Gf and I are planning 1st time sex..I want to get this right. Advice, please?
Q. Hey, me and my gf are planning on having sex for the first time, we have been together for 7 months and are both virgins,we have contraception sorted and are both totally ready. Obviously she doesn't paticually want all of the really bad pain and i ...
A. 29 April 2007: 1) ease into it, do a bit of foreplay first, use your fingers and/or tongue to prep her a bit, and go slow when you actually have sex. 2) Bed would be best bet, comfortable and warm :P 3) Make an evening of it, candle lit dinner, something rom... (read in full...)
How do I stop staring at their tits?
Q. I'm almost 14 and I'm really pariniod about being called a pervert. When girls wear tank tops and stuff I intentially notice their breasts first, but the second I realise what I'm looking I blink a bit and hope no one saw and just try to act ...
A. 27 April 2007: haha, nah your not a freak, your just male. I know its hard but you have to look them in the face, only look when they're not looking if u get the urge!!! haha, dont worry about it.... (read in full...)
I want a 6 pack!
Q. I really really want to get a 6 pack! I'm 16 weighing 8.10stones and 5,11feet tall. What do i need to do? all information welcome. thanks,...
A. 23 April 2007: by what youve said im guessing your quite thin? im about 5ft 7 and weigh just over 10 stone, i dont have a pack you could grate cheese on, but im very happy with my body, not too much, not too little, catch my drift? one of my friends who does kick ... (read in full...)
I am seriously panicking about my exams and can't sleep or eat.
Q. hi, im 20 and am in my second year of uni. problem is that im seriously panicking about my exams, i try to revise but cant, i cant sleep, and i keep crying all the time at the most pathetic things and most of the time i start crying for no apparent ...
A. 23 April 2007: ok from your follow up, all i can suggest is in the next 2 weeks make sure your and your friend do lots of study sessions! ask each other questions on the subjects, talk about everything, work stuff out together, will be alot more amusing than ... (read in full...)
Is he really looking forward to seeing me or only because I got in an accident?
Q. ok so heres the thing , last year in the summer i met this really nice guy who i really got on with and we would chat and talk and go pub , so anyway we decided to be sexual and we started to have sex , so anyway i started to fall for him aft...
A. 23 April 2007: he cares about you. the fact that you where in a accident made him realise that, not trying to sound harsh here, but you know the saying, you dont realise what you have till its gone? lets say he thought...shit, what if she had died?, trust me on ... (read in full...)
I'm 13..is it okay to perform oral on my bf?
Q. Ok Im 13 Years Old.and My Boyfriend Has Had Oral Sex Before Twice.he Asked If I Would Perform It On Him,and I Said I Dont Know.i Wanted 2 Know Is It Okay For Me To Perform Oral Sex On My Boyfriend?...
A. 23 April 2007: really shouldnt start any sexual activities till your atleast 16, for the maturaty factor, or weather your certain your ready for it and actually want to do it, may i ask how old is your boyfriend?... (read in full...)
I am seriously panicking about my exams and can't sleep or eat.
Q. hi, im 20 and am in my second year of uni. problem is that im seriously panicking about my exams, i try to revise but cant, i cant sleep, and i keep crying all the time at the most pathetic things and most of the time i start crying for no apparent ...
A. 22 April 2007: sounds to me like your not relaxing enough, cant tell from what youve said but do you still go out with friends? as well as trying to revise? or do you just think about revision and your exams all the time? if so, i suggest you make youself happy ... (read in full...)
My 14 yr old is only smoking to fit in! Please help he has cardio problems!!
Q. Please help my 14 year old friend smokes occasionaly when he is out with people who do smoke and it worries me because he didnt used to and i feel he is doing it to show off and i really care about him and he knows that and he wont listen to me ...
A. 22 April 2007: i agree with DrPsych, i started smoking when i was 11, this was before warnings where printed on packets or anything, and i was relativly clueless to the dangers, i myself have looked at pictures and believe me at times ive wanted to throw my packet ... (read in full...)
