What do you do about horrible housemates?
Q. two of my housemates dont like me i know this because they have spoke about me behind my back to my 3rd housemate. being a good friend she told me they had said that i dont think for myself my mum helps me with all my work and its easier for me i...
A. 18 November 2010: Im guessing your a first year? well no advice me or anyone else gives you can make people like you if they have decided not to, girls can be ever so bitchy when they decide. My advice is, wash your pots when you use them, then they cant say anything ... (read in full...)
Would you say he's controlling?
Q. Is my boyfriend controlling me? I have been dating this guy for a year and four months. Some insight into our relationship: I have cheated on him. (Kissed an ex at a party) And told him in a hurtful way. That was four months ago. Since then...
A. 12 November 2010: I think he is more insecure than controlling and to be honest with you, that is your own fault, what you did hurt him and he clearly isnt over it and is finding it hard to trust you. you need to sit down with him and tell him it is him you want to ... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity with him?
Q. Hi. I'm Nessie, I'm 16 years old and I have a big problem. I met my best friend [Bobby]3 years ago and we dated for about 6 months and then we broke up... Lately, we've been really "touchy" if you know what I mean and he admited he is feeling ve...
A. 12 October 2010: You need to think about a few differnt things when making this decision, are you emotionally ready for sex, if so do you want your first time to be out of a relationship, as you may feel unsure, or possibly ised, after as you and this guy are not ... (read in full...)
Alcoholic at fifteen!
Q. this is nothing to do with relationships ,, but i am nearly 15 now and i am a alcholic ,, and i need to focas on my school work ,, how do i cope with not being able to drink and no stress ,, because whenever i dont drink i am stressed ,, hense why i ...
A. 10 October 2010: Alcohol can take hold of anyone of any age and the most important thing to do is stop it before it gets out of control, at you age alcohol can really affect you so the sooner the better. I would suggest maybe talking to a doctor or an adult you can ... (read in full...)
What does a naked man look like?
Q. Hello. I am a teenager. My hormones are all over the place. I have always had more of a physical/emotional attraction to women. But I also like men. I just dont know what I am yet. I know what a woman looks like naked because I see myself in the ...
A. 10 October 2010: Well to start with please dont worry to much about sexuality or who you are attracted to you, that will all sort itself out with time, trust me. Well i would suggest that you maybe find a book online or in the libary about sex education as that will ... (read in full...)
Sex is so painful for me that boyfriend would rather masturbate
Q. ive been with my boyfriend 4 years now im so very happy with him but unfortunately he studies abroad and i don't see him for up to 6 months at a time then when i do its only for a month. But every-time i have sex with him it always hurts eve...
A. 10 October 2010: Well it says something about your boyfriend, that he cares about hurting you and is understanding about the situation. This is just a suggestion, but have you tried using lubrication, as it sounds like you may have an issue with dryness but that is ... (read in full...)
If I "do it" with a girl will I know whether or not I'm bi or not?
Q. Hey i recently found out for sure i was bi. (i sorta thought i was when i was younger but i would always deny it) I know i would never want a relationship with a girl but i get turned on just thinking of doing sexual stuff with a girl. I also have a ...
A. 9 October 2010: Have you considered this other girls feelings in all of this? would she be happy been your experiemnt or does she have feelings for you and maybe want more, this could cause problems with you and your bf too, he may feel ok about it now, but after ... (read in full...)
Fantasies turn into nightmares?
Q. Has anyones sexual fantasies turned into nightmares? Are some fantasies better left as that.....a fantasy?...
A. 5 October 2010: It is hard to say not knowing the fantasy but what can be said is that a fantasy which involves anything illegal, harmfull to yourself or others or will inflic harm in anyway should not be carried out! ... (read in full...)
Female Readers Only Please??--Irregular Periods??
Q. Ehhrr.. My periods started about a year and a half ago, and they are still very very irregular:/ I'm not sure if that is because I don't eat enough or what really, but I'm just wandering if there is a way to know that it's on it's way or not, ...
A. 3 October 2010: simple answer, yes it is normal, i am 20 now and mine are still not always regular and can start at any time. My best advice to you is to always have a tampon in your bag or in your locker just in case, i hope this helps =]... (read in full...)
Am I gay or am I going through a phase?
Q. Hey am 15 .. I know most people would say am confused .. But i need help ! I find girls attractive at times but guys too. At the same time i would choose a girl over a guy. To be honest i don't even like the look of the " the third leg" i don't ev...
A. 30 September 2010: The first thing you need to do is stop worring? You maybe gay, or bisexual or it may even be a phase you get over but at 15 all those things are ok! Im 20 but when i was your age i stopped looking at boys as much and more at girls and then ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my girlfriend that I want sex with men?
