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Is it normal that he gets turned on my porn, even when he's got me?

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Question - (20 July 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 22 July 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Please help me. Is it normal for your boyfriend to be turned on by a porn video or some other girl even when he has a girlfriend? Please help me xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2006):

almost all men love watching porn,no matter their relationship status.its very normal.i think its just human nature myself.it only can be a problem if it becomes obsessive.but porn can be healthy overall in most circumstances.the easiest thing to do would be to use it as a fun extra once in awhile during sex.a lot of women find that they actually can enjoy porn too,even though most wont admit this;) (im a woman,and i admit i like it)to try to stop him from watching would be a very hard thing to do because most men will just do it anyways and try to keep it a secret from you if they know that you hate it.so my suggestion is to just try to learn to enjoy it together,and that will eliminate the problem of feeling left out or unwanted because you will both be able to get enjoyment out of it together:)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2006):

very many men do...YES thats true

Are they pigs? yes thats true

If they have a desire to see other women naked their obviously not satisfied with the body of the woman their with

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A female reader, hannieseds New Zealand +, writes (20 July 2006):

hannieseds agony auntHey there,

It depends on the man! My man doesn't look at it at all and sometimes I even pull out an XXX vid to try something different but he just doesn't like it! So there are men out there who don't look at it but I guess it's up to you to decide if you're happy and can handle him looking at it. xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2006):

Yes, YES! (I almost cursed again) Umm... Dear Ms. Anon, if your bf doesn't have emotions, then he wouldn't get turned on by another girl. Then again, he wouldn't even be with u in the first place. So long as we all have the emotions of hate, lust, love, etc, we will have reactions towards a variety of things. This is and please remember forever - human nature.

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A female reader, Angelicc United Kingdom +, writes (20 July 2006):

Angelicc agony auntVery...many guys get turn on by other women who aren't there girlfriends or wifes.

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