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writes: I have written here before about starting a relationship with an age gap. I'm 18 (f) and my boyfriend is 32. I am happy in this relationship.One of my best friends has now stopped talking to me. She has never met my boyfriend, and she has let me know that she thinks the whole relationship must be weird. She thinks it's certainly wrong. My other friends, some who ahve met him, are pleased for me and like him. I would have thought that my friend would be trying to persuade me to end it, always checking up on me etc.. but she has just stopped talking to me. I have started to hear things that she has said about me, e.g that i bore her. We may be very different, but I don't quite understand. A lot of people agree that she is judgemental, and does not really accept anyone different from her. She says I've changed in a very nagative way, yet I know I am making the right decision. She refuses to meet him as it "digusts"her. I find this slightly amusing as I know that she would understand if she could see how amazing he is.. or atleast she might accept it. I am/was very close to her.. and it;s just gone.She dislikes me because of this. I don't know what to do. Evereyone else says it's her problem and not mine and just to leave it cos she's not worth it. It's difficult to do that though. She doesn't want to know.
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reader, tux  +, writes (28 March 2006):
 I hard to believe you can consider her a friend. The least she could have done was met him before passing judgement on the relationship. some people just have trouble though with stuff they just don't understand. Love is like that.. Love sometimes doesnt know anything about the numbers game.
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (28 March 2006):
 i think that she just maybe jealous of your relationship, jealius of the fact that your happy. some people find it hard to be happy for other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2006): She's ignorant, narrow-minded, and self-righteous. It's either her way or no way. What type of best friend is that?
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