Are there any couples out there who are 100% faithful to one another?
Q. I dont know if it's because Ive been reading the articles on this site too often (this being a relationship help site and all), but it seems that everywhere I look, people are unfaithful to each other. Im basically asking, are there any couples ...
A. 25 January 2011: Been married since April 1975. We have been totally faithful to each other (other than his Playboy collection which he only keeps because of the wonderful articles).... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has slept with 6 women, but he's my first. It bothers me!
Q. I've been with my bf for 2 years and when we met I was a virgin and he had slept with 6 other people. I love him a lot but I find this incredibly hard to deal with sometimes. Sometimes it does't bother me, but when I think about it it weirds me out. ...
A. 25 January 2011: Other than hiring Superman to spin the world around backwards there's nothing to be done about your boyfriend's past. But keeping in contact with past lovers is something altogether different. Is he just old friends with them now? Why exactly are ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend claims he love me. So why does he sleep around?
Q. If my boyfriend says he loves me, then why does he engage in casual sex with others? ...
A. 25 January 2011: 'cause you let him.... (read in full...)
I regret moving my ex back in, I want her out tonight!
Q. So right to it.I made a huge mistake feeling me and my ex gf could start off fresh. She lost her job which was my opening to start fresh. She moved in with me 2 months ago but I'm not feeling it. I want her out but she doesn't have the money or any ...
A. 25 January 2011: I agree with Honeypie, the sooner you tell her the sooner she can start making plans to move her family out of your place. Be honest and fair, and try to act honorably with your other girlfriend until the ex is out of the picture.... (read in full...)
Should I just end it and let him go while it's not too late? Or give it a shot while doubting him?
Q. I am 26 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now. We are colleagues and we see each other almost 24/7. I think this is why we argue so much about little things. We constantly stay at home because we are so tired from work ...
A. 25 January 2011: Why not just relax and take it nice and slowly. Maybe not seeing each other 24/7 but more like a few times a week. In other words just let each other have some space and see where things go.... (read in full...)
Should I believe the rumours that my girlfriend is cheating on me
Q. Ok, so i'm 14 and I know everyone will be like 'ohh your too young for this' or something, but i'm serious. I love my girlfriend, but does she love me back? I know she does marijuana and cigarettes, and I know everyone is telling me she is cheating ...
A. 25 January 2011: She sounds like she needs counseling, lots and lots of it. My advice to you is to cut bait and run, just heartache and drama with this chick.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says he cant promise he will ever love me, is there reason to stay?
Q. So here's my story. I am in the active duty military at my first duty station, a week after getting here I start hooking up with this really cute guy that I developed a crush for in my platoon. Well the hooking up became into something more and we ...
A. 25 January 2011: I think you should sit back and take some deep breaths. Nothing has to be done immediately. You are still recovering from the loss of your baby. Just relax for the next 6 weeks and try to find some peace. Once you are feeling more like yourself and ... (read in full...)
I need to absolve myself with the truth but don't know where to begin
Q. I love dearly and passionately a man twice my age, who is married with a beautiful child. His wife and him are separated for the time being, though they have been separated before and reconciled in attempt to make the relationship work for the ...
A. 25 January 2011: I suggest you find a third man and forget all about the first and second man.... (read in full...)
How will I forget her if I leave her
Q. heeey....i knew a woman...loved her...met a lot....then i knew that she was married...she told me... we are in the same age....she is married for 6 months....her husband works abroad...only come home twice a year...i believe that she loves me...i ...
A. 25 January 2011: I gave my advice on your other identical post.... (read in full...)
Married to a good guy but still wants me
Q. heeey....i knew a woman...loved her...met a lot....then i knew that she was married...she told me... we are in the same age....she is married for 6 months....her husband works abroad...only come home twice a year...i believe that she loves me...i ...
A. 25 January 2011: Stop all contact and eventually she will become a dim memory. But that will happen only if you STOP ALL CONTACT. ... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend has a new man, how do I win her back?
