I can't lose weight...Will girls go for a fat guy?
Q. dear cupid i am having problem losing weight, i mean im on diet n i walk 20 minutes everyday and do gym, but am not losing weight, ive been doing this for a year. my other concern is that i heard girls will never go for fat guys, is that t...
A. 25 October 2006: what you lack in appearence you can make up with personality and style, alot of 'fat' people sort of give up, and dont even try and dress right, do thier hair etc. I suggest looking at your wardrobe, maybe do a make over and dress to suit both you ... (read in full...)
Someone told me recently that someone like me shouldn't be with someone like her...are they right???
Q. I have been in a relationship with my gf for a year. She is attractive as i have seen guys ogle at her when we've been out. We're oth at uni so she's fairly smart, and I'll admit I think I'm a nerd but she said that I'm just really sweet and clever. ...
A. 25 October 2006: Dont listen to them. All they want you to do is brake up with her, and to be honest, take what they are saying as a compliment (even if they dont mean it as one) because you obviously have a good girl. Good luck with her... (read in full...)
Does it mean anything when a lad gets a hard on thinking of you in your underwear???
Q. does it mean anythig if a lad gets a hard on over thinking of you in your underwear?...
A. 24 October 2006: lol hey :P Erm in alot of cases he just thinks...id like to get into that. you cant rely on a mans penis alone, believe me it has a mind of its own lol... (read in full...)
Should I wear make-up or no???
Q. Do guys who dislike makeup on women ALWAYS feel this way? (Hope some guy will answer.) This coming weekend am going to a fancy social event with a guy. I've been trying to get back together with him for awhile and at the moment we really seem to...
A. 24 October 2006: personally, im not one for doll's, meaning girls who look perfect and pile on way too much make up, eyes are a big part of your looks, simply doing your eyes nicely can have a BIG impact on how you look, obviously a little gloss on your lips never ... (read in full...)
Wiil the age gap scare this girl away?
Q. i fancy this 14yr old girl. im 16. wen i get to know her more i will ask her out. if she does'nt like me will this scare her away? i mean i'm not sure if she has even thought about me! we only met for 3 hours on a mates birthday so far! but after i ...
A. 22 October 2006: 2 years is nothing. My ex girlfriend was 14 (me 16) for the time i was with her (she was 2 days off being in the next year down at school, so was the youngest in her year) get to know her, know what sort of person she is, if you click, then go for ... (read in full...)
She left me for her married boss and now living with him so why does she keep texting me wanting to meet up and thing??
Q. I split up with my ex 12 months ago now and I am trying my best to move on,I am about 95% there at the moment. She left me for her married boss with 3 kids who told her his heart has never known so much love! and loads of other bull and she fell for ...
A. 22 October 2006: to be honest, think of the saying, out of sight out of mind. If a 'friendship' wont benefit your feelings then cut off the contact, i didnt do that with my ex and believe me, i regret it SO much.... (read in full...)
Should i divorce and hurt my son?
Q. I am married man for 18 years, i have a son of 13 ,the problem is i lost all intrest in my wife, over several years i have cheated before, just typical one night stands, now i have met a woman i work with , been sexually involved with her for ...
A. 22 October 2006: whats better, your son finding out your having an affair or you and your wife splitting up? my parents split up when i was about 10, yea it was hard but time heals wounds, i see my dad regulary and all is fine, as long as you keep contact, still ... (read in full...)
Is my penis big enough for sex?
Q. hi would my penis just under 6 inches erect be large enough for sex? also which position is best for a penis which has a smaller girth?...
A. 21 October 2006: not the size of hammer that matters is the nail your throwing it at or its not the size its what you do with it that counts. Your fine, your about average.... (read in full...)
I found the strength to stand up to my Mother...thank you for all of your advice
Q. This is a huge thank you to all of the aunts who helped me get back control of my life from my mother. I wanted to tell you all that I took your advice and I'm doing great. I took the advice of giving my mom one last chance. Long story short...
A. 20 October 2006: Glad its all worked out, just make sure it stays like that!! :P... (read in full...)
What's the average size of an adult erect penis?
Q. What's the average size of an adult erect penis? I measured myself and I'm 6 1/4 inches long (measured from the top) and 4 1/2 inches around. Am I considered average size, bigger than average, or smaller than average?...
A. 20 October 2006: yea 6 is UK average, pretty sure anyway... (read in full...)
I want to know why he keeps masterbating!
Q. my boyfreind keeps masterbating to playboy we have sex but i want to know whyhe keeps doing this...
A. 18 October 2006: dont worry, more or less all boys do it, weather they are in a sexual relationship or not :P... (read in full...)
