Are these good baby names?
Q. I am hoping to have a boy. If I do, his name will be Kylan Jake. But if I have a girl, her name will be Joselyn Nicole. Do these names sound good? Please help!...
A. 22 March 2011: Almost 16? Okay that changes everything.... (read in full...)
Does ignoring someone you are attracted to make the attraction go away?
Q. Hi guys. Just a quick question for you... Why would two people who are really attracted to each other avoid or ignore one another? And, does this mean the attraction will go away or will it get worse? Wondering what you all think!...
A. 21 March 2011: Anyone married in this scenario?... (read in full...)
Should I tell my husband his mother is pressuring me to have a child?
Q. Hi, I am married since three years and we have healthy sex life we understand each other and both of us work in good organization. I am 26 and my hubby is 33. Me and my hubby have agreed that we will not have child till we have sound economic ...
A. 18 March 2011: How refreshing...people actually responsibly planning when to start a family! Next time the mother-in-law brings up a baby tell her to talk to your husband about it.... (read in full...)
Are these good baby names?
Q. I am hoping to have a boy. If I do, his name will be Kylan Jake. But if I have a girl, her name will be Joselyn Nicole. Do these names sound good? Please help!...
A. 18 March 2011: I am also hoping you are not pregnant. If you aren't, don't get that way for many more years. So going on the hopeful assumption that you aren't pregnant...my advice is for you to go get a puppy and name him Kevin.... (read in full...)
I have been waiting for her for 2 and a half years, how do I get her to leave her boyfriend for me?
Q. i love a girl and she also likes me but she is in relation with some another guy... i told her what i feel about her and i want to get commited with her and i am not able to forget her im truely and madly in love with her... i told her all this , ...
A. 18 March 2011: I think you've wasted enough time on her. She is carrying you around in her back pocket. If you want to spend your time as her plan B then fine, but all that time you could be out there actually finding someone who truly wants to be with you. This ... (read in full...)
How do I explain to my husband that his son is ruining our marriage?
Q. 5 yrs ago my husband and I got married. he had 2 children 14 yr old twins Mitchell and Megan. I love them like they are my own children but I feel like I have done all I can for them. Mitchell is a smart, talented boy that some where along the line ...
A. 18 March 2011: Where is the boy's biological mother?... (read in full...)
How can I leave this relationship?
Q. I'm in a bit of a pickle. My partner and I came to blows to the degree that he was arrested for domestic abuse. I panicked when he refused to get out of our home and after taking some hits I dialled '999'. I knew there and then that this was th...
A. 18 March 2011: First thing is to contact a lawyer. He/she will be able to tell you what you need to do. You may not have to be the one to leave your home. But really you need a lawyer to tell you your rights and to protect those rights. Do that ASAP.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend keeping relationship secret, odd situation...
Q. Hello, I'm 31, I've been renting a room in a house share (7 rooms in total, 3 on the ground floor where I am) for over 9 years. Last September a new girl moved in to the room next to me, she's now 21. Her (female) first cousin (also 21) moved ...
A. 18 March 2011: I totally agree that moving in with them would be something you'll regret. I too think they are more than just roomates. You can still see your friend but I think you should sit back and just assess the situation for awhile.... (read in full...)
My 16 year old daughter wants to move away to be with her boyfriend, what is the right thing for us to do?
Q. Our 16yr old daughter wants to leave home to live with her boyfriend and his family. They are both 16 and have been going out together for about two and a half years. He, the boyfriend, went to live with his mother after the xmas holidays. His mum ...
A. 17 March 2011: I would simply not allow any child of mine to move away from me at age 16...no matter what and no matter how many tears. When she is 18 and graduated, then maybe.... (read in full...)
I want to stop being a player!
Q. since ive start dating around 14 year old i became a player and now im 18 and still one how can i start by stop being a player....cause i want my relationship to work between me and that guy(my future husband)and my future baby's father ...
A. 16 March 2011: When you meet the right guy, this won't be an issue.... (read in full...)
B/f thinks if I have sex with another girl it will help our relationship
Q. Hello DC aunts and uncles. I'm in need of advice, I will make this short. My boyfriend honestly believes that if I have sex with another girl it would "help" our relationship. Personally thats a load of bull. I know it won't I know things will only ...
