My boyfriend says that he owns me and will say he wants to hurt me during sex. Is this the beginning of an abusive relationship?
Q. I started dating my boyfriend coming up for a year now. I'm 25 and he's 45. From the moment we met we got on great and always love being in each others company. But a few months ago I had a night out and he went very weird with me saying he didn't ...
A. 14 August 2015: So he hand picked you partly because of your background. He knew you didn't have a solid support system and not the same kind of boundaries. And then he moved you in. My guess is he was REALLY nice to start with and then it got progressively worse.. ... (read in full...)
Is it appropraite for a guy to bring two of his friends on a first date with a girl?
Q. Is it appropraite for a guy to bring two of his friends on a first date with a girl? I met a guy for the first time on a proper date and he brought two of his male friends like a group date. I told him off straight. I am so angry. Is this even right ...
A. 14 August 2015: I think a group date is fine for a first date, BUT for him to show up with TWO male friends without telling you first? No. Not OK.
It sounds like he was either worried of being "catfished" or he wanted to make sure he had a "way out" if he didn'... (read in full...)
Should I not initiate contact and just wait to see if my old FWB will say how he feels?
Q. Hi I met man four years ago and it became clear he wanted a Fwb thing, I initially thought okay but then got feelings for him and told him couldn't do it anymore. We stayed in touch and nit long ago he asked me out, I saw him five times in a ...
A. 14 August 2015: You didn't "ruin" it at all. You had every "right" to ask what was going on. You have every "right" to know if you HAVE something with him or not.
He chose to vanish instead of telling you yes or no. That says a lot about him doesn't it? ... (read in full...)
Why do my boyfriend's parents care so much about my educational background?
Q. I am a 22 year old woman in a relationship with a 24 year old man. We love each other but are complete opposites when it comes to educational background. I did not go to college, while he has a masters degree. His parents both have doctoral de...
A. 13 August 2015: For some, education = ambitions = successful in life.
For others hard work = ambitions = successful in life.
Most people who have a degree (which ever level) have kids who will also go the educational route. Sometimes because they know that i... (read in full...)
I can't see myself with anybody else, but she haas a boyfriend!
Q. I'm a 59 yr. old man.my wife passed away 22 months ago.i met a much younger woman about a year after my wife passed.i immediately had a liking for her although i know i wasn't ready for a relationship.so as time progressed i began to like her more ...
A. 13 August 2015: I will give yo the same advice I give to anyone in your situation.
SHE has a BF, she has CHOSEN to BE with him because she loves him and care for him.
It's really THAT simple. SHE has a partner. That makes HER off limits.
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Am I being unreasonable for feeling like this? Do you think I should ask him to at least meet me at the entrance?
Q. Hello Dear Cupids I have been seeing a man as just friends for about three months, we only see each other every couple of weeks or so as we live about 90 miles apart. We've been out for meals and outings and he's always been very attentive - flow...
A. 13 August 2015: You could suggest a compromise.
You park at the outskirt of the village (let's say the event opens at 8am) and he picks you up there at 7.40am - plenty of time to park at the "members area" and you two walk in together.
I DO think he should ... (read in full...)
I need help to convince my girl to give me another chance after a rough break-up. Help, what can I do? or say?
Q. I broke my gf heart when I left her for six month and now I feel horrible because I felt what i did to her. A week ago she told me she met someone new. I am devastated, I only left her because I was in so much pain from my grandmother and father d...
A. 12 August 2015: Yep, that is the right approach.
Though, if you WANT to toot your horn a little before going silent, tell her that you RESPECT her wishes and her and will henceforth leave her be.
... (read in full...)
Am I being stupid? I just feel like I've worked really hard and I have tons of holiday days left to take from work and I just don't want to sit at home!
Q. So I don't want this to come across as being very spoilt or like I'm entitled but me and my other half of 4 years have been saving for a deposit for our own place, this year after having a special event on at work I have been working 12 days on and ...
A. 12 August 2015: Go on your own!
Trust me! I took 10 days in Tuscany on a solo vacation it was amazing. It was about a year after my first BF and I broke up and I just needed to get out and away.
I stayed at a family run B&B, rented a scooter and just saw the... (read in full...)
We've been together 6 years and still his ex keeps contacting him. How can this woman be discouraged?
