He doesn't want a relationship, but still wants to see me and have sex. Am I wasting my time with his guy?
Q. Any advice would be much appreciate. I am a single mum of one. I've been seeing a guy nearly a year now, in the begining everything was fine between us, had an amazing time and connected very well - physically and mentally. He lives a 1 hour f...
A. 10 August 2011: Good for you, in the long run you'll be very pleased you dumped him. Good luck Sister.... (read in full...)
Can't stop having sex with this ugly girl. HELP!!!
Q. Right now I am currently married. The relationship has fizzled out the last few years. For the past 2 and a half years I have been having sex with this girl Jamie. Shes my age and has a daughter. The problem is that she is got a nice body but she is ...
A. 4 August 2011: Three Billy Goats Gruff ... (read in full...)
Which is considered more attractive - quiet or cocky? I can be both
Q. I'm a bit stuck. I don't want anyone to answer 'just be yourself', because it isn't that simple. I'm only 18 and still haven't really discovered myself. Sometimes I can be bubbly and confident [if perhaps a little annoying], and other times, deadly ...
A. 4 August 2011: "Bubbly" guys scare me.... (read in full...)
Guys: What would you really want your girl to do in bed?
Q. My boyfriend of three years and I have decided that we want to try to experiment more in bed. I am coming up with a list of things that we can try but I don't know if there are others that I haven't thought of. So far I have: Anal Threesome ...
A. 4 August 2011: I know my husband would love it if I could make him a sandwich at the same time...... (read in full...)
What does it mean for a relationship to 'move forward'?
Q. Yo so I got a question. My girl broke up with me last week because she says our relationship wasnt movin forward. I asked what that meant, I asked if it meant she wanted me to propose marriage. She said no, she didnt mean that, it was just that the ...
A. 4 August 2011: It sounds like it went out the window. She just wanted out and came up with that excuse.... (read in full...)
Fallen for my boyfriend's brother and having sex with him too! What should I do?
Q. im falling in love to my boyfriend's brother? we are having sex too..i can't help it anymore i love my boyfriend brother so much! what should i do?...
A. 4 August 2011: At least break up with your boyfriend. He's going to be very hurt by your actions and his brother's but it's better than cheating behind his back. I hope you realize what a horrible thing the both of you have done.... (read in full...)
How can I make myself more attractive?
Q. How can i make myself more attractive about me im 5`7 i have black hair its down to my shoulders i always wear it down, i have a big butt and my chest is medium sized. umm people say they like my personality my laugh and my smile umm my arms are a ...
A. 4 August 2011: You sound just fine. Relax and try to enjoy those lovely teenage years.... (read in full...)
My wife left me whilst I was away in Iraq and all she left was a note saying 'I'm sorry'!
Q. I just returned from Iraq on leave today to find my apartment empty. My wife took my son, my dog, and emptied my bank account...The one thing she left was a note on her side of the bed with her wedding ring was a note that simply said "I'm sorry". ...
A. 4 August 2011: Bless your heart. I hope you track her down and find out what the hell she is thinking. Check out the legal services the military offers soldiers and get custody rights to your son. Thank you for your service by the way.... (read in full...)
He says he loves me and wants sex with me, but he already has a girlfriend and wont chose between me and her! What should I do?
Q. Ok so when me and my boyfriend were together he told me not to talk to his bestfriend because he said he just uses girls...i started talking to him and after me and my boyfriend broke up me and my now ex boyfriend decided to hang out...so i went ...
A. 4 August 2011: Boy Howdy, I officially declare August 4th to be "I am being used for sex" day. Just look at all these postings!... (read in full...)
He has slowly stopped making any effort with me and told me he is just 'busy'. How do I ask him what is going on?
Q. So I've been seeing this guy for about a month. At first he was all into me telling me how beautiful I was and how he couldn't wait to spend more time with me. We had sex (yes I know it was stupid) bit he reassured me nothing would change in the way ...
A. 4 August 2011: Sorry but this was the classic Wham Bam thank you Ma'am.... (read in full...)
He doesn't want a relationship, but still wants to see me and have sex. Am I wasting my time with his guy?