A. 16 March 2011: Nice try by your boyfriend! Tell him to watch some girl on girl porn and leave you out of it. What a tool. ... (read in full...)
Should I feel guilty for sleeping with a guy who has a gf?
Q. Should I feel guilty? Ok, I met this guy last summer. For some reasons I cant afford a relationship right now. So he and I were being casual. We just hang out sometimes and share bed time to time. Actually I thought he's kinda player becaus...
A. 15 March 2011: Excellent answer, anonymous male! ... (read in full...)
Caught in a torrid love affair with a married woman but she refuses to walk out of her loveless, boring marriage. Why???
Q. Okay....please refrain from excoriating and vilifying me because I know that I'm not supposed to partake in this endeavor, but I'm a little too deep into this game. I've been seeing this married woman who is five years my senior for about three ...
A. 15 March 2011: You know what, it just dawned on me, I think it's YOU who's stringing all of us along. You aren't looking for any advice, you just want attention. Thanks for wasting everybody's time.... (read in full...)
I miscarried and it was HER fault!!!!
Q. recently i fell pregnant now im only 14 so initially i was freaking out about it. i had told my boyfriend and he was going to support me on wanting to keep the baby. i told my best friend everything and she was happy for us although i never told my ...
A. 15 March 2011: I don't think for a moment that the hit to the stomach caused your miscarriage, that is, unless she used a 4x4. And even then the miscarriage would have happened immediately. Have you seen your doctor for a follow up yet? You are risking your health ... (read in full...)
Caught in a torrid love affair with a married woman but she refuses to walk out of her loveless, boring marriage. Why???
Q. Okay....please refrain from excoriating and vilifying me because I know that I'm not supposed to partake in this endeavor, but I'm a little too deep into this game. I've been seeing this married woman who is five years my senior for about three ...
A. 15 March 2011: She is stringing you along and you refuse to see it. You are going to be one very lonely old man if you don't wake up and wise up. Many years from now while she and her husband are snuggled on the couch surrounded by the grandkids, you'll be alone ... (read in full...)
My wife's friends husband flirts openly with her...and she sees no harm in it. Am I the only one who thinks this is weird?
Q. My wife's best friend's husband will openly flirt with my wife at social gatherings at there home. She says it is just his way and I have excepted that, even though I find it dis-respectful. My wife says it means nothing. Recently I have learned ...
A. 15 March 2011: Tell your wife to knock this nonsense off and to relay the message to the goofball before someone really gets hurt. She should know better.... (read in full...)
Why do some people deliberately try to wreck other people's lives?
Q. Any advice about people who deliberately try home wrecking and try to destroy other peoples happy relationships and happiness in general, why do people do this/. is it jealousy? or some other deep routed problem? if you see somebody happy in life i ...
A. 15 March 2011: A gazillion = heaps and scads plus 3... (read in full...)
Is it me that makes my man hit me???? Please help!
Q. I don't no what 2 do, my man think's all I'm good for is clean cook and if he not like what I say 2 him I get hit. But he blames me and said if I do what I am told he will not get cross with me and he will not do it 2 me. So is it me that makes him ...
A. 15 March 2011: In a way it IS your fault that he hits you. You are within hitting distance. Get the heck away from him and let him find another punching bag who will cook his slop and clean up his messes.... (read in full...)
Who should I believe... my boyfriend or my friends?
Q. My friends I havent seen in years, are telling me that my bf tried to play them but my other friends and boyfriend are telling me that they played him and i dont know who i should believe!!!! My friends are like my sisters and i love them but i love ...
A. 15 March 2011: Great, problem solved.... (read in full...)
My wife is pregnant and our sex life has stopped. Is this normal?
Q. Me and my wife had a great sex life but shes pregnant one and half months from now. We both missings our days but we're afraid of losing pregnancy. What should we do?...
A. 14 March 2011: Oral.... (read in full...)
Ideas to find alone time away from parents eyes?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are having a lot of trouble getting alone time, and being able to have a sexual relationship at all because our parents are like watch dogs. Hints towards getting alone time to express ourselves sexually?...