Q. Dear cupid me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 years and his ex girlfriend won't leave him alone. She keeps pushing him about wanting to know if he is still in love with her. What can we do about her ...
A. 12 August 2015: Do they have kids together or not?
If not? Why can't your BF, block/unfriend/whatever from his phone and social websites? Or get a new number? I doubt she KEEPS doing this if there is absolutely no reply from him. Or if she got blocked.
If they... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is so insecure he is constantly accusing me of cheating and I haven't!
Q. I have a major problem. My boyfriend is 4 years younger than me (he just turned 20) and is SO insecure! I havent cheated on him yet from the very beginning he's accused me of it. He always says sorry when we fight about it, and that hes just ...
A. 12 August 2015: Do you two live togehter?
If so, you NEED to work on getting out and away.
I GET that he is your best friend, but it's NOT a healthy friends OR relationship.
As for him hurting himself to get you to stay - manipulation. Pure and s... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says that he owns me and will say he wants to hurt me during sex. Is this the beginning of an abusive relationship?
Q. I started dating my boyfriend coming up for a year now. I'm 25 and he's 45. From the moment we met we got on great and always love being in each others company. But a few months ago I had a night out and he went very weird with me saying he didn't ...
A. 12 August 2015: I agree with SVC
It's already abusive.
He doesn't OWN you. What a total DICKWEED! He is manipulative, controlling and using you as he person little lolita f-doll.
My guess is he thinks he is Christian Grey from that f-up book, 50 shades of ... (read in full...)
Why do most guys like big boobs so much?
Q. Why do most men (especially guys my age...) like big boobs so much? As I see it, it's just extra fat! And last time I checked, for men, too much fat is bad. I have small breasts and feel so inadequate. Breasts are so "out there" (unlike a penis - ...
A. 12 August 2015: Just like SOME men prefer big boobs, some women prefer tall big men.
A tall man is as noticeable in the "landscape" as big boobs are on a women.
I think it's a primitive mindset, where big boobs = can feed babies. Tall man = protection.
E... (read in full...)
He wanted to have sex without a condom and even lied saying he didn't have one!
Q. I was seeing a guy for a few dates and i liked him a huge amount. We were getting along really well and I think he liked me a lot too. We started having sex fairly soon after meeting because we were drunk the first time we met, which sort of paved ...
A. 12 August 2015: First off, may I correct you on something very basic in life?
You said: "it's the man's job to protect the girl from pregnancy etc "
NO NO NO - it's not. It's his JOB to use condoms to prevent as many STD/STI and Unwanted pregnancies, IF ... (read in full...)
Are failed relationships a source and cause of our anxiety?
Q. Are failed relationships the cause of our anxiety? There are many people out there who suffer from anxiety or depression or both. I have found during the first 20 years of my life (when I wasn't in a relationship) that I was happy go lucky, d...
A. 12 August 2015: No, I don't think it's as simple as JUST shouldn't have dated ever!!
You have also grown and learned things about yourself though the good and the bad that you other wise would have missed out on.
Wanting to "go back" to a more uncomplicated pa... (read in full...)
Should I message my work crush?
Q. Hi there... So a few weeks ago a new guy started at work and he gets the same bus to and from work as me. He is totally gorgeous and I fancied him as soon as I saw him. Now after a few weeks of awkward eye contact and the occasional smile if we pass ...
A. 12 August 2015: I agree, the saying don't shit where you eat always rings to mind. (it's a little crude, but it makes sense)
Just like don't DATE where you work. Your place of work is where you are expected to be professional, dating co-workers can bring drama an... (read in full...)
Should I not initiate contact and just wait to see if my old FWB will say how he feels?
Q. Hi I met man four years ago and it became clear he wanted a Fwb thing, I initially thought okay but then got feelings for him and told him couldn't do it anymore. We stayed in touch and nit long ago he asked me out, I saw him five times in a ...
A. 12 August 2015: EDIT/correction:
I don think he likes you, but I'm not sure he "likes" relationships.
Should have read:
I DO think he likes you, but I'm not sure he "likes" relationships.
... (read in full...)
Should I not initiate contact and just wait to see if my old FWB will say how he feels?
Q. Hi I met man four years ago and it became clear he wanted a Fwb thing, I initially thought okay but then got feelings for him and told him couldn't do it anymore. We stayed in touch and nit long ago he asked me out, I saw him five times in a ...
