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writes: I'm in a bit of a pickle and I don't know wot to do!!I have feelings for one of my best friends and made the mistake of confiding in the person he liked! He asked her out on a date for the 5th time and she agreed to go! I couldn't understand why she had agreed to go out with him after knowin how I felt about him and making us believe that she really wasn't interested in him and infact hated him! ...While sitting talking to him about it I had a bit of a freudian slip and ended up telling him what she had told us. In the end she told him that she knew everything that we (him and I) had got up to and that I was making him out to b a... not nice person (which I never did)! Now neither of them want to know me and I really haven't done anything wrong!Could someone please help me!?
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reader, bubbletrubble +, writes (5 October 2006):
bubbletrubble is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your advice! I know you are both right but I'm worried that if I leave it he'll forget about me! i was working with them both tonight&it was like nothing had changed between the 2 of them&she was being normal with me! I have apologized to him over and over again&have been asking other people if I ever did say anything bad about and they all said i never did, I always stuck up for him just as i thought i did! i'm friggin gutted about this! ...i suppose i'm the only one in tears about it!
Thans again guys!!
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reader, Abacadaba  +, writes (4 October 2006):
 Gah, i myself am going through a bit of a problem like this, with my ex gf stirring stuff up with the girl i like, basicly trying to get her pissed off with me, but it isnt gonna work. I would say leave it for a little bit, let him cool off, then tell him the truth, and just leave her out of it completely, if shes gonna be a 'shit stirrer' then dont even speak to her if i was you. Past experiences tell me when somebody is pissed off with you franticly trying to apologise isnt always the best way, but leaving it for a week or 2 then explaining, when they have cooled down and ready to listen. good luck
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reader, Naz92 +, writes (4 October 2006):
 I'm sorry but unfortunately you can't just make them like you again very easily. This girl, whoever she is, sounds pretty evil if you ask me! What it boils down too is that this guy is one of your best friends, regardless of your feelings for him. You've got to decide whether being friends is enough (for the moment!) If you decide you want to save you friendship, talk to this guy, appologize (yes, even if you weren't in the wrong, he still thinks you are and that's what's most important) Tell him you want to be friends again, and try and be civil to the girl! If she really is that evil it won't work out between them, then you can make your move!
Good luck! xx
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