I thought he was the perfect guy but all his excuses are making me doubt that.
Q. Dear Cupid, I've been in a relationship with this guy for 3yrs., we met on a dating site, he lives about 3hrs., away from me. The question is 1. He always has an excuses for not visiting on holidays(says he dosen't like to drive on holidays, its too ...
A. 10 May 2012: I'm glad you figured out what you want for yourself and that he isn't it.
Good luck! You deserve better!... (read in full...)
What's wrong with my boyfriend?
Q. I'm 14 and my boyfriends 16 soon, he wants to have sex but I'm not sure I do, he's not a virgin but I am! He always gets drunk and high, it dosent bother me usually but recently he feels me up and sticks his hands down my pants and top in front of ...
A. 26 August 2011: I'm sorry, he needs therapy to deal with his grief and YOU need to dump him. You also need to learn and understand that YOU are in charge of how people treat you. Don't let people treat you in a way you don't want. Don't let someone touch you in a ... (read in full...)
My friend left me on my own during our night out in a town I don't know
Q. Am i overreacting or taking this too far by telling my best friend i don't want to be friends anymore. Would you still be friends with someone who did this... Before I start, i just want to say unlike the girl. I didn't know the area we were in, the ...
A. 26 August 2011: Wow, well lesson learned I hope? I wouldn't be mega mad, but I would NOT go out with her again.
Honestly, it sounds like you weren't having fun at all on your night out and that sucks.
Talk to her, tell her how it made you feel. Maybe the ... (read in full...)
Help me convince my parents to let me visit him for the summer?
Q. I am currently in a long distance relationship with a guy I love with all my heart. I live in Maryland and he is in California, we have been dating for almost a year now and it really bothers me that we are so far away, but since i love him so ...
A. 26 August 2011: So you lied about him to your parents and then expect them to let you fly across the country to be with him? Honey, you are 15.
I have 3 daughters and no amount of "luv" would let me "let" them do such a thing. Now if HE came to YOUR parents ... (read in full...)
Does he love me? Need to know. Will he leave his wife?
Q. I am sleeping with a married man who I have history with. He has other women in other towns as well. He says his wife doesn't sleep with him and treats him bad. He says he wants to leave her but he says she is crazy and probably would do something ...
A. 26 August 2011: Why are the wives always crazy?
Is he like a rockstar in bed? Since so many woman seem to have no problem sharing this one guy. I don't get it. He is a liar and a cheat, not some "prize".
Will he leave his wife for you? Doubtful, since ... (read in full...)
Can 14 negative pregnancy tests be wrong?
Q. Can 14 negative pregnancy urine tests be wrong. I just want to know if it's possible to get 14 consecutive tests wrong and nothing else. I'd appreciate some feedback, thank you....
A. 26 August 2011: How long after you missed your period did you take them? Did you take all 14 in one day?
If you are worried you are pregnant, but can't seem to figure this out, have a blood test done.... (read in full...)
She is so pushy. How do you deal with this friend?
Q. I have this friend, lets call her N, who is very pushy. For example, we were making plans to hang out and we were going to walk around our neighborhoods, as they are next to each other. She texted me saying her parents were leaving and she was ...
A. 26 August 2011: I understand that you don't want to be on her "bad" side, but being a door mat/ push over is not going to make you more popular in school.
She doesn't really sound like that much of a friend honestly. But she does sound like she is trying to hang ... (read in full...)
Why did he start taking photos during sex ? Is it a trophy thing?
Q. Very long story short, me and a guy i had a thing with ended up bumping into each other a few days ago. One thing led to another and we slept together. It was a huge, huge mistake. Since then I found out he has a girlfriend and so I removed ...
A. 26 August 2011: That seems really odd and honestly, rahter creepy. I would have been totally put off any kind of sex if the guy whipped out his cell phone to take pictures.
I hope for your sake that he really did delete them.
I would guess it was for bragging... (read in full...)
How do I act around him? I do not want to deal with him. would be rude to ignore him?