Im male... How can I remove hair from my Scrotum area!?
Q. What is the best way for a male to remove all pubic hair? I have a hard time imagining a razor going over my scrotum......
A. 19 April 2007: razors are fine, just pull this skin tightish and dont apply TOO much pressure on the razor, utill u get comfortable doing it just go slow, no point in trying your luck by going fast and ending up with only 1 ball left lol, but yeh, razors work ... (read in full...)
How can I stop smoking during pregnancy ? Any tips?
Q. Hello, Yesterday I discovered I am pregnant, (great news) I am a smoker and am looking for advice on how to stop!! I’ve been told I can not have any nicotine replacement as this can caurse spin-bifida… is this true, and how do I stop? Thank You...
A. 17 April 2007: few tips, one of my friends gave up, and every time he got a craving he would exercise, to take his mind off it, obviously i doubt u would do that, but you could read a book or something like that. also, im a smoker, and when i was in school i used ... (read in full...)
Moved to Germany to be with her. After finding pics of her and a guy on her computer, I am thinking about leaving!
Q. i have been going out for a long time with my GF, and after some time now i moved out to her home country, (Germany), and been feeling isolated and lonely as i have nothing to do while she is at work, so anyway i started to look at her pics, and ...
A. 15 April 2007: not being funny, but why is it such a shocker she had a pic with another guy? she proberly just forgot to delete it, not like your the only guy shes been with. Tbh this is a stupid reason to break up, fair enuf u didnt like it, and over recated, but ... (read in full...)
He says he likes me more than a friend but I don't particularly find him physically attractive although he has a terrific personality!
Q. ok i really really like my friends personality, hes just like me, we have so many things in common and get on so well, we can talk for hours. thing is hes told me he likes me more then a friend and im confused as i honestly dont find he physically ...
A. 8 April 2007: never build a relationship on looks, all that does is help how you look to other people, where what really matters is how you feel, if he has a nice personality and you get on well, then that helps how you feel, your lucky to find somebody you get ... (read in full...)
Anyone have any tips for toning up upper arms and thighs?
Q. hi, i was wondering if anyone had some tips on how to get rid of arm flab and to lose some weight from the thighs also. I'm trying to slim down, i'm not overweight or anything, i eat healthy and excercise daily but generally i only tend to lose ...
A. 17 March 2007: Probably be easier to search it in google or something, because then you can see how its done, don't wanna do it wrong and hurt yourself now do we :P But a tip, if you dont want 'manly muscle' and just to firm up, just remember - little and lots ... (read in full...)
Am I too small or is this normal?
Q. I need help My penis is 2 inches long when not hard and 6 inches when hard I am 16 and 5,7 and 222 pounds is it to small...
A. 10 March 2007: no. 6 inches is average
and anyway, its not the size that matters, is what you do with it. whats the point in having a 8 inch penis if you dont know how to use it?... (read in full...)
I am confused I might be gay. I'm 14 and it is really freaking me out!
Q. I'm 14, and i have never really felt gay or questioned my sexuality, but all of a sudden, one night i just started thinking i might be gay. I don't ever walk down the street and look 4 dudes, i always look 4 chicks. I have been real depressed ...
A. 10 March 2007: stage in life lol, sounds to me like 1 day you thought about it, and then suddenly got paranoid, i wouldnt worry about it, if you want women, your not gay, and hey, what teenager doesnt watch/want to watch porn? lol... (read in full...)
I'm terrified to ask her out for fear of rejection... any tips?
Q. Hi there, Well, Let me get started with my story..: I am aged 14, living in England, And there is this girl..Her best friend says that she has liked me since just before Christmas, And I have liked her since about there too. But I have only had on...
A. 2 March 2007: ive been in this situation, believe me, beating around the bush isnt good, i would ask her how she feels, not exactly asking her out, but theres only one way you will get her mate, if you put it off, carry on being friends, she will get used to ... (read in full...)
i have been asked on a date only twice but both times were joking..why would they do that?