Anything wrong with a 20yr old dating a 16 year old ??
Q. Is there anything wrong with a 20 year-old dating someone who is 16 or 17 years old? Some people say the minimum age to date some with a 3+ age gap is 16, while others say it is 18? I live in the United States and this is confusing me....
A. 17 October 2006: No there isnt :P my brothers 24 and his girlfriend is 19.
and theres no such thing as a minimum age, unless you where having sex where legally it is 16 for the youngest.
go for it, and have fun :)... (read in full...)
Fallen for my best buddy's girl! I don't know what to do...any suggestions?
Q. I have just fallen in love with my best friend's girlfriend, they really love each other and dont look like they will ever break up. Shes told me she fancys me 2 and i dont know what to do, what can i do??...
A. 16 October 2006: Girls come and go but friends are there forever.
Dont try and get with her, respect your friend, people you fancy may not always be there for you. But your friends will.
Make the right desicison, Stay out of it... (read in full...)
I am really attracted to my best friend but don't know if he likes me back!
Q. Hello, my best friend is a midget and i am really attracted to him, usually dwarfs and such scare me, but i made friends with him at college two weeks ago, but his really big hands are intimidating. but he is so beautiful. what should i do? please ...
A. 16 October 2006: lol... (read in full...)
When someone is drunk are they likely to be more honest or to lie? What do you think?
Q. When someone is drunk are they likely to be more honest or to lie?...
A. 15 October 2006: Hmm, i tend to say things i want to say but normally wouldnt, like, if there was a girl i had a thing for, my emotions would get the better of me and id spill the beans so to speak. So i would agree that people do tell the truth when they are drunk, ... (read in full...)
How do you know if a 15 year old boy fancies you?
Q. how do you know if a 15 year old boy fancies you? Does it sound like this boy fancies me? He says to his friends 'She fancies this 80 year old man' infront of me as a joke. He talks about sex and sexual things, like, 'She lost her viginity to ...
A. 14 October 2006: as long as the 80 year old man thing IS a joke i would say he does lol
i know i used to do the poke/smile thing, and making girls laugh, and texting etc
but yeh, by the sounds of it he does, id look into the 80 year old man thing never herd... (read in full...)
My bad hair day stops me from talking to girls, what can I do?
Q. Hi every one, i have one huge problem. i am 14 years old and i have short curly/wavy hair, it makes me look like a complete idiot and a baby, whenever i talk to the girl i like:( is there anything i can do(straighteners dont work!) please help....
A. 14 October 2006: is there any sort of product you could use? like gel or moose, try them if you havaent already, if not then i guess your gonna have to find a length of hair tht it looks good with, like grow it a bit longer or whatever. gl... (read in full...)
I don't drink because I don't want to and yet my friends and boyfriend won't stop going on about it!
Q. I'm 17 and have recently been feeling a LOT of pressure to drink alcohol lately. This pressure has been coming from many people at my part time work (most of them are over 18- the legal drinking age in australi), one of my close friends and my ...
A. 14 October 2006: Peer pressure can be a very powerful thing, just ignore them, not like they can force you to drink can they? just lay the rules, speak to them seriously and say you dont want to. And make sure you DONT drink just because people want you to, stick to ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin but when I do have sex I want it to be good!
Q. Im still a virgin, but when i do have sex i want to be good if that makes any sense. can anyone give me some advic on how to wow him?...
A. 14 October 2006: you cant really 'wow' anyone first time you have sex with them because you dont know what they like and stuff, especially if your a virgin, when a girl loses thier virginity the sex should be about them rather than the guy, because the guy needs to ... (read in full...)
I think of him all the time...is this a crush or what?
Q. hi im 15 and whats wrong wiv me!?! im not sure if i have ever fancied someone cos basically... i have a mate thats a boy and we are quite good friends. the thing is i have started to think about him when im not with him all the time, and i mean ALL...
A. 13 October 2006: yes you have a crush on him :) biggest give away for when you have a crush on someone is when you think about them alot. And why does it matter if you dont 'like' the way he looks? looks arnt everything :) personality is WAY more important than ... (read in full...)
Does anyone have any tips on how to swallow?
Q. Hi everybody After a conversation with my bf he mentioned that he would like me to swallow. i have never done this before and was wondering if anyone has any tips. When i take him in my mouth i sometimes gag a lil bit he makes me feel really r...
A. 11 October 2006: Well i dont know much about this sort of stuff lol...but i would ask him to eat/drink fruit stuff that day because it will influence the taste, and make it nicer, but thats all i can help you with, ill let the girls fill the rest :)... (read in full...)
