She likes, would date me....BUT she still wants to have sex with other people!!!
Q. Ok, this is a WEIRD one. But maybe you guys can help. See, I know this girl who is sort of promiscuous. Yet she's hott. And sweet. And so we been out a bit. Never slept together or anything because believe it or not, I dont think people should do...
A. 8 September 2011: Sounds like she has intimacy issues. Or she wants an open relationship.
Obviously that is not what you want, so she isn't right for you... hot or not.... (read in full...)
My ex has forgotten when my birthday is. Do I have a right to be peeved or am I making a big deal of nothing?
Q. My ex and me were together for just under six months. It's been several months now since we broke up. We've tried to be friends since then but it has been difficult for me because she ended it and then got a new boyfriend soon after. Anyway, t...
A. 8 September 2011: First, you guys were only together for 6 months, secondly she is your ex. So no, I can't see why you would want to be upset over her forgetting it.
She's most likely been trying to get over you since the break up. Having to remember birthday... (read in full...)
For 4 years I've been trying to get him to notice me!
Q. i like this boy in my class for 4 years now and im always tryin to get him to notice me.he shows no interest in me at all .he barley even talks to me. i dont want to tell how i feel right away because that might freak him out . i just want to know ...
A. 8 September 2011: Stop trying so hard. Maybe say hi & smile next time you see him. See how he reacts.
If he isn't interested however, then he ISN'T interested. You can't "make" him interested. Know the saying :" You can drag a horse to eater but you can't make it ... (read in full...)
Should I keep this baby? I've already had 2 abortions but I think I want to keep this one, but my boyfriend isnt supportive...
Q. hi everyone. I am in a big dilemma. I just found out that I am pregnant. The problem is that my boyfriend is not supportive at all. He actually says that he doesnt want a baby with me.. I have already had two abortions, the last one in february. I ...
A. 8 September 2011: Why didn't you BF be more adament about using a condom? BC is fairly safe but BC + condom is way safer.
You have to sit down and figure out if you can afford this child on your own, because he doesn't sound like he will stay if you keep it. Also... (read in full...)
Who is the father of my baby?
Q. please help! Here are the facts: I stopped taking the pill birth control in april 2011 I have reguar periods and a pretty normal cycle. Last missed period: may 24. I found out I was pregnant: june 25 I cheated on my boyfriend on: june 5...
A. 8 September 2011: I think if you want to be 100% sure, you wait til the baby is born and do a DNA test.
And withdrawal is NOT a safe method to avoid pregnacies, it's it's pretty sure to FAIL!
And yes, some women become very fertile after coming of BC. Not uncom... (read in full...)
Why is my partner ringing his ex in the middle of the night?
Q. I have been with my partner for over 2 years and our wedding is booked. He owns a house with his ex and is in the process of selling it. She has been a nightmare through the whole thing and we have had to go to court and all sorts. Finally she is ...
A. 8 September 2011: Seems like you don't quite trust him Have he ever given you reason to not trust? If not you need to think about this, specially BEFORE you say I Do.
Ask him. Just tell him you find it a little odd that he still keeps in contact with her. Be hones... (read in full...)
Is my partner's brother just trying to be macho in front of me? Or is he trying to tell me something?
Q. I have been in a relationship with my same-sex partner for almost two years. My partner has a brother who is "straight" he has a girlfriend, and always has that macho man attitude. He treats his family, including his brother really rude, on ...
A. 7 September 2011: Yes he is a homophobic douche. I think he wants YOU to be 100% sure that he is straight.
YOU CAN'T HAVE THIS! that is his attitude.. Sorry he sounds like a lamo.... (read in full...)
Is my husband using me to be his nanny and housekeeper?
Q. I have been married to my husband for 6 years. we have two toddlers, one of whom is in preschool, the other one is too young still. I work part time in the evenings. My husband works days. I run the house, balance the checkbook, etc (I am in ...
A. 7 September 2011: Maybe you need to give yourself a break. When he gets home from work, give him 30-45 minutes to settle down and then leave, tell him you will be back later. Go out for a cup of coffee, check out the bookstore, shoestore, go for a walk, whatever you ... (read in full...)
