16 year old girl sent pornographic video of herself to my boyfriend?
Q. So... I need some advice. My boyfriend is very nice looking and it isn't just me that thinks it, other girls also think the same. He talks to a lot of girls who he claims are just his friends he goes about talking to them through phone calls, text ...
A. 24 February 2012: Sorry honey, he keep lying and digging a deeper and deeper hole for himself, yet... he's manged to keep you around hasn't he?
This won't be the last time you will have to deal with crap like this from that guy. Though in the future he will be ... (read in full...)
16 year old girl sent pornographic video of herself to my boyfriend?
Q. So... I need some advice. My boyfriend is very nice looking and it isn't just me that thinks it, other girls also think the same. He talks to a lot of girls who he claims are just his friends he goes about talking to them through phone calls, text ...
A. 23 February 2012: I sorry, but he is feeding you as much BULLSH!T as he can cram in you and still keep you around.
I think maverick494, hit it on the head with:
"Also, if you were in the girl's shoes and you were trying to attract a guys attention, would the fi... (read in full...)
Boyfriend posts pornographic photos "girls of the week" I don't like it!
Q. My boyfriend posts up photos of porn girls and promo models in weekly blogs that he makes for his gaming group and stating that they are "his girls of the week." I find this so disrespectful towards me but is this over reacting? He claims the ga...
A. 22 February 2012: Hmm, if you belong to the same gaming group why not post Stud of the week? To even it out?
Would I be hurt? Nah, not really however I do find it immature and borderline teenage behavior and honestly I would question my man's taste.... (read in full...)
I don't know if I can deal with a guy being so messy and home stinking that way so I told him and now he hasn't contacted me
Q. I met this guy which he is very nice and good looking. I like him a lot. We have dated several and I enjoyed his company. We even spend the weekend at the coast nothing happen since we both brought our kids to enjoyed ourself. We have alot of ...
A. 22 February 2012: No, I surely wouldn't apologize. I would let him cool of though. HE needs to call and talk to you.
Maybe he just isn't a keeper? ... (read in full...)
He ended it because he couldnt cope with other men looking at me, and then in the 7 days we were apart he got a new girlfriend!
Q. Thanks in advance for any advice given! I am in a sad place right now and really could do with some opinions from a mans point of view and also a womans if you have been in the same situation. Up until a couple of weeks ago I was dating a guy...
A. 22 February 2012: I don't think it was men staring at you he couldn't handle, I think it was YOU being a beautiful confident women that he had a hard time dealing with.
You didn't do anything wrong.
Maybe he started seeing her before he broke up with you? But ma... (read in full...)
What sort of Mom says these things to her own daughter! Advice, please!
Q. So I'm a 21 year old woman who still lives with her parents. I've always had horrible self-esteem. I very rarely see myself as beautiful, and it feels like calling myself pretty is pushing it a little. I always get compliments on my hair, my own ...
A. 22 February 2012: I think some mothers do this thinking that if ANYONE can tell their daughter these things it should be Mom!
Every mom think their kids are beautiful and I think your mom wants you to hit your potential. In this society where looks seem to matter s... (read in full...)
My girlfriend will ruin my life if I leave her. How do I get out of this?
Q. My girlfriend is completely obsessed with me. If I leave her she will ruin my life. I think the only way to make her fall out of love with me is to tell her that im convinced that im seriousely gay even though im not. What can I do that will make ...
A. 22 February 2012: How can she ruin your life any more then she is now? You are WITH her and miserable!
Grow a set and end it!... (read in full...)
I don't want to die without trying anal sex, so is it cheating if I hire a prostitute as my wife refuses to do this?
Q. Just something that I've been thinking about: My wife and I have been together for years. Like any other couple, we have boundaries and red flags in sex. Anal sex is a red flag for her. But I can't get it off of my mind! I don't want to die wit...
A. 22 February 2012: Seriously?
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My G/f screamed at me publicly because I was looking at this gorgeous redhead on the train!
Q. Hi guys and girls im a bit of a chump - thats how i feel right now atleast... i made my girlfriend a beautiful silver necklace for valentines, took her away to a hotel/spa for the weekend, she absolutley loved it, as a treat for me she took m...