Q. ok so i am 16 yrs old and i haven't had a bf yet! where i come from it's not bad not to have had a bf..and i have never been asked out on a date before as i have been really fat but now managed to be 180lb is that really fat..i mean my mom says i am ...
A. 1 March 2007: how do you mean jokily? like they said 'meet me here' but they didnt turn up? or like, 'yeh wanna go cinema?...joke!' and no, there is nothing wrong with you, i know alot of people my age (17) that havent had a girlfriend/boyfr... (read in full...)
He slept with someone when we broke up, we're together again but I don't know if I can handle this. Should I stay with him?
Q. I got back together with my boyfriend of four months recently after two weeks apart. I broke up the relationship but realised I wanted to try again and he was very willing to give it another go. The problem is while we were apart he slept with some ...
A. 1 March 2007: my brother and his girlfriend broke up for a week and she slept with somebody else. Chances are he slept with her for 'sympathy sex' as i call it, he didnt like the break up and so went to somebody for sympathy. If he told you himself then i think ... (read in full...)
How does depression affect a relationship?
Q. How does depression affect a relationship? In what way does the depressed person behave? Im in a realtionship with someone who suffers from depression. Shes had a very tragic and sad life and as result is depressed. Anybody who has had the life she ...
A. 23 February 2007: depression can be a big test of a relationship, one of my friends is depressed and believe me her and her boyfriend are on and off, one min she will say shes had it up to here with him, next shes loved up, all i can suggest mate is understand how ... (read in full...)
Kissing tips needed! Help!
Q. can you please give me some kissing tips?and tips on how to turn my boyfriend on?...
A. 23 February 2007: ah, i like answering kissing questions, people think its so hard :P well heres it from my point of view, when i first came to it, well i was about 13, never properly kissed a girl, then my girlfriend at the time said she wanted to properly kiss me... (read in full...)
Friend suggest some pills to help me relax during lovemaking with my bf. What do you all think?
Q. Hi I've written in before, ive recently been trying to have sex with my bf of nearly a year we love each other lots im a virgin and im terrified of the pain and as soon as he tries to go 'down there' even with his finger i panic and tense up and no ...
A. 27 January 2007: dont use any sort of drugs, because you will become dependant on them, to be honest, if your doing that it means your not comfortable, either you just wait untill you feel your 100% ready, or you try and get used to it, and try get comfortable doing ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm not big enough - while we were at a party, my gf blurted out that I have a small penis and she fakes orgasms!!
Q. Ok, this is my first time posting, i have been strugling with a issue for a while now, a while back i dated this girl for about 2 years sex was great...so i thought. during the relationship shes at her frinds house at a small party and anounces ...
A. 22 January 2007: it not size that matters, its the way you use it. if you can use the way you thrust to make her orgasm, it doesnt matter if your 4 inches or 40, its all to do with the technique... (read in full...)
How do I kiss him with an open mouth and tongues?
Q. This is VERY EMBARRASSING!!! Don't laugh at me :D lol OK My boyfriend and i recently started kissing, and i want to start getting off with him (open mouthed, tongues) How do you actually do this?...
A. 22 January 2007: lol, ahh being young, its all fun and games :P, trust me i had no clue when i first came to do it, but practice makes perfect, theres no real way it can be done, every1 has different styles, like my ex, she had such a strange way that i wasnt used ... (read in full...)
My Mother called me a 'waste of space ' and a 'failure'! What can I do?
Q. I am fed up at home. I am 16 so take my GCSE's in the summer and have just done my mocks. The problem is that my mum's expectations for me are huge. apparently I have always been very bright etc. but I am under a lot of pressure with my gcse's. ...
A. 22 January 2007: Ive been in the same shoes, heres your motivation, proving your mother wrong. I didnt do that, and im stuck in a dead end job, only been there 3 months and i want out, take the chance while its there, give yourself the best possible outlook in life, ... (read in full...)
