Should I tell my friend that I have feelings for her old crush?
Q. Hi! I’m really sorry if you get confused by this but I would really appreciate any help! I started a new school for my A-levels in September and I have a friend who is a couple of years below me who also goes to the school called Amy and we are quit...
A. 3 March 2010: Thanks for the update honey im glad nothing has gone wrong and i hope it stays like that =] x... (read in full...)
I am obsessed with masturbating
Q. Ok recently i have been masturbating more frequently than i normally would. I have been doing it every day sometimes twice. I feel like im becoming obsessed with it and its worrying me. Is this normal? Please Help!...
A. 3 March 2010: yes it is would be the simple answer, at different ages and times of the month the hormones change and the sex drive is increased causing more urge for masturbation, as long as you do not feel it is affecting your life or stopping you doing anything ... (read in full...)
She says the baby is not mine, but I am worried she is lying
Q. on Dec 02, 2009 I ejaculated on a females stomach. I went into the bathroom to get a towel and left the room for a few minutes. I received a call today 03/02/10 from this girl stating she is pregnant and is due on july 9,2010. my question is--is it ...
A. 3 March 2010: hey there,
well i went and tried to do a bit of research for you, the chances of this been your baby are tiny, once sperm leaves the body it needs to be the perfect temperature ( the temp of a vagina) to survive so while it was on her stomach it w... (read in full...)
Can't get him to leave me alone.
Q. ok so a little background...there was this guy who wouldn't leave me alone no matter how many times i told him i don't date guys. well it got to the point that i went to some friends for help. one of my best friends..lets call her Rachel said she ...
A. 3 March 2010: If your friend means that much to you then it is not worth ruining your relationship by telling her about your feelings when you know that she is happy in her current relationship. Now about this guy you need to tell him straight that you are upset ... (read in full...)
Uh oh, I have a boyfriend but think I am in love with my best girl friend
Q. I think I'm in love with my bestfriend. I have a boyfriend of almost two years and I am very confused. She often teases me saying she is gonna rape me and other stuff but I'm not shore if she is flirting or not. She calls me boo baby tells me she ...
A. 1 March 2010: Try to talk to her before trying to kiss her, if you feel like you can just sit her down and ask her if she had any feelings for you other than friendly relations. if she does then you need to think about if you are willing to give up what you have ... (read in full...)
I'm gay. Should I tell this boy how I feel about him?
Q. im 15 and gay and so in love with this boy.but he says hes strait but in class he be looking at me and sometimes smiles.but he allways talking bout how he goes out with his girl.but when he fround out i was gay he acked different.sould i tell him ...
A. 27 February 2010: If this guy has said he is straight then as hard as it is you have to respect that, the fact that he sometimes looks at you does not mean he has feelings for you. im sorry as this is probably not what you want to hear, but sometimes life is like ... (read in full...)
I need some creative ideas!
Q. I have been going out with this girl for a few months now and i love her deeply. the problem i have is it gets boring after a while because we've done pretty much everything there is to do.(except for sex, this will come much later) i've been to her ...
A. 27 February 2010: I think you neeed to learn to enjoy each others company without an activity been involved, eg watching a movie at home or just talking. for ideas how about trying going for a walk or maybe finding a sport that you both enojoy and playing it together ... (read in full...)
Just because I don't talk much my school principal wants me to get counselling
Q. Moderator's Note: Identifying information removed from question. IM 15 years old i go to a highschool called XXX highschool (it the worst school in the bronx) i tend talk alot and im the popular girl in school i get along with alot of people o...
A. 27 February 2010: Nobody can make you go to counselling if you do not feel it is needed. nect time it is suggested just say that you feel fine and do not need it. this should be enough. ... (read in full...)
How can I make her happy? I don't want her to regret choosing me over her family
Q. hi any help you could give would be great im 26 and have been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years now. this was both of our first lesbian relationship and we kept it secret for over a year because we wanted to be sure about each other before tel...
