Why are men so bothered about the size of their penis????
Q. I know men will never get over this, but why on earth are they so obsessed with penis size? Personally I think a large penis is not that enjoyable, as it just hurts. What is wrong with a nice 5 or 6 inch average penis? Why do they always have...
A. 8 January 2009: of course, if they don't know how to use it whether it is small or huge then the sex will be crap.
a big penis does not make a man more manly! i think guys need to really understand what a woman wants and then they will feel less worried ... (read in full...)
Another dreaded penis size question!!!
Q. I know that this question comes up all the time but I'm looking for specific answers. My penis peaks at about 5" length and 4" - 4.5" round and it's really preventing me from pursuing relationships. I'm only just starting to get ready for the dating ...
A. 8 January 2009: i'm confused are you saying your penis is too small or too big? because the size you are saying is what i call perfect! just the right lenght and thickness. girls don;t like a giant piece of meat, it hurts and is not enjoyable unless the guy is ... (read in full...)
How can I pluck up the courage to kiss him?
Q. Hii xx So here's the thing. My bf and I have been going out for a while now and we both would like to kiss but we are kinda nervous about it. How can I pluck up the courage to do the first step? And what should I do to enjoy my first kiss, how to d...
A. 8 January 2009: surly if he is your bf you would have kissed on a date? well anyway the best thing to do is just take his hands and lean into him. let him come the rest of the way, if he does not get the hint maybe give him a little kiss on the cheek then smile and ... (read in full...)
People's sex education knowledge is horrifying! Why don't people know the basics???
Q. This isn't really a question, it's just something that has shocked me and I would like to hear other people's views. Basically I can't get over the amount of people who don't know about the basics of sex. For instance people who think they can get ...
A. 8 January 2009: i never said anything about teens not having sex. i just don't understand why some teens and even adults don't have basic sex knowledge. like for instance someone asked if women have sperm? seriously! that is just worrying. ... (read in full...)
Should I go out with my online long distance girl?
Q. im 14 and i met a girl on msn and iv been talking to her 4 a few months and we are sort of going out on line like but she lives in London and i live in Bilston and she said she wants to meet me but i dont think i should and if i do i think i should...
A. 8 January 2009: are you a 100% that she is who she says she is? people lie online all the time and yes the perverts that are out there do pretend to be a young girl to attract younger boys who are minors. it's sick but that's what they do. have you had a cam ... (read in full...)
I don't think I can forgive and forget his stag night to the strip club!
Q. I know I am not the first female in the world to have an issue with strip clubs but my boyfriend lied to me for 6 months and I had to force the truth out of him before he confessed to going to one on a stag night. I told him from the outset of our ...
A. 8 January 2009: by the way girls, if you live in the UK the dream boys are amazing. and it's a great girly night out or hen night.
see nothing awful about it. just pure fun. ... (read in full...)
I don't think I can forgive and forget his stag night to the strip club!
Q. I know I am not the first female in the world to have an issue with strip clubs but my boyfriend lied to me for 6 months and I had to force the truth out of him before he confessed to going to one on a stag night. I told him from the outset of our ...
A. 8 January 2009: no offence but it is only a strip club. it;s not like he went and cheated on you with someone or paid a hooker.
i don't get why people have such a problem with strip clubs. sure they are tacky and full of girls exploiting men for their money by r... (read in full...)
Both times I've done oral sex on her I've gotten ill!??
Q. Ok. . . This is very serious for me because it can jepordize a much desired relationship with a certain girl I've come to. . .like. . alot. The first time we engaged in sexual activity was also the first time I've ever given oral sex. Fortunately...
A. 8 January 2009: well if it is the winter sickness bug, then it has nothing to do with her, unless she had it and you just caught it from her. but that probably wouldn't of been through oral sex. ... (read in full...)
Can I lose weight even if I don't exercise?
Q. Hi there, Im just wondering can you lose weight if i dont exercise? im a little bit overweight so i decided to go on a diet, im just eating really healthy and not eating any junkfood. But im not doin any sort of exercise programme. I'm n...
A. 7 January 2009: you can loose weight but you won't tone up. so don't expect miracles.
i personally am not a gym lover, so i like to do alot of walking, mainly at the weekends. also my work is physical, so i get alot of exercise while being at work. also i love t... (read in full...)
How do I talk to my Mom about getting my period?
Q. hi, ok erm i have a really big issue. well last april sometime i started my periods, im not really that close with my mum for no reason really im just not. I dont even discuss normally girly stuff with her so you can imagine how hard it was when my ...
A. 7 January 2009: you should just tell your mum. i remember i was really scared to tell mine, but when i did she just seemed happy for me.strange, as it's not like it's a pleasant thing.lol. she then offered advice on sanitary towels,etc. i felt alot better once i ... (read in full...)
