I confided in the person he likes, she has stirred it up and now they both wont talk to me!!
Q. I'm in a bit of a pickle and I don't know wot to do!! I have feelings for one of my best friends and made the mistake of confiding in the person he liked! He asked her out on a date for the 5th time and she agreed to go! I couldn't underst...
A. 4 October 2006: Gah, i myself am going through a bit of a problem like this, with my ex gf stirring stuff up with the girl i like, basicly trying to get her pissed off with me, but it isnt gonna work. I would say leave it for a little bit, let him cool off, then ... (read in full...)
At what age do parents let go of their children ?
Q. At what age do parents let go? I have an 18 year old daughter (just turned 18). She isn't making the best decisions about drinking (underage) and who she dates. Is it wrong for me to still check up on her and tell her she has to call home? At ...
A. 4 October 2006: Hey, im 16, my mum is fairly leanient, she lets me go out and drink, go to partys etc, but she does keep track of what im doing and makes sure im not doing anything silly/dangerous, i would say at 18 you should let your daughter enjoy herself, in ... (read in full...)
She said she loved me and we could be together after she isn't with her boyfriend anymore until she met my best friend!!
Q. im a lad and i have known a girl for about 3 years, i was realy good friends with her then we didnt speak for about a year then we started speaking and about 6 mnths after i realy realy love her, she claimed that she loved me but she was with ...
A. 3 October 2006: no offence, but she sounds bascily like a cock tease (if u dont know what that is dont worry) but it sounds like she cant make her mind up, if i was you i would forget her, and fast, dont let it get you down, stay positive, girls like this are best ... (read in full...)
How do I get my wife to allow me to fulfill my fantasy??
Q. How do I go about fulfilling my fantasy of watching another guy do my wife? We do roleplay this, but I wonder if she would ever actually do it for me. ...
A. 2 October 2006: lol, thats a bit of an extreme fantasy, i really doubt alot of women would want to do that, you might come off a bit weird asking her, but i guess it all depends on what sort of person she is. but if i was you, i would keep it a fantasy. just what i ... (read in full...)
Am I a pychco jealous girlfriend or is he cheating?? Any opinions would be helpful.
Q. my boyfriend of 3 years has just moved down to university, which is about an hour from my house, he comes home to me at weekends beccause he works in a bar. Also at uni is a girl who works in the bar with him and recently he has been getting texts ...
A. 2 October 2006: hey there, maybe they are taking the same class(s)and the text to go to hers could be them helping each other out with work, or study together, or even going to work at the same time, like going together, i wouldnt go too manic about it unless u ... (read in full...)
He said he wanted to sleep with other women while away at Uni and then come back and marry me!!!
Q. Hi, I have a problem with my boyfriend. We have been friends since we were 11 and best friends for about 4 years and 10 months we started going out. It has been amazing and I love him so much...until he told me that while he gets his uni degree o...
A. 2 October 2006: to be honest, if a girl said that to me, i would dump her like a ton of bricks, LOADS of people have to go through a patch of long distance stuff, and do they say 'can i sleep with other people?' no. if he cant even be faithful while hes at uni ... (read in full...)
I broke up because I was so depressed with her, she says she will change, but Im confused!
Q. i am a 21year old male who just got out of a relationship. when we first got together we were so happy together my weight was around 180. Now my weight has gone down about fifteen pounds. We used to be so happy together and when we get around h...
A. 29 September 2006: ah these situations are never easy, i suggest you tell her you need some time to yourself, and take a few weeks to get back on track with yourself, and start eating properly etc, then make your desision weather you want to get back together, you ... (read in full...)
How can I get his parents to change thier opinion of me!??
Q. My boyfriend of a year last night told me that his parents really don't like me. He said that they think i'm very needy and a bit physco. They don't like things that I say or things that I do. I love my boyfriend completly to bits and I want to be ...
A. 29 September 2006: i wouldnt really worry about it, parents are oftern not pleased with thier childrens bf/gf, i know my mum hasnt liked alot of my girlfriends, i suggest just whenever your around them act normal, be talkative, and kind polite etc, because thats what ... (read in full...)
No condoms - will birth control be enough?
Q. I finally told my bf I'm on birth control last weekend. This weekend, he has tried having sex with me without a condom. He didn't ask me but read my body lanuage that I didn't mind. When he is about to come, he asked me if it was okay. I thought ...