A. 22 February 2012: Every relationship is different. Every woman have different boundaries, past experiences, values, morals, dreams and hopes.
Just because you dated women who "loved" porn and strip clubs doesn't mean every woman will. Some women have a differen... (read in full...)
B/f is dating 2 of us at the same time. He says he's just "pretending" to date her!
Q. I'v been dating a guy almost a month now, recently, he told me that he was dating a different girl and he's doing that to please her he disclosed to me that im the one he loves even though he's pretending to be dating her. Should i believe him? I ...
A. 22 February 2012: Whether he is your first or your fifth, you need to figure out what YOUR boundaries are. WHAT you will accept others to DO to you. HOW you want others to treat you and HOW you want them to SEE you.
He treats you like a toy, he has no respect ... (read in full...)
Why was anal sex so comfortable for my wife but now its not?
Q. I always fantasized about anal sex, and my wife used to give me a little anal, which kept me happy. But things have changed and I don't know what to do. Lets go back in history. Before our marriage, she told me that she wanted to save her vagin...
A. 21 February 2012: I honestly think she did it to please and keep you (prior to marriage) and I agree with Auntie Miamine, having anal sex doesn't mean you are a "virgin" per say.
If she "pucker up" it's because she isn't relaxing and/or enjoying it.
I'm thi... (read in full...)
Our relationship was always a secret so her friends think I've been stalking her for 5 years! Despite this I know if it was all in the open I know it would have worked, what should I do?
Q. My girlfriend of 5 years walked out a few weeks ago. The reason was because after 5 years of her wanting to keep our relationship a secret, I told her we cant go on like this and in order for us to move forward as a couple we need to stop being a ...
A. 21 February 2012: I DO think you had a lucky escape! If she can not admit and SHARE her love for you with family and friends, she can't be that good of a person.
Stay away from her, no contact, no nothing.
Why on EARTH could she not tell people that you were da... (read in full...)
Any kind of sexual activity leaves me exhausted, in pain, or both
Q. My current bf and I were each other's first sexual partners. In the four years since then, he's gotten skilled at making me feel amazing. Myself on the other hand, well,any kind of sexual activity leaves me exhausted, in pain, or both. Blowjo...
A. 21 February 2012: 1. Stop trying to stuff the whole penis in your mouth. Deep throat is for people who have practised it a lot. Use both your hands on the shaft and your mouth on the "head" only if that doesn't make you gag/jaw ache.
Try doing it while spooning... (read in full...)
I think he masturbated on me thinking I was asleep!
Q. Hi... My boyfriend courted me for almost three months (said he's okay with it and he's glad to wait). I told him that if he ever break my trust, I'd break up with him. I also told him that I don't want to break my family's reputation becau...
A. 21 February 2012: I think he was horny and had little common sense.
You need to talk to him about it, see what he says. ... (read in full...)
Could my baby look like my lover?
Q. If a woman is pregnant and sleeps with another man can the baby have features of the man who is not the father?...
A. 21 February 2012: Whoever fathered (whoevers spearm hit your egg) the baby will pass on he traits mixed with yours.. THAT is just common logic. BUT if you aren't SURE who is the daddy... then only a DNA test will tell for sure.
You sure you are in your 30's?... (read in full...)
My husband is taking strange vacations. Why is he acting the way he is?
Q. hello am married for going for 19 years he is working in australia for going 6 years i feel he dry to me any more i mean he does'nt talk to me, and he take vacation in the philippines some picture he bring is this picture hes girl?an why he has ...
A. 21 February 2012: Only person who can give you answers is your husband.
We can only guess, and from where I sit, it's not looking pretty.... (read in full...)
I'm eight months pregnant and the baby's father is incommunicado.
Q. Hello, I need some advice please, I'm 35 weeks pregnant and the baby's father hasn't been in contact with me since we split up 3 month ago. I've tried ringing him and have had no answer to my calls or texts. Its like he isn't interested, and I hear ...
A. 21 February 2012: He wants to be there for his child, but doesn't want to get back together with you.
I'm guessing he is trying to do the right thing for the baby.... (read in full...)