I got badgered into sending nude photos, my dad found out and is now transferring me to another school
Q. Okay so there was this guy and at first I liked him. He would tell me I was special and make me feel good about myself, and he would act like he liked me too. And to be honest I think he did. He would come to my games and watch and cheer me on. He ...
A. 6 September 2011: What an ASSHAT! I'm sorry that happened to you. First of all your Dad is only looking out for you. BUT he needs to address the school and this kid (+ his parents) about those pictures they need to dissapear.This is bullyiong and peer pressure. That ... (read in full...)
I had to find out from someone else that my boyfriend has a 5 year old!
Q. I recently found out my boyfriend has a kid. Not from him, but from a mutual friend who didn't realize that I didn't know. His kid is ~5 yrs old, I am 25 and he is 29. I met him 9 months ago and we dated briefly for a month. I broke up with him ...
A. 6 September 2011: Lying about having a kid (to me) is a MAJOR red flag. I would really make me wonder what else he's hiding lying about.
... (read in full...)
My ex has given me private information. Do I tell this to my friends? Or do I just tell my new Gf? I am worried how my new GF will take it.
Q. Hi. So I had broken up with my girlfriend last thanksgiving because she just didnt really respect me. After a party one night i was a bit sideways and she was and somehow post break up emotions led one thing led to another and yeah. Needless...
A. 6 September 2011: Why would you want to leave school?
As for you GF, the sooner you tell her, the sooner she can decide what SHE wants to do. As far as the ex.. I would completely cut the contact. Erase her from your life. She sounds like a bunny-boiler.... (read in full...)
Gastric Bypass VS. Lap Band System?
Q. I am 19 years old and recently I have become really upset with my figure...I have always struggled with my weight since i was little. I have a thyroid problem and Polycystic ovarian syndrome so it is almost impossible for me to loose weight and when ...
A. 6 September 2011: This is a medical problem that you need to go over with your doctor. She/He and she/he alone can best advice on this. You might consider looking around for testimonials for it as well.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
Why does my BF have my name listed as "Christopher" on his phone? Could he be cheating on me?
Q. I just discovered that my boyfriend has me listed in his phone by a male name - Christopher, when clearly that is not my name. My name doesn't even start with the letter C. This is sooooooo very strange, and I was not happy about this. I asked ...
A. 6 September 2011: Ask him.... (read in full...)
What the hell went so horribly wrong with us? Was I just a second fiddle to the drama between my BF and his ex?
Q. Hi Everybody, Im Dennise, im new here, my first post, it took me about two hours to write this because i keep stopping to get a hold of myself, so if something doesnt make sense, work with me here. Ok so here is the deal: I met Eric a year and...
A. 6 September 2011: I agree with CindyCares, you were his plan B, his rebound girl.
Everytime things get tough he lets his ex back in and start over that whole cycle. HE is not over her. Not by a long shot. HE doesn't have the guts to tell you that SHE moved in? How ... (read in full...)
After 30 years together husband says he never felt intimate with me
Q. I have been with my husband since I was 16 been with him for 30 years and married for 23. He said that he has never felt intimate with me, is this possible? He first asked for a divorce and now a separation because he feels intimate with wo...
A. 6 September 2011: I think the initimate part is an excuse. You don't stay together for 30 years unless you have something. I would give him the divorce though. Let him go. He will soon find out that putting all the resposibility of his happiness on you isn't fair. He ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend was raped before I met her and she can't get over it. Is it fair to leave her?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for 10 years. She was raped at some point before I met her. I found this out in the last year. Initially, we had a good sex life, but within two years it became nonexistent. She just cannot be intimate with...
A. 6 September 2011: She needs serious help. There are many rape/crisis hotlines where she can call and talk to someone anonymously.
Does she think she will jsut " get voer it" or does she expect you to just accept this status quo?
I don't blame you for how you ... (read in full...)
