Long distance phone sex
Q. My boyfriend and I are long distance and recently he's been saying he wants to hear me come over the phone. The problem is I feel silly, I'm not a kid but I get the giggles and when we do do this I want it to be amazing - I want him to be thinki...
A. 11 January 2012: You need to feel comfortable.
Dont rush into the actually toching yourself, why not talk about things you like to do together and things you both enjoy to "get in the mood". This should help with feel uncomfortable.... (read in full...)
How can I change and show her I want to be there for her 100%?
Q. My girlfriend has distance herself from me because she feels im selfish and is inconsiderate and when she needs me im not there...what can i do to change that about myself, to let her know i what to be there 100% for her..i do have alot of self ...
A. 11 January 2012: It is good that you want to change and know what you have being doing.
Its as simple as you need to think more before you act, you need to make effort to spend time with her and think about what she wants and what she would like to do.
Think l... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for wanting to end the relationship over this?
Q. i just need some basic advice as to how i should handle this situation and if i'm justified for feeling how i do. i've been seeing this girl for a few months now. very slowly at first. very casual. but then it progressed into something more s...
A. 11 January 2012: I can understand why it is hard for her to explain to new girls she meets that she still lives and has connections with and ex, as i still lived with my ex when i met my partner. And i can understand why she might have wanted you to get to know her ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend still thinks of her ex 7 months later?
Q. Hi. My girlfriend and I have been together since June (with a small break up in there) and things have been going great. But when confessed to me yesterday that she likes another girl as more than a friend and can't bring herself to delete a photo ...
A. 5 January 2012: Well it depends how much she likes this other girl really, if it is just a fond memory then that is ok, if it is really strong feelings then it isnt something i would be comfortable with.
You can love someone and want to be with them but still ha... (read in full...)
Any ideas why he is suddenly losing erection during sex?
Q. Hey! my boyfriend and I have been together for a few months now, but I've known him forever since we've been friends since high school. Everything is great, we get along great and we both work to make things work. We're both very much in love. The ...
A. 5 January 2012: There are so many reasons why this could happen to him.
He maybe under a lot of stress at work or in other areas of his life, this is known to cause erection issues.
He may be slightly unwell or run down this can also be a factor.
It co... (read in full...)
Is it possible to change the taste of my "downstairs" to a little more sweeter?
Q. Hi everyone ! My question is : Is it possible to change the taste of my "downstairs" to a little more sweeter? Dont get me wrong , I dont have a horrible smell or taste , It's just that it is slightly more salty than Sweet. ...
A. 30 December 2011: Some people say eating pineapple makes it sweeter, dont know if i believe that. Why not use a flavoured lube to change the taste, fun and yummy!... (read in full...)
He cheated with me, now I am paranoid about people finding out
Q. Well i met this guy the other night and the first time we met we connected like he was the one to say this too me and that we couldn't stop looking at each other... The next night him and his girlfriend who is one of my good mates came around to m...
A. 30 December 2011: Guilt is simply your punishment for doing something wrong, you know you shouldnt have got with a friends boyfriend so you are of course going to worry. Come on your 16 you should know that nothing good will ever come from getting with someone els... (read in full...)
Is masturbation okay if you're saving your virginity for marriage?
Q. I am certain on not having sex before marriage as I am a christian, but I masturbate... I know its dirty and i shouldn't do it but I just love it and I can't stop, I maybe do it at least once a week. Will god forgive for masturbating since I am ...
A. 29 December 2011: Who ever told you it is wrong and dirty gave you some very bad advise!
There is nothing wrong with exploring your own body and as other have said the bible does not outlaw self pleasure.
It will make it a lot easier to refrian from sex, especi... (read in full...)
Toys for a lesbian couple?
Q. what toy is best for a lesbian couple?...
A. 29 December 2011: Well that depends on the type of sex you enjoy, for example some toys are for clit play and other are for penetration.
Why not look online together at the differnt styles avaliable and decide together what you would both enjoy. ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about my boyfriend's aggressive side
Q. I am worried about my boyfriend's aggressive side. We've been dating for 4 months now, and sometimes he really snaps at me, and is rude/intolerant about other people. I just worry that he may become violent at some point. For instance, h...
A. 29 December 2011: Does this really sound like the type of man you want to be with? Someone obsessed with weapons and knives?
Its only been a few months so it shouldnt be too hard to move on.
He clearly has some really issues.... (read in full...)
We kissed but have ignored talking about it since it happened
Q. Hello I recently invited my lesbian coworker to my house to drink some wine. She knows that I am bisexual. Anyways, we started listning to music and we ended up kissing. Ever since our kiss that night we have ignored the kiss. We dont talk about it. ...