My G/f screamed at me publicly because I was looking at this gorgeous redhead on the train!
Q. Hi guys and girls im a bit of a chump - thats how i feel right now atleast... i made my girlfriend a beautiful silver necklace for valentines, took her away to a hotel/spa for the weekend, she absolutley loved it, as a treat for me she took m...
A. 20 February 2012: I think you were both acting childish honestly.
I get it that you saw a hot redhead and you looked. OK *shrug" but did you really have to ogle her 4 times? After all the week-end in London was the "culmination" of a romantic Valentine's Day not ... (read in full...)
Do I have a point about his flatmate or do I just need to grow up?
Q. Hello, I know this sounds silly but I just cant help but to get annoyed with my boyfriends flat mate. He used to have a long term girlfriend and has broken up with her and since then its like he is trying to get my bf to go out with him all the...
A. 20 February 2012: I wouldn't tell your BF he can't go out with him either, to me it seems like your BF understands the situation quite fine. Even if they did go out I doubt the flatmate can MAKE your BF do anything he doesn't want to.
Hopefully the flat mate wil... (read in full...)
16 year old girl sent pornographic video of herself to my boyfriend?
Q. So... I need some advice. My boyfriend is very nice looking and it isn't just me that thinks it, other girls also think the same. He talks to a lot of girls who he claims are just his friends he goes about talking to them through phone calls, text ...
A. 20 February 2012: The fact that he tried to hide is a red flag. It means he rather lie and hope you can't see through it.
A second red flag is that she is 16. I know in the UK that is legal age, but, honestly I don't care where in the world you are 16 is just too... (read in full...)
I feel taken for granted, trapped in my flat and frankly bored.
Q. My boyfriend and I have always had an up and down relationship but great sex and alot of laughs for the first few years, he is probably the funniest person I know. Having been together for 10 years (bar a year and a half apart) I have always felt ...
A. 20 February 2012: I say end it with him. You are making excuses for your own behavior though. People who cheat don't really worry about their partners feelings, or .. they wouldn't cheat. I also believes people, who cheat, have either started to disengage from their ... (read in full...)
Why is this girl going around spreading horrible rumours about me?
Q. Why is this girl going around spreading horrible rumours about me? When I was young.. I was 15 and she was 17 There was this guy that liked me but I didn't like him I liked his friend. He asked to hang out so I brought my cousin for him and I ...
A. 20 February 2012: Talk to her face to face. She sounds like she is a insecure jealous person though, maybe ignoring her would be easier.
However, I am a BIG fan of confronting people who spread lies.... (read in full...)
Am I being unfair or not? He wants all the attention but calls me selfish.
Q. Hi Aunt's.I'd like a little help here please. I have been seeing someone for about 5 years.we enjoy sex together but i have a problem with his selfishness in showing affection to me. He seems to think i should be doting on him all the time,while h...
A. 20 February 2012: The fact you put up with it for 5 years might make him think you don't expect anything back. It might simply be that he takes you spoiling him for granted.
Do you ever ask for him to do it for you? Or do you EXPECT him to just do it on his own?... (read in full...)
His ideas about sex differ from mine. He gets huffy when I don't want to talk about it. How to I keep him interested?
Q. Short and sweet I hope:: I talk to this guy pretty regularly. Daily mostly. If we can't talk in person we talk on line somehow. The bad thing is we dont agree on sex because I'd like to think love happens before sex in most cases around my age rang...
A. 20 February 2012:
IF you don't want to talk about sex, I don't see the problem. If he gets pissy because you don't want too, then honestly I would stop talking to him til he can grow some darn respect.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend thanked everyone but me for help with his b-day party!
Q. It was my bf of 5 years 21st birthday last night! During his speech he literally went around the whole room thanking people but left me out when ive been the one to help him organise the whole thing! my heart literally broke i felt so hurt! Through ...
A. 20 February 2012: I don't think you are overreacting and I think you need to have a little chat with your man, he is totally taking your for granted.... (read in full...)
How can I compete with my wife's new sex toy? It gets more action than me
Q. I got my wife a new toy. It seems the toy is getting more action than me. However, she has NO problem giving me oral sex. I seem to get more oral sex now and she seems to use her toy more. Is this normal?...