Husband doesn't love me but doesn't want divorce because he wants the property
Q. My husband does not love me. He is searching young girls for long term relationship keeping our marriage as it. He loves my education, property, and background, not me. He always harass me in front of his family and close friends. When I asked for ...
A. 6 September 2011: Can you not file for divorce even if he is out of the country? Honestly, I think you need to contact a laywer.... (read in full...)
She doesn't treat her boyfriend right, do I warn her she might lose him?
Q. Here's the situation, I probably shouldn't meddle, but I'm wondering if I should give my friend a few "words of wisdom" about how she treats her new boyfriend. Now I know, let them sort it out on their own. But maybe a few words of advice would ...
A. 2 September 2011: I think this is a lesson she needs to learn on her own. He will either get fed up and dump her or he will "adjust" to her ways. It's THEIR relationship. Either way, you can't tell her how to be or not to be. That is something she has to learn on her ... (read in full...)
My ex wants to meet for coffee. Good or bad idea?
Q. So basically my ex and I broke up 5 months ago. He has a new girlfriend but he still wants us to be "friends". I have feelings for him still and he wants to meet for coffee. Do you think it's a bad idea?...
A. 2 September 2011: Since you still have feelings for him, I would not go out for coffee or have any contact with him, BUT if you can use this as a sort of closure, maybe it's not the worst idea. It really comes down to how you feel about it all.... (read in full...)
My sister got pregnant and now my mother accuses me of being selfish because I don't want to help her raise her grandchild...
Q. My sister had a baby out of wedlock a few months ago and where i come from it is shunned upon. though it is common nowadays in this country people still look down at those who have bastard children. my sister went on for years of abuse towards me ...
A. 2 September 2011: Go to college/Uni - get yourself the education you want and move out. Your mom is an adult, and if she doesn't want to raise her grandson, then that is on her. YOU have no real obligations towards your niece/nephew.
I think the more you and your... (read in full...)
Is she just being hyper sensitive about my hygiene so she doesn't have to give me head?
Q. hi hears my issue. My girlfriend say my penis smells even when i have just got out of the shower. I have no sti or other problems as i got checked. I feel this is her being hyper sensestive or just a reason for her not to give me head anymore. I in ...
A. 2 September 2011: Shaving or "manscaping" can also cut down on BO in that area. ... (read in full...)
We were having great dates and then.... utter silence for 2 weeks!
Q. Hi there, Ok I know this has happened to some women before but it has not happened to me. I was seeing what seemed like a great guy, we were going out on dates, meeting each others friends. I even met his brother. I am 30 he is 28. We ...
A. 1 September 2011: Did he know you were going away for the week end? I would call him (not text.Facebook, IM, email) CALL. If he doesn't want to talk, he isn't one for you.
I do think it's a little odd that he gets silent because you went away for a week-end... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to want to spend every weekend with my boyfriend?
Q. Hi. Here is my issue. Me and my bf have been togther almost 2 years, and i feel there has always been an issue with his friends being very important to him. He works shifts so sometimes I dont get to see him much at weekends. It's not that he spends ...
A. 1 September 2011: Why don't you go out with him and his friends every now and then?
You know who he is, why do you want to change him?... (read in full...)
Husband doesn't love me but doesn't want divorce because he wants the property
Q. My husband does not love me. He is searching young girls for long term relationship keeping our marriage as it. He loves my education, property, and background, not me. He always harass me in front of his family and close friends. When I asked for ...
A. 1 September 2011: I don't know how it works in Nepal, legal wise. But I would cut my losses and file for divorce.
Tell him to take a hike.... (read in full...)
Ex wants to know I stopped contact
Q. my question is my boyfriend called it off but claimed he still loved me as a friend. he kept calling me but a time came when i completely stopped picking up his calls because i needed to heal from pain. and he started asking his sisters why i wa...
A. 1 September 2011: I wouldn't call him either. You don't seen able to be friends with him (not yet at least) - accept that. If his sister asks, tell her that. That you still have feelings for him and in order to get over him, you need to not be around him/talk to ... (read in full...)
I did Snoop. Did I read too much into this? What's the next step to rectify the situation?