Q. I am in a situation was with my girlfriend for 13yrs, we had no kids as i have a low count but she had a son from her first marriage, we never married it wasnt really dicussed, but we got on regardless...life was good but ...... she was always ...
A. 25 January 2011: She knows where to find you. If you love her so very much then sit back and wait it out. Just remember life is short.... (read in full...)
How do I know if she's having an orgasm or just faking it?
Q. I'm sure this question has been posted time and time again, but I want an answer for my particular case. I'm 17, and just starting having sex with a girlfriend of mine (also 17) a few months ago. I really care about her and want nothing more tha...
A. 24 January 2011: Watch the movie "When Harry Met Sally".... (read in full...)
I feel I'm married to the wrong person!
Q. I am 36 and been married for more than 2 years. I feel I married the wrong person. From marriage day she just started being rude to me. As if she thinks she has finally trapped me and therefore can do whatever she likes. She wants to live lavishly ...
A. 24 January 2011: First off, open a separate bank account and start putting some of your paycheck in it every pay day. She can't spend what she doesn't have. If AFTER you and she have a nice long chat about finances and each person's responsibilities around the home ... (read in full...)
I don't think my wife is in love with me any more. What are my options?
Q. My wife is not in love with me.She says she is but she always putting me down.I'm a pretty laid back person and now i'm tired of it...
A. 24 January 2011: Definitely need more information. How long have you been married? How are your finances? How is your sex life? Has your marriage been happy up until recently?... (read in full...)
What are the possible consequences from unprotected sex?
Q. i had unprotected sex on monday and didn't shower, the next day i got oral pleasure from a different girl the next day still not clean. what are the possible consequences?...
A. 24 January 2011: This post made me kinda throw up in my mouth.... (read in full...)
He talked about marriage but now says he doesn't love me?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for a very long time and we are always on and off. He always tells me he loves me and he always drops little hints about marriage. I have never brought up marriage to him even though I wanted to marry him. We got into a ...
A. 24 January 2011: I know I'D be thinking that I was just wasting my time with this guy. Why aren't you thinking that as well? ... (read in full...)
If a guy was truly mind blowing in bed, would you try get him into bed with you just for one night?
Q. If you heard about a guy who was spectacular in bed, like he was TRULY amazing and could give you multiple intense orgasms, was great at cuddling and foreplay, would this make you flirt with him and try get him into bed with you? I mean, why no...
A. 24 January 2011: What makes you think he's bisexual? Not everyone is you know.... (read in full...)
Does he have a right to keep this information to himself?
Q. Hello, I have a problem with my fiance he has stomach pains so he went to the hospital for treatment, i asked him what the doctor said ! he ingorned my question and kept on saying to me to take care of my health. I dont know really i feel le...
A. 21 January 2011: Just curious, do any of you aunts/uncles know if certain STD's can cause abdominal pain?... (read in full...)
She chose her husband over me, but still wants to talk! Why is this and how do I deal with it?
Q. I have been seeing a married woman for about 8 months. I’m a single male. She decided to stay with her hubby. I do love this gal and have for years before this started. I love talking with her. We have weekend places very close to each other. This ...
A. 21 January 2011: If you like riding around in her back pocket, then by all means carry on. But if you would like to find someone to snuggle with on those cold winter nights then tell her to talk to the hand and move on.... (read in full...)
Years later I wonder why she tormented me
Q. A story when I was 12 and in 7th grade. First let me explain that then, I was a nice, good guy when it came to girls. I never checked girls out or anything like that even if I wanted to because I always thought is was disrespectful to do so. I ...
A. 20 January 2011: You know Buddy in this life sometimes you just don't get all the answers. My guess however is that she did like you and was trying to get your attention however and whenever she could. But really now it's time to just put this memory behind you and ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's female friends doesn't like me and avoids me
Q. My boyfriend loves me, and I love him and things have been going better and better lately. But he has one old friend who is a girl, NOT EVER a romantic attachment, who studiously avoids me at social gatherings. Once when he wasn't there, s...