Q. Ok so last year there was this guy who really liked me. I would catch him staring when I talked to other guys and about 15 people (some of whom I didn't even know. They knew my name though) told me he liked me. I was asked various questions like "do ...
A. 26 August 2011: I would not be rude, but I would not be overly friendly either. If he says hi, say hi back. That simple.
No need to be rude or mean, just because he had a crush on you.... (read in full...)
Flame agrees to hang out but not giving me his number. Whats that mean?
Q. Hey guys , I've fallen for guy I used to work with whose recently become one of my good mates .. Before I got to know him I really fell for him pretty hard without knowing he was taken .. He found out i liked him thru a friend of mine ..We ...
A. 22 June 2011: Sounds like he isn't THAT into you :(
... (read in full...)
Girl I am dating drives me crazy by calling everyone "honey", "darling" and "baby"!!
Q. this may sound stupid but i cant help it that it is driving me crazy. this girl i am dating for 5 months is really getting to me because she calls people she knows casually things like "baby", "honey", "sweetheart", "love" and "darling"!! i'm ...
A. 22 June 2011: I use honey, quite a bit. But that is about it. If a women overly "suger" up her language it makes me slightly ill. It seems very fake. However, it seems like it IS HER nature to talk like that to people, why do you feel a need to change it? Do you ... (read in full...)
I thought he was the perfect guy but all his excuses are making me doubt that.
Q. Dear Cupid, I've been in a relationship with this guy for 3yrs., we met on a dating site, he lives about 3hrs., away from me. The question is 1. He always has an excuses for not visiting on holidays(says he dosen't like to drive on holidays, its too ...
A. 22 June 2011: Seems to me you are are being "used". It it's convinient for him.
As for not answering the phone/texts.. *shrug* he may be one of those people that just don't text a whole lot.
No Christmas gift? WTH!?
And no DATE? in over a year? Sorry, I... (read in full...)
Should I send him online pictures?
Q. I met this guy on the internet. At first I wasnt me in the pictures and they were another prettier girl. When I realized I started liking him I told him and apologized by an ecard. We were just friends but he was angry and demanded to see 5 pictures ...
A. 22 June 2011: Um, first instinct here is to just drop him.
However, I understand why he got mad. If you sent a picture of some "chick" and pretended it was you in the picture, you lied and deceived him. That tends to make people mad. Though I get the whole no... (read in full...)
I want to build muscle but everyone will make fun of me!
Q. I'm embarrassed even to ask this. I want to work out and build some muscle (I'm kinda weedy). But if I buy some weights and stuff for home I know family and mates will think its funny cos I'm the lanky one and the last person they would expect to ...
A. 22 June 2011: Find a gym, learn how to use weights correctly so you build the "right" muscles.
Don't listen to anyone putting you down at home, nothing wrong with wanting to improve yourself, just, stay away from the easy "drugs" such as steroids.
Go for ... (read in full...)
I haven't dated anyone since boyfriend left me for an online girl
Q. I posted on here last month saying that my ex dumped me for a girl he spoke to online, who lives in America, who he has never met in person !. My ex and i live in England. I kept hounding him at first, as i was upset, but then i started to get over ...
A. 15 June 2011: Let him go. It is time for you to forget about him and focus on yourself.
He could have dumped you for your best friend or a girl down the road. It happens to be one he met online. Consider this, he was a liar and a cheat... Yes, I will call him... (read in full...)
Is my mom being ridiculous or am I?
Q. My mom hasn't cooked dinner in over three months. If she does, its one day out of the week and the leftovers are expected to tide us over until she next cooks. Since she doesn't grocery shop often enough, I end up buying all my food or just not ...
A. 15 June 2011: Time to move out?... (read in full...)
What should I do, husband doesn't want to give me any money
Q. I got married 2 months ago with this guy and we have a 2 month old baby. I was working for the last 5 years.He told me to stop working to take care of the baby. I spent my time cooped up in the house taking care of the baby, cooking, cleaning. He ...
