Looking for an MSN relationship. How do I get into one? Please advise.
Q. im looking to meet someone over the internet then talk over msn. i dont want to meet them, im just looking to get some reationship exp, does anyone know any good places to meet people on the net?...
A. 23 October 2007: I wouldnt advise it, while you think your getting relationship Exp, really your not. its sort of like, playing football with your friends, then going to play in a major leauge side, its completely different, alot harder etc. But as brooke said, ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex, will it hurt?
Q. im 12 years old and my boyfreind is 23 years old,we want to have sex will it hurt and will he have to force his penis in me?...
A. 22 October 2007: Stop seeing him. a 23 year old should NOT in anyway be even thinking about considering having a sex with a 12 year old. DONT do ANYTHING with him.... (read in full...)
Is cum and sperm the same thing?
Q. what does itmean when my boyfriend says "can i cum in your fanny" does it mean can he jus have an orgasm without a condom on? is it the same as spunk? is it al the same stuff? can cum get me pregnant if it goes in me or is it just sperm that gets ...
A. 20 October 2007: 'cum' contains sperm, seriously if you dont know whats the difference then you shouldnt be having sex. If you do have sex, ALWAYS make sure a condom and/or the pill is in use (pill if your sure neither of you have any STD's, and condom if your sure, ... (read in full...)
I want to tell her about us, but he'll be mad.
Q. Hey I'm a 19 yr old female with a dilemma! I have this friend, we have been best friends for about 7 years. He's had a girlfriend for the past 4 years, one that I helped him to get- when he saw her he basically fell in love and said he wanted t...
A. 19 October 2007: 20 sex partners and your 19? what makes your friend so different from these other 20 then. Personally i think what your trying to do is out of line, if youve got such a 'healthy' sex life then leave your friend out of it, hes obviously happy with ... (read in full...)
Is sex REALLY like this?
Q. Hi, I am a 14 year old girl and have just began high school a few months ago. I have viewed porn a few times and now that I have seen people engage in sex, I wonder... is this what sex is really like? Because I think it seems way too extreme for ...
A. 7 October 2007: Porn is done commertially, generally speaking people dont go all out like in porn, some do dont get me wrong, but dont forget, porn is 2 people having sex for money, so they have to put on a show. Its up to you really how you go about sex, some ... (read in full...)
Can I be traced through my computer?
Q. I'm curious. Could someone find out where you live, or control your computer by finding out your IP Address? I clicked on a link and it said it wasn't working. I assume that someone is controling my computer. I am scared. Help me agony aunt....
A. 7 October 2007: i dont think people can trace where you live from your IP, and IP is basicly your computers address, meaning it can be identified, not where the computer actually is.
if you havent already, go get some anti-virus and anti spyware programs... (read in full...)
Why does my BF keep his exes on his computer?
Q. hellllllllp!!!i was looking through my mans computer nd found loads of pictures of other girls we go to college with, with the captions 'fit' and 'oooooh'. i also found some of him and his ex girlfriend called 'me and my baby'. iv been with him 6 ...
A. 2 October 2007: Chances are he hasnt put much thought into them, hence why he hasnt deleted them, i wouldnt worry about the names, unless he started adding new ones :P its one of the things boys do, save pictures of thier girlfriends or love interests. He proberly ... (read in full...)
I'm constantly tired. What's wrong with me?
Q. Hello, i have a health problem. I am always tired, constantly tired and i fel like i have no energy at all. I am 18 now and it has been this way since i was about 9. I have had two blood tests since then for being tired, checking for anemia and diab...
A. 2 October 2007: I had a problem like this, and it was down to going to bed too late and my diet, id feel better if i was sleeping say 9pm-6am, rather than say 12midnight-9am. Think about what you eat during the day, and if you eat properly (say do you eat a good ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Wanted, your ideas for features and improvements!
Q. Hi I'm looking to get some input from everyone on what you'd like to see on the site. How can I make it easier to use? What new features would you like to see? Any annoyances or bugs you'd like to fix? Can I make the moderati...
A. 27 September 2007: Only thing i can say is if there isnt already (i cant find it :P) it would be good to see what ratings on what answers you got rather than just an overall rating, because if your giving bad advise on certain subjects, it could help the cupids change ... (read in full...)
My friend has just had a baby who might not make it. How can I comfort her and tell her I'm here for her?
Q. My co-worker friend just had a baby 3 months early and nobody knows if he is going to pull through. I messaged her through our company email (she just moved, so this is the only way I could contact her; don't know her new contact info!) letting her ...
A. 26 September 2007: Hey, my neighbour recently had a baby very premature, he weighed less than a bag of sugar when he was born. But hes doing absolutely fine. All i can say is talk positive, its surprising what doctors and nurses can do nowa days, they are worth thier ... (read in full...)