I love this guy and now that he's dumped his gf..I thought we'd hook up! But he's playing mindgames..why is he doing this?
Q. hello i was just wonderin if yew could help yew see ive fallen really madley in love with this great boy and hes only pretty much just seen how much i love him after 1 year ! lol so he finally realised that he had feelings for me to so he dumped his ...
A. 11 October 2006: Hmm, im guessing he wants you to come up and say something, meaning hes scared of being the one to say anything first, talk to him about it, see what is said, thats the only way to find out really, boys TRY and play mind games, dont always work, i ... (read in full...)
My bf keeps askin me for sex. I am only 13, am I too young?
Q. i am 13 and my boyfriend moved away he is coming back to visit me and wants to have sex i told him im not sure but he keeps asking me am i to young??...
A. 11 October 2006: Yes your too young, i wouldnt worry about sex untill your 16 (legal age) and by the sounds of it your not atall ready for sex. Just tell him you dont want to, im guessing he's 13 aswell? Dont be pressured into it, dont do anything you dont want to, ... (read in full...)
Will he know I am a virgin?
Q. heya this lad im seeing thinks im not a virgin! but i only told him iv had sex twice b4, will he know im a virgin or not? ...
A. 11 October 2006: yes he will, because for one thing when girls lose thier virginity it hurts, can also be quite 'tight' and also bleeding oftern occurs. Depending on what sort of lifestyle youve had it can change, ive herd girls who do things like horse riding and ... (read in full...)
I am in love with a boy, but he hits me and spits in my face.
Q. i am a teen and i am really in love with a boy, i have performed oral sex with him and he has done things to me but after it he says he doesnt fancy me anymore !! when we was alone he said he only said he didnt fancy him because i annoyed him. so i ...
A. 11 October 2006: Dont have anything to do with him, the guys a jerk, hes using you for stuff by the sounds of it. Guys who treat girls like that deserve to be shot, theres no need for it. Dont see him again. ... (read in full...)
when people say that they "pulled someone" what does that mean?
Q. when people say that they "pulled someone" what does that mean?...
A. 9 October 2006: different places have different meaning, most tht times its either 'snoged' or got thier number, guess theres still other meanings but they are the most frequent 2 ... (read in full...)
Technical question
Q. This is a technical question. Is it possible to remove a question you asked a few weeks ago from the website? I don't want the person involved to see it since our situation has changed....
A. 9 October 2006: im sure if you contacted dearcupid (feedback@dearcupid.org) and are signed in as the original question asker they will remove it.... (read in full...)
I am 13 and in love with a 43 year old.
Q. i am 13 i am in love with a 43 year old we are getting on well we have been in a relationship for ten months i have asked him too always be honest with me and he is. to day he told me that he is in love with a woman 50000 miles away but he says ...
A. 9 October 2006: Leave him, a 13 year old should NO WAY be in a relationship with a 43 year old, your not even at legal age, if you 2 have had sexual intercourse and are found out he would go to prison, love isnt a factor in this it shouldnt be happening. Hope you ... (read in full...)
Im a shy 16 year old, but I want to ask her out, whats the best way ??
Q. Help me please! i am a shy 16year old and want to know the best way to ask a girl out. i speak to the girl every day and i seem more confident around her. i also believe that she likes me. what should i say?...
A. 9 October 2006: Snowbird covered it pretty well, i would say meet up with friends first (like on a friday night) then you can get to know her a little bit better out of school/work/the internet (not sure where you chat to her) and if it goes well, then ask her to ... (read in full...)
Im I being overly sensitive or is he hiding something ??
Q. Hello guys. I wanted to ask advice on whether I should be worried about some texts I found on my boyfriends phone. I know I shouldnt have looked, but it was sitting there and I just oculdnt resist. It was more nosiness than anything to be honest, I ...
A. 9 October 2006: To be honest, it sounds more like she is stalking him XD with the wake up text, by the sounds of it nothing is going on, way i see it...
her: "Are you stalking me?" him: no why would you say that? her: "Oh sorry, I just saw you in town and thou... (read in full...)
What do girls like to talk about?
Q. there is this really pretty girl i fancy. i've only met her once when i saw my mates with her. she is single. i got her phone number. i text her whenever i have a reason. the conversation keeps runnin when i ask her what she's upto, and how's ...
A. 8 October 2006: You gotta find things you can relate too, im talking to a girl atm and for about 4 weeks we have talked at least 4 hours a day, and yesterday we talked for 8 hours on msn then was texting till about 4am, just ask her questions and listen to what she ... (read in full...)
How can I last longer during sex?