A. 12 August 2015: I think since nothing of note (as in what YOU would like to see happening) has happened in 4 years that you should look at him as a platonic friend and nothing more.
IF he was really interested in more, would he not have tried to talk to you abou... (read in full...)
I've been working myself sick to pay rent for a house which doesn't even have my name on the contract. Should I just go back to my family home?
Q. Me and my fiance have been together for 2 and a half years. 6 months ago we moved into a flat with his brother and his brothers fiance. I got a job so I could move in and all was ok. The job is ridiculous hours but needed to pay the rent and I'm ...
A. 12 August 2015: Seems like they "allowed" you to move in to lower their costs and get a "free" maid on top.
Call your parents, if they are OK with it, move back home.
As for having a job, KEEP working, keep earning YOUR KEEP which means when you move back ho... (read in full...)
Should I continue ignoring her or should I explain her that I'm not in for it?
Q. hi cupid, I am in a sort of a dilemma here. Well, there is a lass that I know around my campus for over two years and about two months ago, we started talking more over social media (whatsapp,facebook etc). I always felt that she really liked me...
A. 12 August 2015: Hinting is not going to work, ignoring her is not going to work.
Being a honest person will. Just tell her, I'm not looking to have a FWB with you, or casual sex it's just not for me.
She will then either back off or revert to talking as frien... (read in full...)
Was he trying to make me feel jealous?
Q. If a guy friend starts telling you about how another girl was telling him he had beautiful eyes and that she's really into him, and then when you say "that's great", he asks you if your jealous was he trying to make you jealous? It's not like I s...
A. 12 August 2015: I agree with Tisha.
Sounds like he is trying to "fluff" himself, maybe because he likes you or maybe because he just like to have his ego rubbed.
If you are not interested in him, it's pretty easy to nip in the bud. Like Tisha explained.... (read in full...)
Is it ok to be in a hotel room with a guy you are just meeting?
Q. Hello Aunts, I just met a likeable guy some days back and we started talking. So we've decided to hang out but his place is quite far from mine and he suggested we lodge in a hotel room together. Is it okay to be in a hotel room with a guy you are ...
A. 12 August 2015: No, it's NOT smart.
I absolutely agree with Auntie BimBim... WHERE is your sense of self-preservation? Where is your common sense?
You meet someone (YOU REALLY DON'T KNOW) in a public place, you make sure someone (friend/family) ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is so insecure he is constantly accusing me of cheating and I haven't!
Q. I have a major problem. My boyfriend is 4 years younger than me (he just turned 20) and is SO insecure! I havent cheated on him yet from the very beginning he's accused me of it. He always says sorry when we fight about it, and that hes just ...
A. 12 August 2015: YIKES!
Insecure or not the boy has a few loose wiring there. Someone who CONSTANTLY accuses their partner of cheating DO NOT trust their partner. So HE doesn't trust you AT all. WIthout trust.. you don't have much to build this relation... (read in full...)
I need help to convince my girl to give me another chance after a rough break-up. Help, what can I do? or say?
Q. I broke my gf heart when I left her for six month and now I feel horrible because I felt what i did to her. A week ago she told me she met someone new. I am devastated, I only left her because I was in so much pain from my grandmother and father d...
A. 12 August 2015: I'm sorry for your losses, losing a loved one is never easy.
SHE lost a loved one (you) when you decided to just "piss off" for 6 months, she did her grieving (over you) and moved on.
Showing grief, sharing grief doesn't make a man look weak. W... (read in full...)
I have been chatting with a girl I suspect is a well-known athlete. Should I reveal my suspicion or let her reveal that to me?
Q. I met a wonderful girl online. We chatted a lot about things dear to us like our hobbies, our pets, our experiences and our views on life. After a few times chatting I gleaned enough info from her to realize that she is actually sort of a celeb...
A. 12 August 2015: Nope, let HER share that when SHE is ready.
If she SHE who you think she is... and you tell her "I know who you are and it doesn't matter!" she might bolt.
If she is not... who you think she is... she might bolt too, because she will feel li... (read in full...)
The guy is all over the place and I can't figure out what he wants
Q. Hi, I'm just looking for a little advice. I've been dating this guy. Not long. 3 weeks but in those 3 weeks we had in excess of 10 dates. It was going well. Then one night I was staying at his and we got a little closer than we had previously (...