A. 15 June 2011: Time to find a job. Honestly, if you don't get some kind of independance back (financially) you will only grow more resentful and unhappy. Take Charge, hun.... (read in full...)
Have I hooked up with too many guys?
Q. I've hooked up with 12 guys, but have only had sex with 2 of them. hooking up might be nakedness, oral, or hand jobs....is that a lot? im 25 :(...
A. 15 June 2011: Everyone wants instant gratification. However, some of it may go against the grain of society, religious and personal morals.
If you "fear" people will look at you differently in your society, then you need to take the time to stop and consider... (read in full...)
Anybody ever cured a sexual fetish/obsession?
Q. Has somebody ever cured an obsession? I'm talking about a sexual obsession here. Before I could understand what sex really meant, I was obsessed about this one body part. Now I'm not gonna say which part because I want the answers to be in...
A. 15 June 2011: I don't know if there is a "cure" for a fetish. I think if you feel like it is taking over your sexlife maybe a sex therapist could help. Someone who can put the fetish of yours into perspective?... (read in full...)
Did he like me for who I am, or only for my pictures?
Q. I joined a social site and it's not for dating or anything. I thought it would just be for fun and to see what it's like. I eventually met this guy I like. I realize now I should have told him right away. The girl I used is Beautiful like 10 or 11 ...
A. 14 June 2011: Nope leave him be. He has already made his mind up about you. And not in a good way.
Take it as a learning experience. NEVER use another girl's picture and pass it off as you. Don't pretend to be someone you obviously are not.
If you want h... (read in full...)
Should I tell my gay friend how I feel about him?
Q. i'm in love with my best friend. he's gay. i've tried everything but i just can't get over the feelings i have for him. i want to be with him so badly. my friend thinks he has feelings for me too. he says things that make me think he does. should i ...
A. 14 June 2011: If he truly is gay, it would mean MEN turn him on. So you professing your love/lust/attraction will only make things weird.
If he is bi.... you might stand a chance.... (read in full...)
Have I hooked up with too many guys?
Q. I've hooked up with 12 guys, but have only had sex with 2 of them. hooking up might be nakedness, oral, or hand jobs....is that a lot? im 25 :(...
A. 14 June 2011: If you are uncomfortable with the number, stop and take some time to figure out who you keep "hooking up" if it means nothing to you.
Instead of the doubts and regret, just take the time to THINK before you act. Ask yourself if you are doing it... (read in full...)
Do you think I should continue to maintain military silence, maybe respond for him to leave me alone?
Q. Dear aunts and uncles, I kicked out my abusive ex about 4/5 months ago. The first three weeks of the break-up he called and begged non-stop and I maintained military silence. It seemed to work as he left me alone. Recently he has come out ...
A. 14 June 2011: Ignore Ignore Ignore. I would also change my number and if he after a month doesn't stop I would inform him that I will take out a no contact order against him.
... (read in full...)
My bf of 3 years doesn't want to tell the mother of his children that I exist.
Q. My bf of 3 years will not tell the mother of his children that I exist. I find it very disrespectful. I'm on the verge of leaving, we only argue about this, the rest of the relationship is good, how can I explain how hurtful this is without ...
A. 14 June 2011: If he after 3 years still keep you "away" from his "other" family, specially the kids, I wouldn't be a happy camper either. I would seriously take the relationship up for a reevaluation.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend lied about the money
Q. Me and my boyfriend did a broker business to sell a vehicle.. and we were supposed to share the profits equally.. I found the car and my boyfriend found a customer to sell it. So after the deal was done my boyfriend said that the customer cheated ...
A. 14 June 2011: Time to get out of the business with him. and out of his life (or rather him out of yours) If he lies about this? He will lie about anything. If his lips move....
... (read in full...)
I had sex with my cousin and now I'm really regretting it!