A. 20 February 2012: It could be she is actually getting more gratification now and that usually goes hand in hand with being more "giving".
Talk to her.
... (read in full...)
He delays fixing things around the house. What can I do with him? Yet he freaks if I call a tradesman!
Q. I am so frustrated with my husband. It takes him forever to get around to fixing things around the house. It's not that he's not capable. It's not that he doesn't have the time or money. It's not that I push him to do things every week-end. ...
A. 20 February 2012: I live with a procrastinator as well, but I have learned to make it less annoying. First I try and fix it myself, then I call in a person who can & will fix it asap. If hubby doesn't like it, tough.
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My girlfriend's friends are boring
Q. Hi all I have a bit of a problem regarding the friends of my girlfriend. Our relationship is generally good, and she has a lot of friends. I'm a naturally friendly man, very chatty, and very interested in people. To be honest, I was hoping to ma...
A. 20 February 2012: Why not add some of your own more "interesting" friends to the mix?
I mean they can't really help being dull, can they?... (read in full...)
Is oral sex ok with a UTI?
Q. Hi , Im 18 and I`ve got a urinary tract infection and I was told to avoid sex for a week but Im just wondering is it okay to have my boyfriend just lick me out instead of sex?...
A. 20 February 2012: Honestly, that just grosses me out and I'm not modest person at all.
Wait til the UTI is gone.... (read in full...)
Is the shape of my vagina normal?
Q. Okay, I'm done worrying about this, so I'm just going to ask a few questions about my vagina and whether or not it sounds unusual. I've always thought I looked odd down there, but i figured that was just the way it was meant to look. I find vag...
A. 20 February 2012: They all look different and I agree they aren't exactly pretty lol
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I'd jeopardize my actual relationship if I allowed this infatuation to take hold. What should I do?
Q. I am almost 22 and I have a boyfriend and I know he loves me, he is so kind and sweet and caring and we have been going out for over a year or so. But about April last year, I met this man one day, and he was fascinating and charming and I have n...
A. 20 February 2012: Don't start one thing before you have ended the one you are in.
And honey, some times the grass isn't greener.
I think you need to take a good hard look at your relationship and figure out why someone else can turn you hear to the point this g... (read in full...)
How equal should things be? I give her oral, but she just gives me excuses for why not, when I seek same from her.
Q. Hi, I'm wondering whether I should expect oral sex for giving oral sex. Me and my girlfriend don't have sex often, but my sex drive is a lot more than hers, so she uses her hands to satisfy me. I've told her I really enjoy oral sex and she gave...
A. 20 February 2012: Buy some mints have them near the bed. However, I don't believe in tit for tat in the bedroom. If she doesn't like to do it, why should she? Sex should be enjoyable for both parties.
However, I would talk to her. Figure out if it has more to do wi... (read in full...)
How do you avoid feeling second best when your significant other has an ex-spouse?
Q. How do you deal when your significant other has an ex-wife (or ex-husband), and they have a reasonably pleasant relationship? How do you avoid feeling inferior or second best?...
A. 20 February 2012: I never see myself as second best. After all, he is with me and has been for 15 years, they lasted barely 2 1/2.
One thing I did learn and learn fast, was to NEVER compare myself to her or let my hubby make any comparisons, it isn't a competit... (read in full...)
What kind of upbringing would make someone uncaring cold and callous towards everyone?
Q. What kind of upbringing would make someone uncaring cold and callous towards their partners,children,family even friends as i know of a person just like this and i am finding it hard to understand how anyone can be like this towards anyone who has ...
A. 20 February 2012: It might be a safety mechanism. Sometimes just just don't know.
It's the kind of people I tend to stay far away from.... (read in full...)
I told this guy twice that I was too busy to see him. Does it seem too needy if I ask him out myself?
Q. If a guy you like has asked you out twice already, but both times you have been busy so you couldn't go, would it be desperate or needy if the girl asked him out when she was free? Because this guy, I do like him and I have said we can go out ...