A. 14 March 2011: I was a watch dog parent until my kids were 18 so your parents have my total support on this one. Sorry but they are just doing their job.... (read in full...)
Why do some people deliberately try to wreck other people's lives?
Q. Any advice about people who deliberately try home wrecking and try to destroy other peoples happy relationships and happiness in general, why do people do this/. is it jealousy? or some other deep routed problem? if you see somebody happy in life i ...
A. 14 March 2011: You must realize there are a gazillion answers to a question like this?!... (read in full...)
Husband is a chronic liar and I cant handle it!
Q. OK so my husband is a cronic lier. I all the time find him in white lies and it makes me crazy. I love him but I can not handle the lying. We have only been married around a year. I have 2 kids from a previous marragge and he has 3. All are older ...
A. 14 March 2011: Chronic lying is a deep seated problem. I doubt he'll be able to shake the habit unless he gets some real professional help and of course he must truly have the desire to change. If he refuses to get help then I think you'd be better off without ... (read in full...)
Why is he having a harder time with his second divorce?
Q. When is my boyfriend have a harder time with his second divorce. They have no kids togather she treated him like shit. His first divorce had two kids...
A. 11 March 2011: Tell him the third time is the charm. ... (read in full...)
Question for Men ONLY!!!!
Q. Question for men only!!!! Did you go back to your girlfriend after pulling back from the relationship for a while?...
A. 11 March 2011: Bring your Aussie butt to North Carolina and make me. heh heh... (read in full...)
What did he mean by his comment?
Q. ok, maybe some of you can decipher this. what does it mean while having sex, your boyfriend grabs your thigh, squeezes it and says, this is what I want not some stick. I'm not fat, but I'm not a stick either. it totally took me out of the mood and i ...
A. 10 March 2011: I must remember to hit the refresh button before answering a post.... (read in full...)
What did he mean by his comment?
Q. ok, maybe some of you can decipher this. what does it mean while having sex, your boyfriend grabs your thigh, squeezes it and says, this is what I want not some stick. I'm not fat, but I'm not a stick either. it totally took me out of the mood and i ...
A. 10 March 2011: I think you are way over-thinking this. I think he actually was giving you a compliment. It doesn't mean he had to have had sex with a skinny girl to know he likes women with some meat on their bones. Relax.... (read in full...)
Is squirting fake?
Q. Hi guys!! Do women really squirt?? i read many articles stating that it is fake?...
A. 10 March 2011: I have been known to occasionally squirt....the grandkids with the garden hose. And Bernard is right, it is alot of fun.... (read in full...)
Why didn't he text back?
Q. My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me a few months ago, and we haven't talked since then. He sent me a text on New Years Day to wish me a Happy New Year. But he never sent me one on my birthday. Last week was his birthday and I sent him a ...
A. 10 March 2011: Sorry Babe, but "text" is on the wall, if you get my drift.... (read in full...)
How do I move on from this drug-addicted narcissist who now is expecting a baby with his new gf, the one he cheated on me with? Help!
Q. I had been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs and we have now been apart 2 yrs. He started seeing someone else when I became more independent and my mom was dying. Anyway, he is still with the woman he cheated on me with. I know he is a drug-addicted na...
A. 10 March 2011: Can you move further away?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't have my number saved in his phone!!!
Q. I've been seeing my boyfriend for a little over a year now. One day, he lost his phone at my place. We decided to use my phone to call it hoping to follow the sound of the ringer. When I found it ringing, I noticed that my number was not saved in ...
A. 10 March 2011: No biggie, like you said, he has it memorized and apparently doesn't find it difficult to type it in when he needs to. Don't sweat the small stuff.... (read in full...)
I'm 20, married, and have a 2 yr old. I have no car so I'm stuck at home all the time, and my husband doesn't help out at home. Help!
Q. Ok, I am 20 yrs old. I got married when I turned 19 I have a 2 yr old daughter. I’m really confused, I don’t know what I want and I don’t know what to do. I’m not happy, that much I know. I have no vehicle, and I sit in this house with my daughter ...