Both times I've done oral sex on her I've gotten ill!??
Q. Ok. . . This is very serious for me because it can jepordize a much desired relationship with a certain girl I've come to. . .like. . alot. The first time we engaged in sexual activity was also the first time I've ever given oral sex. Fortunately...
A. 7 January 2009: it could be a number of things. it could be that because it was your first time you worked yourself up into a panic by thinking what you could get from oral and even if you could perform properly. so it could be all in you head. sometimes if you ... (read in full...)
Bullied at work
Q. I need some advice/help, I am being bullied at work and I reported the bullies because other members of staff advised me to and now it has been turned around on me because I am shy an I don't speak much, I feel so low and I feel very isolated. ...
A. 7 January 2009: do you know that bullying at a work place is a sackable offence? you should really keep following up the reports you made, maybe make more if it is still carrying on. maybe you also need to confront the bullies? i've been in a similar posistion ... (read in full...)
I get embarrassed because my nipples stick out too much.
Q. I have small boobs and my nipples seem to stick out really far. They stick out abut a centimetre. Is this a turn off for men, I get embarrassed by them!...
A. 7 January 2009: men love nipples. i don't know why, but they do. so you should be very happy that you have one of the things men love. if you notice in some dirty lads mags the models have pointy nipples, because that's what men like. so embrace the nips and stop ... (read in full...)
I have frenulum problems, please help!
Q. Okay so I'm a virgin and my penis has a frenulum, which is a thin skin under the penis head, and it doesn't allow the foreskin (I am uncircumcised) to retract. When I am not erect I can pull my foreskin back a lot, but when I am erect I can't pull ...
A. 7 January 2009: just stop questionion it and get it checked out. it maybe nothing serious, but at least you will know and feel better about it. ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with the kids picking on me at school?
Q. I am 14 years old and feeling really depressed. I am currently talking to a teacher but I can't tell her everything. I am one of those kids who get picked on daily and has no one to stick up for me. I can't talk to anyone else and I am very ...
A. 7 January 2009: well they are not a best friend if they bully you are they?you need to talk to your parents or even her/his parents. make them suffer a little, by facing their parents and possibly a punishment for being a bully. you need to speak up about it. maybe ... (read in full...)
Body language and prayer request....
Q. I have a request and a question, what does body language has to do with getting a gal? Secondly, this is not a question actually, its a request to all readers. my prayer to all readers is, whether u r all da religious type or not, pls pray for me. ...
A. 6 January 2009: you sound like you just need a good confidence boost. then your body language will be so different, you will walk around upright and feel really good about yourself. but before you can get a girl to want you,love you...you need to learn to love ... (read in full...)
I have frenulum problems, please help!
Q. Okay so I'm a virgin and my penis has a frenulum, which is a thin skin under the penis head, and it doesn't allow the foreskin (I am uncircumcised) to retract. When I am not erect I can pull my foreskin back a lot, but when I am erect I can't pull ...
A. 6 January 2009: look i had a bf who had the same problem, apart from his did tear and gave him extreme pain, he ended up having to have a operation.
if it hurts when you get hard then that is not normal. therefore you need to go to the doctor. why ignore advice t... (read in full...)
Am I normal? Is any other guy experiencing the same thing as me?
Q. Okay so im a virgin, and when im watching porn (not masturbating) my penis gets hard. And after a while when im not watching anymore, i found in my underwear a liquid... it's not precum, it's just liquid and it does not smell or anything... i can ...
A. 6 January 2009: pre-cum. you obviously have dreams what turn you on. there is nothing wrong in masturbation. it may help.... (read in full...)
I'm scared I'm not big enough for her!
Q. I have never had sex but me and my girlfriend want to. I worry about my penis. I measured it and it's 5.5 inches but I'm only sixteen. Her ex was about 2 or 3 inches longer from what I've been told. I'm scared....
A. 6 January 2009: hun you have a normal sized penis.
men need to stop worrying about the size of their ding dongs! you know what i agree with satindesire, big penis's just hurt and are not that enjoyable! only porn star women enjoy them. which brings me to proba... (read in full...)
Is 2 years a long time to be single?
Q. hi Just a quick one. I'm 22 and I want to know is it abnormal that I haven't had a girlfriend for over 2 years?! I was going out with a girl from when I was 16 until 20, after we broke up I found it really hard to go out chasing other women like...
A. 6 January 2009: i'm 22 and been single for nearly a year. i have liked it actually, there is nothing wrong in being single and young. early 20's is time for fun, sure some people find themselves in serious relationships and that's great. but one of my friends has ... (read in full...)
He's masturbating in his sleep and says he can't remember doing it!!!