A. 29 December 2011: Well there is a few things you could do:
You could try talking to her about the kiss, bring it up and see how she reacts and then take the conversation from there.
If talking to her directly is too uncomfortable then why not try flirting wit... (read in full...)
He wants a BJ but I backed out of giving him one
Q. Hey ok i promised my Boyfriend I'd give him a BJ for the first time but when I got to his house and he *whiped it out* i paniced and said "i don't want us to get caught" he said i broke his promise now he is consently saying "u gonna back out of ...
A. 28 December 2011: Find a bf who has some respect for you and your feelings and doesn't just want you for what he can get.... (read in full...)
Why can't she accept that I just want to be friends?
Q. my friend who is a female as i am admitted that she liked me well i never liked her like that and we stopped talkin well, she contacted me after a year of anger and biterness and not speaking she wanted to date me and i decline well she calls and ...
A. 28 December 2011: Hey well i think you definately did the right thing by not agreeing to go meet up with her straight away.
She clearly thought she had a chance with you and reacted very badly when you made it clear she didnt, but that is not your fault, its hers... (read in full...)
I saw my boyfriend kissing another girl but I want to give him another chance. Any advice?
Q. Sorry in advance if it's long and thank you for reading. I've been with my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years. We're very serious and talk about marriage. Back in October we took a break because of the way I was treating him. I treated him horribly when he ...
A. 27 December 2011: As much as im sure it hurts now you are definately better without him! thanks for the update... (read in full...)
Should I wait for this guy?
Q. This might be kind of long, just a warning. I work with this guy and we've been decent friends for over a year. His ex girlfriend who is also the mother of his kids works at the same place as us but on a different shift. He would always talk to me ...
A. 27 December 2011: Well i think it is good that he wants the get his house on order as such. But if he has just had a baby with his ex even if you do wait a while you are going to be walking into what is likely to be a very difficult situation. You need to ask how ... (read in full...)
I saw my boyfriend kissing another girl but I want to give him another chance. Any advice?
Q. Sorry in advance if it's long and thank you for reading. I've been with my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years. We're very serious and talk about marriage. Back in October we took a break because of the way I was treating him. I treated him horribly when he ...
A. 27 December 2011: Well your not sick in the head, it is totally normal to want to give those we love a chance, whether it's a good idea or not. You really need to talk to hime before you make a decision, you need to tell him what you saw and tell him the only way... (read in full...)
He can't have loved me like I thought! Is he a loser?
Q. Me an my x broke up 3 months ago. I have never heard off him since. I did cheat on him, but i was drunk and it meant nothing. He changed his number. He cannot love me like i thought because he would have wanted to sort our problems out. Is it time ...
A. 27 December 2011: Out of the two of you its not him thats the loser.... You cheated, broke the trust and messed things up and he is doing the best thing he can which is cut you off so he can move on. Best thing you can do is let him and move on yourself. If ... (read in full...)
Can an online relationship with a pen-pal guy in prison and me a virgin in UK work?
Q. I have a prison pen pal, and have been writing for a few months. There is definite connection but last night he asked if we can be in a relationship. I'm in the UK and he is in the US. I am kind of a 'loser' out here in real life. I am 34, still a ...
A. 24 December 2011: Do you even know what he is in prison for? Is he dangerous? Do you know if he is even telling you the truth about why he is in prison?
Im sorry but this isnt the greatest plan.... (read in full...)
Should I confront her about the pregnancy? Should I leave him?
Q. Hey, I been with my bf/baby daddy (father of twins) for 7 years ! He cheated on me with cousin and she claiming she pregnant with my bf baby but she slept with 3 other guys too. But they're denying the baby. But I dont believe she really pregnant ...
A. 24 December 2011: If he is willing to cheat on you with a member of your own family how much respect does he have for you? Is that a man you can trust? Whether she is pregnant or not you need to think about if this is the way you want to be treated, because... (read in full...)
Is it wrong of me to turn my Girlfriend on just before I have to leave? even though I know it can go no where?
Q. just a quick question. Is it wrong to get your girlfriend turned on like "about to jump you turned on" just before you leave to go back home? I still live at home with the family, I'm a student and can't seem to find a job, always seems to be someo...
A. 24 December 2011: If you keep up the way you are dont be surprised when she looks for something better.... (read in full...)
I don't know how to ask for anal anymore!
Q. Me and my wife have a nice intimacy hot life, everytime, love, careless, so hot, so hot everytime we have it! She loves so much when i put my finger in her anus but when i try to have an anal intercourse with her she doesn't want it! Why she doesn't ...
A. 24 December 2011: If she doesnt want it then that should be enough for you! It might hurt or she may feel uncomfortable. ... (read in full...)
Does this disgust girls?