Q. I read my girlfriend's journal to find that she has nothing but scathing personal thoughts about me: "I don't love him anymore...I don't respect him," and I also found her transcribing conversations with an ex-bf whom I think she may have stayed ...
A. 1 September 2011: You are in a toxic relationship, you KNOW she cheats and that (you think) justify the snooping. Is this really how you see yourself? Being with someone who doesn't love you fully, who cheats - but most of all WHO makes you feel like snooping is ... (read in full...)
How can I play hard to get with my steady boyfriend?
Q. Every guy and girl says they 'don't want to play games' but I've been learning more and more that everything is a game, ESPECIALLY relationships, and the moment you stop playing - you lose. Anyway, how do I do it successfully? Play hard to get...
A. 29 August 2011: Playing games can very easily and very fast blow up in your face.
You said: "the moment you stop playing - you lose"
I say Bulls... - if you have to play "games" to make a relationship work, do you really know the guy you are dating? It's lik... (read in full...)
How to I deal with turning down this girl who asked me to homecoming?
Q. I got asked to homecoming by one of my friends today. I haven't really known her that long and I feel like she might have a crush on me, the problem is though, that I don't have a crush on her in return. She asked if I wanted to go, and I told her I ...
A. 29 August 2011: Why not be honest with her? Is there a "special" girl you are wanting to go with? If not, you could do worse... Like sitting at home or heck, going stag. If you think it may be awkward, go as a group of friends?
If you don't have any feeling ... (read in full...)
Why does cheating thrill me?
Q. Why does the thought and act of cheating thrill me? I have cheated on my gf twice now both times on purpose. I still love her but I like to cheat I don't want to hurt her....
A. 29 August 2011: Why be in a relationship if you can't even keep it in your pants?
Seems to me your words and your actions don't add up at all. You SAY you don't want to hurt your GF, yet you do something that YOU know will hurt her.
... (read in full...)
This guy doesn't like the way I dress and makes me feel weird. Should I date him?
Q. I have been dating a guy I met in a Bar, just for four or five times, he seems polite and hasn't asked me for getting off or sex, though he behaves weird and avoids contact like me touching his arm or thinks like that when we are close. He has told ...
A. 29 August 2011: If he wants you to change who you are, is it really YOU he is interested in?
I'd say dump him.
Today he wants to control your hair and clothes.. what will tomorrow bring?
Take it slwo, no matter your age. The older you are, the less you sh... (read in full...)
My ex has given me private information. Do I tell this to my friends? Or do I just tell my new Gf? I am worried how my new GF will take it.
Q. Hi. So I had broken up with my girlfriend last thanksgiving because she just didnt really respect me. After a party one night i was a bit sideways and she was and somehow post break up emotions led one thing led to another and yeah. Needless...
A. 29 August 2011: Is it possible that she is telling you this to make you feel bad about moving on? If you are pretty sure you never got her pregnant? She wouldn't be the first girl to lie about stuff like that. Though condoms is a pretty good way to avoid pregnacies ... (read in full...)
My ex has given me private information. Do I tell this to my friends? Or do I just tell my new Gf? I am worried how my new GF will take it.
Q. Hi. So I had broken up with my girlfriend last thanksgiving because she just didnt really respect me. After a party one night i was a bit sideways and she was and somehow post break up emotions led one thing led to another and yeah. Needless...
A. 27 August 2011: Tell your ex how you feel about it all, the pregnacy, the abortion, but most of all be honest with her. And last but not least... tell her that you don't want a FWB and that you have meet someone new.
As for your new GF, no. Don't tell her anyt... (read in full...)
We talk a lot. We flirt even more. But he talks to other girls and will not give me his number. Does he like me?
Q. The story of my life. I've watched the movie (he's just not that into you[LOL]), I've talked to friends who know the guy, aaaannnd? The end result is that we are all completely clueless as to if he is interested in me or not. So I'm writing to get ...
A. 27 August 2011: He either has a girlfriend or he really isn't that interested. He seems to like you attention towards him and you seems like a nice girl to "pass" time with.