My uncle is touching me inappropriately and offering me money! What should I do?
Q. Hello. My uncle has been touching me up around the chest area and i don't know what to do. He also keeps texting and asking to see me and offering me money. My Ex-Boyfriend has given me a few choices as follows. - Tell police. - ...
A. 22 January 2007: Think of it this way, if he is indeed like that, and you just move away, it might solve your problem, but what if he does it to somebody else? Tell the police. And no matter who you tell your parents will find out, and its best they should know, ... (read in full...)
My friends make fun of my bf b/c he's a bit overweight and not incredibly attractive. But he's a lovely guy!
Q. i have just started dating a guy who i really like.my friends make fun of him though because he is a little overweight and not the most attractive guy.these comments that my friends are saying really hurt me because he is such a lovely guy and they ...
A. 11 January 2007: what would be the point in buying a great looking car if it drove like a bean can?
ignore your friends, let them make fun, when they get stuck with a good looking guy who is a total moron, maybe they will see different. At the end of the day, if ... (read in full...)
I broke my 'butt bone' and the painkillers aren't working! Anyone been in a similar position?
Q. hey ppl. i've broken my coccyx. its sooo painfull n the pain killers i've been prescribed aren't workin. i just wanna know if anyone has done it n what they did to help the pain. thanx sexylinz xxxxx...
A. 9 January 2007: lol, one time i didnt break mine but really badly hurt it, all i did was make sure i had a soft pillow to sit on, and tryed to do the least amount of movement as possible, and had showers rather than baths. Not sure how long it will take it to heal ... (read in full...)
kissing dilemma
Q. hey my bf keeps trying to snog me and i do want to its just i dont have a clue and evry one says go wiv him but i tried and went like rong i kinda just pretended i needed the lo help plz lots of love xxmemexx...
A. 1 January 2007: kissing is like riding a bike, practise makes perfect, just let him lead and you will get used to it, theres no way any1 can tell you how to kiss, every1 does it differnetly, so you gotta get used to how they do it... (read in full...)
Condoms are ruining our sex life! What can be done about it?
Q. Hi, Me and my girlfriend are both 20. Shes my first sexual partner and 3 months into our relationship im still getting nervous problems. I always go soft when the condom is brought out. I dont know why! Its really annoying me and even upsetting m...
A. 12 December 2006: ask her maybe to do it while shes playing with you or something like that, so you dont even realise its put on, that could help, tell her to not even tell you anything about it but just put it on you when she wants to, because then you wont know its ... (read in full...)
I sometimes wonder what it would be like to have sex with my good gal mate...is this normal?
Q. can a guy and a lass really just be mates?? im really good mates with this girl but i sometmes wonder what it woud be like to sleep with her. is this normal??...
A. 8 December 2006: yep perfectly normal, be careful though, dont let your thoughts ruin your friendship, enjoy them by yourself :)... (read in full...)
My friend is falling in love w/ a good guy friend. I told her to go for it! What do you think?
Q. Hiya, Ive got this friend who's falling in love with this guy, but she thinks shes got alot of competition b/c many girls like him and he likes someone else, theyre REALLY REALLY good friends and i told her to go for it and ask him out and if he re...
A. 7 December 2006: yea id tell a friend to go for it, and if they are really really good friends one telling the other they like them in that way shouldnt affect the friendship, well didnt with me anyway, but yeh, theres only 1 way things are gonna happen, if feeling ... (read in full...)
I want to date her but she's only 15. Would it be wrong to start a non-sexual relationship with her?
Q. I'm 18 and in High School, and the girl I like is a Sophmore. She's only 15. I've never been sexually active and don't plan to start with a girl this young, so in a non-sexual relationship, would it be wrong to date her?...
A. 2 December 2006: go for it, aslong as its not sexual, 3 years difference is a small gap, just be careful until shes of age, good luck with it... (read in full...)
I found powder on his collar and he made excuses, are they believable?