Q. I've been going out with my current boyfriend for about a month now. We have previously dated for 4 months last year and have decided to give it another go. Everything is going fine, much better than the last time, except there is one thing that kee...
A. 6 January 2009: i think it is normal. there was a programme on a while ago about a guy who tries to have sex with his wife while he is asleep. ... (read in full...)
People's sex education knowledge is horrifying! Why don't people know the basics???
Q. This isn't really a question, it's just something that has shocked me and I would like to hear other people's views. Basically I can't get over the amount of people who don't know about the basics of sex. For instance people who think they can get ...
A. 6 January 2009: oh i do think they need to learn about body parts, i think most kids that age learn that anyway. i think it is important that they know the difference between a girl and a boy too. but the sex stuff is a no no. ... (read in full...)
How much does a guy plan to spend on a girl on the first date?
Q. Honestly, I want a guy's opinion on this one! How much does a guy plan to spend on a girl on the first date? And how fancy of a place or settle for a quick bite to eat and not let her super size?!? LOL. Say you both met online (dating site) an...
A. 6 January 2009: ok i may be the only girl in here who pays her way on a first date. if he insists then i let him, but i don't like to feel like a guy has to pay for me on everything. guess i'm just alittle independant at times.
also i don't mind where a guy take... (read in full...)
How do I deal with the kids picking on me at school?
Q. I am 14 years old and feeling really depressed. I am currently talking to a teacher but I can't tell her everything. I am one of those kids who get picked on daily and has no one to stick up for me. I can't talk to anyone else and I am very ...
A. 6 January 2009: ok you need to tell your teacher everything, she or he can't sort out all of the problems unless they know it all. do you have a school councelor? go to them, as they are very clued up on this sort of thing. also tell your parents! these little ... (read in full...)
Are there any home remedies to remove ingrown pubic hairs?
Q. Hi, I am 17 years old and I have a feeling that I will become sexually active with my girlfriend soon. However, one concern that I have is that I am a virgin (which means it cannot be a STD) and I have TONS of ingrown hairs on my penis shaft an...
A. 6 January 2009: ingrowing hair is a normal thing for guys and girls. girls can get it in their armpits too. so don't worry about your girlfriend thinking that it is an STD.
you could try and remove the hairs one by one or maybe talk to your doctor, there are vari... (read in full...)
People's sex education knowledge is horrifying! Why don't people know the basics???
Q. This isn't really a question, it's just something that has shocked me and I would like to hear other people's views. Basically I can't get over the amount of people who don't know about the basics of sex. For instance people who think they can get ...
A. 6 January 2009: i don't agree with little kids being taught the facts of life too early, such as this crazy government scheme to teach 5 year olds about sex! but i do think kids who are early teens need to have the talk with their parents or a teacher if a parent ... (read in full...)
I have frenulum problems, please help!
Q. Okay so I'm a virgin and my penis has a frenulum, which is a thin skin under the penis head, and it doesn't allow the foreskin (I am uncircumcised) to retract. When I am not erect I can pull my foreskin back a lot, but when I am erect I can't pull ...
A. 6 January 2009: you should see a doctor because if you try and stretch it, it could cause it to split and therefore it would be very sore and could get infected. maybe tell your dad? you can't ignore it. your parents used to change your diapers, they know what is ... (read in full...)
I have frenulum problems, please help!
Q. Okay so I'm a virgin and my penis has a frenulum, which is a thin skin under the penis head, and it doesn't allow the foreskin (I am uncircumcised) to retract. When I am not erect I can pull my foreskin back a lot, but when I am erect I can't pull ...
A. 5 January 2009: the only thing you can do is go and see your doctor. dont be embarrassed or worried, they have seen it all before. you may be given the option of circumsision or some sort of procedure to get rid of the layer of skin. i'm no medical professional, so ... (read in full...)
Does giving or receiving oral sex mean you're not a virgin any more?
Q. Hi, I'm a 14 year old virgin and I was just wondering... is oral sex counted as sex and If you do it.. does it mean you've lost your virginity? I have a couple of friends who want to know the answer to that question and so do I. Feel free to input ...
A. 5 January 2009: you are still a virgin because you have not had intercourse( when a penis enters your vagina)... (read in full...)
So did she have an orgasm?
Q. im 15 and my girlfriend is 14, we recentley went to the mall, and went into a nursery room where she gave me a hand job and i figered her. i think she got an orgasm but im still not sure, the first time i gave her one she legs started to tremble ...
A. 5 January 2009: wait a mo, i'm abit distured by something....you went to the nursery room? is that like a feeding room for babies? and you fingered your girlfriend in there. ew! seriously that is so wrong. do it at home or somewhere where babies and small children ... (read in full...)
All my friends have done it but me and now I've met a guy who wants to take my virginity, should I do it or not?