The fact that he didn't want to give you his number is a huge clue. If he had the slig... (read in full...)
Do you need instant chemistry with someone to be able to have a good marriage with them?
Q. Dear Cupid, Does it bode poorly for a marriage that neither my fiancee nor I really had any sexual chemistry at first? We knew each other as friends while she dated a few other people before she claims that she saw me in a sexual way. On m...
A. 27 August 2011: I think being compatible inside and outside the bedroom is important in a relationship and in a marriage. It might wane after years of marriage and change over the years, but me personally, I wouldn't imagine being married to someone I don't feel ... (read in full...)
My old friend from school turns our conversations sexual. What does he want from me?
Q. I'll really try to make this short. I have an old friend from high school (we are now in college) who has recently given me his number via facebook so we can talk and catch up. Lately we've been texting and the very first day we talked a lot about ...
A. 27 August 2011: I think you should be straight forward with him. Also, did you used to have feeling for him?
The whole he wants to see if HE still has feelings for you blah blah blah.. well, it's fine and good if he does, but unless YOU feel the same what is ... (read in full...)
Am I right to be uneasy about his request that I strip on cam for him? .
Q. well. i have know this guy as a good friends more than 2 years. he always compliment me on my hair and says you look good plus he keep saying don't cut them off. he lives far from me so finally i asked him to catch up soon on cam. I was surpr...
A. 26 August 2011: I would tell him straight out that you feel uncomfortable iwth him asking about th stripping. If he doesn't stop asking, I would stop talking to him.
If you don't feel good around him, you don't need him in your life. He will just fill you with... (read in full...)
Any advice on how to change myself or come across suitable for kind of man that I need...?
Q. I am quite an outgoing and sociable girl and I come across as having a strong and perhaps at times a rather domineering personality. This is mainly due to a lack of self esteem and so I over compensate with appearing to be very confident. Howeve...
A. 26 August 2011: Don't change who your are to try and catch the man you "think" you should be with.
YOU are who you are. You might take some time to look at the men you attract and figure out why you get involved with them if they feel so "wrong" for you.
... (read in full...)
My wife has no sex drive and this is ruining things!
Q. My wife has no sex drive. This is ruining everything. We have been together for 12 years and we have 3 children, separation is NO option. I have searched not only this website but the entire net high and low and have found nothing, no real a...
A. 26 August 2011: Has she seen a doctor? Menopause can do some "evil" stuff to a womans sex drive. Thyroid problems ditto. Having 3 kids and full life can also make anyone tired and just not in the mood. Years of unfulfilling sex can eventually turn a person totally ... (read in full...)
Sex has become a chore. I want to have sex but not with him!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months. To be honest, he never satisfied me 100%, but I enjoyed being with him. For the past two months, sex has been a chore. I want to have sex, but not with him. I literally get a little pissed off inside when he ...
A. 26 August 2011: If you just "grin and bare it" it's not going to get better. EVER.
If you have tried to coach him in what you like and he doesn't get it, I would say time to find someone who you are more compatible with sexually.
I'm sorry to say that he is n... (read in full...)
We only see each other once a week, but she calls me clingy. I buy her everything, but she says I never take care of her. Is she using me?
Q. so me and my girlfriend have been fighting for the past two weeks. She keeps telling me im clingy, and she needs space, and i only see her once a week, so i dont understand how im being clingy. another thing iv noticed is i pay for everything. i pay ...
A. 26 August 2011: She seems like she is using you and YOU are letting her. Don't you think you deserve better?
If so, dump her and find a decent girl.... (read in full...)
What's wrong with my boyfriend?
Q. I'm 14 and my boyfriends 16 soon, he wants to have sex but I'm not sure I do, he's not a virgin but I am! He always gets drunk and high, it dosent bother me usually but recently he feels me up and sticks his hands down my pants and top in front of ...
A. 26 August 2011: I'm sorry, he needs therapy to deal with his grief and YOU need to dump him. You also need to learn and understand that YOU are in charge of how people treat you. Don't let people treat you in a way you don't want. Don't let someone touch you in a ... (read in full...)
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