A. 20 January 2011: Yeah maybe your boyfriend never thought of her in a romantic way, her actions sure indicate to me that there's a good chance she views him in a romatic light. Give her the space she needs, you have the guy after all.... (read in full...)
I am hooked on this mystery with a very private man!
Q. I have not been so out of wits in relationships...this man totally confuses me to the extent that i have no idea if he is using me, or lying to me, or he is so into me that he worries and withdraws.... we met on line and were attracted to eac...
A. 20 January 2011: Hell yes he's married!... (read in full...)
My husband treats his ex-wife better than he treats me!
Q. I am newly married but am frustrated as my husband still pays everything for his ex-wife even though he is not legally obligated to do so. His legal resposiblity at this point is child support and alimony (which is supposed to end in a few more ...
A. 19 January 2011: I agree with Ms Anonymous. You should have dealt with all this long before you married the guy. It's kind of late in the scheme of things to try and rearrange things now. If you have discussed this with him and he thinks you are being ridiculous ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my girlfriend's irrational behavior?
Q. Yesterday my girlfriend and I had another fight and she provoqued me by saying she had no money to buy the plane ticket so I should be the one doing it. I did it. When she saw I could do it she started to play victim saying that she didn't want to ...
A. 18 January 2011: I pick A and B, and I gotta add that I can't believe you are playing these high school games at your age. She sounds like a nut case to me.... (read in full...)
Should I have a one-night stand to get pregnant as I really want a baby!
Q. Hi cupids. Im 18 now and id prefer if i werent prejudged but when i was 14 i fell pregnant to an older man who was abusing me for 2 years 12-14. When i fell pregnant i spoke to a lovely lady nurse about what had been happening and she helped me ...
A. 14 January 2011: If all you care about is yourself and don't give a rat's ass about your baby then go ahead. And you'd better hope he/she won't ever have any medical problems because not knowing the father's medical history plus knowing his entire family, you might ... (read in full...)
No christmas or birthday card from my boyfriend, is it OK for me to be upset?
Q. I wrote on here a few weeks ago about how my boyfriend of 5 months didn't get me even a card for Christmas after I got him a $200 gift. My birthday was a week later and I did not get even a card for that either. Am I being a baby or do I have a r...
A. 14 January 2011: When his birthday comes around be sure to show him the lovely gift you bought for yourself... (read in full...)
I don't want to think about sex 24/7!
Q. Oka i have a very huge sexual appetite...i mean i like it just about every hour on the hour but i cant get it like that. I dont care where we are or whos around..my girls the same way though so she keeps me pretty satisfied. Heres the problem ...
A. 13 January 2011: Wear a rubberband around your wrist. Snap it really really hard whenever you don't want to think about sex.... (read in full...)
What 'unknown' condition could it be that stops a girl from having sex?
Q. I was recently speaking to my girlfriend about sex, and she kind of let slip that she 'until recently' couldn't actually have sex because of a medical condition. She said only that is was apparently not that rare, and now it is fine (presumably ...
A. 13 January 2011: Virginity is a condition.... (read in full...)
How long will a woman chase a man by phone only?
Q. How long will a woman chase a man if the chasing can only be done by phone? How can I shorten the chase and how can I drag it out if needed? Please at least let me know if you are male or female....
A. 13 January 2011: Yeah I always forget to factor in the weekend, and of course the weather can play into it as well...and footwear but I'm with Cindy..Tally Ho...not that I'm name calling...... (read in full...)
Is it normal that my fiance's mother still talks to his ex girlfriends?
Q. I'd like to know a simple thing. Is it normal for my mother in law to still insist on talking to my fiance's exes? Because I find it bizaare. For me, once an ex is an ex, they are that exactly an EX part of my life, none existant. I cut them out of ...
A. 13 January 2011: I don't think this is bizarre at all. She most likely really liked these ladies and considers them to be friends. Your boyfriend must be a great judge of people and have excellent taste. Don't let it bother you, it shouldn't.... (read in full...)