How do I tell her I have fallen in love with her?
Q. how do i tell the person that i have fallen in love with that i am in love with her??? how do i tell her that i love everything about her. i can't stop, nor do i want to stop thinking about her. i love and am in love with her....
A. 25 September 2007: Slowwww down :P, best thing to do would be to say take her out somewhere, weather its a meal or whatever you both like to do, then at the end of the evening, tell her. Personally i wouldnt go overboard because she might get a bit overwhealmed ;), ... (read in full...)
Dry sex?
Q. Hi hope you can answer this but what is dry sex exactlly?...
A. 25 September 2007: Basicly sex with clothes on, VERY good way to get you in the mood, also could be good for a bit of practise on your movements etc, might seem like a bit of a strange thing to do if youve never done it, but it is really enjoyable, also good if you ... (read in full...)
I think I've got a drug problem does anyone have any advice?
Q. i dont even no if this is relevent most questions on here are about relationships, but i think i have a serious problem and need help. ever scince i was 13 iv took extacy pills on most weekends. every weekend i would up my dose to see how bigg my ...
A. 12 September 2007: Mind over matter, i was addicted to cocaine for a while, but one weekend while i was on my down i took a long hard look at myself, safe to say i never brought any again. Just think of what its doing to you, how it makes you feel after your buzz, and ... (read in full...)
What do I need to know to be a good kisser?
Q. I'm 12 and I have been going out with this boy for about a month now. I really want to kiss him and he really wants to kiss me too but I'm scared that I will be a rubbish kisser and I am afraid he will dump me for it. I am Quite shy around him too ...
A. 8 September 2007: Hey hunny, i was about your age when i got my first 'proper' kiss, and believe me, i didnt know what the hell i was doing, it comes naturally, i just did what i thought i was suppost to do, and ive been complimented ever since, seriously its the ... (read in full...)
He turned me down for sex and now I am paranoid he doesn't like me anymore!
Q. My bf of 2 months turned me down for sex last nite and now im paranoid he doesnt like me anymore. I startd kissing him and he said 'no I dont want it' and I turned round and didnt talk to him for the rest of the evening - I was really upset as hes ...
A. 7 September 2007: Seriosuly, dont worry, maybe he doesnt wanna rush into it, or maybe he was just shy, ive done it before to girls i really like, sex is one of those things, some guys wanna get as much as they can, others want it to be special, same goes for girls. I ... (read in full...)
My friends seem to leave me out now, Is there something wrong with me? what can i do?
Q. I know theres not alot anyone can do. But i used to have a big group of mates we used to all be close and do stuff together. Now i get left out n i dont seem to be as close with them, they organise stuff and im never invited. I still hang around w...
A. 27 August 2007: Nothing is wrong with you for a start. If you feel they are leaving you out, ask them what they are up too, or organise something yourself and invite them. People can sometimes do it without totaly realising, or without realising it will affect the ... (read in full...)
What is the difference between a girlfriend and a fiancée?
Q. today my partner introduced me as his girlfriend,yet we are engaged and have a 4 year history behind us,what would you say was the diffrence between a girlfriend and a fiance?...
A. 27 August 2007: Did you recently get engaged? because if you did it might be out of habbit, these things happen. And the difference between a fiance and a girlfriend, is a fiance is a girl youve asked to marry you, and a girlfriend can be either a short term, or ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and am wondering if i am a lesbian, I flirt with girls all the time, Is this normal?
Q. Hey , Please help me because I think Im a Lesbain. I like Boys and All but Recently Ive had Feelings for Girls!! Im 13 and had loads of boyfriends but I have feelings for other girls. Please help me because Im flirting with them all the time...
A. 26 August 2007: Your 13, your still trying to find out who you are, where you fit in, etc, i wouldnt worry about it, just go with what you feel, and where ever you end up you will feel comfortable.... (read in full...)
If i give in to anal sex, will he want it all the time?
Q. If I give in to anal will he want it all the time? He drives me wild but our last time he placed his hands around my neck i came big time. Now he scares me. Is he curious or trying to warn me? ...
A. 26 August 2007: If you give into it, what says you have to do it all the time? if you want to do it, then do it, if you do it, then he wants it again, and you dont want it, it doesnt mean you have to do it again. Seriously you have to build a relatioship on mutual ... (read in full...)
What are these little bumps?
Q. I am worried that I might have something seriously wrong with me. Lately have been noticing that there are little bumps on my virgina. I am not sexually active so I dont know what it could be. what do you think it is and what should I do?...
A. 23 August 2007: If you shave, then it could be to do with that. If your unsure about anything, go and see a doctor, you can ask to see a female doctor, and they have seen it all before, so no need to be nervous (obviously if you havent dont it before, then you will ... (read in full...)
