : Anyways my boyfriend's mom asked me how it went and...
A. 31 May 2012: Why is telling lies such a big deal? Because what kind of person thinks its ok to just lie to people because they are so lazy they cant be arsed to go somewhere?
Have think about it.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my fiance but dreaming of my ex?
Q. I keep dreaming of my ex, in a very sexual way, but I'm engaged! He was my first love, and we dated...7 years ago, we're still friends (we only talk once in a blue moon though), and I have absolutely no feelings for him other than friendship! I'm ...
A. 31 May 2012: A dream is just that, a dream. It means nothing!
The other day i dreamed i was an ant, but i dont see that meaning much either. The more you think about it and worry it the more likely you are to dream about things like that, that is how the sub-... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and want to have a baby even though I'm not ready
Q. I'm 15 and I feel like I want to have a baby even though I know I'm not ready financially. Why do I feel like this? How can I push the thought away? I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years now and we have talked about having kids but not ...
A. 31 May 2012: I would say a mix of hormones and wanting to grow up to fast.
You need to focus on the things that you enjoy about being 15 and free and all the things you would lose and miss if you had a baby, as well as how expensive it is, if you do this it ... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to her don't know if she's open to dating women. How do I approach her?
Q. So, I'm bisexual and have a huge crush on a mutual friend who is a female. I've seen her around before because we do have friends in common but I've never actually spoken to her before. Basically, she doesn't know I exist which at this point is a ...
A. 31 May 2012: Is there no mutual friends you could ask privately about her sexuality, just to give you an idea what you are working with?
Either way i would just talk to her at the party, be a bit flirty but not full on and see how she responds, if she flirts b... (read in full...)
Ladies, What do you think of my poem?
Q. I'm really interested in getting your opinion(s) on this poem. It's for a lady who I am really close to , but we are not officially a couple. I already wrote her a love letter and she keeps bringing up the fact that she reads it again and again. I'm ...
A. 30 May 2012: I think it is a lovely poem! She will be really touched that you put in all this effort for her, lucky girl!... (read in full...)
In a very roundabout way - was this an orgasm?
Q. I'm 18 and my current bf is 19. We've been together 1 month (have known each other longer) and are about to move onto having sex together for the first time. (Skip this next part to actually get to the question, I'm sorry, I'm rambling!) Anyway...
A. 30 May 2012: People have different "size" orgasms, to me it sounds like you had a small orgasm from what you have said, the more erm practise you get the more you will learn exactly what it is that makes you feel good and your orgasms will likely become more ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel guilty about moving on from my abusive ex?
Q. I will give you guys a back drop story first. i was in a relationship for about 1.5 years. This was my first intense romantic relationship. i loved this girl (i am a lesbian) with everything. no inhibitions nothing to stop me. As time passed, we ...
A. 29 May 2012: You may be in love with her but only you can really know that.
When you are abused and controlled somebody that effectcan last long after they are gone, it is very likely due to all her controlling of you, that you feel guilty because this is ... (read in full...)
Does he want to date me or just have sex?
Q. i am a lady and i am 28 years, i have a male friend that iam going out with. were are in to this relationship just 3weeks now and he is asking me of sex and he said he want me too be his wife but i dont known what too do, should i go on with him...
A. 23 May 2012: It sounds like he just wants to have sex on the side of his marriage and not get causght.... (read in full...)
What should I do? I was too afraid to kiss her!
Q. Hey there! I'd like to ask for some advice against unforgivingly stupid cowardice. I am 18 years old and I don't have any problems sozializing or talking to people. In contrary, I call myself strong in character and self-confident. ...
A. 23 May 2012: If she is not a lesbian and you know she isn't interested in being friends with benefits, then why are you trying?
Even if you do kiss her you know she does not want a casual relationship so where do you go from there? You don't want to end up l... (read in full...)
Should I kiss her next time we're together?
Q. I am a 16 year old bi female. My ex and I have been friends on and off for the past 3 months. She recently left again a week in a half ago, but on Friday she texted me saying, "I miss you like crazy. I miss hanging out and coming over, but I'm not ...
A. 21 May 2012: I know this isn't what you want to hear but no you shouldn' kiss her and would you really want to be with someone that is willing to cheat?
Even if she is not in love with this gf she has it does not make it ok for her to flirt with you or to ch... (read in full...)
We are very touchy-feely and this makes people think we are together!
Q. A friend of mine who is also a girl and I are EXTREMELY close because of some really emotional things that we have gone through together. we are also both very touchy-feely type people so this combination leads to us being veeerrryyy snuggly :) But ...
A. 11 May 2012: You could talk to her about not being so full on in front of people that you think are made uncomfortable by it?
Or talk to those people and explain the situation to them as well as can be done?... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't pay her bills!