A. 12 August 2015: Definitely block him and let it go.
If you are not ready to date again, don't. Just remember to NOT hold the next guy accountable for this one's behavior.
I think WiseOwlE is right is calling him a drama-queen. And I suspect that the ex wasn... (read in full...)
Husband suddenly showing physical agression, how worried should I be?
Q. Married for 15 years, we learned to deal with each others faults and most notably his short fuse, shouting and verbal abuse. He's been seeing a shrink for years now. HE was NEVER physically abusive. And yeas, he has some great qualities too (he's ...
A. 11 August 2015: Consulting a lawyer would be a good idea.
The friend that came to visit, is she able to help you in any way get on your feet?
And I would still look for a shelter if this escalate even further, I can't imagine there is nothing out there to hel... (read in full...)
Could this man even know what true love is? Is he crazy?
Q. I know curiosity killed the cat however, I need to know if I am the only one that thinks my ex is nuts. To recap several yrs. my ex was in an abusive marriage for 14 yrs- the abuse was on both ends, she leaves him for another man and then he hooks ...
A. 11 August 2015: I think mystiquek nailed it.
I think he is afraid of being alone. Growing old alone. He can sustain "great passion" for someone, but only for a short time - then he decides that HE can find better.
Maybe he had a very domineering moth... (read in full...)
It feels like cheating. How have others in this situation handled things?
Q. I hate myself for doing what I said I'd never do. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years and I recently started talking to an old friend, we've been casually flirting nothing serious but now I feel like I've been cheating and I don't ...
A. 11 August 2015: IF you know it's "wrong" to do in a relationship, then why haven't you stopped it yet?
I'm sure if it was your BF flirting online with a female "friend" you wouldn't like it either, am I right?
So stop it. Cut the dude off.
Own your action... (read in full...)
I'm interested in a guy at work but am not good at flirting and am wondering if I should pursue things?
Q. I've been single for a while now, and I thought I was looking for some fun (had some bad experience with past relationships), but I've realised enough is enough, I'm not going out of my way to find a guy but I am sneakily looking lol.. Anyway, I...
A. 11 August 2015: I will say what I usually say in these cases... Don't shit where you eat. Which means.. don't DATE where you work. You are there to work, not flirt or use the male coworkers as your sole dating pool.
Yeah, I get that he is cute, but what if he ha... (read in full...)
How do you know if a lady is single or not? Do you go by a ring?
Q. Hello everyone, this question is more for the ladies. When I'm out I have mentioned before that from time to time I see a woman that I would like to approach. What holds me back many times is if I see a ring. If that's the case I won't approach. If ...
A. 11 August 2015: I don't wear rings, I haven't since my wedding band got stolen - I did get a replacement... but it just didn't feel comfortable wearing and... I'm not a jewelry kind of person.
So yes, ASK. It's really not that hard to slip that question into a c... (read in full...)
My girlfriend was sexually assaulted and our sex life is almost nonexistent
Q. I have been dating my girlfriend for almost 2 years now, she was sexually assaulted about a year before we started dating. She has always been timid of sex and I have tried to be very understanding. In 2 years time our sex life has actually declined ...
A. 11 August 2015: Did she have any kind of counseling after the sexual assault? If not, maybe gently suggest she tries that?
As for your sex life with her, it may NOT improve at all. She may get flashback or fear getting flashback when it comes down to intimacy... (read in full...)
Do I let my wife have a threesome with 2 guys? I feel I'll lose either way
Q. My wife wants me to watch her have sex with 2 of my buddys Do most girls want to have sex with 2 guys at the same time ??? I don't know what to tell her. If I say no. ??? She may cheat. ?? If I say yes she may always wAnt it. ???...
A. 11 August 2015: I agree 100% with Janniepeg.
If it's not something you WANT in your marriage - say no. Yes, she might cheat and then what? Then you divorce her. IF you agree to it, you give her all the power and keep none.
And no I don't think ALL women wants ... (read in full...)
How do you get popular?
Q. How do you get popular in life? I see people on facebook get so many likes meaning that peple like them. I know it's shallow to think or shallow way of thinking but why are some people more popular or well liked then others? Just wondering. What'...
A. 11 August 2015: Likes on Facebook doesn't mean people LIKE them.... just like what they post. Just like the number of Facebook "friends" doesn't mean someone is more liked than someone with less. I know people who will add anyone and then promptly forget about ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I am lesbian gay or straight and I'm really confused!