A. 25 September 2006: dont forget, condoms arnt just thier to prevent you from getting pregnant, they are also there to stop STD's, if i was you, i would get you and your boyfriend to the doctors and have a check done for STD's, if your both clean, then sex without ... (read in full...)
How do I know when I am ready to kiss my boyfriend?
Q. How Do I Know Im Ready For Kissing My Boyfriend??????????...
A. 24 September 2006: dont worry yourself about it, you will know when you are :P and its not a case of 'shall i kiss him tonight?', it will just happen, when it feels right... (read in full...)
I am 13 and still a virgin, is there something wrong with me?
Q. Im a 13 years old. Most of my friends have lost their virginity. I have to listen to everything they say about how great it was. I for one haven't.Is there something wrong with me? ...
A. 24 September 2006: honey, most people dont lose thier virginity till they are 16-20, i lost my virginity when i was 14, and i wish i didnt, i wish i had waited till i found some1 i truely liked and was mature enuf to say 'yes, i want to lose my virginity to (girls ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants sex. I am only 13 and I don't know what to do. Help please!!
Q. me and my boyfriend have been dating for around 3 weeks and we have done all the basic oral. i am only 13 but he keeps talking about having sex with me and i dont know what do do help please!...
A. 24 September 2006: well, 13 is a little young for any sort of sexual activities, i suggest you tell him your not ready, having sex so young isnt a good thing, and how old is he? same age as you?
but if i was you i wouldnt do anything yet, wait till your older an... (read in full...)
Kissing my bf's neck turns him on but when he does it to me...I feel nothing? Is this normal?
Q. Hello! Usually just kissing my boyfirend's neck turns him on, but when he kisses my neck I don't really feel anything. Should I be feeling something? I've only been going out with him about three months and he's my first boyfriend. This may seem...
A. 18 September 2006: pretty much been covered by the last 2 answerers, everyone has different turn ons, good way to find them is be very 'touchy touchy' when together, it helped me find my last gf's turn ons in one evening. theres LOTS of different things than can turn ... (read in full...)
How does a boy look at you if they fancy you?
Q. hi, im 15 and i kind of think this boy fancies me, he's the same age as me. if a boy fancies you how do they look at you?...
A. 18 September 2006: Hey, baby girl covered it pretty well, also i find with girls i like i seem to just gorgle at them when they walk past, so if you know hes there, take a glance at him, if hes looking at you, thats a good sign... (read in full...)
She's going to Uni and I feel like I'm loosing her!
Q. My girlfriend and i have been seeing eachother for just over a month and a half now. she is all i eva wanted in a girl. we have been close for a couple of years but nuthin has happened til now. she is shortly going away to university in leicester ...
A. 17 September 2006: hey mate, well my bro's gf is at uni, and basicly, he rings her all the time, makes the effort to go down and see her at weekends (as she does to come up here). basicly, make the effort to see her, and talk to her all the time and keep up to date ... (read in full...)
I cant seem to stop cheating on my boyfriends! I've lost a guy I really loved because of it. Please help
Q. i cant seem to stop cheating on my boyfriends. I done it once and it caused so much hurt i vowed never to do it again but its like i just cant say no! please help me. i've already lost the lad i love and so i really need help...
A. 17 September 2006: no offence, but dont be so easy, learn to say no, this is nothing advice can help you with, its all to do with self control. Unless its happening when your drunk, then the solution is, dont get drunk.... (read in full...)
what do guys like in girls..tall, slim, blonde or short, petite, curvy, brunette??
Q. hi... im a teenager and wanna know, y would teenage guys want a tall, thin blonde girl to go out with? Wouldnt they prefer someone who is shorter than them? Cos my boy mates all always say "oh theres this really fit girl, she's tall and ...
A. 16 September 2006: hey, well im 16, and i did go through the fase of seeing a tall blonde bird and being like PHWORE LOOK AT THAT! but now i prefer smaller curvy girls such as your self (hair colour isnt important) because basicly curvy = sexy. i would say most guys ... (read in full...)
He won't commit to us because I'm an American....
Q. Hi. I am absolutely crushed right now and needing advice. The guy I am in love with says we cannot be together, even though he apparently "loves" me. Why? Because I'm an American. He's living in the UK, specifically England, and he has told...
A. 14 September 2006: to be honest, thats VERY shallow, not only of his family, but of him, to allow it to happen, now, im English, and that just makes me annoyed at my fellow countrymen. I know if i went to America (or any other country) and got that sort of stuff ... (read in full...)