Q. Any advice would be much appreciate. I am a single mum of one. I've been seeing a guy nearly a year now, in the begining everything was fine between us, had an amazing time and connected very well - physically and mentally. He lives a 1 hour f...
A. 4 August 2011: Cut ties, he's just using for sex. You can do much better.... (read in full...)
I've developed feelings for my friend's 16 year old son, how can I make this go away?
Q. Well here goes : i'm just 40 (look about 30-32-so i'm told)n seem to be having a mid-life crisis!! I've lost over 6 stone and feel great. Background: I'm married with 2 young children and a lovely caring husband who is the same age. Problem: ...
A. 3 August 2011: Knock off this nonsense immediately. Get a grip on yourself and leave this kid alone. Stay busy with your bike riding, work, squash, and cooking, but do it without your little boy toy. Out of sight, out of mind.... (read in full...)
Why is marriage old news in UK now?
Q. Why is marriage old news in UK now?? All the americans that have blogs online all seem to be married like real young (20s) and I swear hardly any people marry in the UK anymore. I actually feel like migrating to USA just because marriage is more ...
A. 3 August 2011: Check out the rise in divorces and multiple marriages in the USA!... (read in full...)
Guys: What would you really want your girl to do in bed?
Q. My boyfriend of three years and I have decided that we want to try to experiment more in bed. I am coming up with a list of things that we can try but I don't know if there are others that I haven't thought of. So far I have: Anal Threesome ...
A. 2 August 2011: My only thought is whatever are you going to be able to come up with by the time you are 30?... (read in full...)
Guys: What would you really want your girl to do in bed?
Q. My boyfriend of three years and I have decided that we want to try to experiment more in bed. I am coming up with a list of things that we can try but I don't know if there are others that I haven't thought of. So far I have: Anal Threesome ...
A. 2 August 2011: I'm thumbing through the DC Manual...I'll get back to you.... (read in full...)
Why do I constantly seek attention from men?
Q. I don't know why i'm feeling like this? I literally have gone from guy to guy these past few weeks because i feel I just want to always have a guy there! Whether it's texting them seeing them or such...... And I just want to add that i've not done ...
A. 1 August 2011: Sounds like poor self-esteem to me. Once you improve the way you think about yourself you won't require all the male attention. There are all sorts of books and articles on the subject. Google it and do a little research.... (read in full...)
Should I be his girlfriend or not?
Q. I'm 14 years old. We had a party in my house for my B'day. My dad's friend and his 16 years old son will (his mom is American and father is Sri lankan)also came to my house will gave me a present and told me " I want to tell you something " so I ...
A. 1 August 2011: If you don't feel ready to date then tell your Dad to tell him no when he comes to ask permission. Your Dad most likely will say no anyway because you are very right, 14 is too young to begin dating.... (read in full...)
Half of me still wants him, but the other half tells me to let him go
Q. i broke up with my bf now because i caught him chatting with a girl and this is the 3rd time.. well our relationship in the past few years is shaky but we're trying to deal with it and he doesn't trust me at all but that's fine with me as long as i ...
A. 1 August 2011: You broke up with him because he chatting with some girl??? Doesn't sound like you trust him one iota. No offense but you sound like a VERY young 18.... (read in full...)
Baby dreams at the age of 16?
Q. Hey I'm 15 and i really want a baby I'm an honour student and I'm responsible.I have thought about this so many times before, about how am i going to work with school. My friends say that I would make a great mother because I'm caring and sweet ...
A. 1 August 2011: No... (read in full...)
What is my next step? I don't want to seem too eager!
Q. Some advice please folks! I met a girl from Germany in a park at the start of July, we got talking, she was the one who asked for my number and that we could have a coffee. Unfortunately, she was going home on holiday the next day, but I did t...
A. 1 August 2011: Go for it, you aren't getting any younger...... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's mother ---
Q. Thank you for all advice. I'm 33, my boyfriend is 34. Both my parents are living he has a mom and a drug dealer slash user bro. My boyfriends dad past away a year ago. My boyfriend n I live with my son who is 11, we have dated 3 yrs now. Before h...
A. 1 August 2011: Turn your phone off when you want privacy.... (read in full...)
What is my next step? I don't want to seem too eager!