Q. I can't handle not knowing for sure anymore, am I bisexual or straight? I have been attracted to boys since I was 3, not in a sexual way obviously, and I am 17 turning 18 in a couple months now. I've never had feelings for girls, in a romantic way ...
A. 10 August 2015: Honey, this is the 5th post with this question, no one here has a crystal ball that will 100% LABEL you one thing or the other.
I know that it seems WAY more out there for young people to WANT to have a label for their sexual orientation, like ban... (read in full...)
I think I'm on the untrustworthy woman from college's target list to be friends and don't want to be, so what can I do?
Q. There is a woman who lives very near to where I do and goes to the same college as me who I do not trust and don't want to be friends with but she has what I think is a 'strategy' of being absolutely charming to everyone, usually with her own goals ...
A. 10 August 2015: Maybe she senses your panic too?
She seems like a person who reads people well, most manipulators do, they just forget that not everyone LIKES to discover they are being manipulated ( like the people who will have nothing to do wit her).
... (read in full...)
What are the chances we might conceive a deaf child?
Q. Not really a relationship question but maybe someone knows the answer to my question! My boyfriend and I are trying for a baby. My boyfriend was adopted and doesn't know his birth parents. He has very little information but he does know that his ...
A. 10 August 2015: Just wanted to add this.
I'm 80% deaf in one ear, 40% in the other (or so) thought it was due to having been thrown of my horse and having two concussion in one month... Turned out.. I have othosclerosis which is caused by abnormal bone remodeli... (read in full...)
Why do women do this? why allude that we have a future and then jump ship in the middle of the ocean?
Q. I've been trying to date a friend of mine for a few months. She said she didn't want a relationship. And I never forced her hand. So for months you don't want a relationship, but you were cool with us talking all night on the phone, video chatting...
A. 10 August 2015: If she likes to play games she is not happy that you don't play along.
She knew sooner (as soon as you removed her on FB) but she is now "pretending" she had no clue as to why....
Trust me she knows.
The friend of yours who knew her... (read in full...)
He's caught in the middle of me and his friends, so what more can I do?
Q. OK I'm in quite a dilemma, I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now, and it's getting difficult to cope with his friends not liking me. In April my boyfriend and his friends were out and I turned up super late because of a birthday I was p...
A. 10 August 2015: I remember all your other posts on this subject and I will give the same advice as before...
Don't date someone who has shitty friends, because IT IS a reflection of him. If they treat you like dirt, and he does nothing? A reflection of WHO he i... (read in full...)
Has anyone else had a misunderstanding stemming from text messages?
Q. Thank you in advance to all who take the time to respond to this question. It is summer and everyone is busy so thank you. I have had a major text argument with a long time friend. The problem with text is people can get confused about the tone. Th...
A. 10 August 2015: JUST pick up the phone and call her. Talk it though.
I only use texting for "emergencies" (like to hubby - pick up a gallon on milk" - going to b 15 minutes late etc) I don't USE texting for having conversation.... (read in full...)
I care much less how I look since our breakup, what's wrong with me and what should I do?
Q. What is wrong with me? Before me and my ex broke up or he left after HE cheated 7 months ago I care less and less of how I look sure I go to the gym but I make zero effort to look good. Before I used to always dress up but it was usually for school ...
A. 10 August 2015: Right now you have no one "special" to impress with dressing up so you are in a "slob slump". It's not uncommon for girls (especially) to get those while getting over a guy. Because they think it will keep others away. It's easier to wallow in "woe ... (read in full...)
I'm not funny, are girls put off by guys like me?
Q. Girls say all the time that they want guys who are funny, well the truth is, that not everybody can make everybody laugh and be the life of the party. Some guys like me are not funny or sarcastic and generally don't have a sense of humor. I'll n...
A. 10 August 2015: For me, humor is vital. It's not the most important trait I'd look for in a mate. It doesn't mean you have to material like a stand-up comic or constantly be the "class-crown" in the relationship.
Being serious and reserved doesn't = doesn't ... (read in full...)
I think I'm on the untrustworthy woman from college's target list to be friends and don't want to be, so what can I do?
Q. There is a woman who lives very near to where I do and goes to the same college as me who I do not trust and don't want to be friends with but she has what I think is a 'strategy' of being absolutely charming to everyone, usually with her own goals ...