A. 26 February 2010: hi, well to start with it is not you who has made her choose anything!it is her familt that have been the unreasonable and unfair people, you have nothing but try to support your girlfriend and this shows as she is clearly not willing to give you ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my friend that I have feelings for her old crush?
Q. Hi! I’m really sorry if you get confused by this but I would really appreciate any help! I started a new school for my A-levels in September and I have a friend who is a couple of years below me who also goes to the school called Amy and we are quit...
A. 25 February 2010: hey there, well you aint doing anything wrong by liking this girl we cant controll how we have feelings for, i think the best way to go about this would be to sit down with amy and tell her exactly what you are feeling but tell her you have the ... (read in full...)
We have been together 2 years but she wont give up her boyfriend because she wants kids of her own
Q. ok i have a girlfriend who also has a boyfriend. me and her have been going out for just about 2 years now and now want her all to myself. i have tried to tell her that i dont want to share her with anyone anymore but she said that she wants k...
A. 23 February 2010: Have you spoke about having children together, through IVF if she does not want this or is unwilling to change her mind then i must agree with caring guy, run and fast. =]x... (read in full...)
When people are "seeing each other", is there any commitment or is it an open relationship?
Q. When people are "Seeing each other" is there commitment involved or is it more like a open relationship? i dont get it?...
A. 22 February 2010: It depends on the individual cases but it normally means that there is not commitment it is the stage before a relationship with commitment begins. but if you need to know for sure discuss what it means to you wuth the other person to clear things ... (read in full...)
How can I make her feel that it is ok for her to like me?
Q. ok so i've known this girl my whole life almost and i have fallen madly in love with her. now the thing is her aunt and my uncle got married about 6 years ago. now everyone in the family thinks that there is something wrong with me liking. plus...
A. 22 February 2010: Of course it is oki for her to like you, you are not related by any blood line and you knew each other much before the marriage ever happened. Do you know if she is sexual atracted to women, as that would help with how to deal with the situation. ... (read in full...)
I think I am a lesbian, and I don't know where to meet a patner.
Q. hi um im 20 and i think im a lesbian but nobody knows. ive had a sexual thing with guys before and it was fine but ive also been with 2 different girls and it was incredible and i think about being with girls and know that if i was with a guy i...
A. 19 February 2010: No question is a stupid one =] sign up to a website like gaydar girls or something similar and use that to meet people in your area and you will be able to chat to them first and explain your situation and how you feel about coming out, many people ... (read in full...)
What does it feel like to receive oral sex?
Q. this is a bit of a rude question but im really curious to know what it feels like to recieve oral sex. can anybody describe it. does it feel weird? im worried i wont like it. im a lesbian and me and my girlfriend have done everything else and now ...
A. 18 February 2010: it is normal to be nervous or worried about doing this for the first time, trust me everyone is, i certainly was! Well it does feel different to other things but not weird, it feels good. ideas to relax would be to put each other at easy with lots ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my same sex teacher
Q. I am a 13 year old girl and im in love with my female karate teacher weve known eachother for almost 3 years, she is married and has 2 children with her husband ( my other karate teacher) 1 child is 2 1/2 and the other is 8 months, when i dont see ...
A. 18 February 2010: This woman is married and much older than yourself, it would be wrong of her to have feelings for someone of your age so a relationship is not going to happen. as for your feelings it is natural to have crushes on people in authority that you look ... (read in full...)
How can I get over it when I see them together every day?
Q. So here's the deal: My friend has claimed, "I'm gay. I'm a lesbian," since I met her. She and my brother started hangin out together when she came to visit me. Before she ever came to my house I had fallin for her. When she finally realized that I ...
A. 18 February 2010: Its brilliant to hear you are feeling brighter and i hope greatly that things stay that way =] x... (read in full...)
How do I turn it from kissing into more without looking stupid?
Q. hi this is really embarrassing but i didnt know who else to ask... im 20 and have just got together with a girl for the first time (i came out about 6 months ago so this is all a bit new). weve kissed and cuddled and stuff but im really nervous a...
