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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2006): i had sex for the first time last night. i'm 19, and i wanted to make sure that it was with the right person. ive been with him for 2 months and it just felt right last night. i fully respect everyone elses response but i want to give you my honest one aswell. it really, really hurt me, id say 8.5/10 on a pain scale! lol, he was very gentle and held my hand when it really hurt, i tried to be very relaxed but it didnt seem to make a difference. but the most important thing i can say is, it eventually gets better, and it doesnt hurt afterwards, i didnt bleed at all, and its a special feeling afterwards. do not be out off at all, if your with the right person they help you through it and it feels brilliant. we tried it again this morning and it was fantastic. have fun!good luck
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reader, yo-yo +, writes (18 August 2006):
Wow! yo um sex hurts alot the first time. He pushes his part into your tight un opened part, forces it through then you bleed, then he cums, he's happy and then your there lying next to him looking at him with a smile on his face like he did sumthing when all he did was hurt you. But its not like that the next time it gets better trust me.
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reader, datprincssfrmva +, writes (18 August 2006):
Well, i lost my virginity about a month and a half ago, and it really didnt hurt me that much. We had attempted once before and it really seemed to hurt. But when we finally did go all the way, it only hurt for about 30 seconds or so, then the pain went away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2006): The truth about this issue is yes it hurts but not alot...everyone is different and most of the time the pain comes not being ready or it being the wrong guy. A pros advice, find a friend who you completly trust and is untied, talk about it and if you two can agree to have that as a part of your friendship then good.... it still changes your relationship but if honesty is there then no problem. Forget religion,love and all that its sex and we are sexual beings so have fun but be safe.... for gods sake be smart condoms birth control all the rest. Its all about you sweetheart, if you want it then good but if you dont please dont rush it i mean yeah its amazing and unbelievable but you are worth more than sex. Just know your a woman a beautiful woman and desearve it to be right ok... youll know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2006): Yeah it's likely to hurt first couple of times you do it. Make sure you have plenty of lubrication-trust me this is vital in causing you less pain. I found when i first had sex the first 5 minutes or so hurt like hell but then i was fine and started to enjoy myself.
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reader, chunky_monkey +, writes (20 July 2006):
Everyone is different and thats all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2006): I bleed the first couple of times and it did hurt, and it is not till I was a fully fledge adult that it felt good. Although there was no pain after second time, it was probably the hunderdth time and with the right man that I felt pleasure. It is a prescoius thing, dont just give it to anyone, You ALWAYS remember your first.
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (20 July 2006):
 Omg is everybody looking to lose their virginity this summer.
Yea sexual intercourse can hurt the first couple of time but afterwards its just pleasure.
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reader, willywombat +, writes (20 July 2006):
 There are lots of posts dedicated to this. Go and read them. There have been an awful lot of questions about virginity lately and just have the feeling this might be the work of one guy getting *off* on this. Sorry.
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