A. 10 August 2015: This is a WHOLE long obsessive post about a woman you DO NOT like you and feel threatened by..
DO like so many others have done and have nothing to do with her.
You are not her shrink and there is NO point in trying to figure out why and what... (read in full...)
What are the chances we might conceive a deaf child?
Q. Not really a relationship question but maybe someone knows the answer to my question! My boyfriend and I are trying for a baby. My boyfriend was adopted and doesn't know his birth parents. He has very little information but he does know that his ...
A. 10 August 2015: Best thing to do if you want to know this with any accuracy is to have Genetic counseling done. They test both of you genes for traits that can be passed down.
http://www.genetics.ie/clinical/
This might give you more info - speaking statist... (read in full...)
Why do women do this? why allude that we have a future and then jump ship in the middle of the ocean?
Q. I've been trying to date a friend of mine for a few months. She said she didn't want a relationship. And I never forced her hand. So for months you don't want a relationship, but you were cool with us talking all night on the phone, video chatting...
A. 10 August 2015: Why does she care? Well, for one... you USED to give her a lot of attention and now you don't...
If she is not one for deep meaningful relationship, doesn't mean she isn't a attention monger. So was this the first time you heard from her in 5 day... (read in full...)
Husband suddenly showing physical agression, how worried should I be?
Q. Married for 15 years, we learned to deal with each others faults and most notably his short fuse, shouting and verbal abuse. He's been seeing a shrink for years now. HE was NEVER physically abusive. And yeas, he has some great qualities too (he's ...
A. 9 August 2015: I'm sorry you are stuck between a rock and a hard place, but I have to ask... is it worth it to live with this man to get citizenship?
If you have been married a while an you work you have SOME kind of legal standing. As in the process for immi... (read in full...)
Husband suddenly showing physical agression, how worried should I be?
Q. Married for 15 years, we learned to deal with each others faults and most notably his short fuse, shouting and verbal abuse. He's been seeing a shrink for years now. HE was NEVER physically abusive. And yeas, he has some great qualities too (he's ...
A. 8 August 2015: Do you like Stephen King?
Read Rose Madder.
Then rethink your marriage.... (read in full...)
Husband suddenly showing physical agression, how worried should I be?
Q. Married for 15 years, we learned to deal with each others faults and most notably his short fuse, shouting and verbal abuse. He's been seeing a shrink for years now. HE was NEVER physically abusive. And yeas, he has some great qualities too (he's ...
A. 8 August 2015: No, you are not blowing this out of proportions.
I would 1. refuse to ride bikes with him any more. If he then throws a fit, you WALK away. You tell him, I want to talk but I will NOT be your punching bag. Tell him when he wants to push your lim... (read in full...)
Why do women do this? why allude that we have a future and then jump ship in the middle of the ocean?
Q. I've been trying to date a friend of mine for a few months. She said she didn't want a relationship. And I never forced her hand. So for months you don't want a relationship, but you were cool with us talking all night on the phone, video chatting...
A. 5 August 2015: I agree with pretty much everything Auntie Cindy said.
She was honest when she said I don't want a relationship. But she wasn't finishing that sentence. Like Cindy pointed out.. it should be "I don't want a relationship with YOU" or "I don't wa... (read in full...)
The guy is all over the place and I can't figure out what he wants
Q. Hi, I'm just looking for a little advice. I've been dating this guy. Not long. 3 weeks but in those 3 weeks we had in excess of 10 dates. It was going well. Then one night I was staying at his and we got a little closer than we had previously (...
A. 2 August 2015: I agree with Cindy.
The guy is still hung up on the ex, no matter how "bad" of a GF she was... he is still hurting from the break up and he is still hung up on her.
I get that you are upset that he went out on 10+ dates and didn't tell you,... (read in full...)
We've been together 6 years and still his ex keeps contacting him. How can this woman be discouraged?
Q. Dear cupid me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 years and his ex girlfriend won't leave him alone. She keeps pushing him about wanting to know if he is still in love with her. What can we do about her ...
A. 29 July 2015: "WE" can't do anything.
YOU can't do anything about it either, except tell him to DEAL with it once and for all.
If they do not have kids together, HE can block her number and cut the contact 100%.
If they DO have kids together HE needs t... (read in full...)
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