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writes: My boyfriend and I are really happy..when we are together. We never fight when we are around each other..but when we talk on the phone or anything, we tend to fight more than what i would consider normal. He tells me that I piss him off with some of the things I say, but if we were together he would have thought they were "cute". Is there anything i can do to help this, or is our relationship doomed? Reply to this Question
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (1 April 2006):
 the way some people talk to people online/over the phone is different then face to face. when your talking to someone on the phone/online you feel you have to fill every void of silence but when you face to face the silence just feel comfortable that they dont alway need to be filled.
this means that when you on the phone/online you sometimes say or ask things that you wouldnt usual.
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when you face to face with someone you can usual can tell what mood someones in right. so if there in a good you can say anything but if there in a bad mood you have to be senitive about what you say. but over the phone/online you cant always tell. so you think someones in a good mood and you say something that you know not to say when there in a bad mood and there actually in a bad. there lies the reason there pissed
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reader, smeedle +, writes (1 April 2006):
 Take a look at what it is that you say to him on the phone, do you say things on the phone that you would not say when you are with him and do you use a different tone.
I would not say your relationship is doomed but it does need some work.
Tell him that what he says to you upsets you and you want to know exactly what is going on as you feel he is different with you in peson to on phone.
Only if you ask will you know.
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