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I'm starting to fancy my ex's friend, is this good or bad!?

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Question - (30 March 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 March 2006)
A male , *hredordie writes:

Hey guys, another question on a slightly different subject.

I have been talking a little bit with this one girl who is friends with both me and my ex, and is also the ex-girlfriend of one of my buddies. She is cute and easy to talk to since she's a friend of mine, but I'm weary about proceeding any further because of several reasons - mainly because I'm still in love with my ex and this new girl is my friend's ex as I mentioned.

For anyone interested, I've posted several times about my break up including the most recent post:

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-believe-badly-that-her-new.html

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A female reader, Hopeful +, writes (31 March 2006):

Hopeful agony auntAngelicc put it very well. You are still hung up on your ex and you need to make sure that you are feeling like you have healed and moved on before you start a new relationship.

I would get to know this girl better and enjoy her friendship and company before getting into anything more serious.

It is a good sign that you are beginning to think about new and different relationships but I would give yourself some time.

Just make sure that anything you do start with this girl in the future is for the right reasons, not revenge or trying to prove something to your ex. Make sure that if you are interested in her, it is for her, not to prove a point or get even.

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A female reader, Angelicc United Kingdom +, writes (31 March 2006):

Angelicc agony auntIf you believe you are still in love with you ex then you shouldn't move on her bestfriend.

1. if your in love with your ex then its unfair to enter in a relationship know.

2. if you do enter in to a relationship with her may end up a just rebond gal.

3.if you do try and move on her it'll effect your friendship and her friendship with your ex.

you should just stay friend at least until your over your ex.

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