A. 17 February 2010: You could talk to her about it but i feel that talking about sex can sometimes ruin the passion or surprising nature that sex is based on. You could try kissing her neck while your kissing and seeing where it goes or slide your hand up her leg and ... (read in full...)
How can I get over it when I see them together every day?
Q. So here's the deal: My friend has claimed, "I'm gay. I'm a lesbian," since I met her. She and my brother started hangin out together when she came to visit me. Before she ever came to my house I had fallin for her. When she finally realized that I ...
A. 17 February 2010: Your brother will care he is just young and male and wont want to show it. can i ask whgat you are using to take your mind off it? otherwise i guess you need to try and get over her, if she is taken and not willing to change that, and if she knows ... (read in full...)
Boys and sex. What is it these days?
Q. Why are boys SOO obsessive about sex? It's like a must have for them! I have been asked for it a couple of times, but I'm only 13. Im definitely not having sex until I'm at least 17 and I when I've found someone I love and trust to loose my ...
A. 15 February 2010: It is brilliant that you are so clever at a young age and dont feel pressured into doing something you are not ready for! At 13 sex is not right your young and still developing, boys are affected by hormones and peer pressure people bragging about ... (read in full...)
What do I do now? I want to take it further but I'm worried she only seemed interested because she was drunk!
Q. Hi i would really appreciate some advice. I think im a lesbian and im attracted to one of my very good friends. She is a lesbian and is literally the most beautiful girl i have ever met in my life. she is amazing. We met at uni and have just be...
A. 15 February 2010: It looks like she doesnt want to scare you by been to full on or trying to make you talk about what happened, she is been nice and taking it slow waiting to see when you are ready to talk about it, so go for it! talk to her and tell her exactly how ... (read in full...)
How can I get over it when I see them together every day?
Q. So here's the deal: My friend has claimed, "I'm gay. I'm a lesbian," since I met her. She and my brother started hangin out together when she came to visit me. Before she ever came to my house I had fallin for her. When she finally realized that I ...
A. 15 February 2010: Well this is a tough one as you want other people to be happy but at the same time you dont want to be upsetting yourself. Are you and your brother close? If so tell him hoe this is making you feel you are hos family and if they have only been ... (read in full...)
Do you have any suggestions for me, or for my ex?
Q. I am in a very confusing situation. Firstly, after a one year relationship, my partner and I decided to separate. The problems we had were actually external to our relationship, but had a huge affect on our relationship. So we thought it was just ...
A. 7 February 2010: You seem to care more about your ex and how she is feeling more than you do yourself, now it is great to be a caring person but it is not great to put the needs or feelings of others before your own. You ex is a very confused person that is clear bu... (read in full...)
There is a boy I like but I am worried he may have given out my msn
Q. there is this boy i like and i thought he liked me 2 then he got hold of my msn and we spoke and stuff but i dont know if he is interested and i gt 2 new peopel add me has he been giving my msn out ?? but poepel i dont know has added me befor but i ...
A. 7 February 2010: Just because these new people have added you it does not mean he is responsible anyone could have given them your msn, i wouldnt ruin the connection you are making with this guy over something that probably isnt true. good luck X... (read in full...)
He scares me with the things he says about sex!
Q. ok soo imm going to be 16 in 2 months. the guy im talking to will be 19 in 5 days. we have been talking on the phone and texting for about 2 months now. we`ve hung out 3 times. once in a group, once on our own, and then he came to watch me cheer one ...
A. 7 February 2010: i agree with all above, you havent known him long enough to know what type of guy he really is, he could be putting on an act, he wouldnt be the first. the things he says are not right and fair to you.
stay away... (read in full...)
I have stretch marks and want to get rid of them
Q. Im 16 and I have stretch marks on my breasts and legs. My self-confidence has dropped to ZERO. How can I get rid of them? Im so embarassed - manly because Im embarassed about what boys will think later on in my life. Please help me, how do I get rid ...
A. 7 February 2010: To start off with i know how stressful these can be as im 19 and i have had them on my breasts. you are definately not the only person with this problem many girls have them. Bio oil. it is brilliant for stretch marks, it is around 18 pound a bottle... (read in full...)