Q. Last night I had sex with my cousin. I don't know what I was thinking, it just happened. But I must admit I did come onto him first. When we were young we used to just "hump" and we didn't really care we were just kids being kids. But now that were ...
A. 14 June 2011: Well that is the thing with bad decisions. They tend to be right in our faces for a while.
Regretting it is not going to make it go away. So what can you do? Well, you can accept that you CHOSE to have sex and it was a mistake to have sex with him... (read in full...)
Good friend and ex husband dating?
Q. It appears to me that my ex husband and my good friend are having a relationship together but hiding it. I had heard through others about it. I haven't approached them and I know that I can't stop them but how do you handle this situation?...
A. 14 June 2011: He is nowyour ex, so whom he dates shouldn't be any of your concern. However, I think it's a little low of your friend to not give you a heads up.
Not really the kind of friend I would want around. ... (read in full...)
Does she like me and could she split from her current boyfriend?
Q. Right I started college in September and I became friends with this girl. I liked her from the start she is really pretty etc. but she had a boyfriend then she started tell me and my other friends in class about what he had done like they didn't see ...
A. 14 June 2011: I would back off till she either breaks of with her BF or you meet someone who is actually available.
She could as easily just have been polite and friendly towards you. I really wouldn't read more into it.... (read in full...)
This time around, I want him to crawl back!
Q. Is there still hope that my ex and I will get back together even though its been almost 3 weeks? He has broken up with me so many times like every month for the past year or more! We have been together for 2 years! The first week of the break up I ...
A. 14 June 2011: The magic 8-ball says.. maybe.
But really why do you want him back? So you guys can break up some more?... (read in full...)
She flirted and showed interest, but pulled back when I tried to kiss her!
Q. As a guy, what would you think when a girl suddenly pulled away when you tried to make out with her? What if you had been hitting on her the whole night and she was flirting back. And what if she'd been tempting you the whole night, letting you ...
A. 14 June 2011: Either she wasn't ready for the kiss, or didn't think you were actually goin to kiss her or she was being a tease. She wanted you to THINK she wanted to kiss, but in reality didn't.
Maybe, Romeo... You were putting the moves on her a little t... (read in full...)
Am I being too needy? Seems I initiate everything. He cancels dates. It unsettles me.
Q. I have been dating this guy for 2 months and we have just became a couple. It wasn't discussed we just have such a connection. Which is what drew him to approach me in the first place. He has 3 kids and a ex and its recent. Hes writing a book and ...
A. 14 June 2011: Cut him some slack, honey.
If you two spend 6/7 days together, give him a break during the day. Maybe you need to find something to keep you occupied?
I'm one of those "weird" people who doesn't text or call my husband during the work hours, ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's daughter despises the fact that I moved in without consultation by her mother!
Q. I am 34 years old and my girlfriend is 48. She has 15 year old daughter that despises the fact that I moved in before my girlfriend consulted her daughter. Any advice to lighten the load?...
A. 14 June 2011: I think your GF should have informed her that you wer moving in, or that you were planning on moving in. However, it is your GF's home.
Have you talked to your GF about it? I think this is a mess SHE needs to clear up, honestly.
You could als... (read in full...)
Sexy photos of me in a frame or on a t-shirt as a gift? Any low budget date ideas?
Q. would it be okay as a gift for my boyfriend of 9months to get some sexy photos done of me and either give him one really nice one in a frame or maybe get it printed on a tshirt or something? Does this sound like a good idea? If not what else might ...
A. 14 June 2011: You could put your picture on a pillow case for when you aren't sleeping over.
One thing I have to say about sexy pictures... You never know where they can turn up if you guys at some point break up. Specially after a bad break up.
I would... (read in full...)
My bf of 3 years doesn't want to tell the mother of his children that I exist.
Q. My bf of 3 years will not tell the mother of his children that I exist. I find it very disrespectful. I'm on the verge of leaving, we only argue about this, the rest of the relationship is good, how can I explain how hurtful this is without ...
A. 14 June 2011: Have you been around the child? If so, she knows you exist. If you haven't been around these 3 years, it's time to let him go.