Q. Some advice please folks! I met a girl from Germany in a park at the start of July, we got talking, she was the one who asked for my number and that we could have a coffee. Unfortunately, she was going home on holiday the next day, but I did t...
A. 1 August 2011: Geeze Buddy! You are way over-thinking this. Just call her up and ask her out for some coffee and take it from there.... (read in full...)
There's one fantasy he wont share with me, was it okay to make the offer to him anyway if he changes his mind?
Q. You guys have always given me good advice. I have written in before. I am a 31 year old woman. I wrote in earlier about my husband wanting a strip tease for his birthday and wanting to have sex with my while I was bound up. I adore my husband...
A. 1 August 2011: Only if you truly are okay with having a sore ass afterward. Don't do this before a long road trip anyway.... (read in full...)
Friend is in an abusive relationship, how can I help her?
Q. i have a friend who she is always in a relationship with a very abusive boyfriend. she has always cam crawling to me and some of her other friends for help. now one time or two times and they break up is fine but this now the 10th time with the same ...
A. 1 August 2011: No one can help someone who refuses to help themselves. I guess all you can do is wait until she hits rock bottom, lands in the hospital, or maybe even worse. She has to decide to get out. But you also have a life to live, you can be there for her ... (read in full...)
Birth control questions......
Q. how do you get birth control? do you need a prescription?...
A. 1 August 2011: Planned Parenthood will give it to you for free, if you are over 16.... (read in full...)
Separated from my husband and he is threatening to only see his biological children, not my son who he raised for years! How do I handle this situation?
Q. My husband and I are seperated. It has only been a few weeks now that he has been gone. We were together for 9 years and I had a 2 year old son when I met him who is now 11. We have 2 other younger children together. He is angry and hates me because ...
A. 1 August 2011: This is a tough one. I have experienced this in my own family. My sister's second marriage had the same set up. Unfortunately, my brother reacted the same way as your husband and totally crushed my nephew. It was heartbreaking to watch and both my ... (read in full...)
My partner treats me like a slave
Q. Help! I'm so fed up of it- My boyfriend treats me like some sort of slave! I do work part time and because he works full time its like no amount of work I do is ever good enough. I take care of the home and literally everything to do with it, our ...
A. 1 August 2011: If you want to be treated fairly then you need to leave.... (read in full...)
Help me make my senior year a good one and one to remember!
Q. Im 17 and entering my senior year of high school. I'm a real quiet person and I stay to myself a lot. I don't play sports go to parties or school functions and even talk on the phone with other teenagers because I kinda shy. I'm scared to do ...
A. 1 August 2011: Definitely find a club(s) at school that is somewhat interesting to you and join it. It is the best way to make friends, and like the previous aunt said, it also looks very good on your college applications. Get involved. Once you take that first ... (read in full...)
Is it legal to date an ex teacher?
Q. Is it legal? Some close teachers, were aware I had feelings for this teacher. and they were actually okay with it! He never taught me. And yes, mostly everyone has agreed he feels the same. Question is, would he be in trouble with the law? T...
A. 1 August 2011: Girls with schoolgirl crushes are tenacious if not anything else.... (read in full...)
I need your opinion on wedding invitation protocol.
Q. I need your opinion on wedding invitation protocol. My wife has this male friend, who for a short time was her boyfriend, and they still stayed friends, even now. When my wife and I got married 3 years ago, we invited him (big of me I know), but ...
A. 29 July 2011: I like your wife's plan just fine. Gets the message across with class.... (read in full...)
I feel that I'm taken for granted and undervalued. My boyfriend has all the benefits whilst I don't get the one promise that I want!
Q. Hi everyone, please help! When i first met my bf he seemed so overwhelmed with love - as is typical i expect. Anyway over three years on, been living together for two +, he has waivered between talking like he wants to marry and have kids and acti...
A. 29 July 2011: This is the old "why buy the cow when the milk is free" situation. And it happens all the time to couples who decide to put the cart before the horse and move in together without a marriage certificate. ... (read in full...)
Love triangle with my two best friends.....
Q. I have two best friends. One's a girl, let's call her Mary, and ones a boy, let's call him Jack. Well Jack is dating Mary and what she doesn't know is is that I love him.. And That he loves me too. A couple weeks ago I told him I loved him and to my ...