Is he after one thing or does he really like me???
Q. theres this guy and i like him. but on wednesday he kissed me but i think it went too fast, i dont want to hurt his feelings by turning him down if he asks me out. but im not sure if i want to say yes. please give me some advice, im new to the ...
A. 14 September 2006: tell him you want to date him before you go out with him, just do stuff together, meet up, go see a movie, etc, then when you feel its right, can ask him out. No need to rush into things :)
Hope it goes well :)... (read in full...)
Why don't I have a boyfriend???
Q. hi ive had boyfriends before but bot very serious and i havent had one in nearly a year most of my friends have got boyfriends. im not an ugly girl i might not be the prettiest out of evry 1 but even my mates who most lads think arent nice have ...
A. 14 September 2006: Hey, dont worry, i didnt have a girlfriend for well over a year, then suddenly i met the most amazing girl, theres no right or wrong way of doing it, it will just happen, when your 12-15 relationships generally arnt very serious, but when you start ... (read in full...)
He has a picture on a dating site but says its a set-up???
Q. Hi there, I'm 28 and my boyfriend is 29. Today I heard that he'd posted a photograph of himself in his briefs/boxer shorts on a dating website from a friend in work. I've seen the profile on the site - but my husband insists it was a set-up,...
A. 13 September 2006: ah this is a tough one, first off, how would people at his work get a hold of a picture of him in his boxers? if theres a way they could then maybe it could have been people at work, either having a joke or doing it in a nasty way. Also, maybe he ... (read in full...)
Should I confront him about flirting with "her" in my face or leave it alone?
Q. My bf and I have been together for 3 months. We're incredibly happy together at the moment, and We've both come to terms with eachother's faults and learned to accept them as part of eachother's personality. For example, he has always been a major ...
A. 13 September 2006: i would ask him about it, if its bothering you its better he knows, alot of gusys are a big flirt, as are alot of girls, even when they are in a relationship and thier partner is around. Theres no point in keeping it a secret if it botheres you so ... (read in full...)
Im falling for my best mate, trouble is im so horrid to him and he puts up with it, but dont think he feels the same, what do I do ?
Q. Where can I start apart from im in love with my best (only) male friend. He knows that im falling in love with him but because he was badly hurt last year does not want a relationship. We have not had sex or kissed properly so that is not a ...
A. 13 September 2006: feeling depressed because wanting to be with someone happens all the time, infact it has happened to me twise. you say your not very nice to him? maybe if you tryed your best to be nice, and be yourself, he might consider being with you, because ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and I'm depressed...
Q. hi im a 15 year old girl and sometimes i feel depressed and i duno y i personally think its just my hormones or is it sometinhg else? theres nothing upsetting me!...
A. 13 September 2006: i wouldnt worry, theres alot of things that can make you feel depressed when you get to that age, im 16 and i know ive been though alot of 'depressed' times, weather it was to do with school (because at 14-15-16 school gets very serious) and also ... (read in full...)
Do boys like tall and slim or small and curvy girls???
Q. hi im 15 and ALL my mates are really thin and im jelous of them! i am thin too but i also have a lot of curves. my mates dont have many curves and i want my body to be like theres. i'm slim and curvy and quite small :( but they are slim and tall! ...
A. 13 September 2006: hey, its all a matter of opinion, i personally prefer curvy girls, like my girlfriend is a bit of a fitness freak, and she does alot of dancing, and for a few weeks while she wasnt at school (wasnt doing dance) and didnt do her work outs, she ... (read in full...)
I text her twice and she didn't reply...I'm nervous I will never see her again...
Q. This may take a while but I'll try my best to explain my story. The's this girl who I really like and i used to go to school with. she is still there as she's in the year below. She's really friendly and sweet but, she's also really shy. I asked he...
A. 13 September 2006: dont worry about it, there could be any number of reasons she hasnt text back, she might have no credit, she might not have heard the messages and hasnt checked her phone, has been too busy to reply, i used to get this all the time with my GF, but ... (read in full...)
I have dreams he is cheating...
Q. Hi I know this is going to sound strange but it is really bugging me. I have an amazing boyfriend and we love and trust eachother very much, but I keep having dreams that he cheats on me. I know he isnt as we are always together and I know I am the ...
A. 12 September 2006: Hello, funilly enough i had a dream 2 days ago about my gf cheating on me, woke up crying aswell, i wouldnt worry about it, maybe its because you like him so much you dont wanna lose him which in turn makes you dream such stuff, its hard to explain, ... (read in full...)
