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writes: okay i just found out my boyfriend and my sister were dating while i was dating him. and i am unsure how far they went together and if he expects the same from me. i have forgiven them both but i wish i knew how to ask "bob" what they did without him thinking i don't trust him no more?signed confused- Reply to this Question
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (31 March 2006):
 Well you must be very much in love or very forgiving person to forgive your boyfriend for two timing with your own sister. i personally think you have a reason to distrust you boyfriend for what his done to you. if you really want to know whats gone on between him and your sister speak to him. you should get all your worries out not hold them in as it'll eat you up.
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reader, chickenzgomoo +, writes (31 March 2006):
I would like to tell you to just leave this guy, as he sounds like a total jerk (bad enough dating another girl, but your sister!?!) But that isn't what you asked. Let him know that you care about him, but that you are still just a bit confused about this love triangle. Tell him it would help you come to terms with it if you knew just a bit more about what they did. Tell him your fears about what he may expect of you. Hopefully, he will be sensitive to your feelings and let you know.
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reader, lisa_01  +, writes (31 March 2006):
 understandable that you want to know all the details but i think for one it will just gross you out, 2 it may make you feel more upset and then finding yourself unable to forgive and 3 you will find yourself trying to go that one bit further , i admire you for your confidence to stand up and try move on past this but i tried to picture myself in your position and i felt phyiscally sick, picturing my bf getting it on with my sister (gross), i think your bf is very lucky you have stayed with him and i hope he does prove that he is trustworthy, your a very strong and confident person and forgiving person i just hope he does take advantage of that and does it again.
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