Is she just playing hard to get?
Q. Please readers, I need your help. I have a friend to whom i made my intentions, that i loved her, very clear a month ago. She said she wasn't ready 4 a relationship then to which i was initially upset and wanted to drop the friendship. However ...
A. 23 August 2007: Maybe she just wasnt sure, these things take time, and if you two turn out not to be a couple, dont drop the friendship, just because you cant be together doesnt mean you cant be friends. Just keep at it, if shes sending you romantic texts, and your ... (read in full...)
I always feel that other people are better than me. Why?!
Q. hey. What i have always felt throughout my life is other people are so much better than me. Why? I have been told i am pretty lots of times yet i still feel like everyone else has something that i don't. Why am i so insecure about what i look like...
A. 23 August 2007: Everybody is different, every body is unique, everybody is special, be happy for who you are, not sad for who you arnt. Dont worry about it.... (read in full...)
Is it weird for a guy to NOT want to have sex?
Q. Okay so I just want to know.. is it weird for a guy to NOT want to have sex? I've been with my boyfriend for a year, we love each other and everything but he just won't do it. But yet he still teases me about it sometimes like provoking me kinda. ...
A. 23 August 2007: Could be a few reasons, maybe hes shy, wants to wait, isnt ready, doesnt feel comfortable with sex in general. Dont worry, if hes with you, then he likes you, sex will happen with time. Just dont get worried about it. Good luck with the relationship... (read in full...)
What are some tips to impress guys?
Q. What are some tips to impress guys?...
A. 23 August 2007: Be yourself, trying to be something your not wont work, because theres nothing your better at than being yourself. Just chat, be nice, socialising with them and getting to know them is the key.... (read in full...)
Please help I need to decide whether to end it (but I don't know if I'm strong enough to do so).
Q. I'm the kinda girl who is always nice and wouldn't hurt anyone intentionally. My boyfriend can be very nice but when he wants to be he can be very hurtful say nasty things, hang up the phone on me, put me down by saying I can't do stuff etc. ...
A. 22 August 2007: Hey there, if you think every relationship is full of sunshine and buttercups, youve watched too many love films. Yes he shouldnt be a 'bully' but you have to understand that no matter how strong a relationship is, there are always problems. if its ... (read in full...)
He's asked to marry me and although I love him I can't see us getting married until he stops being so hot headed!
Q. I'm with my boyfriend 4 years, and 2 of these we have spent living together. We love each other very much and do consider us to have a future together. The other night my boyfriend drunkenly told me he planned on popping the question soon, and ...
A. 22 August 2007: Talk to him. alot of people are ratty when they are tired, if he really does want to marry you, he will sort something out about the night shifts, either getting moved onto the day shifts, or moving jobs all together (youll be amazed at what people ... (read in full...)
How do I get over first time nerves?
Q. me and my girlfriend have been together for a couple of weeks and today, she undid my trousers but i wasn't ready. i've never had a sexual experince and i panicked. i got scared she'd judge my penis when it was small. i know it's a superficial ...
A. 22 August 2007: Ah this is the problem alot of people have, 6 inches is the average size, so dont worry there. Only thing i can say is if your worried about it when its not erect (like i am :P) is make sure you get really turned on before any clothes come off, so ... (read in full...)
Do men respect women who make the first move?
Q. What do men think when a woman makes the first move towards getting to know each other? ...
A. 23 May 2007: i agree with DV1, sometimes girls can seem really hard to get to know, and you feel a bit weird asking stuff if they ent asking stuff back, not trying to say you should ask all the questions, but its nice having a girl whos as interested in getting ... (read in full...)
How do you french kiss? All tips welcome.
Q. how do u french kiss? i really need some tips/advice cuz its been about 4- years sence i french kissed someone and i forgot how, my boyfriend asked me if i knew how to french kiss and i said no the he said he wuz ganna french kiss me until i said i ...
A. 19 May 2007: thanks for responding...you have it wrong...every single person has thier own way of kissing...people adapt to how whoever they are kissing, it just happens, theres no way of controling it really...you might think at your school there is a right and ... (read in full...)
Is there any particular reason why i like girls from western / european culture more than from my own culture?
Q. I am an Asian. Is there any particular reason why i like girls from western / european culture more than from my own culture? Is there anything wrong about having a liking for women from culture that is not your own? ...
A. 19 May 2007: lol not atall..im Caucasian...and i have the BIGGEST thing for asian girls, each to his/her own, what you like is what you like...and theres nothing wrong with it.... (read in full...)
I am a boy and how do I calculate my penis size?