Q. Sometimes when I'm kissing a girl or holding her close, I'll start to get an erection. I know it's normal but sometimes I feel a bit embarrased. Is this disgusting for girls? Should I try to hide it? ...
A. 24 December 2011: Agree with most answers, it is totally normal and if it wish a long term girlfriend or sexual partner it is more likely to be a turn off than turn off.
If it is not a girlfriend or a new partner then just try not to make it obvious.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong of me to turn my Girlfriend on just before I have to leave? even though I know it can go no where?
Q. just a quick question. Is it wrong to get your girlfriend turned on like "about to jump you turned on" just before you leave to go back home? I still live at home with the family, I'm a student and can't seem to find a job, always seems to be someo...
A. 24 December 2011: Well its simple, would you like it if she turned you on then left you with nothing? I doubt it. If my partner did this often then I would not be happy.
It sounds like you aren't very secure in yourself if you need to prove that you can turn her... (read in full...)
Ladies--If you have sex without orgasm, does it satisfy you anyways?
Q. This question is for the women: If you're in the mood, and you have sex but don't have an orgasm, does it satisfy the urge anyway? In other words, if you're in the mood and you have sex, are you more likely to want to have sex again soon if the sex ...
A. 21 December 2011: I wouldnt be satisfied if i didnt climax and id be less likely to want sex soon if it wasnt good.
Your wife may not want sex as often due to many other factors such as how busy her life is, if it is bothering you then you should talk to her abou... (read in full...)
Can I believe my boyfriend when he says he is not gay?
Q. My bf looked at transvestites online in the past.I asked him openly if he was bi and he said no.I said that i don't care what he did before me, and that if he tried something i would understand him 100%.That we all have the right to have fantasies, ...
A. 21 December 2011: I think if you have given him a chance to tell you the truth and he says that he isnt intersted in that sexually then you need to trust and believe him. I know it is hard to do but if you cant trust his word then you have nothing.
You said you... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend and yet, I find myself longing to be with a woman!
Q. I am in very happy relationship with a man thats been going on for a year and 4 months and yet I'm longing for a girl! I really need help because i am having feelings against Everything i have previously said about being bisexual! I previously wrote ...
A. 26 November 2011: To start with I'm glas that you now see those stupid ideas about bisexual people for what they are: Rubbish.
You have a simple choice, if you want to stay with your boyfriend then you need to put these thoughts to the side, still exceptin... (read in full...)
She didnt tell me she loves me before she went to sleep and now I'm really hurt, am I overreacting?
Q. Hi. My girlfriend and I were texting each other late at night like we usually do, and joking around and everything. She told me she was tired and night. She always tell me 'night babe I love you'. I asked her if she was mad at me and she said no, ...
A. 22 November 2011: This is an over reaction, im sorry but its true, But it is only because you clearly love your gf and want to know she feels the same, you need to work on being more secure in the fact she clearly does love you and if she ever forgets to say it again... (read in full...)
Is this a traditional FWB relationship?
Q. A close friend of mine which I have known for the past 3 years, and I have hooked up 4 times in the last 7 months. I'm not sure if it's a FWB relationship... we don't booty call each other (which is what I've read that FWB do), or have long cha...
A. 13 November 2011: Well FWB in genral terms is a friend that you either have sex, or sexual relations with and both of you know that you are just friends.
What you have seems like this, but if he is more afrectionate with you than anybody else, then it is possible... (read in full...)
A boy I like is ill with a tumor. I don't know if I want to tell him I like him, and I'm here for him, or say nothing?
Q. The boy i like at school has been diagnosed with a tumour on his windpipe. Im really scared for him that it could be cancer as i dont want to see him die. I've never told anyone I like him and hes not at school because hes in hospital. Im conf...
A. 12 November 2011: I dont think now is the best time to tell humm that you have feelings for him but telling him you care and that you are there for him if he would like that is a great idea.... (read in full...)
He's taking things very slowly. No kissing yet. How can I encourage him to speed things up?
Q. Hi I've been dating this guy for over a year and a half already, and apparently I'm his first girlfriend. He's only a few months older than me and he confessed first. Although we've been dating this long, we haven't gone out on many dates beca...
A. 12 November 2011: If you want things to move quicker maybe you need to take the lead, take hold of his hand and just see how he reacts.
If that goes well then try kissing him and see how he reacts to that, he may want to but is to shy or does not know how to start... (read in full...)
Does an interest in transexual porn make me gay?
Q. If i get turned on my 'lady-boys' 'she-males' or whatever you want to call them does it mean i am gay? or bi?...
A. 8 November 2011: No, wanting to have sex with another man makes you bi/gay. People get turned on by lots fantasies that they wouldnt actually carry out on real life.... (read in full...)
How to meet gay women and what date sites to use?