Q. Hey i knw am under age n all... buh am just having second thoughts... all my friends have done it. there's this guy at skwel a little bit older than me and we only started talking on msn..( as friends) then he mentions tht he wants so bad.. 4...
A. 5 January 2009: don't lower yourself and have sex with this idiot of a guy. he obviously only wants sex, so he has no interest in you as a person. he just wants to be the one who can brag to his friends about taking your virginity.
wait untill you are older to... (read in full...)
I found porn on his PC, young girls about 14 years old and it's freaking me out.
Q. I should first mention that I have recently been pretty down, dealing with stress, sadness, and so forth. It is taking it's toll and making me suspicious and irritable. My boyfriend and I are in our twenties, and we have been dating for 3 years. On ...
A. 5 January 2009: i would double check about whether the girls are really a young age or if they are 18 and just look young. it is important to check if it is leagal.
i would not worry too much about it right now, maybe check in a few weeks and see if there is... (read in full...)
Too young to buy a dildo- Now what?
Q. i masturbate and watch porn, but i want a vibrator or dildo. the thing is, im only fourteen, and i dont think anywhere will sell them to me, or will they? ive looked at some online, but i cant buy them because it will be sent home which will be ...
A. 5 January 2009: try everyday objects. anything that is a similar shape to a toy. if not that something that vibrates like an electric toothbrush.just don't put it back in the toothbrush holder for someone else to come along.lol.
whatever you use make sure it ... (read in full...)
We tongue kissed could I be pregnant?
Q. hi im 13 turning 14 but i havnt had my perios 4 a long time...i had it like in october and now it 2009 january 4 and i havnt had sex im still a virgin..im kind of worried bcz i have aboyfriend and all i ever did wuz just kiss him..yea it wuz tounge ...
A. 5 January 2009: why do people not have good sex ed these days!
seriously! what is going on. you can't get pregnant from kissing, sperm does not come out of his mouth and you certainly don't have eggs in yours.
your periods are probably not regular because ... (read in full...)
How do you masturbate to make it feel good?
Q. How do u finger yourself to make it feel "good" i guess? xoxo *thanks* ...
A. 5 January 2009: what alot of guys don't realise is that we can't finger ourselves as well as what a guy can, simply because sometimes we can't reach in as deep as someone elses fingers. but i do believe that women need to learn more about finding how to orgasm ... (read in full...)
Good idea? I put condom on a banana and used it
Q. Dear cupid, Am i a freak? I was sitting in my room bored with nothing to do. It was a guy friend texting me telling me all these freaky toughts he was having about me. While later on that night I was kind of horny. So i went and got a banana a...
A. 5 January 2009: nothing wrong with it. you were experimenting.
just make sure you use condoms on things like fruit and veg. you don't want to get an infection. ... (read in full...)
Do girls have female sperm
Q. im really curious.. you no how in the porn movies,, the guys starts having sex with the girl and all of a sudden a bucnh of watery fluids squirt out of the girls vagina.. what are those fluids?? why does that happen?? and do girls hav...
A. 5 January 2009: you must remember that porn movies are very unrealistic! not all girls have female ejaculation. we don't all gush with fluids.
i really think you need to brush up on your sex ed. for a 18-21 year old not to know about women having eggs and men havi... (read in full...)
Anonymous answers please about lots of ?? about penis!!
Q. Okay I know this is another Penis size question and that people are probably sick of it,but for men it's a huge insecurity. Answer anonymously if you please. 1)Would you ever breakup over a lovers size? 2)What do you consider small? 3)What do y...
A. 5 January 2009: 1) no, i'm not that shallow. plus the size don't matter. if a guy can't find your clit, then that matters!
2)no penis at all
3)anything that really hurts and won't go in all the way. we are not porn stars.
4)average.
5) 2nd ... (read in full...)
?? for females about sex
Q. i have some questions about the sexual feelings of a female. 1. do girls or women maturbate? 2. if yes,why?only for fun or getting sexual satisfaction too? 3. do they feel excited seeing a naked well built guy? 4. do they want to touc...
A. 5 January 2009: most women probably play with themseleves,not as much as men though. there is no number, that's like asking how many times a week do men play with themselves.
women like all different types of men, like men who like different women. some like bui... (read in full...)
Is my mum cheating? And my mum's boyfriend is a transvestite! What should I do?
Q. My mum has a boyfriend, who she has been with for about 4 years now. But, for about a year I have noticed that she has been on dating sites. Sometimes I'd go on the computer and see that she has the website up, and the chats so I can see what she's ...
A. 5 January 2009: you can't really do anything. your mums private life is non of your business. i know that sounds harsh, but you can't tell your mum how to run her life. you just have to stay out of it.... (read in full...)
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