A. 20 February 2012: No I don't think there would be any thing wrong in asking him out on a date since you busy twice when he asked. It shows that you are interested and didn't "blow him off" when you were busy.... (read in full...)
Do I tell this guy I'm pregnant?
Q. I might be pregnant. It's outside of a relationship, although we're good friends. I don't have anyone else to talk to this about and I'm freaking out. I'm two weeks late. I've already gone to the doctor and discussed everything which you could ...
A. 20 February 2012: Don't tell any guy til you know 100% that you are pregnant. Ulness of course you like some drama in your life.... (read in full...)
B/f is dating 2 of us at the same time. He says he's just "pretending" to date her!
Q. I'v been dating a guy almost a month now, recently, he told me that he was dating a different girl and he's doing that to please her he disclosed to me that im the one he loves even though he's pretending to be dating her. Should i believe him? I ...
A. 20 February 2012: I say tell him to go fly a kite, why on Earth would you let a guy play you like this?
He's penis is not made of gold nor can his personalty that all that decent.
He sounds like a tool and like he is wasting your time.
... (read in full...)
Why won't my boyfriend come clean about how many people he's actually slept with?
Q. I have been with my partner a year but we were friends before that. I'd say our relationship is good, we talk, laugh have a good sex life (the best I've ever had actually)and can tease each other and have fun. we have discussed serious things too ...
A. 20 February 2012: Because the number really doesn't matter.... (read in full...)
What keeps people in marriages when they are no longer in love?
Q. When you have been married to your husband for 35 years and are no longer IN LOVE with him but Love him as a person, is it possible to continue to stay married? What is it that actually makes a person stay in a marriage where you are NOT IN LOVE ...
A. 20 February 2012: I agree 100% with Uncle Code Warrior.
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My deceased ex-bf's son wants to date me--and he looks just like his dad!
Q. My exboyfriend died in 1993, when he died he had a little son by someone else. Now the son is 23 years old and wants to date me. I like him to but I don't know if this is right, the thing that is nagging at me is he looks just like his dad.What ...
A. 20 February 2012: I agree with Mystiquek - not a thing I would do. He is not his father, he is not your ex, to me it seems a little weird to try and relive the past, so to speak.... (read in full...)
My deceased ex-bf's son wants to date me--and he looks just like his dad!
Q. My exboyfriend died in 1993, when he died he had a little son by someone else. Now the son is 23 years old and wants to date me. I like him to but I don't know if this is right, the thing that is nagging at me is he looks just like his dad.What ...
A. 20 February 2012: I agree with Mystiquek - not a thing I would do. He is not his father, he is not your ex, to me it seems a little weird to try and relive the past, so to speak.... (read in full...)
I don't want a baby right now, but it seems like my body is screaming at me to have one
Q. I'm 16. I'm in a stable relationship with a guy who I adore (don't care how immature this sounds- he makes me the happiest I've ever felt and treats me like a princess). Ever since meeting him, I've become so broody. Like, I can't stop looki...
A. 18 February 2012: Yea those hormones can make you feel a little loopy! If you have that maternal urge, get a puppy. Raise your puppy, train it and take care of it. It might quiet down some of the feelings.
Also, keep working towards your dreams. A teenage pregnanc... (read in full...)
I have major problems with my boyfriend's personal choices!
Q. So I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 40. I know it seems like a big age gap but it has worked for us and we get along so well... Until recently. Basically he is a self employed builder and hasn't had work for a gd few months, he has been able to hav...
A. 18 February 2012: Sounds like you are the not so proud momma of a 40 year old!
Personally, I think there are so many red flags here and I'm wondering why you ar still with him.... (read in full...)
I'm eight months pregnant and the baby's father is incommunicado.
Q. Hello, I need some advice please, I'm 35 weeks pregnant and the baby's father hasn't been in contact with me since we split up 3 month ago. I've tried ringing him and have had no answer to my calls or texts. Its like he isn't interested, and I hear ...
A. 30 January 2012: I'm sorry to be blunt, but I don't think he cares about you or the baby, he moved on with a new woman in his life.
The fact that he is ignoring you kind of confirm it.
Good luck with the pregnacy and baby!... (read in full...)
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