Q. Hey, this is going to be a little awkward. Currently I'm going out with a girl a year or so younger than me- the first girl I've dated- and have been for nearly a year now. We sleep together regularly and enjoy it, but somehow I don't think I'm ...
A. 20 September 2010: To start with i think it is brilliant that you are taking your girlfriends age into consideration when considering sexual actuvities, this shows that you care about her and also that you consider her feelings which is a great start. I dont think it ... (read in full...)
What are the best lesbian dating websites in your opinion?
Q. Dear Cupid, What are the best dating websites or communities for lesbians or F/F relationships in your opinion? The only dating website I've ever joined was okcupid, however I've had bad experiences there because I always get unwanted at...
A. 11 September 2010: Try gaydargirl
good luck... (read in full...)
Do I need to just bite the bullet and do this to make her happy?
Q. hey everyone, this is an issue thats been bothering me a lot recently. basically, i'm gay and have been in my first proper gay relationship for about 6 months now. our relationship is long distance and sometimes its hard not seeing eachother...
A. 7 September 2010: This girl likes you. You make her happy. Her happiness is what will be important to her friends, so knowing that you make her happy means that they will already have a liking for you and will make it easier for you to make a good impression. The ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with his weird fetish desires?
Q. my guy watches porn but not just any porn he watches foot fetish porn, gay porn and midget porn he has a serious foot fetish and he likes sucking cock (but isnt gay)and he says he would love to fuck a midget but how do i deal with this?...
A. 5 September 2010: This isnt the easiest thing for you to deal with , can i ask how do you know he watches these things? If he is telling you all these things then i think he is putting an unneeded amount of stress on you. If he is in a comminted relationship with you ... (read in full...)
How can I stem this flow of rumours that's going about?
Q. ok, so my ex ended things in may, and since then ive got together with a girl i really like, my ex used to lie about a lot of things, like being stalked, or boys going for her in school ect, but i was able to deal with it, because i felt like if i ...
A. 5 September 2010: What this girl is doing is pathetic and childish and also illegal! Lying about such a thing is against the law and if it got worse i would suggest you contact the police, but for now I would suggest confronting her in a safe and open place telling ... (read in full...)
Teacher/pupil shenanigans!
Q. hey last year me and my teacher were in a relationship and he is my form tutor now but my friends know, i told them but now one of them wont speak to me coz of it. what should i do, should i break up with him but he is only 5 years older than...
A. 5 September 2010: No matter how many years older this man is he is breaking the law by dating a pupil who he is responsible for and if the school founf out he would lose his job and not be aloud to teach again. If you have real feelings for him then you would not ... (read in full...)
It never goes further than a few dates. It makes me feel so down.
Q. hey, im 19 and feel im going to along forever. i go on dates with boys but it never goes futher than that. i dont know whats wrong with me, or what im doing wrong. everyine around me are getting together or metting new boys/girls and making a ...
A. 3 September 2010: Honey this is an simple question and not an insult! Are you been sexual with these guys at all before it all fades out? it just a theory please get back to me =]... (read in full...)
Every time I snoop I find things that I wish I wouldn't find
Q. This is a long story. I've been married for 4 yrs. I love my husband dearly but about every 2 months or so I get a gut feeling that something isn't right and start snooping. Every time i snoop i always either find text messages to other women or ...
A. 12 August 2010: You are been disrespected because you are letting him! Everytime you let something go or forgive him it just sends him the message that you are a push over and he can walk all over you which is sooo wrong! You need to be strong and give him one last ... (read in full...)
Does it sound like she might be interested in me?
Q. so a couple of weeks ago I met this girl. I have an account on one of these LGBT community sites and occaisonally I get random messages from lesbians or bi girls who mainly live in the same region coincidentally lol and we like talk once or twice ...
A. 10 August 2010: Yes i would say she is interested in you, my advice would be to meet soon and see if you click in person and if so it looks like there is a good chance for a relationship as you two clearly get on very well, i hope all goes well and im confident it ... (read in full...)
Am I a virgin man?
Q. Once, my colleagues asked me " r u a virgin"? And i did not know how to answer them. I am wondering how '" virgin" is defined? Lets say if i have never had sex with a girl, but i have done masturbation. Then am I a virgin man? ...
A. 7 August 2010: Yes. A virgin is someone who has not had full penetrative sex, hope this helps ... (read in full...)
Should I stay or should I leave?
Q. well me and my girlfriend have been dating for a few months now, but i have some concerns! I feel like she takes advantage of me. I do so much for her thats its ridiculous. When were togather in public or just hanging out she rather spend my money ...
A. 4 August 2010: I must agree, i believe she is still in love with her ex and is trying to use you to get over her which is not fair on you! you need to end this relationship sonner rather than later to avoid it getting anymore painful, as harah as it is, you cant ... (read in full...)