Maybe SHE doesn't want to get to know you. And I don't mean that in a bad way, but I know how some women are. My husba... (read in full...)
I was giving my husband a blow job and my son walked in on us!!
Q. So.. I was having a rather pleasant time pleasuring my man... yes BJ ... we have been together 20 years - married for 14 and have 2 young children.. 2 and 5 yrs. We had not closed our door as we tend not too because we can generally hear o...
A. 14 June 2011: Just tell him (IF HE ASKS) that the two of you were mommy and daddy wrestling, something for grown ups.. and in the future... vaseline on the door handle on the outside or lock it for the duration.
Sex happens (hopefully). Don't fret. Being a ... (read in full...)
What is it about me that guys find so hard to trust?
Q. hey all, this may sound like a bit of a random question but im trying to figure what it is about me that guys find so hard to trust. im 21, fairly short 5.1, im slender, ressonably attractive ( or so im told) and am really kind hearted and easy...
A. 14 June 2011: Maybe it's the kind of guy you date that is the problem? Jealous types?
I agree that actually asking the Bf why he would even THINK you would cheat is a good idea. It's a perfect way to have a conversation about limitation in a relation... (read in full...)
Somebody please talk me out of cheating.
Q. Somebody please talk me out of cheating. I am married with kids ( marriage has become a little boring , rutine and very predictable), but I'm craving that excitement of the affairs. I know for sure I WILL NOT get caught ever, and I am sure I WILL N...
A. 14 June 2011: Talk to your husband. Maybe he feels just as bored with your sexlife as you do.
Take some time to reflect on what your own personal morals are. Your vows to your husband.
Also ask yourself this, is your libido more important then your family... (read in full...)
I suspect he's being used for money and I'm really worried about him!
Q. I don't understand what I've done wrong. I'm close friends with a guy an the other day he asked me to send an email for him which i did. I saw another which I shouldn't have and I basically got the idea that hes being played by a girl from the ...
A. 14 June 2011: He's a big boy. If he is dumb enough to fall for one of those con, it's on him.
Hopefully what you said already will make him think. But, you aren't his mother. I would let it go, unless HE brings it up. People usually don't want their friends ... (read in full...)
Should I apologize to my religious friend?
Q. Well...I made an offensive joke to my friend who is trying to be religious now. Sometimes I'm a bit harsh and so I made a joke and I told her she cannot watch a movie with Witches and Wizards if she believes in God. (I said that because she told...
A. 14 June 2011: It sounds like she is trying to find her inner "Christian" but... all I hear is her being judgemental.
However, show her that it doesn't take religion to be the better person. Apologize and.. stop hanging out with her so much, she seems like one... (read in full...)
Trying to come to terms with being 3 months pregnant and getting hate texts from the father and his wife.
Q. i started meetin a fellow which i taught to be very nice. was seeing him for about two months when he told my sister that he would like to get me pregnant but for as i have 3 kids myself i felt like i had my lot and was in no way interested in havin ...
A. 14 June 2011: I agree that you need to stay far away from those people. Block their numbers. Get on with life.... (read in full...)
I didn't see my colleague on her birthday, but I will, later in the week. Would it be wrong to give her a birthday card?
Q. I work with a girl who's birthday was a few days ago. I didn't see her on her birthday, but will later in the week. Would it be wrong to give her a birthday card? She's around 7 years younger than me (I'm 27). Whilst I don't really have a cr...
A. 13 June 2011: I think that would be sweet of you to do.... (read in full...)
Is it too early to be discussing engagement/ marriage after only two months?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months now. We are in love with each other and he has already mentioned engagement and marriage. I believe that it is too early to discuss them, but on the other hand, it expresses how we feel for each ...
A. 13 June 2011: Yes. I think so. Where is the fire? What is the rush? ... (read in full...)
| *oneypie's friends
These are mutual friends, so *oneypie has
added them and they have added *oneypie!
|