A. 29 July 2011: This is total teenage drama and all of it will disappear in a few years...hang on until then. We all have survived.... (read in full...)
Husband caught playing "sexual chicken" now what?
Q. I've been married to my husband for over a year. Two months ago I found a sexually explicit text on his phone (I wasn't snooping, it displayed the text when I plugged his phone in the charger. You can bet I snooped after that, though). It was from a ...
A. 29 July 2011: I would like to reiterate what Eddie said. His disregard for you and your feelings may extend to disregard for your health as well. I'd go get checked out by your doctor ASAP. Then I'd schedule an appointment with a good divorce lawyer.... (read in full...)
It's really hard to spend time with my bf because his roommate always tags along
Q. my boyfriend is bestfriends with his college roommate they are going to be Jr.s this year and have been rooming together every year and both summers they take every class together, and join all the same activities if one jumps the other jump...
A. 29 July 2011: Well if he refuses to see your view, like you said, then I guess you'll just have to get used to the tag alongs. Or of course you can decide you want out. Your choice. But they sure do sound like a couple and YOU are the one tagging along.... (read in full...)
Is it legal to date an ex teacher?
Q. Is it legal? Some close teachers, were aware I had feelings for this teacher. and they were actually okay with it! He never taught me. And yes, mostly everyone has agreed he feels the same. Question is, would he be in trouble with the law? T...
A. 28 July 2011: Nope, he still most assuredly would be in trouble.... (read in full...)
It's really hard to spend time with my bf because his roommate always tags along
Q. my boyfriend is bestfriends with his college roommate they are going to be Jr.s this year and have been rooming together every year and both summers they take every class together, and join all the same activities if one jumps the other jump...
A. 28 July 2011: Unless they are gay, this is pretty wierd.... (read in full...)
Very extreme, unhappy love. What should I do?
Q. Hi, Imma 14 year old girl and I know this is gonna sound stupid but this is something that tears me down nowadays.. Im not just another foolish young child, I have an idea of the world and I understand what people will say, I don't just live in ...
A. 28 July 2011: I'm betting he's your teacher. ... (read in full...)
Is it legal to date an ex teacher?
Q. Is it legal? Some close teachers, were aware I had feelings for this teacher. and they were actually okay with it! He never taught me. And yes, mostly everyone has agreed he feels the same. Question is, would he be in trouble with the law? T...
A. 27 July 2011: Most assuredly he would be in trouble.... (read in full...)
All he can ever say to me is "I wish I loved you"! Why cant he like me?
Q. Hey. I'd like help from guys around 17 but ayone would be a read great help right now. Im popular,funny,confident,outgoing but most guys will just call me ''fine''. ok why is it that out of the 2 out of the 6 bestlooking guys in my school wanted me, ...
A. 27 July 2011: He sounds like a nice guy who doesn't want to come right out and tell you you to bug off. But that's exactly what I think you should do. Sorry, but maybe you should set your sights on one of those other guys who DO seem interested. ... (read in full...)
Is it ok for 17 y/o to date a 15 /yo??
Q. Is it ok for a 17 year old (like me ) to date a guy whos almost 15?......
A. 27 July 2011: If it's okay with the parents it's okay. Of on dates you'll have to do all the driving.... (read in full...)
Should I take my ex-girlfriend back?
Q. My girlfriend, after having spent two years together, dumped me April last year saying I was doing smalltime job , so I was too poor to afford her. Now two nights back, she resurfaced , telling me that she wanted to come back. She knows I am still ...
A. 27 July 2011: Well it certainly is up to you, but if you do decide to take her back, I advise you to just take it very slowly. She may just be doing a "any port in the storm" sort of thing.... (read in full...)
I found out that the man I was dating is married...now what?
Q. I was dating a man for 3 months and a week ago I found out that he is married. His wife read my message on his phone, contacted me and told me that they've known each other for 11 years, are married, have a 6 year old child and that she's now ...
A. 27 July 2011: You haven't done anything to be ashamed of YET. I'd keep it that way if I were you. Three months wasted is a heap better than 3 years or 3 decades.... (read in full...)
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