Whens it time to end it?
Q. Mods Note: OPs own title: So lets call this guy J. Me and J met 4 years ago on the computer thru a netural friend. (He was my moms friends step son before his dad and her broke up) So basically her x step son. Anyways, we clicked so quickly and ...
A. 31 July 2010: Let go of hi, honey, he hasnt treat you in the way a future good bf would and the friendship is only going to end in tears...for you, just move on draw a line in the sand and focus on you.... (read in full...)
Can I move out at 15? I don't have a good relationship with my always ill mother.
Q. Hey, this isn't a relationship question but I don't know where else to turn. My mum has been ill for over 10 years and from a young age I have looked after her. I left school at 13 and developed depression. My brother's left home and my dads alwa...
A. 31 July 2010: This is not a nice situation honey, to start off if you need some advice or someone to talk to about your depression please send me a message on here as i know the perfect person, up to you =]. About moving out, im not all to sure but i THINK as you ... (read in full...)
He wants to have sex but I can't relax
Q. I have a boyfriend and he wants have sex but I can't relax and he puts on slow music and gives me a massage but my heart keeps racing just when he does this and he kisses me on my neck and I just can't take it so what should I do....
A. 31 July 2010: Are you ready for sex, do you want sex? you need to think about these things as it does not sound like you are ready, if this is true you need to tell your boyfriend this and if he is the nice type og guy then he will accept it, if he does not you ... (read in full...)
In dire need of advice!! Is he too weird?
Q. Been dating a man 10 yrs older than me (never married, no kids, engaged a few times) for 3 months now. I thought I was in love with him after a month or so, but now when I say it...I just don't feel it. I think it's because he's a bit odd. He's in ...
A. 31 July 2010: he may be a nice guy he may noot, but either way he is not the man your are meant to be with and staying with him is just wasting both your time, dont be mean to him or hurt him, just let him down gentley and move on with your life, i wouldnt ... (read in full...)
Will 18 year old boyfriend be in trouble if my parents approve of us dating?
Q. Hey there. soo im kindof confused.ive been looking for the answer everywhere. But im 15 and my boyfriend is 18 my parent approve of us dating im almost 16 and we wanna have a kid as crazy as it sounds but will he get charged by the stated with anyt...
A. 31 July 2010: No it will not be oki your parents do not make the law he will be in trouble and for good reason, by all means date him go to the park the mall the cinema, but please you are far to young for a baby you may not think that now but please just listen ... (read in full...)
I can't get rid of thrush and am too embarrassed to go to the doctor
Q. i have had very bad thrush for about 6 years i went to the doctors about it and he gave me a perscription for clotrimazole 1% cream.it did the job while i was applying the cream but as soon as it got better and i stopped the cream it came back with ...
A. 31 July 2010: I know this isnt what you want to hear but please please go to the doctors and tell them everything you have said there as there may be a more serious reason why it keeps returning, your health is more important than a few embarassing minutes, ... (read in full...)
Is it possible not to like sex?
Q. Is it possible not to like sex? I lost my virginity to my boyfriend a few months ago and we've done it somewhere between 10-20 times but I still don't like it. Sometimes it hurts a little but at other times it's just uncomfortable or I can't feel ...
A. 25 July 2010: I dont want to get to personal but if this is both your first experiences i am guessing it is a lack of skill rather than you been asexual(someone who does not like sex). You need to experiment with foreplay and make sure you are wet before ... (read in full...)
Why has she treated me like this and how can I get over her?
Q. I am a twenty four year old lesbian that has recently fallen head over heels in love with someone that is, to be frank, not interested! Obviously, this is not the first time I have fallen victim to unrequited love, this time, however, it is slightly ...
A. 25 July 2010: I got to say wow that was a long question! lol.
Well i certainly cant claim to know why another person does anything but i can atleast tell you my ideas, she is not the first person to acy like this and she will not be the last! Some people do not ... (read in full...)
If her girlfriend really loved her why should she break up with her to see someone else?
Q. I started dating a girl right after she broke up with her girlfriend. The reason they broke up was that the girlfriend had a crush on someone and wanted to date that person. So they broke up and I started seeing her. Well the girl I was seeing ...
A. 22 July 2010: Hey, yes is the sort answer, they more than likely will have more problems but this shouldnt be your concern and you shoul not be there for her to run back to because for whatever reason this girl really loves her girlfriend and she would more than ... (read in full...)
I'm an 18 year old virgin and suspecting that I am bisexual
Q. Ok.im 18 a virgin and suspecting that i am bisexual. this i do not have a probelem with,but i would like to know if i am for deffinate,i dont think i would have much of a problem coming out. I dont have a very high oppinion of men in general,howev...