Q. I am a boy and how do I calculate my penis size? What is the ideal penis age in 20-29?...
A. 19 May 2007: 6 inches is average, doesnt really matter about the size tho, its how you use it...no point having a big penis if you cant use it...bit like having a nice outfit but it doesnt fit you...pointless. at the end of the day, if she can feel it...its ... (read in full...)
How do you french kiss? All tips welcome.
Q. how do u french kiss? i really need some tips/advice cuz its been about 4- years sence i french kissed someone and i forgot how, my boyfriend asked me if i knew how to french kiss and i said no the he said he wuz ganna french kiss me until i said i ...
A. 19 May 2007: lol, this happens to me after ive done it for a while, seriously you never forget, it might feel like it, but in a split second after doing it again, it all comes back, dont worry about it!!!... (read in full...)
Is being loud during sex a good thing or a bad thing?
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time the other day, and I was a bit...loud. Couldn't help it really! Anyway after it was over, all he said was, "Wow...you were quite loud." I always thought that was supposed to be a good thing, but ...
A. 19 May 2007: NO, loud is good! as long as your not faking it, its letting him know your enjoying it! sex is ment to be pleasurable, why not express it? :P... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and I've only kissed my BF - is the relationship moving too fast?
Q. Hi I'm 16 and my 16 year old sister says i am moving to fast in my relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months and we have snogged and we roll around on the bed kissing quite a lot. Am i moving to fast sexually? i dont think i am, ...
A. 17 May 2007: Your 16...as long as your not doing anything either your or your boyfriend dont want to be doing, or arnt sure about, your not moving too fast. Just reasure your sister you wont make any rash desisions and do anything you will later regret... (read in full...)
I'm only 15 but my BF wants to stop using condoms and make me pregnant!
Q. Hi there I have been speaking to my bf and he wants me 2 have sex with him without a condom. He wants my kids but I'm only 15! wot do i do?...
A. 17 May 2007: Tell him no. Do you really wanna upset one of the most important times in your life? when your finishing school, doing your exams, setting your life plan basicly? And chances are you WONT be together with him for that long (might be wrong, some ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and I want a gf but they have all turned me down. What can I do?
Q. im 17 and never had GF is and i do not know how to feel about it. sometimes it gets me really down as a few girls i asked out have sed no what can i do ...
A. 9 May 2007: dont worry, your 17, cant even (legally) go in places like pubs and clubs, when your 18 all new ways of meeting women will open up, youve got ALOT of time to meet a girlfriend, live life as it comes, one will come along, proberly out of the blue.... (read in full...)
What do I get my GF for our 2 month anniversary?
Q. hey there .. its my 2 month aniversary on saturday and i was wondering what i should get my gf .. any ideas would be greatly appricciated .. thank you :) all the best...
A. 8 May 2007: im with sleepyhollow, keep it small, save the big stuff for 1 year. No point in ruining the one year thing by doing the same after 2 months really, just something nice, to show you care... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and think I masterbate too much! How can I stop?
Q. Im 17 and like most guys, i masterbate. I started when i was 13 and have dun it at least once a day, sumtimes up to 4 times a day. All i can say is that i have lost all feeling for it and now i do it because i am either bored or just been watchi...
A. 8 May 2007: lol dont worry, 100% normal.... (read in full...)
Guys, what type of undies do you like and how do you like her down there?
Q. This is a question for the guys to anwser - only guys please! What kind of underwear do you prefer? Thongs, g-strings, boyshorts, french, bikini, granny?! And also, what do you prefer 'down there'? Bushy, trimmed, Brazilian (with a 'land...
A. 8 May 2007: Personally, i like french knickers, just love the way they look...from behind, and as for hair it doesnt bother me, but either brazilian or shaven would be my choice...if i really had one lol. Each to thier own tho, different people like different ... (read in full...)
I like a boy he says he likes me too but I get scared when I see him and I feel paranoid and scared when he is there.
Q. Hi I like a boy he says he likes me too but I get scared when I see him and I feel paranoid and scared when he is there. I panic but I dont want to be like this, we speak on msn and things and he wants to meet me but im scared. ...
A. 1 May 2007: Yeh this can happen, just find something to do that you feel comfortable doing, going shopping, cinema whatever, you need to get used to seeing him and spending time with him, youll be surprised how quickly u can become comfortable with something, ... (read in full...)
Gf and I are planning 1st time sex..I want to get this right. Advice, please?
Q. Hey, me and my gf are planning on having sex for the first time, we have been together for 7 months and are both virgins,we have contraception sorted and are both totally ready. Obviously she doesn't paticually want all of the really bad pain and i ...
A. 29 April 2007: 1) ease into it, do a bit of foreplay first, use your fingers and/or tongue to prep her a bit, and go slow when you actually have sex. 2) Bed would be best bet, comfortable and warm :P 3) Make an evening of it, candle lit dinner, something rom... (read in full...)
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