Q. how can i last longer when i have sex. please help me because its really embarrasing...
A. 8 October 2006: theres a few tricks, one being 'blow your load' before hand, meaning, a hour (ish) or whatever before you think you will have sex, masterbate. Another is to think of something while having sex, like trying to name all the states of America (for ... (read in full...)
How can I ask her to the school dance?
Q. Hey! I am a shy 17 year old guy and i want to ask this girl to a school dance. how should i approach her and what should i say? we get on fine at school and she seems to be a plesant person....
A. 8 October 2006: Just go up to her, normally, and when in general conversation ask, soo you going to the dance with any1? if she says no, then say, well i was wondering, i havent either, would you wanna go with me?. Easiest way to do it, dont beat around the bush. ... (read in full...)
I am almost 14, how do I tell my boyfriend I am ready for sex?
Q. im ready to have sex with my boyfriend he has done it be4 but the thing is he now lives in a different state but its not that far away and i don't know how to tell himwe been together for a while now and i really love him i know he wants to have sex ...
A. 6 October 2006: Your not ready, for one thing your WAY to young, losing your virginity might not seem a big deal at 13, but if you loose it now, you will regret it, i lost mine at 14 and every time im with a girl (not having sex or anything, but seeing them or ... (read in full...)
I did things on webcam at the age of 12, now I regret it. How can I forget it?
Q. since i was 12 ive done bad things i used to show boys on cam myself naked, now i really regret it. how can i forget about it? was it illegal? i used to do it cos i was ashamed with my body and they used to say they loved it even tho i was flat c...
A. 6 October 2006: Hmm, i suggest you just think of it as, whats in the past stays in the past, you didnt (i assume) know the people, so why worry. We all do stupid stuff when we are young, i know i have. and being 'flat chested' isnt anything to be ashamed off, ... (read in full...)
I'm dating this guy but can't stop thinking about my ex! what should I do?
Q. dear cupid, i am going out with a 16 yr oldand recently have been thinking about my ex-boyfriend i dont no what to do help me plz xxxxxx...
A. 6 October 2006: i suggest you stop dating the guy and think about what you wanna do, seriously, the girl i was seeing still had feeling about her ex and when we stopped seeing each other (wont go into details) she went back to him, and its not a nice feeling ill ... (read in full...)
Im tryng to get back with my ex, shes having doubts! Should I keep trying or move on?
Q. Hi well im trying to get back with my ex girlfriend since we broke up cause of my fault. She dumped me because i had done twice already and told me she started to have feelings for another guy. This last monday was her b-day, got her some ballons to ...
A. 4 October 2006: I would give her the time she asked for, and speaking to her as friends can be both good and bad, just dont smother her, but make sure you remind her of you, chances are she still wants you. But be prepaired not to get back together, incase you ... (read in full...)
I am am so emotionally unstable lately..what is wrong with me?
Q. I don't know what's happening with me. I'm so emotionally unstable lately. I talked to my bf on the phone yesterday and he wasn't paying much attention to me so I decided not to say much. We did the whole silent thing for at least 30 minutes with an ...
A. 4 October 2006: Hmm, this is a hard situation, sounds like you have some stuff you need to talk about, do you have a close friend or family member that will allow you to unload some stuff off you mind onto? i know when im feeling a bit dodgey about anything my ... (read in full...)
Is my age affecting me sexually?
Q. i am 46 year old male and have sex regularly. Of late, my semen has become thinner and the quantity is much less. The exciting pulsating sensation at the orgasm is also diminished. Can someone help?...
A. 4 October 2006: Hmmm, maybe its the amount of sex thats doing it, try cutting down, fewer times a week, other than that im not sure, but i know the more you do it (same with masterbation) the quantity get lessend. If its still the same maybe ask a doctor? could be ... (read in full...)
Holding hands?
Q. Holding hands? Is holding hands juvenile? When should you hold hands? Do some people just not hold hands? Is it too "couple-y"? What do you do?...
A. 4 October 2006: Holding hands can mean a few of thing, love, friendship, family bonds, i freqently hold hands with alot of my female friends, doesnt mean we fancy each other tho :P and then again with my girlfriends.
and no way is it juvenile :)
holding hands... (read in full...)
I confided in the person he likes, she has stirred it up and now they both wont talk to me!!
Q. I'm in a bit of a pickle and I don't know wot to do!! I have feelings for one of my best friends and made the mistake of confiding in the person he liked! He asked her out on a date for the 5th time and she agreed to go! I couldn't underst...
A. 4 October 2006: Gah, i myself am going through a bit of a problem like this, with my ex gf stirring stuff up with the girl i like, basicly trying to get her pissed off with me, but it isnt gonna work. I would say leave it for a little bit, let him cool off, then ... (read in full...)
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