A. 20 July 2010: As strange as this may sound a persons sexuality is based on alot more than just actual sex, it is about feelings and attraction as much as it is anything else. The simple answer to your question is if your attracted to men and women then yes y... (read in full...)
If I was open about liking girls and boys with my classmates, will I be a target?
Q. If i tell everyone at school i like girls aswell as boys would i be brave or stupid? i cant decide all these questions are in my head and its confusing me i just want to be myself for once i have too pretend to be someone am not and i hate it i have ...
A. 15 June 2010: I know you got lot answers but i just want to have my say i guess been gay and having these feelings at your age. Dont make the mistake i did and anounce it to everyone in your year, when you do that you are encouraging the immature people to make ... (read in full...)
Could this ruin our friendship?
Q. hi guys, im quite confussed on the situation me and my best friend have gotten into. i have addmitted to her that im bi sexual and she said that she has a curiosity for hooking up with girls aswell. one night her mum said it was easy for girls to ...
A. 15 June 2010: mixing romance and friendship is not always a good idea, my advice to you would be to only try something with this girl if you have real genuine feelings for her and she may feel the same, not just to try things out . =]... (read in full...)
Any ideas where I can meet lesbian girls, other than gay bars?
Q. hi i wrote the other day about being nervous about going to the gay/lesbian club as nobody knows that im a lesbian except my two best friends anyway, we went to the gay bar and to be honest i was really disappointed. its the only one in our city ...
A. 14 June 2010: I dont know where in UK you are from but you need to travel into the bigger cities to have a really good gay scene night out, and just a point 99% of people on gay scenes are so friendly. Other than that online dating could be and idea, website such ... (read in full...)
He is in love with me, but I am a lesbian! He continues to insult me and my girlfriend, is he worth keeping as a friend?
Q. So, hey everyone. I just want to say that I've never asked something like this, and this is gonna be a pretty long question, but here goes... Before we start, I'm fifteen and the guy is eighteen. So I was seeing this guy for about two months a lit...
A. 13 June 2010: Hey honey, this is a situation i have been in myself, when i was about your age too, so i really hope i can help you. What I learnt is that you cant spend your whole life feeling guilty for your sexuality meaning you do not want to be with someone ... (read in full...)
Alternatives to masturbation?
Q. Instead of masturbation, what are other ways I can pleasure myself sexually? ...
A. 12 June 2010: how about trying the bf/gf approach?... (read in full...)
Thinking about dating my step sister.
Q. OK I'm 15 and my stepsister is 14. We are really close. We've known each other for like three years. She is the type of girl i like to date. I think I am starting to develop feelings for her. I don't mean have sex with her because I don't like to ...
A. 12 June 2010: Although you are not blood related, you are realted by marriage and any sexual or dating relationship you may have could be very very complicated. If the relationship ends or go wrong this is a girl you must see on many occasions, and also many ... (read in full...)
I want to think about him not talk about my past sex life! Help!
Q. Haay, Im 16; And My Boyfriend is 14; He Recently found out that ive gone out with something like 3 chicks before him and that im Bi; He is pressuring me to hook up with a chick, btu i just want to be with him; He Knows i still have feelings f...
A. 11 June 2010: As sad as a break up is, im am so happy that you got this situation sorted and i believe that you have done the best thing as you are clearly better than him!!... (read in full...)
I want to think about him not talk about my past sex life! Help!
Q. Haay, Im 16; And My Boyfriend is 14; He Recently found out that ive gone out with something like 3 chicks before him and that im Bi; He is pressuring me to hook up with a chick, btu i just want to be with him; He Knows i still have feelings f...
A. 10 June 2010: Hey there, it is wrong for this guy to try and get you to talk about personal details of past relationships, that are not only personal to you but also the other people in those relationships. NO you should not kiss that girl, she has feelings and ... (read in full...)
I chose her over my boyfriend and now I'm open to getting hurt, what should I do?
Q. My friend and I have been close since sixth grade. In eighth grade I found out I was bi. She figured out she was too. I fell for her hard and she told me she liked me too, but I have a boyfriend who loves me. I had to choose between the two, and ...
A. 10 June 2010: Hey, I feel for you as this does not sound like a situation anyone would like to be in but unfortunately can be a common one. The best advice i can give you is to be straight with her and tell you how you feel about her, and tell her you need to ... (read in full...)
I love him dearly but he hurts me in anyway he can!
Q. i'm about to be 16, he's 17. we have been talking for about six months? and well we have choose to date when he comes to my school next year, well anyways i think he's abusive and controlling. you tell me... 1.) i'm not allowed to hang with other ...
A. 28 May 2010: It is simple. LEAVE HIM. there is no options or questions about it, you have to leave him before he manages to convince you that his behaviour is normal, ok or your fault, which it is NOT! He is young and already acting like this which means he will ... (read in full...)
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