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Since the breakup, I feel like there's no one out there for me, and I'm having bad dreams.

Q.   Hello, Here's my situation, its been about 4 months since breaking up with my ex girlfriend. I am 21 years old and had dated her for exactly one year. That year consisted of me being manipulated, abused, cheated on and ultimately resulting in me ...

A.   15 April 2011: dont waste your time with her shes not worth it. its normal to feel that way. you'll find someone else in due time. ... (read in full...)

Do I deserve to be loved again?

Q.   I never been a real relationship... But a few months ago I met this guy online and we fell in love with each other... We became girlfriend and boyfriend... We see each other on cam often, spend hours talking on the phone, and I did show him my upper ...

A.   15 April 2011: dont be too hard on yourself. as you have said you've learned your lesson already and thats good enough. everybody makes mistakes. just move on with your life as normal as possible and dont feel less to your self. this to shall pass.... (read in full...)

My LDR boyfriend wants to be "just friends"....and its killing me! I'm a mess...How do I deal with this right now?

Q.   Ok I wrote in before about my LDR bf getting super depressed suddenly about everything and losing all emotions etc. I need help again. He didnt come online last night but did tonight and he said he did some thinking and that he wants us to...

A.   13 April 2011: i just had this situation 2 months ago. the way you feel is normal. i had the same feelings before and i can still feel it somehow. remember that this feelings will eventually get better through time. for the mean time give yourself time to heal... (read in full...)

He cheated on me before we broke up, should I treat him on his birthday??

Q.   What should I do? is my friend right about this? My ex boyfriend broke up a month ago, he said he didn't want a relationship but later on told me is cos he fell out of love with me and he didn't want to break my heart that is why he couldn't brea...

A.   5 April 2011: dont give him anything, he doesn't deserve it. you will just waste your money and time on a loser. save your self from humiliation. have some pride. love yourself more.... (read in full...)

My shoes smell badlyy

Q.   I'm embarrassed to ask this on a public website but at the same time, I'm thankful for the anonymity of the Internet. This isn't a relationship question, by the way, but it's REALLY bothering me. I'm not cochina (dirty), and I try to keep clea...

A.   31 March 2011: try Dr. Scholls foot spray. it will work wonders. :)... (read in full...)

G/f doesn't think LDR is going to work

Q.   My "girlfriend" has been acting different for a while. She was supposed to come home with me over spring break, and she didn't. She said it was because of gas at first, but I said I would pay for some. Then she said it was a hard for week, which I ...

A.   28 March 2011: i know it hurts but you need to accept her decision. give her some time to think about everything. dont contact her for now. i just had this kind of experience. my girlfriend broke up with me last month. i asked her ones if she wants to get back... (read in full...)

I feel I'm wasting my life with my girlfriend, I want to date others

Q.   Hi Cupids. Im really was just wondering what your opinions are, Im twenty and I dont really go out much, because I lost most of my friends because of my girlfriend. Weve been together for five years and really I know I shouldnt have gone back a...

A.   23 March 2011: i had a girlfriend same age as you and she broke up with me sort of the same reasons like, she thinks she's missing out on something. i cant blame her so I'm trying my best to give her what she wants. giving her space and time to grow on her own but ... (read in full...)

I have been waiting for her for 2 and a half years, how do I get her to leave her boyfriend for me?

Q.   i love a girl and she also likes me but she is in relation with some another guy... i told her what i feel about her and i want to get commited with her and i am not able to forget her im truely and madly in love with her... i told her all this , ...

A.   18 March 2011: dude move on. if she loves you over that guy, believe me she, without any doubt will leave her current guy. but that is not the case here. why not try to move on with your life with out her. dont contact her in any way. this will give her time and ... (read in full...)

He says he cant have a girlfriend, but calls me to take me out, then pulls back again! What is going on?

Q.   I've been seeing this guy for about 5 months now but not consistently, he travels a lot for his job which makes it difficult for us to have anything serious. Last month he started taking me out more he even took me out two Fridays in a row, but ...

A.   18 March 2011: He's a no keeper. Just move on with someone who is willing to have a real relationship with. someone who will give you assurance and will be with you through thick and thin. this guy wants to get every thing from you but does not want to share ... (read in full...)

Moving on is too hard while I need help please to get her out of my mind. But how?

Q.   I broke up with my ex about two months ago. I know she has moved on, and every once in a while I'll get a text from her saying hello. I'm sure I WON'T get back with her but my question is...what is the best way to get over her, and thoughts of ...

A.   12 March 2011: we are on almost the same ship here except im gay (girl)and i dont close my doors in getting back to my ex if ever. well i keep myself busy most of the time asking my friends to watch movies, do outdoor activities, even a simple hanging out with ... (read in full...)

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