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writes: My boyfriend of a year last night told me that his parents really don't like me. He said that they think i'm very needy and a bit physco. They don't like things that I say or things that I do. I love my boyfriend completly to bits and I want to be with him so I need some advice on how to get his parents to change there minds. Has anyone else been in this situation or can offer advice that would be fantastic. Reply to this Question
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reader, Toria +, writes (29 September 2006):
 I wouldn't worry about it, your boyfriend is the one your with and it's his opinion that really matters, he fell for you for the person you are so why should you change or become someone to make his parents happy but then making you someone different to who he fell for.
Maybe your boyfriend should talk to them and explain to them how he feels for you and how he is happy with you, you making him happy, that possibly could put their mind to rest, surely if you was that needy and psycho your relationship would be suffering the strain from this?
Good luck :o)
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reader, DEBS83  +, writes (29 September 2006):
 you are dating your bf not is mum and dad all that matters is you love him and wana be with him most parents dont like there childrens partners rember the more you let it get to you the more there are winning good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2006): Well my parents think my ex is physcho in she is a good church girl and likes to drink some. There are reasons for them thinking you are psycho you have to show them how much you care for him. If you are lying to him or you do lie you are hurting yourself and him ask to go out to dinner with them and tell them how much you want to be with him.
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (29 September 2006):
 i wouldnt really worry about it, parents are oftern not pleased with thier childrens bf/gf, i know my mum hasnt liked alot of my girlfriends, i suggest just whenever your around them act normal, be talkative, and kind polite etc, because thats what my most recent girlfriend was like and my mum loved her to bits, so yea, be yourself, talk to them, dont isolate yourself when your around them, get to know them and allow them to get to know you. hope it all works out
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reader, confused3473 +, writes (29 September 2006):
 Can your bf suggest activities that they like that you could do together Maybe this would give them some time with you doing something that they enjoy.
You shouldnt have to change for them tho although i know that you just want them to like you
Maybe your bf could talk to them and tell them his feelings for you Maybe effort needs to be made on both parts
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