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writes: Hi i am having a problem....my mother hates my boyfreind of nine months and so she has baned me from talking to himm she took my cell phone and everything eles away she also pulled me out of school...should i leave him or stay with him and try to make it work till i turn eighteen in a year? Reply to this Question
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (28 March 2006):
 firstly you havent given alot of information there could be reason your mother is acting the way she is. like she may think your too young, or that you boyfriend is too old, there could may factors that you haven't mentioned.
but going on what you wrote i just want to know if you love you boyfriend if you believe his worth the hassle that your mother is giving you.
as your mum sounds as if shes over protective. maybe you could talk to her... ask her to meet your boyfriend, let her see the bond between you two, let her really get to know him.
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reader, bodylotion +, writes (28 March 2006):
 Your mum is being pathetic.She is probery just jelous as your now giving your love to someone else.I think you should let it settle with your mum but make sure you make this clear to your boyfreind as he will think your ignoring him.Spend a bit of time with your mum and explain to her that your not a baby.The rest is upto you.
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reader, Floppy +, writes (28 March 2006):
 Hello, Obviously you know what your boyfeind is like, whether is is faithful towards you or not, his backgroud, and maybe the answers as to why your mother doesn't like him. However, if you feel this guy is perfect and is right for you, you should go for it. You have been together along time, and you are old enough to make you own decisions. It isn't up to your Mother any more to control your life and especially not your love life. My advice would be, if you really love this guy, continue with your relationship as much as you can, but if there is a good reason why your mother doesn't like him, listen to what she has to say. However, if your mother actually has no reasons, and is scared she is losing her 'little girl' reassure her he is a nice guy and you will still be in good contact with her and make her know that you still need her for support. Good luck!
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reader, PrunellaGringepith +, writes (28 March 2006):
 The question is...why does your mother dislike this boy so much?
It may seem she is being unfair, and it does sound like she is being a bit drastic, but she must have some reason for feeling this way. After all, I am sure she feels she is doing this for your best interests. Dont forget that the chances are your mother has had a lot more experience with relationships than you.
Talk with her about why she does not want you to see this guy, then make your decision as to whether or not you should continue to see himm.
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