Q. im a single gay woman who is boyish type and likes boyish or butch type women but unsure how to meet anyone as a friend or more. can anyone help me with these quesions i have. 1. are there any free date sites only that are good to meet gay women th...
A. 7 November 2011: I dont know much about twitter or blogs, but the dating websitr plenty of fish is free and full of gay women from all around the uk.... (read in full...)
Love bites or hickeys?
Q. hi i was writing to get some tips. i'm 15 and it seems alot of people my age are giving 'hichys' or love bites to their partners. and that's what i'm worried about the thing is i don't know how to give them :S. i'm worried about doing it wrong when ...
A. 7 November 2011: Personally I think love bites are awful and the total oppisite of classy but I think thats an age think because I didnt think that when I was your age. It really is as simple as lightly biting and sucking the skin long enough to leave a mark. ... (read in full...)
Deep down my friend is as cold as stone, what should I do?
Q. I have a friend who is very outgoing, confident, and self-promoting. She is very loud and sure of herself. At first, everyone wants to be friends with her, because she is so bubbly and witty. She knows all the inside jokes and references that I know ...
A. 7 November 2011: If talking isnt an option then i stick with making more of an effort to get to know different people in your school and classes, that way you will find other people you can be friends with to, that way you dont have to blow her off you can just ... (read in full...)
I can't help feeling like there's someone better for her
Q. My girlfriend and I are in love with each other, I know that for a fact. But today she was telling me she doesn't see the point in living, and that it was all so boring. She's told me I'm one of the reasons she's still here, but I can't help ...
A. 6 November 2011: The fact she said you are one of the reasons she wants to be here clearly shows she doesnt want anyone knew and you are in fact very important to her.
If your girlfriend says things about not wanting to be alive often, maybe she needs to see a do... (read in full...)
Deep down my friend is as cold as stone, what should I do?
Q. I have a friend who is very outgoing, confident, and self-promoting. She is very loud and sure of herself. At first, everyone wants to be friends with her, because she is so bubbly and witty. She knows all the inside jokes and references that I know ...
A. 6 November 2011: I know you think she is cold as a stone, but trust me that wont be the case. People who present themselves as so happy and confident and put other people down are usual the people who are the most insecure inside. They need to put on a show of kin... (read in full...)
I think I have got into a sexual rut. And I am at a loss,so what can I do about this?
Q. I think i'm in a sexual rut. And I think this has been going on for a long time. Alright well basically a few days ago, I was masturbating, and had sexual lesbian thoughts. This has happened before, and it freaks me out. Mainly because the thou...
A. 5 November 2011: I am gay, and have on more than one occasion made straight thoughts come into my mind whilst masturbating, although thinking about then now makes me feel slightly ill. I wouldnt let it worry you.... (read in full...)
How do I tell my lesbian girlfriend to take it easy on me during sex without telling her I was a virgin before her?
Q. Girlfriend is on a quest to sexually open me up. She doesn't like to use lube although she can be real rough during sex. I really really love her and she says she loves me....we've been together two years n being intimate for a yr and a half. We ...
A. 4 November 2011: You shouldnt have to buy lube and just use it without telling her, she needs to understand what you like and want from her and respect that. I know you dont want to hurt her feelings but its worse to let her go on thinking she is pleasing you whe... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but I think I'm in love with this girl?
Q. I'm sorry if this is long but I really, really need advice. I am a 22 year old girl and I have a boyfriend, but I think I'm in love with this girl. She's in one of my classes in school and there's just something about her that.... well I don't rea...
A. 26 October 2011: To start with you shouldnt feel bad at all, you have not cheated on anyone and we cant control how we feel. the fact you say you dont want to hurt your boyfriend shows that you are thoughtful and care about other peoples feelings.
Unfor... (read in full...)
Trying to make a teenage LDR work....
Q. ... So I have a girlfriend she lives in Texas and I live in Illinois were both very young and were in an LDR , it's gonna be like that for at least 3 more years . Longer for her I should say since she's graduating next year as to we're I have two ...
A. 26 October 2011: As i'm sure you know you have a lot against you, age and distance dont mix well as at least older people can travel to see each other.
But that said, it doesnt mean you cant beat the odds and make it work.
Have you two ever met?
Do your ... (read in full...)
Does same sex Female Colleague Feel the Same Way as I do or Does she just Not Like Me?
Q. I started a new job two months ago and although I sit wit a table of guys (the women sit at another table) recently I have noticed one of the girls acting differently towards me lately. I am not sure if she is jealous of the attention I get from my ...
A. 23 October 2011: I agree she definately has some sort of strong feeling towards you and i dont think they are anything to do with her not liking you so that really does only leave on option. She may just be slightly confused, or she may be secretly bisexua... (read in full...)
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