Q. plz help with some advice as im in a lesbian relationship with a woman who i dont live with as im at parents but stay at girlfriends alot. shes not paying her bills and doesnt have a t.v licence and people knock the door alot. what will happen as ...
A. 11 May 2012: If you move in with her you will end up paying or the bills or end up in trouble because they are not being paid. Not paying a tv licence is a criminal offence and you can even go to prison for that.... (read in full...)
What if I love her as more than best friends?
Q. I'm 15, a lesbian, and one of my best friends in this entire world just turned 19, and is also a lesbian. We are very, very great friends, and are pretty affectionate with one another, as in we cuddle on the couch, kiss each other on the cheek, ...
A. 23 April 2012: If you really want to tell her how you feel and dont think it would affect your friendship or make things awakrd then i think waiting and seeing how you feel when you are a bit older is a good idea!
Its not because your too young to know how you ... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't like my breasts and prefers smaller ones!
Q. My husband does not like my breasts. Whilst I am a dd cup he prefers smaller breasts. I am not prepared to undergo surgery however this is really undermining my self confidence with him as I feel self conscious. Knowing that he loves me and marr...
A. 22 April 2012: Any advice? Get him told!! Would he like it if you told him you would like him to have a different sized penis?? What he said was selfish and wrong and you need to tell him that. Your perfect as you are and he needs to see that or somebody else ... (read in full...)
What if I love her as more than best friends?
Q. I'm 15, a lesbian, and one of my best friends in this entire world just turned 19, and is also a lesbian. We are very, very great friends, and are pretty affectionate with one another, as in we cuddle on the couch, kiss each other on the cheek, ...
A. 22 April 2012: I don't mean to sound rude, but not many 19 year olds would want to date someone who is only 15, it may only be 4 years but it is a huge gap.
I don't know that laws in your particular state, but i assume she is over the age of sexual consent ... (read in full...)
He comes to my place, eats, uses utilities but says I am ungrateful for not paying when we go out!
Q. My boyfriend stays over at my house over the weekend. I recently found out that he thinks i am being ungrateful because he pays for dinner and i dont offer any money to put to it. This is because he tells me it is on him or he'll buy dinner. Money ...
A. 9 April 2012: You are not being ungrateful!
You cant offer to pay for something then complain about it later, he is being unfair.
You need to explain to him you do things for him to and money if tight so if he does not want to pay for dinner then stop... (read in full...)
My transgender girlfriend has low self esteem. How can I help?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost two years now. When we first got together she informed me that at birth she had no sex, she believes that her parents chose the wrong sex. She is attracted to woman, she is more masculine, and does ...
A. 8 April 2012: I agree with the other answer, all you can do is be there for her and support her, she needs to do the rest for herself. Professional help sounds like a good idea, you could go with her to be supportive and so she knows that you care.... (read in full...)
A More Complex Forbidden Love....
Q. I will try to keep this as short as possible... I am a gay female, and I currently work with a girl who is a few years younger than me and has been in a relationship with a male for just over a year (apparently she has broken up with him once be...
A. 6 April 2012: It's really good that you respect her relationship status and don't want to ruin that for her, a rare thing im afraid.
If she has not expressed any intention in leaving her boyfriend, how long are you willing to wait for her? that is what you need... (read in full...)
I don't know if I am straight, gay or bisexual!
Q. I am a 15 year old girl but I'm not sure on my sexuality. I usually get more aroused when I think about lesbians kissing but I feel more attracted to boys. When I masturbate I often do orgasm a lot quick when I'm watching or thinking about girl on ...
A. 5 April 2012: Hey, you are just a normal young person of your age.
You dont need to worry about labelling yourself with a title such as gay or bi, instead just get to know yourself better, date whoever you feel comfortable with and other time you will see who ... (read in full...)
I know I'm a lesbian but can't tell anyone, so how do I find a girlfriend?
Q. Hi. I'm 13. I haven't been asked out much but the relationships I did have didn't last long. I just don't feel attracted to guys. So now I know I'm lesbian. I know everyone says not to be embarrassed or don't pretend to be someone you're not but I ...
A. 5 April 2012: Your way too young to be worrying about telling people if you are gay or anything like that. Take some time to get use to it yourself and learn more about who you are.
At 13 do you really need a gf? why not try being happy with who you are on y... (read in full...)
Are we technically friends with benefits?
Q. We have had the exclusive talk, but I'm not sure if we are having a FWB relationship or if we are just both really busy and don't have much time to hang out before nighttime. Should I be worried? THanks for any input....
A. 3 April 2012: Well if you want to know the person you need to be asking is this guy. ask him how he sees your relationship.
but in my opinion if you only see each other for sex that is FWB, but thats just me.... (read in full...)
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