Are other girls like this, or is it just me?
Q. Am I the only person who is bipolar about masturbation? :/ Like, sometimes, I like doing it, and it feels really good. But then, sometimes, maybe afterwards, I'll ask myself what I just did, hate it, then squeeze my eyes shut and wish I could jus...
A. 6 February 2010: Hey well the only way you can be bisexual is if you think you are! if you are not attracted to girls i wouldnt worry about it many people are turned on by watching people of the same gender have sex, it does not affect there sexuality. the masturba... (read in full...)
Do I carry on acting the way I am for boys to like me?
Q. hey, i always ask questions on this and either get just 1 answer or an answer that just doesn't help at all... i really need your help and to get that, i'm gonna tell you as much information as I can. The thing is, I really just want a boyfriend...
A. 6 February 2010: It sound like you are acting just right! the boys who like girls who drink or wear lots of make up only like them for one reason, and that is not a reason anyone wants to be liked for. im glad to hear you and this boy are back on track that should ... (read in full...)
I'm gay, she is straight! An unrequited love story!
Q. Hiya, I'll try to make this short (and not too boring for whoever is reading!) It's a pretty traditional story of unrequited love with a best friend, the problem is that we are both girls. I'm gay, she's straight. I told her I was gay a few years ...
A. 6 February 2010: Not to be akward but i disagree with the others. i think you should try and talk to her, not in a full on in your face kind of way, maybe just start by talking about your sexuality and how she feels about it and then try and bring the conversation ... (read in full...)
Why is my best friend being a prat?
Q. my best friend called me a boring skan.k cos i said i wont sleeping with strangers like her when we go on holiday. we were married on face book and i took it off..she said am pathetic.. and i just said i dont wanna be married..why can...
A. 5 February 2010: Hey
this sounds like a sticky situation, you need to explain to her why you changed that status, and the way the comment she made about you made you feel, as not wanting to sleep with strangers is certainly not a bad thing!! tell her you want to b... (read in full...)
Is my friend possessive, obsessive or gay?
Q. I am girl and I joined college last year and made friends with this girl in my class and subsequently joined her group. Everything was fine, we sat together in a same lesson and got on well. About a month into knowing her I sent a text message ...
A. 5 February 2010: Hey there well that is a long question, which is good because it helps give a better picture of the situation that you have found yourself in. Well to start i have to say there is no such thing as "looking gay" anyone can be gay, the girly girls or ... (read in full...)
She treats me badly, but I still love her! How do I confront her about the issue?
Q. I really don't understand what is going on right now! I am a female, and 14. I had fallen in love with someone who is a few monts younger then me and she is also a female. I am bi and I already told her all that. I already told her I loved her too. ...
A. 9 October 2009: As long as you let her treat you like this she will. you need to stand up and tell her how you feel and how you expect her to change. if after this talk she dosent change the way she is acting, as hard as it can be you will have to say goodbye to ... (read in full...)
She looked at my lips! Does this mean anything?
Q. I am a 14 year old female who is bi, and I like a 13 year old female who is straight. She knows I'm bi, she knows I like her. We've known each other for almost 3 years. I've liked her for about 8 months. Anyway, you don't really need all this ...
A. 9 October 2009: hey, despite what the other people have said body language experts believe looking at the lips CAN mean lust, but thats a big can. the easiest was to figure this one out is to talk to her about it. dont be too full on just ask her if she feels ... (read in full...)
Confused he wanted it then changed his mind!
Q. hi i'v been seeing an old flame for 2mths causal as we are both just out of marriages it was really just 2old mates goin out few kisses n cuddles he is gorgeous in every way make's me feel so special he said we cant get serious as he doest want a ...
A. 10 September 2009: well in my opinion there are a few reasons this may have happened. the first is you said that you didnt want sex and he did, but you "gave in", maybe the guy in question may have felt like he had pushed you into a situation you hadnt wanted to be ... (read in full...)
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