Q. Quick question. Yesterday i thought i saw something weird on my boyfried's collar. Almost like powder. I said what's that on your shirt and he said oh fuzz from the dryer, the shirt is old. I said no--this right here isn't fuzz(there was f...
A. 30 November 2006: jayne...cocaine.
on task, if he seems to blow his nose alot or have nosebleeds, id get worried. (people at my work place come in monday morning and dont stop blowing thier nose, and they are big coke adicts) apart from that im not sure how you ... (read in full...)
My ex keeps the rose gave me for our first month anniversary on his dresser - why?
Q. My ex bf brought me a rose dipped in real gold in our first month of our relationship. Well we broke up like a month ago and and i gave him back the rose that he brought me the night we broke up. (man it was so hard giving that up it was so pretty...
A. 27 November 2006: think of it this way, this means he hasnt got bad memories from the relationship, and i guess in a way this could be him keeping you in his life, just because at the moment he doesnt want a relationship, doesnt mean he doesnt want one ever again, ... (read in full...)
Is dating guys from the internet a good idea?
Q. Is it a good idea to date guys on the internet if you find difficult to meet new people?...
A. 27 November 2006: how will dating guys on the internet make meeting new people easier?
not saying not to, but dont give up hope till all hope is lost, going out to pubs with friends, going clubs, etc, are ways you can both have fun, and if your lucky meet somebody... (read in full...)
Should I date guys, I'm not really interested in? Am I a 'user' if I dump them after giving it a whirl?
Q. I have recently got back on the dating scene but am finding it difficult. I always seemed to get dumped by the guys i really like and the ones i don't like as much are really interested in me.. Does this often happen or am i just unlucky? Also ...
A. 26 November 2006: play the field, you might not be interested in somebody untill you get to know them, so date them and get to know them, you might find out you are interested in them, good luck :)... (read in full...)
I think my penis is too small and my erection may be abnormal - thoughts?
Q. I am a 16 year old male, nearly 17 and my voice has broken and i have a small amount of hair on my body. But i think that my penis is too small and my foreskin doesn't retract when i get an erection. Is this normal?...
A. 2 November 2006: its not the size that counts its what you do with it. Too many people are afraid they are 'too small', but i know this might be a bit...well erm dirty, if size was what counted, girls would use toys not men.
as for the forskin problem, confused... (read in full...)
How do I get people to notice me?
Q. Hey... it's currently half-term at my school, and after half-term I want to go back, and be completely different. At the minute I'm always quite awkward, I'm tall and am always falling over my own feet, everything I say never seems to come out ...
A. 28 October 2006: Nothing we can tell you will give you confidence, by what youve said your like me, as in nothing i try/say comes out at i mean it too, only thing i can tell you to help with your confidence is be yourself, dont try and be somebody your not, after ... (read in full...)
He called me another name during sex,is he having an affair?
Q. My husband called me by another name while we were having sex. Does this mean that he is having an affair?...
A. 27 October 2006: i called my ex-gf another girls name one night, she then ended it. For me it was nothing but a slip of the tounge, and my gf didnt speak to me about it, so it went tits up, i suggest you dont make the same 'mistake' my ex did, talk to him, find out ... (read in full...)
Can I get in trouble for having sex with a 16 year old girl?
Q. The age of consent is 18 in california. The question is this: if I'm 16 and I have sex with a girl who is also 16 and we had no problems, could i get in trouble?...
A. 25 October 2006: as far as i know, not unless you forcably did it. ... (read in full...)
I can't lose weight...Will girls go for a fat guy?
Q. dear cupid i am having problem losing weight, i mean im on diet n i walk 20 minutes everyday and do gym, but am not losing weight, ive been doing this for a year. my other concern is that i heard girls will never go for fat guys, is that t...
A. 25 October 2006: what you lack in appearence you can make up with personality and style, alot of 'fat' people sort of give up, and dont even try and dress right, do thier hair etc. I suggest looking at your wardrobe, maybe do a make over and dress to suit both you ... (read in full...)
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