I am insecure about certain parts of my body
Q. I have an insecurity problem about certain parts of my body - my wife says she doesn't care about them and they make no difference to our relationship. I have asked her to show me some extra love if possible when I am a little down or reminded...
A. 13 January 2011: Not only is constant reassurance not sexy, it's exhausting. You'd best address this insecurity before she decides she needs a permanent vaction.... (read in full...)
How long will a woman chase a man by phone only?
Q. How long will a woman chase a man if the chasing can only be done by phone? How can I shorten the chase and how can I drag it out if needed? Please at least let me know if you are male or female....
A. 13 January 2011: DB you know I love you, but I'm positive it is 3.2 days.... (read in full...)
Since we got engaged he is getting more and more mean, and refuses to seek help for his anger problems. Help!
Q. Hello, I've been dating my guy for two and a half years. We got engaged around our two year anniversary and have set a wedding date. Since the moment we have gotten engaged he has been progressively more mean. We have had fights before, he would...
A. 7 January 2011: He said himself that he will never change...Believe it.... (read in full...)
How can I persuade my parents to let us in my room during the day?
Q. I'm 14 years old, and my boyfriend is 17. We've been together for about 2 months, he isn't one of these older boys who are just after sex or anything, he is a really decent lad. I persuaded my mum and dad to let him sleep round at the weekend. They ...
A. 7 January 2011: You could talk to me until you were blue in the face and I would never be persuaded. I'm in total agreement with CG, your parents are just doing their job. Consider yourself lucky, I wouldn't allow my daughters to even date at 14.... (read in full...)
Do guys like their hair being played with?
Q. Do guys like to have there hair played with? Not just when kissing...
A. 7 January 2011: I asked my husband, he said "very funny". Apparently bald people don't have a sense of humor.... (read in full...)
How do you get rid of boredom?
Q. How do you get rid of boredom?...
A. 6 January 2011: My mother always told me "Only boring people get bored".... (read in full...)
Can a gorgeous woman NOT be selfish, entitled, or cynical about men?
Q. I know a woman who is beautiful. So beautiful that she gets noticed regularly and VIP treatment from people whenever she needs something. For example, when she damaged her fender she brought it to the auto body shop and they did not charge her ...
A. 6 January 2011: I don't think I'm cynical or selfish. Although I do get cranky sometimes.... (read in full...)
It hurts when he looks at other women
Q. Hi, I need some insights... My bf and I are in a great relationship for over a year and half, we love each other so much and we plan on getting married. But he's a MAN and he can't help looking at other women. I know, they say it's normal, "m...
A. 5 January 2011: I'd just tell him what you told us. It doesn't sound clingy to me and quite honestly I think when guys are ogling other women while out with one it is just plain bad manners. He certainly can learn do his gazing when he isn't with you. ... (read in full...)
Can a one night stand turn possibly turn into a relationship?
Q. Hello Can you ever get together with someone after a one night stand or have you completely blown it?? Any opinions?? Anyone ever got with anyone after this?? ...
A. 5 January 2011: I know of FWB relationships that have stemmed from one night stands but I don't know of any marriages that have. You have mostly blown a chance of a long term committed relationship with the guy but you may be in the running for a sex only type of ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants sex. I am only 13 and I don't know what to do. Help please!!
Q. me and my boyfriend have been dating for around 3 weeks and we have done all the basic oral. i am only 13 but he keeps talking about having sex with me and i dont know what do do help please!...
A. 5 January 2011: This post is over 4 years old, I'm betting she has a couple of kids by now.... (read in full...)
Is this all normal behavior during sex?
Q. Im in a new relationship and recently had sex with this man for the first time, during the act he spoke out about what he was seeing ie youve opened your legs wide for me, he shouted out on 3 occasions while looking away "fuckoff" as if to someone ...
A. 4 January 2011: Creepy very creepy... (read in full...)
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