A. 10 March 2011: I don't think your husband will be "devastated" if you left. It sounds like he doesn't give a rat's ass about your marriage. I suggest you do exactly what HE suggested. Take your daughter and go live with your mom. Then look into getting a divorce ... (read in full...)
Question for Men ONLY!!!!
Q. Question for men only!!!! Did you go back to your girlfriend after pulling back from the relationship for a while?...
A. 10 March 2011: Had to post, it's the rebel in me.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend broke up then texted me saying "I hope you get over me soon"
Q. Why did my ex boyfriend text me this? please help? ? ? ? My boyfriend of 5months suddenly tells me he doesn't want a relationship cos he got so used to the single life before we got together and he might cheat on me if we stay together, he doesn...
A. 9 March 2011: Be grateful you only wasted 5 months on him.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is still visiting prostitutes - help!
Q. My boyfriend of 5 years is still visiting prostitutes despite us both going to counselling and him promising it is in the past. He left his email open recently and I saw a contact in there which was written on a piece of paper last year.... ...
A. 9 March 2011: You are dealing with the KNOWN and it's safe but still pretty crappy. Dealing with the UNKNOWN is definitely scary. But I think once you get back out there in the dating world, you'll kick yourself in the butt for waiting so long. Especially when ... (read in full...)
What if your girlfriend isn't the normal person that you like in general?
Q. what if you're girlfriend isn't the kind of a person you really like in general, the type that gets you irritated, and yet you love(atleast think so) her? ...
A. 9 March 2011: If you aren't happy, get another girlfriend. You are too young to be "stuck" with someone. In fact, why not just date a bunch of different girls? play the field while you can, me boy.... (read in full...)
What does this body language mean?
Q. I have a question about body language. What does it mean when a girl stands up with her legs crossed facing the opposite direction? ...
A. 9 March 2011: Wow I just tried this,and it's really hard to stand up with your legs crossed facing opposite directions! I guess it would mean she's a nubile little minx.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is still visiting prostitutes - help!
Q. My boyfriend of 5 years is still visiting prostitutes despite us both going to counselling and him promising it is in the past. He left his email open recently and I saw a contact in there which was written on a piece of paper last year.... ...
A. 9 March 2011: Right now you think life is pretty crappy. If you stay you'll be putting up with this crap day in and day out. If you go there's the chance you'll find the guy of your dreams and the risk that you won't. I know what I would do.... (read in full...)
I am having an affair with my friend's wife! Is it okay to keep on with this relationship?
Q. I am having a relationship with my friend's wife. She is a wonderful lady but her husband is a real jerk. My relationship started 10 years ago when her husband left overseas for work. Then we just talked over the phone and had lunch. Subsequently ...
A. 9 March 2011: You say your FRIEND is the jerk?????... (read in full...)
I found an email that proved my husband lied. Did I do the right thing?
Q. Hi, I had a situation with my husband a while back about a women and some lies that he had told me. We tried to fix the situation as best as we could and moved on with our lives. It still hurts once in a while but I try to not let it bother me...
A. 9 March 2011: SY is exactly right. If you tell him his bad behavior will always be eventually forgiven and forgotten, what's his incentive to straighten up and fly right? Hell, by keeping the email around, he's not even trying to cover his tracks.... (read in full...)
What do the girls do to stay true to there new boy?
Q. I have read all the Q and ans for the situation in which the girl is not virgin and her boy is getting mad for that thing. I have similar problem, but in all those posts i have realized that those girls are behaving good and innocent now. I just ...
A. 9 March 2011: "there" should be "their" my 3rd grade teacher is rolling in her grave.... (read in full...)
What do the girls do to stay true to there new boy?
Q. I have read all the Q and ans for the situation in which the girl is not virgin and her boy is getting mad for that thing. I have similar problem, but in all those posts i have realized that those girls are behaving good and innocent now. I just ...
A. 8 March 2011: Some girls stay true to there significant other whether they were virgins or not when they met them AND some girls do not. You've lived long enough to know there are no hard and fast rules when it comes to human behavior.... (read in full...)
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