My ex caused me to question if the size of my penis is good enough!
Q. Hi, well I have a wierd kind of question. i have just come out of a 3 yr realationship with a very nice girl. We still meet ocasionaly and it becomes sexual. I am 26 years old and concerned about my "manliness". I shave around my mouth and have t...
A. 12 September 2006: hey, dont worry about your penis size, if you make her orgasm 95% of the time whats the problem? think of this saying, 'its not the size its what you do with it that counts', be proud of what you have and what you can do with it, making her orgasm ... (read in full...)
I like him - but he is gay!
Q. There is this one guy I was interested in dating, but I found out that he is gay. He and I have a lot in common, but I am worried about this....
A. 11 September 2006: well as far as i can see theres not much you could do, changing somebodys sexuality would be a hard task, maybe just stay friends with him, and maybe do something like go see a movie or go shopping (dont refer to it as a date tho, cos he might be ... (read in full...)
I love her so much but I feel like I'm missing something in my life. Do I need to date other girls?
Q. Hello There, I am 20, and have been going out with a girl for nearly a year now. At first it really was amazing for me. I had never dreamed that I could ever meet a girl who liked me who was so beautiful, because I'm really not a good looking guy...
A. 11 September 2006: you say you want to experience different things? why not try something different with your current girl? if you love her so much, what else do you expect to find by going out and seeing other women? i realse relationships can get repetative and go ... (read in full...)
I feel like its gone from girlfriend to friend, should I move on now ?
Q. i have been dating a man for a few months now, we live quite far apart but try to meet up a couple of times a week. he calls me his girlfriend, But lately i feels like it's more of a friendship than boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. in his texts to ...
A. 11 September 2006: Maybe the reson he seems to be losing interest is because as you said he has never been in a serious relaionship, and maybe now he can see that he would like to have a serious one with you, but is afriad to get into it, if i was you, i would see how ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend confessed that he smokes, hes hidden it from me, I hate it and now this is affecting me!!
Q. my bf has just recently told me that he smokes and has hidden it for 14 months when we have discussed it many of time if he has because i hate i so much.its really effecting me and dont no what to do?...
A. 11 September 2006: hello, i myself am a smoker, and with my previous girlfriend i said i would quit for her, and i was serious about doing so, but then we broke up so i continued, you will be surprised what boys will do for thier girlfriend, talk to him about it and ... (read in full...)
Tried sex for the first time and the inner lip of my vagina started to bleed. Am I too small?
Q. im 15 i havnt had sex yet, when i tried it with my boyfriend it was really painful and the inner lip of my vagina started to bleed slightly...i found this strange because it was as if it had ripped! we left sex and decided to stick to the oral stuff ...
A. 11 September 2006: Dont worry, sex is bound to hurt the first few times with a bit of bleeding, try using lubericant when he fingers you, and try and get as turned on as possible (get wet)and also try to relax as much as possible,if problems keep happening, then maybe ... (read in full...)
Who to guys act around girls they fancy ??
Q. Lads! Please help! can you tell me how guys act around girls they fancy? Because i think my male friend fancies me, but im not sure. Please help!! xxx...
A. 10 September 2006: lol, good question, generally any unnormal showing off or immaturaty is a good sign, i know thats how i sometimes act, trying to get noticed sort of thing, but then i suppose depending on thier age they might try and act more mature rather than ... (read in full...)
Long distance Love
Q. Hi I need some advice. The Guy i love will just be coming back from his University….by the time I am only just LEAVING college to start my University. How can we stay together? Do long-distance relationships work? If so….can they work for FOUR YEAR...
A. 10 September 2006: Hello, my brother's girlfriend is at university, and he takes the train down every weekend to see her, basicly, see each other at weekends (if possible!) and set a schedule when you can ring and chat (example, every night at 8pm, or every other ... (read in full...)
Called my girlfriend my ex's name ..help!
Q. Hi, well recently i had my girlfriend over, we watched some tv and then went up to bed, and i accidentaly called her my ex-gf's name, which i found odd becasue the girl whos name i called her we didnt even have a good relationship with, let alone a ...
A. 10 September 2006: thanks for the advice, ive been going mental thinking about it, i havent been able to speak to her in about a day because she has been busy, and i keep going over it in my head, ive wrote a really big letter telling her how i feel about her which im ... (read in full...)
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